Medellin Reports

[Frannie]

Self imposed celibacy for weeks or months while working your ass off in the states in OK for older guys that aren't going to get a decent piece of ass no matter what. But you have to wonder if your choosing this path at the ripe old age of 21 isn't selling yourself short.

That is it, in a nutshell! Suppose you are able to get away 6 times a year for a week. That means working and living like a monk eight weeks out of nine, so that you can afford to go away for the other week and spend the money you have saved on people who have no interest in you as a person except for separating you from the contents of your wallet as quickly as possible.

It will seem great at first and a very glamorous secret lifestyle having sex with beautiful young women whom you could never bed in your own country, but the longer you do it the less rewarding it will become.

If you have time, read My Secret History by Paul Theroux.

[SavePros321]

The main problem I see (personally) with the mongering lifestyle is that it is unsustainable for me. I like to get laid on a daily basis and I just don't have the resources to pay for a chick to bang me everyday of my life. Which means girlfriend in Colombia or the USA or both.

Just out if curiosity, what is it exactly that you are telling you girlfriend in the US as to why you are taking 3 to 4 trips per year to Colombia? The Secret Service Cartagena sex scandal already exposed Colombia as a sex tourist destination, so the "fishing trip with the buds" excuse doesn't work anymore.

[Frannie]

Once again, thanks for the positive feedback. I do not get a lot of praise of here, but there are some others as well. Not many people seem to like me on this site. We seem to agree on most issues.

I don't dislike you. What I write is just a general warning to people who get involved in sex travel at a very early age. There is a considerable danger of dedicating some of the best years of your life to it, and then burning out with not a lot achieved.

When I was 21 I was probably more idealistic than you and I don't think I would have considered sex with a prostitute, but I certainly wanted to see the world and left my own country for employment overseas, and when I was single spent a lot of money competing in marathons and traveling to various places that I had read about and wanted to see and experience-from Hawaii in the west to Greece in the east and many places in between.

(In fact when I was 17, I was bumming around and sleeping rough in Amsterdam and saw female prostitutes in "shop windows" in the red light district but I can honestly say it did not occur to me to try to pay one for sex.)

Rather than work to earn money to pay prostitutes, you could possibly volunteer for work overseas in countries where you find the women more to your taste, or indeed prepare yourself with the language and job skills needed to emigrate to a Latin American country on a more permanent basis and build a new life.

At 21 the world is your oyster and if you are a US citizen, there are so many advantages not open to people of other nationalities.

Just this week here in the Dominican Republic we bade farewell to a Dominican guy of Haitian origin who left to go to Brazil to try to make money to support his two sons in the DR. The interesting thing is that although he knows people there who will help him get work, he still has to go on a tourist visa and stay illegally, as there is no way he can do it legally on his DR citizenship without much money. Also tomorrow a lovely young Haitian woman whose wedding to a Dutchman I went to several months ago is leaving with her 7-months baby for a new life in Holland, possibly never to return, who knows, though of course there is Skype these days.

These determined young people are seizing on very fragile and difficult opportunities to seek a better life than what was on the cards dealt to them. Your opportunities are so much greater just because of the accident of your birth. (I am assuming you are a US citizen-apologies if this is not correct.)

[Member #4287]

Once again, thanks for the positive feedback. I do not get a lot of praise of here, but there are some others as well. Not many people seem to like me on this site. We seem to agree on most issues.

Just me. But relegating yourself to paying for each and every piece of ass you get from the age of 21 seems more than a little depressing.

I have met a few mongers in Medellin that I'm fairly certain never got laid in their lives until they paid for it. Most seem like nice guys and treat the women they are with well. So I don't want to make light of their plight. But there are two that I would classify as just straight up sociopaths. Outside of sex acts they have absolutely zero interest in the women.

Judging from your original post I have a hard time seeing you in this group.

The main problem I see (personally) with the mongering lifestyle is that it is unsustainable for me. I like to get laid on a daily basis and I just don't have the resources to pay for a chick to bang me everyday of my life. Which means girlfriend in Colombia or the USA or both.

Self imposed celibacy for weeks or months while working your ass off in the states in OK for older guys that aren't going to get a decent piece of ass no matter what. But you have to wonder if your choosing this path at the ripe old age of 21 isn't selling yourself short.

[SeizeTheDay]

Hell yeah! That is what I be talking about! Get paper, fuck bitchiz! Chapo / Escobar style jajajajaja.

I actually think the opposite, I am in the idea of enjoy youth, then settle down a lot later in life! I mean 40-50 should be the appropriate time for the 1st serious relationship (by serious I mean serious, like close to marriage, but without the actual marriage document, that is just sticking your finger up your ass, I don't believe a marriage license should be the reason as to why a couple need to "settle down" or to show their are committed, its bs to me, my personal opinion)

Hello my fellow 90ties baby! From your post you seem to be a very astute individual and you remind me a lot of myself. I agree with you, why should the State be necessary to validate a bond between two people.

3) In respect to American Women and foreign women too, I believe this, having been raised in the states and summers in my country of origin (I am Hispanic Gringo, born in the states but with Latino Parents) I think it is not always fair to over-generalize, yes environment plays a big role in how a person grows up to be, however I don't think it is fair to overgeneralize and say all American women are over-empowering feminist needy entitled bitches, maybe in average ratio they are, as opposed to many other nations where women are more objectified yeah (cough cough, Latin America & Asia) but I have known great American women whom I have so much respect for, educated intelligent, loving, kind and selfless, they exist! Maybe scarcely, but they exist. Those would obviously be better partners than a puta jajaja...

Scarce! I am not about to go around the US playing Blues Clues.

[SeizeTheDay]

I think one of the dangers of Sildenafil is that you could become psychologically dependent on it for sexual performance, not to mention that it could mask onset of other health problems and interact with other medications that you might take at some point in your life.

The problem with this point of view is that it will alienate you from your family and from whatever professional milieu and community you frequent, because it is not considered acceptable in any sense in mainstream America, though it might be in the criminal classes. I don't know you personally-maybe you are an orphan for all I know-but I am just talking about 21-year-olds in general...

Why would I want to be like most Americans? Do you know many Americans cannot find American on a map? Are these the people I should try to emulate in life? Sure I cannot go around telling people that I go to South America fucking prostitutes, but that is because most Americans are sleeping. In fact it might be a good idea to start telling people so I would in fact face these social sanctions you speak of. This way I will no longer be surrounded by morons. How can I live with the secret? That is easy; it is none of their fucking business! When it is time for me to die and forever cease to exist, at least I will have the comfort of knowing I played by my rules. To be honest most people are not worth it. It is just better to tell most people to fuck off in life. And as far as alienation goes, I have asked people why they are voting for Obama before. And they told me 'Because hes black'. I asked if there was any other reason and they said 'no'. I asked what they knew about his policies and they said 'It didn't matter'. I already feel alienated sir.

[SeizeTheDay]

I like this guy, LOL! Good posts Seize The Day.

Frannie, you need to read his response over again a few times: this is NOT the 1950's!

This report came out last Friday (July 5th). As the rapper Too Short said,"Get it while the gettin is good":

Only 47% of Americans have a full-time job and those who don't are finding it increasingly out of reach

http://www.breitbart.com/Big-Governm...-full-time-job

And as you read this, keep in mind that it is us guys competing against women for the same amount of limited resources. They like their shopping for handbags and cruises to the Bahamas just as much as we like our trips overseas and putas, LOL!

Once again, thanks for the positive feedback. I do not get a lot of praise of here, but there are some others as well. Not many people seem to like me on this site. We seem to agree on most issues.

[Zing23]

Casas and massage places. Often unmarked, just ring the bell if the door is closed or just walk in. Often will be a tout outside to guide you in your decision. Some places have a price list on the wall, others do not. Ask. Usually they have beer available for a modedst charge (2k to 5k pesos). Most places have a presentation, which is fast. You ask one of the girls to sit with you, check her out more, confirm the prices, perhaps buy her a drink. Then you go to a private room which may be small, may have a massage table instead of a bed, probably does not have a bathroom and shower. You may be asked to leave if you don't pick a girl after a reasonable time.

Strip clubs. Sometimes marked, sometimes not. Door is always open. Go in. Stripping may be more theoretical then actual if there are not a lot of guys there. Drinks available. Usually do not have a price list posted. Usually have rooms on site, but sometimes next door. You can sit and drink as long as you want.

A few places have a cover or a charge if you don't take a girl.

payment before or after: usually there is a person in charge of the money and accounting and you pay first.

supplies: the house usually provides a condom (or 2 for an hour) and some toilet paper to clean up with. the girl may provide lub and wipes.

-zing.

Help a bro out.

So I plan on visiting some Casas.

Is there a bell or buzzer?

Do I just walk in?

Do I pay upfront or after?

Do all give a presentation?

Do they have list of prices?

Same with the strip clubs.

Do I just walk up to the girls I want?

Pay first or after service?

Some quick help is needed

[SeizeTheDay]

Help a bro out.

So I plan on visiting some Casas.

Is there a bell or buzzer?

Do I just walk in?

Do I pay upfront or after?

Do all give a presentation?

Do they have list of prices?

Same with the strip clubs.

Do I just walk up to the girls I want?

Pay first or after service?

Some quick help is needed

I readily admit I am not as experienced in MDE as others, but this will quickly change with time. I know that I knocked on the sky blue door of New Life the my first time like a dumbass, but my taxi driver told me to just go in. But I have been there five times so I know it well now. Here is what you do, open the blue door; push the buzzer for the first metal door, the second door should open up after the first. Walk up stairs, one of the guys (that works there) should help you. If you are the only guy they will show you the lineup (around twenty girls). But if you are not the only guy they will show you the lineup but you choose your girl after the other guys. Sometimes it is crowed and you have to wait a little. New Life is very organized. They do have a list in the room is Spanish. New Life on top is in English. The list has prices for 30 mins, una hora. 1 hour 45min. 3 hours, and so forth. You pay after. Lindas Chicas is different. Honestly I would not recommend them because they do not have a list of prices, you pay upfront, and the cost is outrageous. They usually have around three or four girls only, mostly ugly chicks by my standards. Funny thing actually but I feel I must point something out. I am not sure about this; let me start by saying that. Some guy names Esteef posted some photos of some girls. Now he said that this post was for the guy who said that the other girls in the photos were ugly. That guy was me; I was not trying to start anything. I was just saying. Now look at the second photo of two girls, the one where the girls are on the bed. Once again I cannot be sure from a photo, but look at the girl in black. Now go back to my trip report from a month ago, go to the end of the post. At the end of the post I talked about the second girl from Lindas Chicas I had, and paid 150k for. Read that and laugh your ass off. If it is not her she must have a long lost twin, or just a twin. But like I said I could be wrong. At Fase Dose which is a strip club, the girls ask for 170k for about 30min, and you pay upfront. I would not recommend for sex though. Maybe one of the Centro strip clubs, they are cheaper. Yes I just start talking to the girl you want in a strip club, this is what I love about Medellin (money talks). Though I have never been to a strip club in the US, in most of them you get thrown out for touching the girl. In Medellin you get what you want.

[SavePros321]

In regards to the rest of your post, I want children as much as I want colon cancer. What is the point of having a career if it does not afford me the luxury of doing what I want to do in life: travel the world fucking prostitutes along the way. Do you want me to slave away 70 hours a week with no vacation time so that the American government can take 60% of my income to pay for loquisha's baby's Similac? What is the point of making money if I cannot pay for prostitutes? As far as girls my age you got me there, I did not fuck any 21 year olds in Medellin. Although I did fuck a 20 year old and two 18 year olds. What do you want me to do, chase after the American dream? A wife, kids, and a house with a white picket fence? Are you serious? What year do you think this is 1950? Do you know what the national debt is? Do you know what the unemployment rate is? And the women! These girls sit at home watching 'Keeping up with the Kardashians'! Do you realize that Kim Kardashian filed for divorce after 72 days!

I like this guy, LOL! Good posts Seize The Day.

Frannie, you need to read his response over again a few times: this is NOT the 1950's!

This report came out last Friday (July 5th). As the rapper Too Short said,"Get it while the gettin is good":

Only 47% of Americans have a full-time job and those who don't are finding it increasingly out of reach

http://www.breitbart.com/Big-Governm...-full-time-job

And as you read this, keep in mind that it is us guys competing against women for the same amount of limited resources. They like their shopping for handbags and cruises to the Bahamas just as much as we like our trips overseas and putas, LOL!

[Socker]

This is for the poster who didn't appreciate some of the photos from the newsletter. We didn't chose who showed up for the shoot, and I don't like to hurt women's feelings by telling them they're not cute enough for my camera. Feel free not to frequent our place. The last problem we are going to have is not enough beautiful women. After all, this is Medellin, and between me and Robert there will never be a shortage of available hot chicas. I can't go two steps in MDE without some chica asking me when we'll be open. We just need you guys to keep them busy...

Thanks for the update it's all very interesting to watch play-out. How big is the new club going to be? Is there going to be a DJ and dance floor? Also will there be a cover charge at the door? I am hoping that the new place is a big success and that La Cueva remains a solid place to meet and enjoy Medellins finest. After the opening I hope that Robert will still have time to hangout at La Cueva, he has good energy.

As for the poster who was insulting, I'm now glad he did it. The pics you included w / the above post are very nice indeed, wow!

[Almotu]

This is for the poster who didn't appreciate some of the photos from the newsletter. We didn't chose who showed up for the shoot, and I don't like to hurt women's feelings by telling them they're not cute enough for my camera. Feel free not to frequent our place. The last problem we are going to have is not enough beautiful women. After all, this is Medellin, and between me and Robert there will never be a shortage of available hot chicas. I can't go two steps in MDE without some chica asking me when we'll be open. We just need you guys to keep them busy.

The grand opening is Friday August 2nd and everyone is welcome; even the guys who think that the girls hanging there will be ugly.) The place will undoubtably be very comfortable and fun. I also don't agree with the poster who wondered about jealous boyfriends hanging around and killing people.) It's amazing that in 10 years in operation that never happened at the Mansion; a place a lot more likely because it's a hotel where people go to have sex. We are just a club. There will be no sex on the premises.

Esteef aka Av8r

Can you share the menu once pricing has been determined? How much are beer, wine, cocktails & munchies? Hours of operation, what days of the week? Dress code for guys? I assume that you won't charge a barfine to guys who invite a chica home with them?

Best of luck to your project.

[SavePros321]

I'm in my early 30s and I haven't tried Viagra of any kind before. I'll be in MDE next month, staying at the mansion for 6 days. I want to have those pills handy since I usually pop 3-4 max in a 24 hr period, more than that is just too exhausting. I'm not seeking any medical advice or anything like that, but I should be using them if I want to go for round 4 or round 5? I've read a lot about guys who wish they had one more session in them to try a girl they wanted, but were simply drained after multiple sessions beforehand. Will the pills help me in that regard? Thanks for any info!

I am in my early 30's and I do not use Viagra; I use Cialis (or a generic Tadalafil). One 10mg has you set for at least 2-3 days before you would need to pop another one.

I do not have a prescription for the stuff; I just use it when mongering because I usually do multiple sessions a day (you can buy this stuff in Colombia w/o a prescription). Cialis works for me because You're ready to go when you are ready to go.

Viagra is probably more suited for some one with "real" ED problems, which means popping one before sex and then waiting 25-30 minutes before it kicks in.

Just keep in mind: With all of this stuff you are not going to experience "Instant Wood". You still have to be sexually aroused for it to work. So no fat chicks, LOL.

[SavePros321]

We didn't chose who showed up for the shoot, and I don't like to hurt women's feelings by telling them they're not cute enough for my camera.

Hopefully this same soft-handed approach is not used when deciding which chicas you let into your club. If you are uncomfortable with this then you'd best leave this screening process up to Robert. He has no problem telling chicas who 'can" or "cannot" show up to the Mansion.

[USMatt]

I will be in Medellin around mid-August for 2 weeks for my 5th trip. Plenty of FB chicas and many of them seem to be mansion chicks. Any favorites for folks here outside of the ubiquitous Wendy. Some chicks that caught my attention are Pao Z, Juliana S, Karo R, Kata G and Liliana R.

Can anyone recommend some of the FB chicas. It is one thing to be friends with them but that does not give me any clue about their attitude / cleanliness / performance. I have never been a Mansion guy and most of these girls seem to be mansion regulars. Pao Z, Juliana S, Karo R, Kata G and Lilian H.