Medellin Reports

[Frannie]

`I need some advice. I believe I have fallen in love with a prostitute from Medellin. I wrote my report a month ago. In that report I stated how I longed to see this girl again, however in the time that has lapsed since then till now she has become the sine qua non of my existence. This girl is all I think about all day.

I think you could say I had a natural high, or I was high on life despite that fact that I did not partake in drugs besides some Sildenafil. Now I am thinking of going back to Medellin to find this girl again and actually getting her information this time. I also should explain that I do not know this girl well so the attraction purely stems from the sex and everything else I gathered from the times we met. But I do not think any of these things matter because I do not want to be her boyfriend anyway. I just want to have the security of knowing I can find her on my next trip to Medellin. I believe this is a symbiotic proposition because I get the best sex of my life and she gets paid. If only fucking all women was this simple. I would like to know if anyone else has fallen for a girl the way I have? Also is my behavior irrational? Should I resent any feeling of love and attachment to this girl? Should I go back to Medellin to get this girls contact information? Any help in this matter would be greatly appreciated thanks.

I don't have any practical advice on what to do, except to say that it seems very unwise to me to take Sildenafil (Viagra) at the age of 21. I took it for the first time when I was almost 50 and the good thing was that it made me feel like I was 21 again.

I think this post might be taken as a warning, because I have always thought that it would be detrimental to a man's social, personal, and intellectual development to start paying for sex before middle age. Youth is the time for falling in love with women of one's own age, raising children, building a career and a place in the world, not for surreptitious travel to foreign parts for sex with prostitutes.

What the poster will find is that even if he does find the same girl, things will not stay the same for long, with her giving great sex and him giving up money. She will want more and if he is addicted to the sex, she will probably get it, and it will probably all end badly.

I do understand the problem with many American women, and I can see why he would not want to date them, but there are many foreign women who would make good partners who are not prostitutes.

I would try to forget about this woman and seek out other potential partners.

[SeizeTheDay]

=SavePros321; 1445388]Congratulations! I say that because this sound more like "Lust" than "Love", so at least you have not lost all of your marbles, LOL.

I guess that is what happens when (from your report) you go bareback and bust your nut inside of some sweet Paisa pussy, hahaha. But best believe your chica may have moved on to a different Casa or dropped out of the game entirely by the time you get back. And be thankful you did not get her contact information because from your highly emotional report I believe she would have successfully manipulated you into sending her money via Western Union. Speaking of which, since you are new to mongering, here are some basic mongering rules with regards to avoiding becoming "Papi Noel"...

Thank you for the response. Your post was helpful, informative, and disheartening. I think I still have a lot to learn about mongering but I would hope I can manage to not become a sponsor. I like your six flags analogy and we share the same sentiment. What worries me is when you said that she is likely moved on. I cannot bear the thought of never being inside that pussy again. I am sure I will never have better or equal sex with another woman; I do not think it is possible.

[SavePros321]

Because of the way I live my life the last thing I expected was to ever fall in love, I never planned for it. Now I try to rationalize it to myself, saying 'I cannot get hurt in a different country right? '. I always thought of fallen in love as a dangerous thing, a time when guys let their guard down and are inevitably eaten by their harpy girlfriend. I do not have any of her contact information, when I was in Medellin I was in such an elated state that I did not think about such things. I think you could say I had a natural high, or I was high on life despite that fact that I did not partake in drugs besides some Sildenafil. Now I am thinking of going back to Medellin to find this girl again and actually getting her information this time. I also should explain that I do not know this girl well so the attraction purely stems from the sex and everything else I gathered from the times we met. But I do not think any of these things matter because I do not want to be her boyfriend anyway. I just want to have the security of knowing I can find her on my next trip to Medellin. Should I resent any feeling of love and attachment to this girl?

Congratulations! I say that because this sound more like "Lust" than "Love", so at least you have not lost all of your marbles, LOL.

I guess that is what happens when (from your report) you go bareback and bust your nut inside of some sweet Paisa pussy, hahaha. But best believe your chica may have moved on to a different Casa or dropped out of the game entirely by the time you get back. And be thankful you did not get her contact information because from your highly emotional report I believe she would have successfully manipulated you into sending her money via Western Union. Speaking of which, since you are new to mongering, here are some basic mongering rules with regards to avoiding becoming "Papi Noel":

Think about Six Flags for a moment. You pay your admission, ride the rides, take pictures, and go back home and share your experience with friends.

Now, once you get back home do you send Six Flags a portion of your income on a monthly basis? The same applies with dealing with chicas in other countries: Go there, ride the rides (chicas) , take pics, share the experience with friends. DO NOT send them money when you get back home hoping that you are somehow securing a "placeholder" for your return trip. Keep any contact with them once you leave to a minimum until about a month or two before your return trip. If she has moved on (novio, some gringo bobo took her out of the game until he goes broke sending her money), then you will find a new one to fill her spot.

Just be happy that you found out about mongering at the young age of 21 and have no kids (I started at 25) and are able to afford to take a trip to another country. Medellin has more pussy than you can ever get around to in one life time, so just relax and enjoy the long ride. Try to do a trip every 4 months or 3 times a year. That way, once you start going through pussy withdrawal symptoms (as you are experiencing now while in the US a*k*a "Sex Prison") you know that you will be back in pussy paradise shortly.

This is an actual rule of mine, no American women. I am twenty one, no kids, never been married, and never had a girlfriend and I like things this way. The last thing I want is to be paying child support to some chick I had a one night stand with. While she refuses to let me see the child but expects the check to come in on time every month, no thanks.

Welcome to the club! As long as I can afford to travel elsewhere pretty frequently, I have no desire to touch another American Woman every again. The end goal (for a good majority on this forum) is to ultimately do well enough to get the hell out of Sex Prison PERMANENTLY!

Don't get caught up in bullshit like trying to have the best car, the biggest house, and the flashiest clothes. If you are going to be a monger then go all in. Live frugal while in the US, and rock out with your cock out (literally) in another country. And if you do not contribute to an employer sponsored 401K, START!

[SeizeTheDay]

At 21? You had better lay off that stuff, you are too young to be using it. What will you do in thirty years when you really need it?

I am not sure what you mean. What is the risk of me using it?

[Member #4351]

`I did not partake in drugs besides some Sildenafil.

At 21? You had better lay off that stuff, you are too young to be using it. What will you do in thirty years when you really need it?

[SavePros321]

Can someone tell me how I get the info on the facebook page for the mansion I posted in Medellin list and got no response. Thanks

I don't think there ever was a Facebook page for the Mansion.

[Member #4287]

`I need some advice. I believe I have fallen in love with a prostitute from Medellin. I wrote my report a month ago. In that report I stated how I longed to see this girl again, however in the time that has lapsed since then till now she has become the sine qua non of my existence. This girl is all I think about all day. Sure I get things done, but I do them while thinking of her. There is no longer me and my thoughts now it is me and my thoughts plus the thought of her. One user of the forum wrote that Costa Rica and the DR were the minor leagues while Medellin was the big leagues. Maybe I should have started with triple A first. I think that because I am in the US the dilemma is exacerbated; this is because I do not have sex with American women. This is an actual rule of mine, no American women. I am twenty one, no kids, never been married, and never had a girlfriend and I like things this way. The last thing I want is to be paying child support to some chick I had a one night stand with. While she refuses to let me see the child but expects the check to come in on time every month, no thanks. Because of the way I live my life the last thing I expected was to ever fall in love, I never planned for it. Now I try to rationalize it to myself, saying 'I cannot get hurt in a different country right? '. I always thought of fallen in love as a dangerous thing, a time when guys let their guard down and are inevitably eaten by their harpy girlfriend. I do not have any of her contact information, when I was in Medellin I was in such an elated state that I did not think about such things. I think you could say I had a natural high, or I was high on life despite that fact that I did not partake in drugs besides some Sildenafil. Now I am thinking of going back to Medellin to find this girl again and actually getting her information this time. I also should explain that I do not know this girl well so the attraction purely stems from the sex and everything else I gathered from the times we met. But I do not think any of these things matter because I do not want to be her boyfriend anyway. I just want to have the security of knowing I can find her on my next trip to Medellin. I believe this is a symbiotic proposition because I get the best sex of my life and she gets paid. If only fucking all women was this simple. I would like to know if anyone else has fallen for a girl the way I have? Also is my behavior irrational? Should I resent any feeling of love and attachment to this girl? Should I go back to Medellin to get this girls contact information? Any help in this matter would be greatly appreciated thanks.

The rest of us are too old to fall in love. Jajaja.

My advice is to go back to Medellin find the chick and then find two more that you like just as much and then put them on a daily rotation. It will help you keep things in perspective.

Also you are way too young to be swearing off American chicks....just hump and dump...they'll like you more for it.

[SeizeTheDay]

`I need some advice. I believe I have fallen in love with a prostitute from Medellin. I wrote my report a month ago. In that report I stated how I longed to see this girl again, however in the time that has lapsed since then till now she has become the sine qua non of my existence. This girl is all I think about all day. Sure I get things done, but I do them while thinking of her. There is no longer me and my thoughts now it is me and my thoughts plus the thought of her. One user of the forum wrote that Costa Rica and the DR were the minor leagues while Medellin was the big leagues. Maybe I should have started with triple A first. I think that because I am in the US the dilemma is exacerbated; this is because I do not have sex with American women. This is an actual rule of mine, no American women. I am twenty one, no kids, never been married, and never had a girlfriend and I like things this way. The last thing I want is to be paying child support to some chick I had a one night stand with. While she refuses to let me see the child but expects the check to come in on time every month, no thanks. Because of the way I live my life the last thing I expected was to ever fall in love, I never planned for it. Now I try to rationalize it to myself, saying 'I cannot get hurt in a different country right? '. I always thought of fallen in love as a dangerous thing, a time when guys let their guard down and are inevitably eaten by their harpy girlfriend. I do not have any of her contact information, when I was in Medellin I was in such an elated state that I did not think about such things. I think you could say I had a natural high, or I was high on life despite that fact that I did not partake in drugs besides some Sildenafil. Now I am thinking of going back to Medellin to find this girl again and actually getting her information this time. I also should explain that I do not know this girl well so the attraction purely stems from the sex and everything else I gathered from the times we met. But I do not think any of these things matter because I do not want to be her boyfriend anyway. I just want to have the security of knowing I can find her on my next trip to Medellin. I believe this is a symbiotic proposition because I get the best sex of my life and she gets paid. If only fucking all women was this simple. I would like to know if anyone else has fallen for a girl the way I have? Also is my behavior irrational? Should I resent any feeling of love and attachment to this girl? Should I go back to Medellin to get this girls contact information?

Any help in this matter would be greatly appreciated thanks.

[Bbrocs]

Wow, your post was very difficult to read, however I'll respond.

Not bored at work at all, I love my work and do well. Bored with my female relationships? Impossible. I have too much variety for that and wayyy too many. My day is very full. I don't think that I even have 100 posts here, and have been a member for years. So maybe you should use your illogical reasoning on some members (including yourself) who have far more posts than me. I opine when I see fit, and I stand by my original post regarding dealing with Colombians. Not too many on this forum have more years traveling to Colombia than me (although many, many have lived there and I haven't, only months at a time) so I would think my opinion would hold more weight than just "stirring the pot". You are an infant in Colombia compared to others, so I wouldn't start beating my chest if I were you regarding how well you've done there. In Colombia things can change in an instant.

Hold on nino slow down, let me get my pen and pad out so I can take notes on all your knowledge. I have so much to learn from you Yoda. Please teach me. Does anyone here get that this started over a guy who owns a brothel calling Colombians Monkeys? Jesus C, if this was the USA they would have run him out of town by now for that. Here he gets applauded.

[Chris775]

Can someone tell me how I get the info on the facebook page for the mansion I posted in Medellin list and got no response.

Thanks

[Osiris69]

Come on down and have a drink with me tonight, Friday, or Saturday night. There are still plenty of girls to be had here. I spotted quite a bit of new faces even in the daytime. Some offer outstanding service if they click with you. You know where and how to get in touch with me.

Cheers.

Hey Ezyngo,

I'll be in Medellin probably Sat and Sunday night. Maybe we can meet up and have a drink and check out the local scene?

[Member #4287]

Went to Sinko Bar a couple of times with a date and got in no problem. But the last time I went (with a couple of guys from the Mansion and their dates) we got turned away at the door. They took one look at us and said "Sorry, Private Party!".

Also it seems that there is some truth that women that focus too much on the apartment scene don't get invited back to the Mansion by the Mansion. From what I hear Wendy and chicks like her that have gone on their own to attract business outside the Mansion have to be invited by a guest of the Mansion before they get in. So there is understandable concern for some chicks to keep the fact that they do a lot of business outside hush hush.

[TweedleD]

The same entitlement that give AG the right to print that Colombians are all monkeys, crooks, and working girls, the same right that Nino has to say I agree with him and that they hate to pay back loans and terrible to deal with in any venture dealing with money. 4 people took offense to AG saying that colombians are monkeys me included. I didn't see you get all huffy and puffy with that (that guy is teflon I swear). But with me who used the word fuck on a sex board dealing with the act of fucking you take offense? WTF? You say I don't contribute then I guess all 148 posts are all look at me rent my places, but there not. I put other peoples needs to help them find some happiness here regardless if I have financial gain or not. Anyway Nino knows he's a pot stirrer, I am sure he is at work board with work or his female relationship and in order to fill his day he stirs the pot a little here. I called him on it, he called me on my statement. Enough said, thanks for policing the board, if you don't like my antics block me or complain to the moderator.

Good to see we are all getting along!

[Nino Bravo]

Anyway Nino knows he's a pot stirrer, I am sure he is at work board with work or his female relationship and in order to fill his day he stirs the pot a little here. I called him on it, he called me on my statement. Enough said, thanks for policing the board, if you don't like my antics block me or complain to the moderator.

Wow, your post was very difficult to read, however I'll respond.

Not bored at work at all, I love my work and do well. Bored with my female relationships? Impossible. I have too much variety for that and wayyy too many. My day is very full. I don't think that I even have 100 posts here, and have been a member for years. So maybe you should use your illogical reasoning on some members (including yourself) who have far more posts than me. I opine when I see fit, and I stand by my original post regarding dealing with Colombians. Not too many on this forum have more years traveling to Colombia than me (although many, many have lived there and I haven't, only months at a time) so I would think my opinion would hold more weight than just "stirring the pot". You are an infant in Colombia compared to others, so I wouldn't start beating my chest if I were you regarding how well you've done there. In Colombia things can change in an instant.

[Bbrocs]

Having read many of your posts over the years it appears your main and perhaps only reason for posting here is to hawk some cheap rental units.

Why should cursing-out other mongers in pursuit of that goal be allowed and why do you feel so entitled?

The same entitlement that give AG the right to print that Colombians are all monkeys, crooks, and working girls, the same right that Nino has to say I agree with him and that they hate to pay back loans and terrible to deal with in any venture dealing with money. 4 people took offense to AG saying that colombians are monkeys me included. I didn't see you get all huffy and puffy with that (that guy is teflon I swear). But with me who used the word fuck on a sex board dealing with the act of fucking you take offense? WTF? You say I don't contribute then I guess all 148 posts are all look at me rent my places, but there not. I put other peoples needs to help them find some happiness here regardless if I have financial gain or not. Anyway Nino knows he's a pot stirrer, I am sure he is at work board with work or his female relationship and in order to fill his day he stirs the pot a little here. I called him on it, he called me on my statement. Enough said, thanks for policing the board, if you don't like my antics block me or complain to the moderator.