Medellin Reports

[Paulie97]

I just spent a month in Colombia and spent a good bit of time in the more expensive strip clubs. Like anywhere strip clubs aren't the best value compared to others in town, but many of us want to get out at night. Yes the girls in La Isla and Fase Dos are from the same handful of lower strata barrios as the Facebook, casas girls, and girls in the Centro strip clubs. It's also true, and I'll concede, that there's a higher concentration of the hotter girls from these barrios than in other venues. You spend more but save time ferreting out the gems in the less espensive places. That said, get ready to wear the latex, as in my fairly extensive research the girls in the more expensive places are wholly inflexible when it comes to BBBJ, even for a nice tip. BBFS of course forget it. For those that want to wear a raincoat start to finish and aren't price conscious, these clubs may be good option for you.

[Paulie97]

So true, women are programmed to think that older men have more money and stability and less drama, especially in Colombia.

As a middle aged men, I am not delusional to think that a 20-25 year old is with me because we have a good connection. She's there because she has a good time, gets treated well, gets money and get's to smell my world class perfume collection, not something she would get with a local Colombian who may connect with her on the music but is likely low income and cheating on her anyway.

She's going to cheat on you as in all likelihood she isn't attracted to you and isn't much concerned about your perfumes. That's just reality. You have a hooker. So many here want to think they have more while also trying to convince the forum that they have more. It's called fantasy reinforcement, a purpose forums like this have long served.

[Luminous]

So true, women are programmed to think that older men have more money and stability and less drama, especially in Colombia.

As a middle aged men, I am not delusional to think that a 20-25 year old is with me because we have a good connection. She's there because she has a good time, gets treated well, gets money and get's to smell my world class perfume collection, not something she would get with a local Colombian who may connect with her on the music but is likely low income and cheating on her anyway.

unless you have money. You are nothing special to most of these girls. You are not unique in any way.

[Anthony2023]

With a lot of you LOL. I understand I may not have an advantage over some of you just because of my age and ethnicity. We all know that money is really what matters. I apologize if I hurt some of you. I didn't realize this board was so sensitive and get back so much hate. Like I said we don't have to agree to everything and we don't have to get mad because someone may or may not have a advantage to have better chemistry over us or if one guy doesn't have to pretend a girl likes him and the other guy does. In the end who really gives a fuck. Let's put that debate to rest.

[Anthony2023]

I know ColombianLover already set you straight but I couldn't help it to have a little more fun with you on this. You are totally delusional clearly w this post:.

LOL you seem pressed. Let me guess you are a senior citizen as well. Don't take it so personal, I could care less what you do with your social security check. Calm down we don't all have to agree with everything, don't have a stroke LOL.

[JjBee62]

This is a funny post, because on the one hand I think you're correctly reading that he probably overestimates his ability to make genuine connections with working girls based on his tastes and personality. But then you seem to conclude that unlike him, you're able to make the genuine connections because of your race and age. It's pretty much the same fallacy. Not to say that relationships can't be made with sex workers or that some clients and sex workers aren't going to have better connections than others. But the notion of "chemistry" in this sphere is very overrated IMO. The girls that give you the feeling of having good chemistry with you are likely to be giving the same impression to other men. The ones you don't have a connection with are probably not having that great of a connection with other men because they don't care as much about providing a great experience, they're not as good at reading cues of what individual men want, etc. In short, they're just better at their jobs. They can make an older American man think they're connecting over shared interests and tastes and they can make a younger Latino man think they're connecting because they look similar and come from more similar backgrounds. And they get more repeat business because of it. The positive flip side of that is the girl who just laid there probably wasn't cold because she hated your haircut or found you a bore; she likely doesn't enjoy her job very much and doesn't care about making sure she has happy customers. Although that does highlight the exception to the rule on both ends, that a particularly charismatic and attractive man who's seeing sex workers for whatever reason might genuinely be viewed differently on rare occasions and a man with bad hygiene she might be eager to get rid of as quickly as possible because there's no interest in repeating. But the vast, vast majority of the time it's going to be like seeing your dentist. Your dentist doesn't give you a better clean because she likes you personally and doesn't give you a worse clean because you rub her the wrong way. Just find a great dentist.

That should be on a t-shirt, or a really big coffee mug.

[SureMan]

I know ColombianLover 9already set you straight but I couldn't help it to have a little more fun with you on this. You are totally delusional clearly w this post:

As someone who's been to EVERY Single Latin American country, incl some fams, lived, years of travel, I can tell you that you are 100% wrong, and here are some fun facts:


5. Money.From Latin Girls in order of preference:

1. Money.

2. Money.

3. Money.

4. Money.


6-10. Somewhere in this range you fellas can measure dick sizes, skin color, culture, eye color, meanwhile you're nowhere near the priority. Let's call it the fight of losers. Go at it.

All these hefers care about is green. Hope this helps. And oh the guys who honor and understand the top 5 sections are having a ball, getting their dick suckd since they bring the green, they work harder, live longer, less stressed since not delusioned nor trying to compete for hookers LOL.

Hookers only care about who bring the most cash. If you aint tricking and in your 20's-early 40's and think you look so good and can get all the free pussy in the world, you're in the wrong board. Yes we all can still get laid w some average chicas free. But these debates on a mongering board are getting lame yall. I'll fuck any of your finest chicas if I bring more cash than you, don't matter if I'm 70 years old, blue, black, and you're 20 or whatever pretty boy fantasy you think the girls have. It's that simple.

Funny thing is, it has nothing to do with poverty or sub culture which is proven right here in the US. When girls are young and stupid, they may fall for the younger land dancing showing up, but as they mature, they go for the guy w good credit, who owns a house, has a biz, etc. You has 9 out of 10 girls in the us what a man most have, you'll always hear shit like he must have a job, a car, a not live with his mama. That's been around for ages. So as you can see, nowhere in that last was a blond hair blue eyes, or tall black and handsome fantasy. Girls want security the most, money. Period.

So fucking true this medellin board is gone to the shots.

It's about from 1 to 10.

You're spending money to go to fuck working girls.

Stay at home don't bring your culture to another country.

I pay what I want to.

I work for my money.

And I do make lots of it.

I like to drink and party before I go with working girls.

That's my lifestyle I enjoy it here in Guyana.

When I go to Canada on Monday will get escorts.

When on medellin I party in ElCentro and in LA Setenta.

Just fucking enjoy life.

[SmilyD69]

Wound up deciding to go to Medellin after hearing so many people talking about it and having enjoyed it so I decided to do my research. I have been recently lurking in this forum for not that long trying to get information as well as lots of Youtube videos and wrote down places I should check out as it was recommended. I wound up getting my ticket for one week as a test run.

Preparation-.

A little about me, I'm in my early 30's, Latino and I am semi fluent in Spanish but I do have an accent so you can tell I'm not a local.

A month before my flight I started swiping on Tinder and trying to get a decent list of girls I could possibly meet up there. Of course a lot of people mentioned to not use Tinder, but I made sure I vetted them, spoke to them on video and made at least a small little connection with them. No talk of money, no talk of gifts, just me telling them I wana take them out to dinner and have us explore. This is just my way of how I do things. Might work for others and it might not. Throughout all the girls I spoke to on there I had at least a good 5 girls I established a meet up with when I got there.

Thanks! After being a long time lurker, you inspired me to finally join and contribute. I'm heading to medellin in a couple months. Great report!

[Zeos1]

Jockey16,

Perhaps another lesson from this story is. "Don't do that". "Helping" with "introductions", whatever that is, is a very high risk thing to do. Having a dispute over who paid what may only be a minor annoyance in comparison to finding yourself charged with pimping.

Whether or not you get compensation for it may seem like an important distinction, but law enforcement may not see your version of the story in the same way.

[Plan77]

It was still quite busy in casas and in centro around Christmas holidays. Parque Lleras was a bnit of let down, not as crowded as I expected it to be and overall quality of chicas was terrible. Centro always had 2/3 good ones but I never understand the point of taking them when you can have similar quality in casas nearby where facilities and even hygiene is likely to be much better.

The main casas I visited were new life, zandalay and sexy amigas. NL had most girls but has gone down steadily in quality and even quantity this year. One can always find gringos in this place, always busy and upscale but quality is not as it was. Zandalay was so so, not the best quality but one or two girls everyday were good enough for me. Sexy Amigas was the best, every single time.

Also visit dulce compania and armonia first time. Dulce is in bad shape still, only 2 girls on a week day afternoon one of which looked nice but session was not that good as her breasts hurt and she didn't offer besos. Armonia was a big surprise, 10+ girls, several lookers and sessions were pretty good.

Hardly any girl asked for extras although I tip everyone afterwards. Overall sessions were excellent and a good value for money.

A question for experienced ones. Is there a day time pick up place other than centro in Medellin?

[JjBee62]

I always wonder why guys are challenged to understand that in this business its all about the money. I am a late 60's non-Hispanic/Latino and have always got excellent service from the young chicas in Colombia.

Took the girlfriend to 37 Park for dinner last night. On the second level next to the stairs was a big table of Colombian men and women eating and drinking. On the way back from the bathroom, 3rd level, 3 of them were making hard eye contact and smiling. Older women, maybe age 30 or so.

While I'm here, 37 Park is a lively place. They were giving a free shot of Ron Medellin 5 years to everyone entering. It was busy at 10 pm and still serving food. Service was excellent, although the food took awhile to arrive. It was excellent, to my tastes and the girlfriend liked it too. I've had a good brunch there in the past. 180 k for 2 entrees, 1 appetizer and 2 non-alcoholic drinks.

[MoonShot]

I always wonder why guys are challenged to understand that in this business its all about the money. I am a late 60's non-Hispanic/Latino and have always got excellent service from the young chicas in Colombia.

If a young attractive girl is interested in hooking up with a young handsome man for some fun, there is no shortage of such local guys in Medellin. There are a number of young local guys with game who can get these girls without having to pay anything. If she is reaching out to gringos who are here only for a short time, most likely it is because she needs money. If she is horny and wants sex, she already has plenty of options with guys who speak the language and know the culture. When it comes to money, older guys are the ones who understand the arrangement better and she doesn't have to deal with young gringos who think that they shouldn't have to pay because they are having a good time.

[Turgid]

Well, perhaps you are over-generalizing it a bit. Yes, girls prefer if you can speak Spanish. And, yes, it probably helps, at least with some, that you have a general understanding of Latin culture. And, yes, some girls prefer guys their own age. But on the other hand.

1) Just because you are a Hispanic / Latino does not mean you are identical to a Colombian. Living in Florida, I know many Cubans, Puerto Ricans, Dominicans, Mexicans, Costa Ricans, etc. And they are NOT the same. The accent, the use of language, the customs, the food are not identical.

2) These girls are used to the Latino "look. " There is nothing about that that is exciting or exotic. I am 57, but I always get noticed because of my white (but tanned) skin and my blue eyes. That sets me apart from the Latino man.

3) I am not sure why, but I'm met many a girls who prefer older guys and some even say their moms recommend an older guy because they tend to be more stable and responsible. Now obviously the prepagos like older guys because of money. But I'm talking about regular girls (and those are the types I tend to see now more often than hookers) - they like that I am older. I regularly see an 18 year old and a 20 year old. Neither ask me for money or gifts. I pay their taxi and buy them some Rappi and we enjoy the time. They do not have to worry about all of the "negatives" associated with being with a younger guy. And the chemistry is great.

So let's no paint all girls the same. There are pros and cons to be Latino, pros and cons to being young, pros and cons of being white, older, etc. The arrogance of the younger Latino seems to ooze in the post. And I've actually not seen it. Foreigner Latinos in Colombia are lumped in with every other Latino, from what I've seen, unless you have money. You are nothing special to most of these girls. You are not unique in any way.

I always wonder why guys are challenged to understand that in this business its all about the money. I am a late 60's non-Hispanic/Latino and have always got excellent service from the young chicas in Colombia.

[Jockey16]

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[FunForAll37]

How I'm I claiming to have better sex out there if I haven't even landed there yet? LOL.

I'm sorry to burst your bubble jb but when you compare someone like you (60 I'm guessing white) vs someone like me (latino, 35), more than likely these 18-35 yr old (latina girls) are going to have better chemistry and more in common with some one like myself. That's pretty common sense. Same as if I was talking to a 50+ yr old white woman, you would more than likely have more chemistry and things in common with her. For someone that's older I would of thought you would be smarter than this jb. Do you honestly believe these girls aren't putting on a show for you? You should know they just see you as a gringo ATM just like everybody else. They are not going to be able to relate to you as much as someone like me that speaks fluent spanish, is closer to there age and comes from a similar culture. Sorry I have to be the one to tell you this but you can't be that naive.

P. S who doesn't like 70's,80's,90's that doesn't mean anything. The point I was trying to make is who they are MOST LIKELY to have a stronger bond with, which COULD lead to having better chemistry and a better experience more times than not.

This is a funny post, because on the one hand I think you're correctly reading that he probably overestimates his ability to make genuine connections with working girls based on his tastes and personality. But then you seem to conclude that unlike him, you're able to make the genuine connections because of your race and age. It's pretty much the same fallacy. Not to say that relationships can't be made with sex workers or that some clients and sex workers aren't going to have better connections than others. But the notion of "chemistry" in this sphere is very overrated IMO. The girls that give you the feeling of having good chemistry with you are likely to be giving the same impression to other men. The ones you don't have a connection with are probably not having that great of a connection with other men because they don't care as much about providing a great experience, they're not as good at reading cues of what individual men want, etc. In short, they're just better at their jobs. They can make an older American man think they're connecting over shared interests and tastes and they can make a younger Latino man think they're connecting because they look similar and come from more similar backgrounds. And they get more repeat business because of it. The positive flip side of that is the girl who just laid there probably wasn't cold because she hated your haircut or found you a bore; she likely doesn't enjoy her job very much and doesn't care about making sure she has happy customers. Although that does highlight the exception to the rule on both ends, that a particularly charismatic and attractive man who's seeing sex workers for whatever reason might genuinely be viewed differently on rare occasions and a man with bad hygiene she might be eager to get rid of as quickly as possible because there's no interest in repeating. But the vast, vast majority of the time it's going to be like seeing your dentist. Your dentist doesn't give you a better clean because she likes you personally and doesn't give you a worse clean because you rub her the wrong way. Just find a great dentist.