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09-01-22 19:16 #57336
Posts: 307Originally Posted by Surfer500 [View Original Post]
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09-01-22 19:13 #57335
Posts: 3950By my own criteria I am a sucker because now that I think about it, over the years I've probably handed out 500,000 pesos to random panhandlers and girls in 500 to 1,000 peso increments. A tinto here, an empanada there and before you know it you are in the 7 figure territory. Around Centro it is part of the atmosphere. I don't think girls expect it on a regular basis as much as they want it and ask for it. I feel like this is a variation on the how much is too much to pay girls. I am a bit of an anarchist on the subject. I don't think any amount is a problem as long as it doesn't put the person paying it or giving it out in financial ruin. I also don't think what I do or don't give to panhandlers or girls who claim to be in dire need has impact on other guys.
Originally Posted by Surfer500 [View Original Post]
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09-01-22 19:07 #57334
Posts: 253Lfg!!
Originally Posted by WeeDonk [View Original Post]
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09-01-22 19:06 #57333
Posts: 648Originally Posted by Paulie97 [View Original Post]
Jackrabbits who whine about how much other guys spend are usually broke and afraid that if prices get pushed up they might not be able to afford their $25 a day vacation.
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09-01-22 19:03 #57332
Posts: 3950It sounds complicated. I guess it is a good option if you have to be within walking distance of Parque Lleras. I always take everything I read on tripadvisor with a grain of salt.
Originally Posted by ColombiaLover [View Original Post]
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09-01-22 18:18 #57331
Posts: 15811Originally Posted by Surfer500 [View Original Post]
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09-01-22 17:44 #57330
Posts: 585The last two times I was there, this is what I was told:
1) Maybe 6 months ago or so. You can have as many girls as you like per day, but only one at a time. If you have two at a time, you pay 100 mil for the extra.
2) August, 2022 - you are permitted to have one girl per day. If you have more, it is an extra 120 mil for each one (but only one at a time). I did not see a lot of chicas for the few days I was there (I was in an apartment for a week before that), but I want to think I had two girls visit in one day. And never got charged.
I also understand that if you get one of the more expensive rooms, they may permit you to have more than one at a time, so probably best to call. As their policies seem to change a bit over time.
Originally Posted by Knowledge [View Original Post]
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09-01-22 16:06 #57329
Posts: 3801Originally Posted by Zeos1 [View Original Post]
I personally have a few girls I help out from time to time, not a lot, and not enough to support a better lifestyle, such as a better apartment, etc.
However I temper it, and at times help them out when not asked depending on what is going on in their lives. And when I get a RFM, I don't always help them out, so they know it's not going to be regular thing. And when I turn them down when they make a RFM, they don't hold it against me.
I understand that if someone care's for someone how that might effect them in the situation being talked about, yet in reality, most of these women are just playing us all. And you can't blame them, so I try to balance how I deal with it, not giving much, yet something at times, and the dividends have been unreal.
I also think a lot of these women will respect a guy much more who don't cave every time they get an RFM.
Just my thoughts on all this after reading the numerous posts on this subject.
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09-01-22 15:50 #57328
Posts: 1678??
Originally Posted by Zeos1 [View Original Post]
This used to be the go to position in forums such as this, but nowadays the send money guys are at least the most vocal. Let's hope they are still the minority. Wow.
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09-01-22 15:16 #57327
Posts: 15811Originally Posted by Balboa [View Original Post]
If I do not tell them a flat out no, I say well I have the day off Saturday, but I will ask my boss if I can go in and work 8 hours so I will have money for you. That sounds ridiculous to most people. Then they realize that our money comes from actually working and it does not just magically appear for us to give away. Then they will say nevermind.
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09-01-22 14:59 #57326
Posts: 1063Originally Posted by Balboa [View Original Post]
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09-01-22 13:44 #57325
Posts: 1061Originally Posted by Dcrist0527 [View Original Post]
Huh?
You send some help to a girl you think deserves a little something, and say that's it.
You don't have to put her on a weekly allowance, LOL.
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09-01-22 09:50 #57324
Posts: 4First International post / upcoming first Medellin trip
Yoooo! Hello fellow mongers. Inaugural post here on the international side, I've got a few posts on the USA end of things with "Earlystart83" profile. Wanted to give a shot out to the active accounts that share knowledge and experience here and really give a huge head start to those that want to do a bit a research. Respect!
Tiny background: late thirties, American, 50 nations, tons of states. Mongered in many of those spots despite the vast majority of the trips not being "mongering trips". . Done some quintessential legs of the worldwide monger scene: Thailand, Tijuana, Brazil, Vietnam, DR, Costa Rica, Holland, Germany etc etc. Experienced the high end FKK / thermas styles, revolving door Hot Tocs (blow job salons), to abandoned lot / back alley <$10 streetwalker blowjobs in sketchy areas. Really enjoy the streetwalker tango in USA despite all of the potential risks (cops, getting robbed, drug addicted chicks, hyper low quality broads at.
Times etc). The thrill of that can be pretty exhilarating and sometimes you can find some diamonds in the rough. But that is specifically about just getting a blowjob in the car here and there. Done some fun streetwalker car acquisitions in Italy, CR, DR. But generally it's been by foot when I find myself abroad, so I'm ready to hit the pavement in MED.
I'm so excited to try Colombia. Heard about the quality and quantity for over a decade but the trip just never came together. From what I've gathered it's a special place with a lot of different options and styles. Here's my proposed plan: I'm there for 5 days. I know I love a good street scene and from what I've deduced from some research is: like all.
Places there is a certain level of risk, much lower percentage of top level chicks (compared to other higher end options), but with experience and some Spanish skills there are some treasures to excavate. I've got a seemingly solid air Bnb within about 12 blocks of plaza Bortero (south west of it across Oriental, seemingly not crazy sketchy based on reviews and research). I figure I can just hop over to some of the centro areas I've jotted down and peep the scene and slowly start to gauge the situation. I have no desire to hit Llera. Might hit up a few casas. I'the like to have at least one La isla type experience to see what the top end looks like so I can compare to the same levels / styles elsewhere in Brazil, Germany, Hong Kong etc. But I'm way more excited about the full on freelance scene where there are a wider range of variables, you satisfy that addictive feeling of a chase / hunt, and there is plenty of room for negotiation.
Would be stoked to hear what some of y'all think of that plan. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and YMMV but I know what I like and from what I hear, the centro street scene rivals any as far as price: quality goes. I'm aware of most pitfalls and I keep my head on a swivel so I'm not one to fall victim to most bonehead situations. I've also been known to love to ask girls to take photos and / or film which doesn't seem as conducive while chasing tail in higher end / nice spots or even most casas. My goal isn't to get deals, and awesome rates, it's just to get find high quality Colombianas, and once they've proven their worth, keep 'them around for more hours, overnight, or even repeat. Thoughts / advice?
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09-01-22 08:00 #57323
Posts: 253Same!
Originally Posted by Balboa [View Original Post]
This is by far the most complication we get in this lifestyle. We travel for fun, extend our stay, oops we decided or found the skills and balls to mingle with the locals, blend in, even starting to dress like a chico, then let's roleplay a relationship, and that's where the danger starts.
In nearly 15 years in this I've had my fair share of issues but usually mostly handled. In that amount of years I've sent less than $500 USD total to random novias, friends, and I still think that's too much. I think I'm the El Cheapo WU papi of the century. That's in about 15 yrs! Like many of the comments state, your girl will ask $50 for a minor emergency and you'll feel like an asshole if you don't send it, especially if it's a local you've been banging for free which were my cases. Local novias will happen in my extended stays of 30 days or longer. One thing however I never sent nor will ever send money to a prepago or women I've paid for sex. I would rather drink bleach before I do that. But come on amigos, I don't think it's a big deal if she was a real friend, and in fact you can help a friend that you're not banging. That's just my general philosophy although I barely practice it. Yes I'm super friendly, make friends easily, speak average Spanish. I'm financially secure, great job, I invest, but my personality and core values deeply hates the feeling of being a bank account to someone or befriended for such opportunities. Again I respect those who do.
I would say to take the same caution that we all seem to be hinting, that is key. Don't be a chomp and allow someone to use you or play you, and for me that's the line I carefully study to know who's really in need vs who's playing games. Then of course when no games or not are played, if I send a one time gift it means one time, period. Get a job, go start hooking if you haven't already, do what you have to do. Sometimes I would bore them with my high bills and taxes and scare the shit out of them till they pity me and stop asking LOL. Play reverse psychology and manipulate if you have to. And yes, I am an asshole too. These girls or any indv you befriend from anywhere who's much much poorer than you, well technically is not your real friend, you became a source. It's the same concept as to why most rich folks or celebrities don't mingle or marry regular average joes. It's silly and yes it still happens for real love blah blah horseshit.
I get phone numbers from all types of locals when I travel incl cops, merchants, business owners, novias, putas, gringos, you name it. With all those encounters I have yet to meet one, except for the gringos, where I would gain anything from their friendship or me not being a source or an opportunity. If you can't tell yet I'm all about a balanced scale. Life itself and everything in it should be so or at least I try to make it so. I don't even consider myself wise, what I maintain is basically learned over years w some experience, and some good pointers by few fellow travel buds.
Now, let's go fuck some more WG.
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09-01-22 05:45 #57322
Posts: 672Hmmm
Originally Posted by SouthernOcean [View Original Post]