General Info

[Mr Enternational]

I am actually heading to Sosua with some friends and family for a non monger vacation so my plan when they leave on Sunday, I will stay behind for a few days.

I am trying to decide between staying in Sosua or going to Blackbeards.

Well you will already have experienced Sosua (except for maybe taking a girl; but you will definitely be familiar with the scene), so why not go check out BB when your peeps leave?

[Yanqui69]

Hello!

I am brand new to this board and I have spent hours reading all the wonderful info trying to get prepared for a trip this February. I've been to Havana and had some fun there before.

I am actually heading to Sosua with some friends and family for a non monger vacation so my plan when they leave on Sunday, I will stay behind for a few days.

I am trying to decide between staying in Sosua or going to Blackbeards.

I am an early morning riser, usually in bed by midnight, so I am not interested in the late night partying that one can do in Sosua and not at BB. I speak a little Spanish, but I am not fluent.

I am hoping by telling you guys what I am looking for, you can help me decide between Sosua or BB.

I enjoy a lot of different body types, what I am looking for is more GFE type sessions, lots of DFK, BBBJ with CIM.

Just wondering, am I better off at Blackbeards or in Sosua? Or am I being realistic thinking I'll find that at either?

Of course ill post a full trip report when I get back!

This is an old, familiar situation. You may hear arguments for both, but, in the end, depends on your taste.

For someone new to the DR with just a few days, I recommend BB for the following reasons.

BB has a controlled atmosphere, with no scammers, druggies, drama queens. If there is a problem or dispute, you can report it to the management for resolution.

The place is very convenient for those with little time to troll the streets. Point, click, one minute walk to your room, versus trolling bars or streets, finding a girl, then a longer walk back to your hotel. With a restaurant and bar on-site, if you are so inclined, you don't even have to leave the compound, but there is a nice beach and few restaurants just a few minutes walk away. A five minute walk from the hotel is Jenny's (a small grocery, you pass it on your way to the hotel). Good place to change money, buy bottled water, etc. Across the street is a farmacia where you can get Dominican Cialis (La Pela or Mambo).

The BB girls get monthly medical checks for STDs.

In Sosua, you might be able to negotiate a girl down for a few dollars less, but there is no quality control. If there is a problem, you are on your own.

Many prefer Sosua as a place to show their "game" but for a new guy, with limited time, BB is a good introduction to the DR.

[CuriousFun]

Hello!

I am brand new to this board and I have spent hours reading all the wonderful info trying to get prepared for a trip this February. I've been to Havana and had some fun there before.

I am actually heading to Sosua with some friends and family for a non monger vacation so my plan when they leave on Sunday, I will stay behind for a few days.

I am trying to decide between staying in Sosua or going to Blackbeards.

I am an early morning riser, usually in bed by midnight, so I am not interested in the late night partying that one can do in Sosua and not at BB. I speak a little Spanish, but I am not fluent.

I am hoping by telling you guys what I am looking for, you can help me decide between Sosua or BB.

I enjoy a lot of different body types, what I am looking for is more GFE type sessions, lots of DFK, BBBJ with CIM.

Just wondering, am I better off at Blackbeards or in Sosua? Or am I being realistic thinking I'll find that at either?

Of course ill post a full trip report when I get back!

[Charles Pooter]

Latest forecasts are for rain Thursday 7th Sept and Friday 8th September.

Latest indications are that the North Coast will suffer a tropical storm on Thursday. Heavy rain all day, so that means flooding in the usual areas affected. This is a fast-moving storm so the weather will clear up by Friday, but the flooding is likely to remain throughout Friday.

It is extremely unlikely that Irma will hit the North Coast as a fully-fledged hurricane but only a small turn southwards would achieve this. However that has not happened for the past 100+ years. What will come is bad enough for tens of thousands of people in affected areas.

Stock up with food, water, beer and chicas for Thursday because no-one will be going out. Prepare for power blackouts and cut communications.

[MyCount4]

Hi,

I have been corresponding with DR Mermaids I can bring a "friend" onto the resort. Did you manage to obtain more information on these guys?

If not who did you settle on and how was it?

https://drmermaids.com/our-packages/.

[MongerHunger]

Does anyone have recent info on La Romana?

[Oakie]

I'm not exactly sure but it is possible you missed the point I was trying to make. I used "game" as an analogy to help illustrate that success can be difficult to apprehend if you do not understand there are general principles to be successful.

In your response you shared basic principles that if a person knows, understands and practices they can have a greater potential for success. Perhaps you misunderstood my purpose in using the game analogy it was exactly that an analogy.

I think there's a basic human compact between people in business and personal life. Fair value given for fair value received. Only you can determine what is fair value given. Not some other guy!

Say you make a mental list of the thing you need from another person or their business, in order of importance to you.

From my car mechanic, honesty, competence and affordability would be on top of my list. Friendliness, sense of humor, attractiveness, religion, culture not at all. Same with a taxi driver. You apply this approach when you buy a car. You can't afford all the extras but some (smokers) must have a sun roof, others a rear view camera etc.

With women there are the hotties who dress like tarted up hoes, but turn you on, and get you off. But you may not be able to take them home to momma, or your grown kids, or your friends LOL.

Then there are the ones you might want to share a big part of your life with. That's where honesty, loyalty, hygiene, intelligence, sense of humor ablility to cook and clean suddenly become important. Sex is still there, but no longer at the very top of the list. Not good if you come home and she's sitting there in her disco outfit waiting to be fed!

The woman may not realize it, but she is also working on her list, financial security, permanence, and she may also be willing to give up her preference for a young guy with a big dick! .

Put aside the passion, lust or love, and think in common sense terms. The success of any relationship business or personal, in my humble opinion, comes from cross checking each other's list (doesn't have to be written down and waved around you critics) and matching her most wanted things with your most wanted things and the higher the score on that, the better chance of it lasting.

It will never be perfect, no relationship will ever be, but if you can compromise on the things that are not most important to you, you can make it work.

Don't EVER compromise on the stuff at the top of your list!

I got some of this stuff from women, so use at your own risk! .

But It works for me!

[Camaro1257]

Strangely, gente or 'people,' while a plural noun in English, is a singular noun in Spanish. So it is 'toda la gente no es igual. ' If saying 'la gente es' sounds as bad to your ear as it does to mine, you could say todas las personas no son iguales.

You are right, thanks.

[Dickhead]

Todas la gente no son iguales

Strangely, gente or 'people,' while a plural noun in English, is a singular noun in Spanish. So it is 'toda la gente no es igual. ' If saying 'la gente es' sounds as bad to your ear as it does to mine, you could say todas las personas no son iguales.

[Camaro1257]

There's your problem!

I think if your premise is to play games, you are always at risk up against a better or more unscrupulous game player (or even their handlers), just like if your whole game is based on tough attitude, I've seen even bikers begging for mercy when they pick on the wrong guy!

My attitude in successful business is to to treat everything as a business transaction (why consider P4 P anytrhing else?

Your money is good, so how is their service?

You should always get value in kind for your hard earned money.

If it's a relationship, you need certain things in return for your committment, If you don't get that, don't whine about it, move on!

Be yourself!

Somewhere there is someone who thinks like you do, and all of a sudden, it's common sense! Your 5 basic needs, trust, hygiene, loyalty, sex. fun, cooking, cleaning, whatever, are met.

You're in love!

(or think you are).

Go for it!

I'm not exactly sure but it is possible you missed the point I was trying to make. I used "game" as an analogy to help illustrate that success can be difficult to apprehend if you do not understand there are general principles to be successful.

In your response you shared basic principles that if a person knows, understands and practices they can have a greater potential for success. Perhaps you misunderstood my purpose in using the game analogy it was exactly that an analogy.

[Oakie]

Personal Anecdote.

Once again I am going to state the obious to many, the difference is I am going to put the obvious in my own words. It has occured to me that living in the Dominican Republic and dealing with the women here (and people in general) is like playing a game. Pick your favorite game, whether it be the board game of chess or the Spades card game the fundemental principles are the same. There are two things you need if you are going to win consistantly at any game. First you need to know the rules of the game, second you need to have skill at playing the game, especially when your advesary knows the rules and has skills at the game you are playing.

Men come to the Dominican Republic for different reasons and at different stages of their lives, therefore they have different experiences. The prinicple of understanding the game is still relavent regardless as to your status.

In this game of living in the Dominican Republic it is imperative to understand the culture and how Dominican people think of and percieve extranjeros. Generally, you are either appreciated or resented because it is percieved that you can add some value to their lives indivdually, or the lives of those they care about. Of course their are exceptions to every rule but generally Dominicans will treat extranjeros differentlly than they treat other Dominicans. This can have positive or negative results depending on the individuals involved in the situation.

I reject the notion that all Dominicans are this and all Dominicans are that simply because my experiences have been different with different Dominicans. Todas la gente no son iguales. However, one thing remains the same, Dominican people percieve the extranjero differently then they percieve themselves.

Many a man has come to the Dominican Republic and given his heart, money or material things to a Dominican woman only to discover because he did not understand the rules to the game he could not play it with skill, therefore he lost. This does not mean that we cannot have feelings for Dominican women nor does it mean that we cannot be generous how we see fit; what it does mean is we should try to avoid loosing touch of how we are percieved and perhaps we will not loose as often as many who have gone before us.

Personally I am trying to have success at this game by developing tactics and strategies based on how Dominicans percieve me while still being open for the occasional Dominican who is different from the others.

There's your problem!

I think if your premise is to play games, you are always at risk up against a better or more unscrupulous game player (or even their handlers), just like if your whole game is based on tough attitude, I've seen even bikers begging for mercy when they pick on the wrong guy!

My attitude in successful business is to to treat everything as a business transaction (why consider P4 P anytrhing else?

Your money is good, so how is their service?

You should always get value in kind for your hard earned money.

If it's a relationship, you need certain things in return for your committment, If you don't get that, don't whine about it, move on!

Be yourself!

Somewhere there is someone who thinks like you do, and all of a sudden, it's common sense! Your 5 basic needs, trust, hygiene, loyalty, sex. fun, cooking, cleaning, whatever, are met.

You're in love!

(or think you are).

Go for it!

[Charles Pooter]

I hope that remains true! I am supposed to fly back home on Friday the 9th.

I may try to change the plane to eav on Wednesday instead.

Latest forecasts are for rain Thursday 7th Sept and Friday 8th September. But it is only rain, not a hurricane which you were worried about. Try living in England or Ireland, it rains all the fucking time and it is cold rain as well. Here the rain is like taking a tepid shower.

There is no Friday 9th in September. Which month will you be here?

[Mr Enternational]

Many a man has come to the Dominican Republic and given his heart, money or material things to a Dominican woman only to discover because he did not understand the rules to the game he could not play it with skill, therefore he lost.

Again this holds true for anywhere. I think it is not as much as not understanding the rules as it is that most choose to ignore the rules or figure they will be able to change the rules later. That is why if you are looking for a serious relationship you never lead with your wallet.

On the show 90 Day Finace, a Mexican-American cat married a 20 year old chick from Russia. She told him from the start that she was with him for money. No big deal to him. He told her that he would always get her everything she wanted. Well until she wanted a $30,000 wedding dress, etc. He would never be able to keep up with her wants. And like his sister told him, what else could he expect when he is paying someone to spread their legs. He thought he would be able to lead with money and it would taper off into love. Shiiiieeet.

I was messing with a chick in Colombia and one morning she came to see me at the hotel before she had to go to work. We finished fucking and her boss was calling. I told her to answer it but she refused. She got ready and left for work. When she got there her boss notified her that she was suspended for 5 days for being late. She kept sending me messages talking about she didn't know how she would pay this that and the other now. It seemed that she was trying to get me to volunteer to give her money for the time she would lose although she never came out and said it.

Whereas the average ISG mf would feel all sorry and ask her how much she needed, I just kept telling her how fucked up it was and that I understood her pain. Now that chick is all in love with me and I know that she will never ask me for shit because I didn't start things out by giving her shit. Now when I do decide to do nice things for her it will be considered something special and not just a given. In this case I was able to bend the rules my way, instead of playing by the rules that someone else thought they could impose on me.

When you are not afraid of losing pussy you give a fuck less what the rules are. You know that you can always go get another one the same place you got that one.

[Camaro1257]

Personal Anecdote.

Once again I am going to state the obious to many, the difference is I am going to put the obvious in my own words. It has occured to me that living in the Dominican Republic and dealing with the women here (and people in general) is like playing a game. Pick your favorite game, whether it be the board game of chess or the Spades card game the fundemental principles are the same. There are two things you need if you are going to win consistantly at any game. First you need to know the rules of the game, second you need to have skill at playing the game, especially when your advesary knows the rules and has skills at the game you are playing.

Men come to the Dominican Republic for different reasons and at different stages of their lives, therefore they have different experiences. The prinicple of understanding the game is still relavent regardless as to your status.

In this game of living in the Dominican Republic it is imperative to understand the culture and how Dominican people think of and percieve extranjeros. Generally, you are either appreciated or resented because it is percieved that you can add some value to their lives indivdually, or the lives of those they care about. Of course their are exceptions to every rule but generally Dominicans will treat extranjeros differentlly than they treat other Dominicans. This can have positive or negative results depending on the individuals involved in the situation.

I reject the notion that all Dominicans are this and all Dominicans are that simply because my experiences have been different with different Dominicans. Todas la gente no son iguales. However, one thing remains the same, Dominican people percieve the extranjero differently then they percieve themselves.

Many a man has come to the Dominican Republic and given his heart, money or material things to a Dominican woman only to discover because he did not understand the rules to the game he could not play it with skill, therefore he lost. This does not mean that we cannot have feelings for Dominican women nor does it mean that we cannot be generous how we see fit; what it does mean is we should try to avoid loosing touch of how we are percieved and perhaps we will not loose as often as many who have gone before us.

Personally I am trying to have success at this game by developing tactics and strategies based on how Dominicans percieve me while still being open for the occasional Dominican who is different from the others.

[Just Incognito]

No hurricanes due in Puerto Plata in the near future. Thursday 9th Sept could be very rainy, but that is just one day.

I hope that remains true! I am supposed to fly back home on Friday the 9th.

I may try to change the plane to eav on Wednesday instead.

Why can't these things be more predictable? LOL.