Medellin Reports

[Vegas Jeff]

I'm in my early 30s and I haven't tried Viagra of any kind before. I'll be in MDE next month, staying at the mansion for 6 days. I want to have those pills handy since I usually pop 3-4 max in a 24 hr period, more than that is just too exhausting. I'm not seeking any medical advice or anything like that, but I should be using them if I want to go for round 4 or round 5? I've read a lot about guys who wish they had one more session in them to try a girl they wanted, but were simply drained after multiple sessions beforehand. Will the pills help me in that regard? Thanks for any info!

To answer your question, yes it will help you. Many people have problems with Viagra due to dosage. I would recommend 1/2.50 mg and adjust as needed. Use pill cutter or bite in half. If you want to you can try 50mg. You should feel the effects for sure at your age. Many people take 50mg and even 100mg pills on their first use, receive extreme symptoms, and then bad mouth the drug. GL

[Nino Bravo]

That doesn't make any since unless your "girlfriend" lives in another State!

You said you needed sex daily, which is why you would have a girlfriend in the US. How the hell do you go from seeing your chick everyday (or even every other day) to pulling a disappearing act and not expect her to get suspicious after not seeing you for a day or two, or three? How do you explain your phone being turned off for prolonged periods of time as you "transit" from airport to airport?

Have you even had a "real" girlfriend, LOL?"..

I'm glad you are seeing through this guy, one of the biggest BS'ers in the history of internet forums. The guy hasn't had an AGF in probably 25 years. The only time he gets laid is when he is in Colombia, although he might keep a hooker or 2 on call in his US city. If you research his posts you will see where he states he was married and divorced 5 times. Of course that gave him away to me regarding his true identity, not to mention his frequenting of Cali over the years, and his posting on another forum that he was now in Medellin. He likes to embellish on forums to get attention. Glad he is contributing now to the girls at the Mansion and other places (and he swears that they really dig him, jaja) The Cali hookers and webcam girls that he kept company with got a little tired of his years in Cali. Nope, no way could he ever hide his travels from his American girlfriend.

[Member #4287]

That doesn't make any since unless your "girlfriend" lives in another State!

You said you needed sex daily, which is why you would have a girlfriend in the US. How the hell do you go from seeing your chick everyday (or even every other day) to pulling a disappearing act and not expect her to get suspicious after not seeing you for a day or two, or three? How do you explain your phone being turned off for prolonged periods of time as you "transit" from airport to airport?

Have you even had a "real" girlfriend, LOL?

I think you are being very unrealistic with the advice you were trying to give. The reason I do not play the dating scene / girlfriend thing in the US is because I travel frequently and there is no way in hell my girlfriend (that I'm supposed to be "in love with") is going to go for "I'm going to Colombia / Dominican Republic / Brazil / Thailand and you're not invited". These chics are pretty hip to what goes on in these locations. Even if you lied and said you were going to Timbuktu, she will want to know why you are going and why for so many days. Reply "none of your fucking business" and you will find yourself holding your dick once you get back.

Now, if you said that you have a "Side Chick", then that's a little different. In that instance it's "when we are together we are together; and when we are not, we are not." But you don't refer to your side chick as "girlfriend".

I can see you have had some issues trying to lead a double life. Jajaja.

Of course there are women that will be so far up you ass that you can't turn around without them asking what you are up to. When I run into women like this I answer their questions with a just one question "Are you looking for a reason not to see me again?". Some will stay and enjoy the ride and the others will go.

I'm not playing house and home with any of these chicks. Never promise commitment and if they come right out and ask for it I tell them I'm no good at it. But any chick that comes over to bang me without asking for anything is a girlfriend as far as I'm concerned.

I look at mongering as an enjoyable diversion. But certainly not something that should replace a chick that bangs the hell out of you just because. Well. She likes banging the hell out of you. And if you really can't stand American women than I'd recommend striking up some kind of a non P4P relationship in Colombia if possible.

I don't know why anyone would argue against hooking up with american women though. Even if. The relationships were short lived. It can be very cost effective these days. Dating is almost extinct along with the expense. People just go out with friends and "hook up".

[SeizeTheDay]

Nice Post. I was going to say the same thing but I didn't want to sound so un patriotic. I agree 100.

Those who still believe that being an american is a blessing are from a bygone era. I would hate to be a kid in the USA these days.

There has to be more to the story and character of this individual than we know. This is always the case online.

Regardless of what it is I will leave you (Seize The Day) with a piece of advice from YEARS of mongering.

MEN ARE SLUTS AND WOMEN ARE PROSTITUTES. Once you learn this you are well on your way to taking care of yourself...

Thank you for the advice. Maybe I should have been clearer about my definition of the word love. My definition is that because I had unprotected sex with a particular prostitute, I inevitably had a desire to do this again. I constantly thought about having sex with this girl again. I believe the chemicals in my body were and still will work in unison to urge me to once again fuck this girl. That is what I call love. I call this love because this is the most amount of emotional attachment a man should ever have with a women (In my opinion). Now some of you may have misconstrued my perception of love. You may have thought I wanted to grow old with this girl. You envisioned me having a few kids with her, a house in either Colombia or the US. A large wedding followed by a green card for my newlywed Colombian mujer. Well this is simply not the case, and it never was. But to honest this is my fault, I should have been more specific in my post and for that I apologize.

[Chesscat]

This book is on my to read list:

http://www.jstor.org/discover/10.230...21102157611773

Nice Post. I was going to say the same thing but I didn't want to sound so un patriotic. I agree 100.

Those who still believe that being an american is a blessing are from a bygone era. I would hate to be a kid in the USA these days.

There has to be more to the story and character of this individual than we know. This is always the case online.

Regardless of what it is I will leave you (Seize The Day) with a piece of advice from YEARS of mongering.

MEN ARE SLUTS AND WOMEN ARE PROSTITUTES. Once you learn this you are well on your way to taking care of yourself.

If you are falling for a hooker then you aren't getting any outside the game. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. America is based on the "winners and losers" theory. Each serve their purpose to society but only one gets you laid. Keep in mind that you can disregard any of society's norms and just be yourself if you choose to do so. That might get you laid quicker. That's what most of us do here but there are consequences. You have not learned the consequences yet. Look Listen and Learn.

You obviously have issues if you are falling for prostitutes but you are young and inexperienced. However I think it's cool that you are willing to listen to other people's advice.

I wish you well.

[Artisttyp]

Also the opposite is true: if you are US citizen, and live in USA, there are so many things not open to you, but easily achievable for others. :D

Nice Post. I was going to say the same thing but I didn't want to sound so un patriotic. I agree 100.

Those who still believe that being an american is a blessing are from a bygone era. I would hate to be a kid in the USA these days.

There has to be more to the story and character of this individual than we know. This is always the case online.

Regardless of what it is I will leave you (Seize The Day ) with a piece of advice from YEARS of mongering.

MEN ARE SLUTS AND WOMEN ARE PROSTITUTES. Once you learn this you are well on your way to taking care of yourself.

If you are falling for a hooker then you aren't getting any outside the game. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. America is based on the "winners and losers" theory. Each serve their purpose to society but only one gets you laid. Keep in mind that you can disregard any of society's norms and just be yourself if you choose to do so. That might get you laid quicker. That's what most of us do here but there are consequences. You have not learned the consequences yet. Look Listen and Learn.

You obviously have issues if you are falling for prostitutes but you are young and inexperienced. However I think it's cool that you are willing to listen to other people's advice.

I wish you well.

[SavePros321]

I never tell anyone I'm going to Colombia or even traveling abroad. Nobody can tell where you are these days just have your cell phone calls forwarded to your skype number or other similar service and that is it. Be careful with emails. Had a chick figure out I wasn't in the USA once by tracking my IP address or something like that. Now I use a proxy to send emails.

That doesn't make any since unless your "girlfriend" lives in another State!

You said you needed sex daily, which is why you would have a girlfriend in the US. How the hell do you go from seeing your chick everyday (or even every other day) to pulling a disappearing act and not expect her to get suspicious after not seeing you for a day or two, or three? How do you explain your phone being turned off for prolonged periods of time as you "transit" from airport to airport?

Have you even had a "real" girlfriend, LOL?

I think you are being very unrealistic with the advice you were trying to give. The reason I do not play the dating scene/girlfriend thing in the US is because I travel frequently and there is no way in hell my girlfriend (that I'm supposed to be "in love with") is going to go for "I'm going to Colombia/Dominican Republic/Brazil/Thailand and you're not invited". These chics are pretty hip to what goes on in these locations. Even if you lied and said you were going to Timbuktu, she will want to know why you are going and why for so many days. Reply "none of your fucking business" and you will find yourself holding your dick once you get back.

Now, if you said that you have a "Side Chick", then that's a little different. In that instance it's "when we are together we are together; and when we are not, we are not." But you don't refer to your side chick as "girlfriend".

[Black Page]

At 21 the world is your oyster and if you are a US citizen, there are so many advantages not open to people of other nationalities.

Also the opposite is true: if you are US citizen, and live in USA, there are so many things not open to you, but easily achievable for others. :D

[SeizeTheDay]

I never tell anyone I'm going to Colombia or even traveling abroad. Nobody can tell where you are these days just have your cell phone calls forwarded to your skype number or other similar service and that is it. Be careful with emails. Had a chick figure out I wasn't in the USA once by tracking my IP address or something like that. Now I use a proxy to send emails.

You said you had a problem with mongering because it is unsustainable. Well I have a problem sneaking around like a fucking ninja! I do not want to have some angry US girlfriend chopping my dick off and throwing it in the garbage disposal. The feminists will say this is her right to empower herself as a woman. No thank you!

[SeizeTheDay]

I don't dislike you. What I write is just a general warning to people who get involved in sex travel at a very early age. There is a considerable danger of dedicating some of the best years of your life to it, and then burning out with not a lot achieved.

When I was 21 I was probably more idealistic than you and I don't think I would have considered sex with a prostitute, but I certainly wanted to see the world and left my own country for employment overseas, and when I was single spent a lot of money competing in marathons and traveling to various places that I had read about and wanted to see and experience-from Hawaii in the west to Greece in the east and many places in between...

What are you talking about? I thought this was a website about sex, mainly with prostitutes. I am not here to talk about the foreign job market. I pay for pussy because I want to. If I wanted to work in another country and get a girlfriend there it would be done already. That fact is I am doing what I want to do with my life. It does not matter where it takes me because I will arrive at my destination through my own actions. And by the way you always pay for pussy whether she is a prostitute or not!

[Member #4287]

Just out if curiosity, what is it exactly that you are telling you girlfriend in the US as to why you are taking 3 to 4 trips per year to Colombia? The Secret Service Cartagena sex scandal already exposed Colombia as a sex tourist destination, so the "fishing trip with the buds" excuse doesn't work anymore.

I never tell anyone I'm going to Colombia or even traveling abroad. Nobody can tell where you are these days just have your cell phone calls forwarded to your skype number or other similar service and that is it. Be careful with emails. Had a chick figure out I wasn't in the USA once by tracking my IP address or something like that. Now I use a proxy to send emails.

[Frannie]

Self imposed celibacy for weeks or months while working your ass off in the states in OK for older guys that aren't going to get a decent piece of ass no matter what. But you have to wonder if your choosing this path at the ripe old age of 21 isn't selling yourself short.

That is it, in a nutshell! Suppose you are able to get away 6 times a year for a week. That means working and living like a monk eight weeks out of nine, so that you can afford to go away for the other week and spend the money you have saved on people who have no interest in you as a person except for separating you from the contents of your wallet as quickly as possible.

It will seem great at first and a very glamorous secret lifestyle having sex with beautiful young women whom you could never bed in your own country, but the longer you do it the less rewarding it will become.

If you have time, read My Secret History by Paul Theroux.

[SavePros321]

The main problem I see (personally) with the mongering lifestyle is that it is unsustainable for me. I like to get laid on a daily basis and I just don't have the resources to pay for a chick to bang me everyday of my life. Which means girlfriend in Colombia or the USA or both.

Just out if curiosity, what is it exactly that you are telling you girlfriend in the US as to why you are taking 3 to 4 trips per year to Colombia? The Secret Service Cartagena sex scandal already exposed Colombia as a sex tourist destination, so the "fishing trip with the buds" excuse doesn't work anymore.

[Frannie]

Once again, thanks for the positive feedback. I do not get a lot of praise of here, but there are some others as well. Not many people seem to like me on this site. We seem to agree on most issues.

I don't dislike you. What I write is just a general warning to people who get involved in sex travel at a very early age. There is a considerable danger of dedicating some of the best years of your life to it, and then burning out with not a lot achieved.

When I was 21 I was probably more idealistic than you and I don't think I would have considered sex with a prostitute, but I certainly wanted to see the world and left my own country for employment overseas, and when I was single spent a lot of money competing in marathons and traveling to various places that I had read about and wanted to see and experience-from Hawaii in the west to Greece in the east and many places in between.

(In fact when I was 17, I was bumming around and sleeping rough in Amsterdam and saw female prostitutes in "shop windows" in the red light district but I can honestly say it did not occur to me to try to pay one for sex.)

Rather than work to earn money to pay prostitutes, you could possibly volunteer for work overseas in countries where you find the women more to your taste, or indeed prepare yourself with the language and job skills needed to emigrate to a Latin American country on a more permanent basis and build a new life.

At 21 the world is your oyster and if you are a US citizen, there are so many advantages not open to people of other nationalities.

Just this week here in the Dominican Republic we bade farewell to a Dominican guy of Haitian origin who left to go to Brazil to try to make money to support his two sons in the DR. The interesting thing is that although he knows people there who will help him get work, he still has to go on a tourist visa and stay illegally, as there is no way he can do it legally on his DR citizenship without much money. Also tomorrow a lovely young Haitian woman whose wedding to a Dutchman I went to several months ago is leaving with her 7-months baby for a new life in Holland, possibly never to return, who knows, though of course there is Skype these days.

These determined young people are seizing on very fragile and difficult opportunities to seek a better life than what was on the cards dealt to them. Your opportunities are so much greater just because of the accident of your birth. (I am assuming you are a US citizen-apologies if this is not correct.)

[Member #4287]

Once again, thanks for the positive feedback. I do not get a lot of praise of here, but there are some others as well. Not many people seem to like me on this site. We seem to agree on most issues.

Just me. But relegating yourself to paying for each and every piece of ass you get from the age of 21 seems more than a little depressing.

I have met a few mongers in Medellin that I'm fairly certain never got laid in their lives until they paid for it. Most seem like nice guys and treat the women they are with well. So I don't want to make light of their plight. But there are two that I would classify as just straight up sociopaths. Outside of sex acts they have absolutely zero interest in the women.

Judging from your original post I have a hard time seeing you in this group.

The main problem I see (personally) with the mongering lifestyle is that it is unsustainable for me. I like to get laid on a daily basis and I just don't have the resources to pay for a chick to bang me everyday of my life. Which means girlfriend in Colombia or the USA or both.

Self imposed celibacy for weeks or months while working your ass off in the states in OK for older guys that aren't going to get a decent piece of ass no matter what. But you have to wonder if your choosing this path at the ripe old age of 21 isn't selling yourself short.