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10-01-08 18:19 #1195
Posts: 3852Originally Posted by Elberto
I agree but usually the girl suggests miraflores for obvious reasons. I doubt I could live in the vicinity of parque kennedy. I wouldn't want to see backpackers everyday nor would I want to get too well known. I had the same experience in the east village of new york and I felt I was living in a dorm not an apartment building.
I would consider larcomar (with an ocean view) somewhere off la costa verde for quick access to the bike route. Maybe san isidro san miguel or magdalena.
What area of lima do you live in and are you in a strategic location if you need to get somewhere ? I also like lince around the javier prado area nearing san isidro.
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10-01-08 17:00 #1194
Posts: 227Originally Posted by Artisttyp
Once the spy networks are established you will have less and less fun and soon you'll find yourself moving out into the sticks like I had to.
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10-01-08 14:14 #1193
Posts: 244Originally Posted by Lima Busy
Are they dating now?
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10-01-08 03:05 #1192
Posts: 1502little suggestion
Artisttyp,
I appreciate your desire in sharing.
However, as these pics are a little piece of your private life, just keep them for you.
I am a gentleman.
Many others contributing to this thread are such.
BUT many are NOT ...
Originally Posted by Artisttyp
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09-30-08 05:26 #1191
Posts: 3852Originally Posted by Lima Busy
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09-30-08 02:58 #1190
Posts: 1233Originally Posted by Artisttyp
I understand where you are coming from and most of us living here felt the same way. As many have said there are a lot of better cities to live but none of them have the “Lima Vibe”! I have many buddies who travel around the world at will and always come back to Lima. If I did not know better, I would say there was something in the water.....err, scratch that thought as there are many things in water!
In the “bar scene” you will run into that problem if you frequent the same places night in and night out.
Example (Ian & Butch) and eventually you get ostracized. In the online world there are many more women from all over Lima and it is less of a problem (most of the time). On occasion you will be sitting at a table in Z on your first date and you will hear snickering from the corner table (sometime the women are playaz as well)! These are the same one's who do not show up for dates/bring an entourage when they do etc.etc.
The general rule is never bring an online date to the places you normally frequent and it is better to hang with her outside of MF unless you are in your apartment. Which adresses your next point.
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09-29-08 22:43 #1189
Posts: 3852Originally Posted by Polvo
The point I want to make is moving somewhere like lima would be a new beginning ..a new chance at life so to speak. I am asking myself would it be wise to think I can come down there to live going through girl after girl without a long term relationship ? At some point wouldn't I get pegged as "one of those" and then very few girls will want to date you.
I know one thing for sure. If I lived in miraflores and took my girls out for lunch at the same places sooner or later it would come back to haunt me. I already got a taste of that on this trip.
Also people in peru are very kind. I would want to get along with the local people and not have them think I am living there just to use their women.
These are all things to think about. No I don't want kids ..so why get married..etc. etc.
Also will I get killed riding my bike on the costa verde??
I have alot to think about and I need to return to lima more often...time will tell.
* Another thing I would like to know is what do you tell one of these lima girls when you start a relationship (of whatever kind) with them ? You must know they are all looking for a serious thing. Do you find most girls in lima would be satisfied with a non long term situation if it improved their current situation..... if only for awhile?
Then how much "bad blood" would you cause to yourself by all these short term flings. I believe you when you say 100 soles can get you whacked. I've done alot more for alot less in lima.
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09-29-08 22:11 #1188
Posts: 679Chop, Chop, Lorena!
Artisttyp:
David33's choice of reading material is always entertaining. In this case there is a phrase in the book: "If it flies, floats or fucks, you are better off renting it. "
I would endorse that when it comes to Lima.
Originally Posted by David_33
And if you stray never, ever, publisize it!! Or you will wake up and find your dick on the pillow. (Anecdotal.)
Remember its only S/.100 to get some punk to machete your ass! (Proven.)
Suerte!
Polvo
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09-29-08 21:14 #1187
Posts: 3074The major newspaper by far in Peru is called El Comercio. Yesterday´s Sunday paper omitted the "relax" section of the want ads. This has been one of the best sources for chica ads for years, comprising three or so pages. It will be a great loss if this is permanent.
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09-29-08 20:07 #1186
Posts: 3074Suggest you go here: www.nomarriage.com
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09-29-08 20:00 #1185
Posts: 3852Originally Posted by David_33
This is a good response thank you. I guess deep down yes I would like to establish a formal relationship but I question whether I would be able to do so.
I am turning 39 next month(applause) and I have a newfound respect for time. I'd like to think I can make the most of it. I am one of these guys who shouldn't get married..at least that is what people close to me tell me but I don't know if I am cheating myself by not doing it. Sooner or later looks fade you get older and you crave intimacy more than sex.
I don't have alot of experience in the realationship department. Usually they are just one night stands or pfp. This is all very knew to me. I guess there are many different types of realationships/situations to be had.
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09-29-08 19:53 #1184
Posts: 1233Good stuff!
David and Art,
You guys are posting interesting stuff and I would like to comment and answer my PM's as well, unfortunately I am bogged down with work and trying to solve the current crisis for myself and my clients! Be back soon.
suerte,
LB
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09-29-08 16:24 #1183
Posts: 3074Artisttyp,
If your idea is to have a girl friend, then you will be expected to pretty much hang out with just her. You will also be monitered. Are you worried about not being accepted into Peruvian society because you are seen hanging out with more than one girl? Doesn´t matter, you will never be accepted no matter how you behave.
Basically the saying: "ojos que no ven, corazon que no siente", is the way things work here. Lima is very hipocritical. Every gerente I ever worked with had an amante on the side. But it isn´t talked about. They take the girls to places where they don´t take the wife. Every now and again the amante gets sick of being a "second class citizen" and starts making calls to the wife. Then the shit hits the fan. Anyway, IMHO the best thing to do is butterfly. But that´s just me. I have no desire for a deep LTR with a girl. I imagine that you do.
Cynthia is a cutie.
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09-29-08 16:17 #1182
Posts: 3852Pics
I usually don't publish pics but I think it is only correct this time around. Please be gentlemen and if you see or run across these girls do the right thing and say/do nothing.
These pics are a little piece of my private life. Please treat them as such.
Thanks,
Artisttyp
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09-29-08 13:16 #1181
Posts: 3852Originally Posted by David_33
Would you care to touch on the subject about being hitched "not single" in lima. Does that change the perspective on lima ? Do you need to stay single to really enjoy it and will it all come down on you if you screw around too much?
I got the feeling that you are treading a fine line when you screw around too much. I notice other people take notice and place you in a category...tourista preying on low income chicas=lack of respect from locals?
Lima Busy- How do you do it? Your wife is very pretty but do you stray and how often?