Medellin Reports

[Knowledge]

I read complaints about guest fees at Haven. I read this on tripadvisor so it might it's best to confirm with the hotel.

I really liked Haven. It's was pretty nice had a rooftop pool and bar and guest friendly.

[Nounce]

I think helping out for a time may be a good thing. ....

There was a young girl that just came out of period told me she didn't have money to buy food. I said take metro to me and I will buy food for her. She said she did not have Civica card. I said that was the only condition I could buy her food. She showed up because her mother gave her the taxi money. LOL. So I took her to have dinner and gave her some money to go home with, and she took taxi back.

That above is not even the observation I try to make. What happened after is she asked my wingman for money after she got money from me. I taught her a bad lesson. LOL.

My guess is the girls that take metro regularly are usually the girls with regular job. Many girls I know don't even have metro card so I guess it probably has nothing to do with P4 P.

[Mechanic88]

I plan to stay at the Mansion for a couple of nights because I am a lazy fuck and I enjoy a pool but I am looking for a nice hotel that is guest friendly either near parque lleras or central. I know it is a big spread but still asking. First time in MDE. I have the World Traveler 69 map and intend to use and report on it but the guest at the hotel thing, I need advice.

I really liked Haven. It's was pretty nice had a rooftop pool and bar and guest friendly.

[SouthernOcean]

I plan to stay at the Mansion for a couple of nights because I am a lazy fuck and I enjoy a pool but I am looking for a nice hotel that is guest friendly either near parque lleras or central. I know it is a big spread but still asking. First time in MDE. I have the World Traveler 69 map and intend to use and report on it but the guest at the hotel thing, I need advice.

[Combo]

Chica tried to insist she meant $200 usd not 200 k pesos LOL. Needless to say she left with the 200 k smh.

Better yet, explicitly state that you're talking mil pesos in your communications.

Of course, she could still try to say you agreed on a USD amount. But being very explicit that the deal in is pesos will avoid this most of the time.

[Dcrist0527]

I think helping out for a time may be a good thing. But there is a huge problem with getting in and not being able to get out. The issue is that the lifestyle of the gal and her child or children will rapidly change. And I'm not talking anything extravagant necessarily. I know from experience how this works. Gal 1 moved into a better apartment, still basic, but better. And gave up prostitution. Got a civi job. Problem. Big big shortfall in money for basic needs, food, rent, etc. Etc. So I continue to help. Guess what. Lifetime commitment, or in some cases just too much to afford. Believe me there is no good way to exit. People get hurt very very badly. I could elaborate but I won't. You may be helping the greatest gal in the world, you may be in love, whatever. But the minute their life improves with your contributions those contributions become a necessity. If your pocketbook is deep enough and you have the intention of a permanent connection, ok perhaps. But only if you have a lot of extra cash and are prepared to make a real relationship out of it if it comes to that.

Some really good advice here. I'm a guy who made a relationship work for a couple years. The key is the relationship. There is no such thing as temporary help. As Zeos said, "help" provides an increase in standard of living. But they get accustomed to that and need your continued help. The example Zeos gives is very common.

With a relationship, it can work. But even that has challenges, depending on the living situation. But great advice, Zeos.

[JackTaggart]

Chica tried to insist she meant $200 usd not 200 k pesos LOL. Needless to say she left with the 200 k smh.

I feel like I reached a milestone yesterday. Sort of proud of myself. I walked from a session yesterday that I was very much looking for because I had visited before. She was almost 20 minutes late in letting me into the apartment. Then said she couldn't do an hour because she had to leave in 40 minutes. So I asked about the reduced rate / medio and it was the same as the hour. So I just said no gracias and walked. If she had apologized for the poor communication around letting me in I would have handled it differently probably. I figured I probably wouldn't have a good time at that point anyways.

[Mr Enternational]

Chica tried to insist she meant $200 usd not 200 k pesos LOL. Needless to say she left with the 200 k smh.

Ask her how much the average Colombian makes in a month. Then when she answers say and you seriously think someone is going to give you 900,000 pesos for a couple of hours? Since 200 sounds like a low number for currency for them, they think it is nothing to us.

[Surfer500]

Chica tried to insist she meant $200 usd not 200 k pesos LOL. Needless to say she left with the 200 k smh.

Perhaps you can clarify where you met this Chica, because it doesn't sound like a Centro street hoe.

[Mtndew704]

Chica tried to insist she meant $200 usd not 200 k pesos LOL. Needless to say she left with the 200 k smh.

[Mr Enternational]

If your pocketbook is deep enough and you have the intention of a permanent connection, ok perhaps. But only if you have a lot of extra cash and are prepared to make a real relationship out of it if it comes to that.

By real relationship do you mean one where you routinely send money and get nothing except a smaller bank account and a warm and fuzzy feeling inside in return?

[Mr Enternational]

The only difference I see is if you help someone when your not there, you are doing smthg more altruistic. If you only help someone when your present, then it's a more selfish act. Or did I miss smthg?

Yes. But that is not to say that being selfish is a bad thing. I love McDonald's, but if they are going under am I going to send money to help keep the company afloat or am I only interested in helping McDonald's out when I am there in person getting burgers and fries for the money I am handing over? With that said, if I was starving to death would McDonald's rush over with a couple of free Big Macs? Probably not.

If he was there horny as a horndog with no money, would the chick (assuming she is a hooker) rush over to give him some free pussy? Probably not.

[Zeos1]

Can I ask, what is the material difference? Surely, if you want to help someone, you just help them, no?

The only difference I see is if you help someone when your not there, you are doing smthg more altruistic. If you only help someone when your present, then it's a more selfish act. Or did I miss smthg?

I think helping out for a time may be a good thing. But there is a huge problem with getting in and not being able to get out. The issue is that the lifestyle of the gal and her child or children will rapidly change. And I'm not talking anything extravagant necessarily. I know from experience how this works. Gal 1 moved into a better apartment, still basic, but better. And gave up prostitution. Got a civi job. Problem. Big big shortfall in money for basic needs, food, rent, etc. Etc. So I continue to help. Guess what. Lifetime commitment, or in some cases just too much to afford. Believe me there is no good way to exit. People get hurt very very badly. I could elaborate but I won't. You may be helping the greatest gal in the world, you may be in love, whatever. But the minute their life improves with your contributions those contributions become a necessity. If your pocketbook is deep enough and you have the intention of a permanent connection, ok perhaps. But only if you have a lot of extra cash and are prepared to make a real relationship out of it if it comes to that.

[MoonShot]

Can I ask, what is the material difference? Surely, if you want to help someone, you just help them, no?

The only difference I see is if you help someone when your not there, you are doing smthg more altruistic. If you only help someone when your present, then it's a more selfish act. Or did I miss smthg?

What I meant is that a girl needs money, you are in Medellin, I say come on over and I'll help you out. She comes over and takes care of my needs and she gets money to pay for her expenses. It is not altruistic in any way. Am I helping them out? Yes because she gets the money but she has to work for it.

When I am in the USA, and a girl needs money and asks me for money, I don't get anything in return. Now some think they are being altruistic when they sent money but you are no Mother Teresa when you only give money to hot young girls who have sex with you or are going to have sex with you. Usually charitable donations do not have those guidelines involved.

I tell the girls that I will help them out when I am there and they have to wait. The girls don't want to lose a client on a future trip so they usually just accept that answer and still see you.

[JustTK]

So for myself, I just hold true to a simple mantra, as the fellow board member would say, never send money to a girl. But by all means, help her out when you are there and she is taking care of you.

Can I ask, what is the material difference? Surely, if you want to help someone, you just help them, no?

The only difference I see is if you help someone when your not there, you are doing smthg more altruistic. If you only help someone when your present, then it's a more selfish act. Or did I miss smthg?