Medellin Reports

[Mr Enternational]

I'm assuming you mean Medellin, not the International Sex Guide which is for men who pay for sex. ?

That is maybe partially correct.

"What is the purpose of this Forum?

The purpose of this Forum is to facilitate the exchange of information between men who are looking for sex with women. ".

[GeneHickman]

I don't set policy. Whether a policy makes perfect sense, or is batshit crazy doesn't matter, from the standpoint of being stuck in quarantine in another country. It might be a stupid rule, but it doesn't change how it affects you if you test positive.

This fits in well with a broader subject. It does no good to complain about things you can't change. Almost everything that guys complain about on this thread falls into the "you can't change it" category.

It's more effective and productive to figure out how to work with the problems.

Point taken. But it might also offer insight to those with a big gubberment proclivity why so many folks have such low trust in their actions. It's not illogical.

That aside, knowing these rules also offers one the ability to best work around them legally. If I take a couple of home test kits with me, and test positive, then do the right thing and extend my stay in a hotel room in isolation by a few days and self quarantine and then on the 5th day, I am asymptomatic and test negative, I can board the plane with an n-95 and negative test and I have broken no rules nor harmed anyone. I have also saved 5-9 days of wasteful time stuck due to idiotic policy. That's not such an outlandish outcome for a younger healthier person who is double vaxed and boosted.

The 10 or 14 days is arbitrary, and discriminatory and against international travel and currently achieving no purpose other than hurting the battered tourism and hospitality industry.

[Kafka]

I'm assuming you mean Medellin, not the International Sex Guide which is for men who pay for sex. ? As far as being a good looking guy back home I don't think that has to do with anything. I see plenty of beautiful women here who go out with average looking men.

Most guys here are looking for a girlfriend. Most can't get a decent woman to even acknowledge them consistently if at all back where they live. So the first slightly above average (let's face it Most girls around are not smoke shows you see on front page magazines) woman that gives them a little bit of affection they end up falling for. My source: the long line of girls picking up western union checks among other things. Some are here for straight sex. Some low key east to live out the fantasy they wished they lived back when they were younger and none of the attractive girls their age gave them any action.

[JjBee62]

We are all taking a lot of risks by talking to random people on facebook / the internet and having sex pro or nonpro. If you don't want to risk getting drugged, robbed, scammed, getting an std or getting your feelings hurt, stay home and jerk off. I've tried to be as honest as possible with all these girls I've told them what I am looking for in our interactions. I also try to be careful about hiding stuff that's valuable, guarding my drink and staying in places with security etc. These are all things other members talk about to mitigate risk.

Bad shit does happen but a lot of other mongers here and visitors have developed longer term nontraditional relations with girls (I. E. Slapshot, osteonot, tallman etc). My impression is that with time it's not that hard to develop those friendships and relationships. The ultimate outcome all depends a mix of luck, our own interpersonal skills, ability to detect BS, and no dar papaya. Of course there is also usually a price to pay for nonpros in dates, baby sitters, taxis, trips and beyond. That said I'll stop talking to A or any girl the minute they start asking me for money when I'm back home.

No matter what you do, or how you do it, someone is going to tell you you're doing it wrong. You could be bedding supermodels for the price of a taxi and someone will have a problem with it.

It sounds like you're enjoying yourself. If what you're doing is working for you, keep doing it.

[JjBee62]

Most guys here are looking for a girlfriend. Most can't get a decent woman to even acknowledge them consistently if at all back where they live. So the first slightly above average (let's face it Most girls around are not smoke shows you see on front page magazines) woman that gives them a little bit of affection they end up falling for. My source: the long line of girls picking up western union checks among other things. Some are here for straight sex. Some low key east to live out the fantasy they wished they lived back when they were younger and none of the attractive girls their age gave them any action.

Most guys here probably aren't looking for a girlfriend, at least those who post. It's pretty obvious. Anyone, without ever leaving their home, can find a girlfriend in Medellin in less than 1 hour. Certainly anyone who has more than 1 visit to Medellin has plenty of women who would be thrilled to hop into the novia role.

Whether they can get a woman back home doesn't matter. Whether they were balling the head cheerleader in school, or didn't get laid until they were 35 doesn't matter. What matters, at least on this thread, is can they find what they are looking for in Medellin?

Telling everyone they are failures, if they go to Medellin to get laid (especially if you go to Medellin to get laid) doesn't help anyone.

[Elvis 2008]

I just tested positive for covid and my flight to BOG was this Saturday. Had to cancel, luckily AA easily allowed me to reschedule. Had to cancel a flight to Ecuador with avianca. That's another story.

Is the quarantine 10 days or 14 now?

[BigButtDetecto]

I don't set policy. Whether a policy makes perfect sense, or is batshit crazy doesn't matter, from the standpoint of being stuck in quarantine in another country. It might be a stupid rule, but it doesn't change how it affects you if you test positive.

This fits in well with a broader subject. It does no good to complain about things you can't change. Almost everything that guys complain about on this thread falls into the "you can't change it" category.

It's more effective and productive to figure out how to work with the problems.

I just tested positive for covid and my flight to BOG was this Saturday. Had to cancel, luckily AA easily allowed me to reschedule. Had to cancel a flight to Ecuador with avianca. That's another story.

[Mojo Bandit]

Are you sure that one is a girl? Looks questionable to me.

You make a good point: but for the record I did say "not my type" LOL. Judging from other photos of this person if you put a gun to my head I would guess it was a female. I even felt like that was her worst photo but since the point of the photo was to draw attention to the location where the photo was taken I didn't think to post other photos of the chica. But like I said she is not my type and you would have to put a gun to my head to make me swear it was a female LOL

[Recondite]

We are all taking a lot of risks by talking to random people on facebook / the internet and having sex pro or nonpro. If you don't want to risk getting drugged, robbed, scammed, getting an std or getting your feelings hurt, stay home and jerk off. I've tried to be as honest as possible with all these girls I've told them what I am looking for in our interactions. I also try to be careful about hiding stuff that's valuable, guarding my drink and staying in places with security etc. These are all things other members talk about to mitigate risk.

Bad shit does happen but a lot of other mongers here and visitors have developed longer term nontraditional relations with girls (I. E. Slapshot, osteonot, tallman etc). My impression is that with time it's not that hard to develop those friendships and relationships. The ultimate outcome all depends a mix of luck, our own interpersonal skills, ability to detect BS, and no dar papaya. Of course there is also usually a price to pay for nonpros in dates, baby sitters, taxis, trips and beyond. That said I'll stop talking to A or any girl the minute they start asking me for money when I'm back home.

They're fucking you too exhaustion because they're looking for the big payout once they find that they're not going to get it they will truly fuck
Because the truth is you really have no long-term interest in these girls you just using them....

I'm sure you've told him exactly who you are gave them your phone number and all the rest.... I wouldn't want to get on the bad side of a girl down in Colombia. And if you think just because you don't pay them that they're not going to drug you later on .....

[PunkedLife]

When demand got high she had to raise prices in her mind. But there are probably lurkers on here that already booked and agreed to the price.

Yah the demand must be super high. If she raises her price because she got plenty of s1 mps paying that then all the power to her. I just find it real ironic she called me dirty because I fuck girls for 200 k when she used to be one of those girls. She has a bad attitude whether that has changed from how she was before or maybe that's how she has always been. Good luck to any guy thinking they are going to actually get that same type of service the guy who posted that review got. Hope y'all hey what you paid for. I would hate to pay 500 mil with every girl then regret the experience. Her response to that was she don't care. The whole exchange with her was not appealing in the slightest to make someone want to meet her let alone actually spend that type of dough on her regardless of how much money you have. At least if you have some principle. Way too many options out here. Take the time and build up a rotation of quality girls then have them introduce you to their friends. Rinse and repeat. No need to get on a plane and fly to another country to deal with the same entitled BS you get back in the west.

[PunkedLife]

this is a site for mongers. It's not a dating site..... Most people on this site are seeking arrangement or tender or looking for hookers not girlfriends

Most guys here are looking for a girlfriend. Most can't get a decent woman to even acknowledge them consistently if at all back where they live. So the first slightly above average (let's face it Most girls around are not smoke shows you see on front page magazines) woman that gives them a little bit of affection they end up falling for. My source: the long line of girls picking up western union checks among other things. Some are here for straight sex. Some low key east to live out the fantasy they wished they lived back when they were younger and none of the attractive girls their age gave them any action.

[LuvStJohn]

What are these websites in Thailand that you are mentioning about that are free?

Two of the larger ones are https://www.sidelinethailand.com/ and https://www.fiwfans.com/.

Used by real sideliners and pros alike.

[Recondite]

They were bugging her about shit she didn't do before we left and about childcare stuff more than being with me per se. I think her family is fine with her work and the surgeries due to the income stream for them. From what she told me she helps support her dad from the camming. Seems like a typical story for women from poorer families involved in different types of sex work globally. I'm under no illusions she's a princess or a potential wife.

So her family made drama about her going to Cartagena with you, but did not make drama about her fucking her body up or however she is getting the money to fuck her body up? Unless they figure regular jobs are paying enough now-a-days for all of these surgeries.

[Mr Enternational]

In terms of A, she's not a pro. She has implants as per Turgid's question and is about to do some more surgery (abdominal to gluteal fat transplant). Her family made a lot of drama around her going to Cartagena with me,

So her family made drama about her going to Cartagena with you, but did not make drama about her fucking her body up or however she is getting the money to fuck her body up? Unless they figure regular jobs are paying enough now-a-days for all of these surgeries.

[Kafka]

They're fucking you too exhaustion because they're looking for the big payout once they find that they're not going to get it they will truly fuck
Because the truth is you really have no long-term interest in these girls you just using them....

I'm sure you've told him exactly who you are gave them your phone number and all the rest.... I wouldn't want to get on the bad side of a girl down in Colombia. And if you think just because you don't pay them that they're not going to drug you later on .....

Since I last
reported I've spent a lot of my time with A including a weekend trip to Cartagena. I've also seen a girl I met last trip from New Life and one more pro from Facebook.

In terms of A, she's not a pro. She has implants as per Turgid's question and is about to do some more surgery (abdominal to gluteal fat transplant). I've paid taxis and paid our expenses in Cartagena but she never asked and I never offered her anything for her time. So I'm not sharing any info on her. She is in the camming world and you might be able to find her there. On balance she's been a lot of fun and the sex is great but as with any girlfriend you have ups and downs. Her family made a lot of drama around her going to Cartagena with me, which upset her at times. So it wasn't all fucking and rainbows. She did lots of little things like shaving me and folding / ironing clothes that were nice signs of affection.

The other issue that you have to deal with with the semi / nonpros that I'd mention is getting them to leave / dealing with more drama. This was the case with the 2nd girl I saw V. She was messaging me nonstop after I saw her and upset when I didn't answer. I had to finally tell her to leave me alone, which is never fun for me at least.

Beyond that, I ended up seeing the girl from New Life on Thursday. I took her out to lunch and had some drinks with her but didn't do anything. She'd gained weight over the pandemic and I was exhausted from staying up all night with A. We talked a bunch on whatsapp since my last trip and I consider her a friend so I had no issues with that.

On Friday I saw my only pro of the trip so far Sara. I'll leave some more details for those of you in the know so you can find her. She's a spinner type, lighter skin with her bangs dyed blonde and she has a picture of a sparkly dress. I'd recommend her as far as pros go. She came over for about 3 hours for 200 k. Had sex with her once for around 20 minutes and she did oral uncovered well, 69 and we had covered sex in multiple positions. She seemed to get into it and told me she enjoyed afterwards. We hung out for the rest of the time had some drinks and talked. She's a cool girl and was fun to talk to. Also hinted to me that she'd be willing to hang out (possibly free) in the future.

That being said, for me at least there is no comparison between the pro and the semi / nonpro experience. The sex is just more passionate (taking into consideration past experience too). Both A and the first girl I saw see fucked me to exhaustion and kept coming back for more. It's harder to find that with a true pro or you need to pay more beforehand. I hinted about a second round to Sara, for example, but she didn't take the bait.