Medellin Reports

[Lucky Nuts]

Photos are all of Catgirl, my Numero Uno Novia. We've beaten the odds and been together for over two years now. Whatever happens from this point on is icing on the cake and I don't think either one of us is looking for the exit sign any time soon.

Kudos to you and good decision to stick with her after her gain of many covid kilos. Personally I couldn't have done that as fat chicas make my dick limp. But she's looking good again so you done right.

You just can't ever let your guard down in Colombia, as the moment you do, something happens.

Mr. E said it best a few months ago "stealing is part of the job description". Although I've never had a stealing experience I've always viewed it the same way. Well I did once have a chica at New Life try to steal from my pockets while I was in the shower but I looked out and caught her. Now I always roll up my jeans and keep them in eye's view. And even with chicas I've been seeing for years I don't leave my money lay out for them to be tempted. Why do that when you know how much a few pesos means to them. Which reminds me I wonder how slapshot is doing? And I guess Sjobs in a goner we'll never hear from again.

[Paulie97]

And your story begs the question whether there was a security box in the room, which I'm assuming there wasn't.

There was no need for a security box, most of which are hardly foolproof as hotel or apartment staff can get in them. It happened while he was taking a dump, so all he had to do was take his money with him to the bathroom, rolled up in his pants. That's what you do gentlemen, whether in a casa, a strip club, your own apartment or hotel, you name it. Take your money with you to the bathroom, especially if you are taking a dump! Wink.

[Paulie97]

2. Put your valuables out of the reach of temptation. My wallet with all the important stuff was where she couldn't get it.

Sounds good, but why leave your $ out in the living room with her access to it while you are in the bathroom taking a dump? You did the same thing years ago in a strip club, left your pants out in the room when you went to the bathroom, rather than rolling them up and taking them with you.

Here's a song for you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SXW-sL5gzHQ

[Knowledge]

I got 4056 yesterday from a Davivienda ATM, no complaints. The gotcha exchange rate offer is disappointing but I don't let it trip me up.

This is insane, and I wonder how much higher the exchange rate is going to go. Seems as though since the Federal Reserve has been raising the interest rates the exchange rate get's better and better.

Time to hit the ATM's!

[Surfer500]

I know what some of you are thinking. By normal rates she earned 400 k for TLN. By my thinking, which involves some benefits with non-pro, I was going to give her 600 k. She got less than she earned, I paid less than I expected and everyone walks away satisfied.

Here's the lessons:

1. Don't carry more than you're prepared to lose.

2. Put your valuables out of the reach of temptation. My wallet with all the important stuff was where she couldn't get it.

3. Don't leave a girl unattended in your room.

4. Know your risks. I knew she wouldn't drug me or do anything crazy. Losing face with her family was her biggest fear. All I was risking was 500 k. If you're in a secured building, your risks are reduced. If you have ways to identify the girl, your risks are reduced.

5. Overnight stays are for people who you have experience with.

This non-pro was lucky to have been with you, as other guys would not of been as magnanimous as you given her trying to steal from you and getting caught red handed. And your story begs the question whether there was a security box in the room, which I'm assuming there wasn't.

Unfortunately here in Colombia, versus other mongering venues in the world, you have to operate here as though every girl if given the chance, will try to rob you, and some are very very good at it as I have learned.

I remember once in Centro years ago I had put my pants on the night stand beside the bed which had my wallet in it, and when getting the blow job while laying down things seemed a bit odd as she made me stay flat on my back and didn't want me to sit up, and after the session, and paying her, I noticed I had like 50 K missing from my wallet.

At the time my Spanish was not good enough to engage her about this, so I did nothing, and just wrote it off.

Lesson learned from then on, when I'm in a Love motel, my pants are put in my backpack which I lock, and keep in sight at all times.

When I do overnighters, even with girls I've known awhile, I lock everything up because they might be in such dire situation, they might try to rob you even if you've know them for a long time.

You just can't ever let your guard down in Colombia, as the moment you do, something happens.

It sounds like you enjoyed the sex with this non-pro, so that's good, and you paid less than you planned on paying, so that's good as well, but as far as the drama, some guys might have let her walk with only cab fare.

Again, this girl was very lucky being with you.

[Osteoknot]

Game on.

I think it was Einstein who said something to the effect (I am very loosely paraphrasing), "If I can't trust you with the little things, how can you expect me to trust you with the big things"?

I don't understand the angle or why the nameless non-pro brought a prepago with her? Was that because they were already friends? What was the angle there?

Good illustrative story with some common pitfalls. Better ending than most. As the saying goes, "I'd rather be lucky than good".

I find it amusing that a lot of times even guys with some experience like you and me (hope you don't mind the lumping) will knowingly set ourselves up for trouble. Guilty as charged. Not exposing yourself to more than you can afford to lose is a good strategy, sounded to me like you were taking it further and baiting her.

One time I had a maid clean me out after I showed her where I hid my money. The amount was a tiny blip on my radar, but the information and lesson learned was valuable. I thought she was different and becoming a true friend and I wanted to see if I could trust her.

Silver lining to that story, that mishap ended up galvanizing the relationship I was having with the hotel manager, who is anxiously awaiting my return this Thursday. You may recall I have Managerette tagged as "the most conservative girl in Colombia" and to say our relationship is unique would be an understatement, as well as one of the biggest sexual turn-onsI have going for the time being.

I was supposed to go directly to Nymphette's hotel upon arrival Thu, but her most recent message to me yesterday was that she was going to have to pawn her phone and now she doesn't respond. She wasn't asking me for money, although I am sure she would've taken it. I set limits and her expectations for that weeks ago when I told I would not send her one peso until I saw her again, obviously code for P4P.

Don't know how this will play out but I have options. In my experience, nothing ever goes as planned in MDE. I am not disappointed, mainly curious if I am going to hear from her again.

Photos are all of Catgirl, my Numero Uno Novia. We've beaten the odds and been together for over two years now. Whatever happens from this point on is icing on the cake and I don't think either one of us is looking for the exit sign any time soon.

[Aureliano16]

Hey Medellin mongers,

In the Bogota community we have created this map http://colombiasexmap.com/ with all the Bogota massage parlors, houses, night clubs and streetwalkers we know.

I added support for Medellin as well but have added only 2 places so far. If you can help with information about more places to be added, that would be great! Please include prices and the date where you visited for the last time.

[DonMedellin]

Tuesday night, as I reported I met up with a non-pro I know and her friend, who happens to be her cousin. The night got cut short, with plans to get together Sunday.

Years back in Barcelona, I had a fun night in my hotel room with a blonde Colombian chica. She left my hotel room right before check-out time. As I was packing to also check out, I found out that my lose euros were stolen from the front pocket of my bag, 7 or 8 euros in coins and a 10 euro bill, not a big deal for me. Then just as I was about to head down to reception to turn my key card in, I discovered that she had left her tiny bag hanging on the bathroom door, behind a towel that she used. She must forgot that she left her spare bag there and covered it with a towel herself, well LOL. She also left 35 euros in that bag. So I took the money and left the bag there.

So basically I lost about 17 or18 euros, but found 35. If she did not steal my money, I would have turned the bag to the hotel reception with her money in it. I am not sure if she had the courage to return for her bag after stealing my money. At the end, her money made up what she stole from me, and a little discount for her service.

[JjBee62]

Tuesday night, as I reported I met up with a non-pro I know and her friend, who happens to be her cousin. The night got cut short, with plans to get together Sunday.

Last night I went to Provenza for dinner and sent a photo to non-pro and cousin. Non-pro was busy, but cousin wanted to come meet with me. All good. I have been hoping for a shot at cousin ever since non-pro sent me a video of them both several months ago. I sipped a couple of beers while I waited.

When she finally arrived she was with a friend, who was clearly a prepago and that simplified things. If she showed up alone, it could have been a friend thing, but showing up with a hooker in tow told me this was a P4 P date. During the evening she told me that non-pro had said I might be willing to help her get a new phone. I told her it's possible, reached around and squeezed her tit and smiled and repeated "es posible. " Game on.

We left about 12:30 and the pro was still tagging along. I told cousin it was just me and her. Pro had a decent body, a bit skinny for my taste, but looked worth a try. However, her face didn't do it for me. When I got an Uber, pro climbed in with us, so I explained again that she wasn't included.

I added a stop after my apartment to take the pro home, which was when the Uber driver got shitty. He passed the apartment by 2 blocks and refused to take the girl home. We got out and walked downhill in the rain, after I shared my thoughts on the subject with the driver. Once there I used InDriver to send the pro home.

Now some background. On Tuesday, I was driving and when we left the parking garage I put the change in the cupholder at the back of the console, 12-13 k. Not long after, I checked and the money was gone. It had to be cousin, so I knew she would steal from me if given the chance. I gave her the chance.

The sex was good. BBBJ and could have been BBFS, but I'm not doing that. Normally, I wouldn't let a new girl spend the night, but since I'm friends with her non-pro cousin, I knew the worst she would do is steal some money. Which she did.

I noticed she had been in my pocket (where I deliberately left the money) when I came back from cleaning up. Later on, while I was taking a dump, I heard her moving around and when I came out, it was obvious that she had been back in the pocket. No problem. What was in the pocket was less than I had planned to give her.

When I woke up this morning I checked to see how much she had taken, only 250 k and I had planned on being generous and giving her 600 k (only had 500 k, planned on an ATM visit when taking her home). Besides the fact that money was obviously missing, she had put the money back in the wrong pocket and grabbed the loose bills that weren't in the stack.

After making a big production of "noticing" the missing money she started coming up with places where I might have lost it. I explained. I explained the cupholder incident and told her that only 2 people could have the missing money and I didn't have it. She went through the motions of going through her purse, showing she didn't have my money. Repeated the process "look the money isn't in my purse. " So I grabbed her jacket and guess what I found in her pocket.

No anger, no yelling, none of that. After a few moments of eye contact she broke down and started crying. I took the money, added another 100 k and told her take it. She refused. Lots of tears, but she wouldn't take the money. After giving her a 30 minute lesson on human behavior and informing her that I knew when she arrived that she would try to take the money, I convinced her to take the money and took her home.

I know what some of you are thinking. By normal rates she earned 400 k for TLN. By my thinking, which involves some benefits with non-pro, I was going to give her 600 k. She got less than she earned, I paid less than I expected and everyone walks away satisfied.

Here's the lessons:

1. Don't carry more than you're prepared to lose.

2. Put your valuables out of the reach of temptation. My wallet with all the important stuff was where she couldn't get it.

3. Don't leave a girl unattended in your room.

4. Know your risks. I knew she wouldn't drug me or do anything crazy. Losing face with her family was her biggest fear. All I was risking was 500 k. If you're in a secured building, your risks are reduced. If you have ways to identify the girl, your risks are reduced.

5. Overnight stays are for people who you have experience with.

[Osteoknot]

Three months is a long time to be buttering you up. I think she deserved a little cash.

Mongers will say they pay a chica for this service, or to get off, or that fantasy, or that kink, or that hole. The common denominator is you are paying for their time. Sometimes you have to pay extra for special requests, but even if you sit there and recite poetry while you give her a foot massage, you owe her for her time. And of course, taxi, as always, jajaja.

I have an acquaintance and he will try to make a point to the girl after the session about how much pleasure he gave her. I tell him he is being a weasel and that's ridiculous. First, she could be faking all those orgasms. Second, you are paying for her time, not for how good you think you can make her feel. Let's assume for a moment you did bring her some pleasure. So what? That's her equivalent of a good day at the office and nothing more. You don't get a discount for patting yourself on the back about how good you licked her pussy.

There might be a little adjustment depending on the amount of physical work she had to do, but I usually settle that up front by telling the chica something like, "I'm going to pay you 120, but I promise you're not going to have to work hard" if I'm in the mood where any passive wet hole will do.

Sometimes I will be specific about what I am going to do to their bodies to frame the price. For example, imagine the work a girl does who spends an hour flat on her stomach looking at her cell phone while I fuck her pussy from behind. Not so much.

Compare that to her back propped up against the headboard, spread eagle, holding her legs up in the air, while I run laps on her three holes with my cock. The second girl will have to work a lot harder, and probably deserves to be paid more, maybe just in tip, but they both deserve to be paid for the hour, their time, equally IMO.

In the end, you pay for their time spent in your company. Even for poor service, which is very rare, I think I have always paid the agreed upon price. No tip, and I don't see the girl again, but I don't try to right the wrong in real time by withholding payment. That's your call but I would advise against pissing these girls off. Better to just move on and keep everything as smooth as possible. Ostee Out.

[Above Average]

Thanks for all the advice guys. I've renewed my subscription so I can do PMs now.

However I find the flight to Medellin to be brutal and I'm always jetlagged for the first day or two of vacation and looking for something simple. What are the most upscale casas, aside from Loutron?

[Chicago85]

When you talk about having fun, depending on the context, the reader might guess it is sexual. In English. But not necessarily in another language.

I speak quite a bit of Spanish, and in translating ideas like that I have learned to opt for the most explicit way of saying things, because the ways we use language to "imply" things usually does not translate. I really don't know how a Colombian would interpret your comment. Perhaps they think you want to go to an amusement park. I don't really know. But if you ask about having fun with their body they probably would get the picture.

Agree with this. If you know the girl is P4P, you can straight up ask if you're able to schedule a cita (meeting) with them. From their response you can feel out if it's better for them to offer an amount or you. If the girl is what I'd call a 'soft pull girl'. Or in other words she does sleep with some guys for pay (gifts in her mind), but only if attracted and for the right price. Then I would just strongly hint at that you're looking for someone to spend your evenings with and ask when the two of you can meet. If she's game she'll likely ask where you're staying and then you can decide if you want to do dinner, drinks close by, or straight to the room. If the girl is a total non-pro, then the barrier is going to be high, and damn near impossible unless you speak Spanish and/or know some of her friends. For these girls / women you usually need to do more thoughtful and romantic things, sell them on the lifestyle, etc... I've dated 6 or 7 regular women in Colombia (models, a lawyer, a dentist, couple business / marketing managers) and you need to up your game with the experiences, but they are extremely feminine and do follow the man's lead.

Keep in mind that if a girl is taking the time to actually respond to you she's halfway interested. At least in your photos, travel, perceived lifestyle. Hopefully you don't have a bunch of fake pics in your profile b/ c that is one thing that throws up the girls BS meter.

My 2-3 cents

[JjBee62]

When you talk about having fun, depending on the context, the reader might guess it is sexual. In English. But not necessarily in another language.

I speak quite a bit of Spanish, and in translating ideas like that I have learned to opt for the most explicit way of saying things, because the ways we use language to "imply" things usually does not translate. I really don't know how a Colombian would interpret your comment. Perhaps they think you want to go to an amusement park. I don't really know. But if you ask about having fun with their body they probably would get the picture.

I think I've done this about 10 times.

You say Hello,. You ask how they are. You tell them you're going to be in Medellin soon. Then you say either:

1. Quiero conocerte. I want to get to know you.

2. Quiero verte. I want to see you.

3. Nos vemos? - Are we going to see each other?

There are plenty of other options.

[Osteoknot]

Well you could go paragliding I suppose.

That shoot you from ground level straight up. Looks like you pull a few G's. Somewhere in MDE. Looked like fun. One of these days when I catch up with her I will get her to take me there. On her moto. That I bought her. Jajajajajajajaja I have a nice shiny new Dell laptop for her this trip. Probably I'll just leave it at the hotel reception desk for her to pick up, heaven forbid we actually see each other. I know. I'll tell her I bought a bigger dildo for her to peg me with. Then she'll come running, jajajaja, I love it.

Random gratuitous pussy parade fotos that I took and my fingers are in all of the shots, except for one, jaja.

[Zeos1]

So I've been trying to FB route and I'm finally getting some good candidates on my friends list. However I seem to be hitting a wall with my conversations. I'm try to ask them what would be fun to do in Medellin but I think I'm using a poorly translated message:

"Estoy visitando Medellin la prxima semana. Qu es divertido hacer en Medellin?

Does anybody have better suggestions?

When you talk about having fun, depending on the context, the reader might guess it is sexual. In English. But not necessarily in another language.

I speak quite a bit of Spanish, and in translating ideas like that I have learned to opt for the most explicit way of saying things, because the ways we use language to "imply" things usually does not translate. I really don't know how a Colombian would interpret your comment. Perhaps they think you want to go to an amusement park. I don't really know. But if you ask about having fun with their body they probably would get the picture.