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07-12-13 18:28 #11916
Posts: 2803Originally Posted by SeizeTheDay [View Original Post]
I think this post might be taken as a warning, because I have always thought that it would be detrimental to a man's social, personal, and intellectual development to start paying for sex before middle age. Youth is the time for falling in love with women of one's own age, raising children, building a career and a place in the world, not for surreptitious travel to foreign parts for sex with prostitutes.
What the poster will find is that even if he does find the same girl, things will not stay the same for long, with her giving great sex and him giving up money. She will want more and if he is addicted to the sex, she will probably get it, and it will probably all end badly.
I do understand the problem with many American women, and I can see why he would not want to date them, but there are many foreign women who would make good partners who are not prostitutes.
I would try to forget about this woman and seek out other potential partners.
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07-12-13 17:50 #11915
Posts: 74=SavePros321; 1445388]Congratulations! I say that because this sound more like "Lust" than "Love", so at least you have not lost all of your marbles, LOL.
I guess that is what happens when (from your report) you go bareback and bust your nut inside of some sweet Paisa pussy, hahaha. But best believe your chica may have moved on to a different Casa or dropped out of the game entirely by the time you get back. And be thankful you did not get her contact information because from your highly emotional report I believe she would have successfully manipulated you into sending her money via Western Union. Speaking of which, since you are new to mongering, here are some basic mongering rules with regards to avoiding becoming "Papi Noel"...
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07-12-13 17:24 #11914
Posts: 2927Originally Posted by SeizeTheDay [View Original Post]
I guess that is what happens when (from your report) you go bareback and bust your nut inside of some sweet Paisa pussy, hahaha. But best believe your chica may have moved on to a different Casa or dropped out of the game entirely by the time you get back. And be thankful you did not get her contact information because from your highly emotional report I believe she would have successfully manipulated you into sending her money via Western Union. Speaking of which, since you are new to mongering, here are some basic mongering rules with regards to avoiding becoming "Papi Noel":
Think about Six Flags for a moment. You pay your admission, ride the rides, take pictures, and go back home and share your experience with friends.
Now, once you get back home do you send Six Flags a portion of your income on a monthly basis? The same applies with dealing with chicas in other countries: Go there, ride the rides (chicas) , take pics, share the experience with friends. DO NOT send them money when you get back home hoping that you are somehow securing a "placeholder" for your return trip. Keep any contact with them once you leave to a minimum until about a month or two before your return trip. If she has moved on (novio, some gringo bobo took her out of the game until he goes broke sending her money), then you will find a new one to fill her spot.
Just be happy that you found out about mongering at the young age of 21 and have no kids (I started at 25) and are able to afford to take a trip to another country. Medellin has more pussy than you can ever get around to in one life time, so just relax and enjoy the long ride. Try to do a trip every 4 months or 3 times a year. That way, once you start going through pussy withdrawal symptoms (as you are experiencing now while in the US a*k*a "Sex Prison") you know that you will be back in pussy paradise shortly.
Originally Posted by SeizeTheDay [View Original Post]
Don't get caught up in bullshit like trying to have the best car, the biggest house, and the flashiest clothes. If you are going to be a monger then go all in. Live frugal while in the US, and rock out with your cock out (literally) in another country. And if you do not contribute to an employer sponsored 401K, START!
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07-12-13 17:24 #11913
Posts: 74Originally Posted by David_33 [View Original Post]
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07-12-13 17:18 #11912
Posts: 3074Originally Posted by SeizeTheDay [View Original Post]
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07-12-13 16:58 #11911
Posts: 2927Originally Posted by Chris775 [View Original Post]
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07-12-13 16:50 #11910
Posts: 179Originally Posted by SeizeTheDay [View Original Post]
My advice is to go back to Medellin find the chick and then find two more that you like just as much and then put them on a daily rotation. It will help you keep things in perspective.
Also you are way too young to be swearing off American chicks....just hump and dump...they'll like you more for it.
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07-12-13 15:09 #11909
Posts: 74Young and Confused
`I need some advice. I believe I have fallen in love with a prostitute from Medellin. I wrote my report a month ago. In that report I stated how I longed to see this girl again, however in the time that has lapsed since then till now she has become the sine qua non of my existence. This girl is all I think about all day. Sure I get things done, but I do them while thinking of her. There is no longer me and my thoughts now it is me and my thoughts plus the thought of her. One user of the forum wrote that Costa Rica and the DR were the minor leagues while Medellin was the big leagues. Maybe I should have started with triple A first. I think that because I am in the US the dilemma is exacerbated; this is because I do not have sex with American women. This is an actual rule of mine, no American women. I am twenty one, no kids, never been married, and never had a girlfriend and I like things this way. The last thing I want is to be paying child support to some chick I had a one night stand with. While she refuses to let me see the child but expects the check to come in on time every month, no thanks. Because of the way I live my life the last thing I expected was to ever fall in love, I never planned for it. Now I try to rationalize it to myself, saying 'I cannot get hurt in a different country right? '. I always thought of fallen in love as a dangerous thing, a time when guys let their guard down and are inevitably eaten by their harpy girlfriend. I do not have any of her contact information, when I was in Medellin I was in such an elated state that I did not think about such things. I think you could say I had a natural high, or I was high on life despite that fact that I did not partake in drugs besides some Sildenafil. Now I am thinking of going back to Medellin to find this girl again and actually getting her information this time. I also should explain that I do not know this girl well so the attraction purely stems from the sex and everything else I gathered from the times we met. But I do not think any of these things matter because I do not want to be her boyfriend anyway. I just want to have the security of knowing I can find her on my next trip to Medellin. I believe this is a symbiotic proposition because I get the best sex of my life and she gets paid. If only fucking all women was this simple. I would like to know if anyone else has fallen for a girl the way I have? Also is my behavior irrational? Should I resent any feeling of love and attachment to this girl? Should I go back to Medellin to get this girls contact information?
Any help in this matter would be greatly appreciated thanks.
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07-12-13 15:03 #11908
Posts: 231Originally Posted by Nino Bravo [View Original Post]
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07-12-13 11:36 #11907
Posts: 3Mansion
Can someone tell me how I get the info on the facebook page for the mansion I posted in Medellin list and got no response.
Thanks
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07-12-13 06:24 #11906
Posts: 10Originally Posted by Ezyngo [View Original Post]
I'll be in Medellin probably Sat and Sunday night. Maybe we can meet up and have a drink and check out the local scene?
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07-12-13 06:06 #11905
Posts: 179Update on my second Mansion experience.
Went to Sinko Bar a couple of times with a date and got in no problem. But the last time I went (with a couple of guys from the Mansion and their dates) we got turned away at the door. They took one look at us and said "Sorry, Private Party!".
Also it seems that there is some truth that women that focus too much on the apartment scene don't get invited back to the Mansion by the Mansion. From what I hear Wendy and chicks like her that have gone on their own to attract business outside the Mansion have to be invited by a guest of the Mansion before they get in. So there is understandable concern for some chicks to keep the fact that they do a lot of business outside hush hush.
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07-12-13 04:28 #11904
Posts: 389Originally Posted by Bbrocs [View Original Post]
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07-12-13 03:24 #11903
Posts: 173Originally Posted by Bbrocs [View Original Post]
Not bored at work at all, I love my work and do well. Bored with my female relationships? Impossible. I have too much variety for that and wayyy too many. My day is very full. I don't think that I even have 100 posts here, and have been a member for years. So maybe you should use your illogical reasoning on some members (including yourself) who have far more posts than me. I opine when I see fit, and I stand by my original post regarding dealing with Colombians. Not too many on this forum have more years traveling to Colombia than me (although many, many have lived there and I haven't, only months at a time) so I would think my opinion would hold more weight than just "stirring the pot". You are an infant in Colombia compared to others, so I wouldn't start beating my chest if I were you regarding how well you've done there. In Colombia things can change in an instant.
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07-12-13 02:41 #11902
Posts: 231Originally Posted by Rjsss212 [View Original Post]