Budapest

[AlanXL]

And if not, you've got no recourse. Moreover, it pisses you off and spoils the evening. You can't fuck when you are angry. If you are a regular, why not to trust you? What happens if you see the lady in person and she differs from her photos? What happens if she reneges on the agreed and does not perform? Maybe the agency has to pay you in advance to show up, why not? Of course, someone may seduce you with so called PSE, or a pornstar with miles of dicks to the Moon, but why not to choose a younger fresher girl with less mileage? Questions and questions. Just ask Mr. International on this forum will he pay in advance or even worse, will he send a deposit. LOL. We both still get ST for 20 quid on occasion.

In my occasion the agency asked me for a deposit only the first time. After that they didn't ask again because they knew who I am. It makes a sense in big cities where girls have to pay £100 for a taxi to come and go but I don't think it applies to Budapest and especially if you staying in a hotel were they can call and confirm your name.

[Questner]

As a general rule I agree that you don't pay in advance anyone with one exception. I live in the outskirts of London and made a booking through a known agency. The agency asked me to deposit a small amount of 20 as a guaranty. I made the deposit and everything went well. Of course this applies to large cities like London, Tokyo etc and for people that live away from the centre.

And if not, you've got no recourse. Moreover, it pisses you off and spoils the evening. You can't fuck when you are angry. If you are a regular, why not to trust you? What happens if you see the lady in person and she differs from her photos? What happens if she reneges on the agreed and does not perform? Maybe the agency has to pay you in advance to show up, why not? Of course, someone may seduce you with so called PSE, or a pornstar with miles of dicks to the Moon, but why not to choose a younger fresher girl with less mileage? Questions and questions. Just ask Mr. International on this forum will he pay in advance or even worse, will he send a deposit. LOL. We both still get ST for 20 quid on occasion.

[AlanXL]

http://doxyspotting.com/map/

Very interesting map. I didn't know existed. The accuracy though is not good. In London only 1 out of 4 is correct.

[FlAdventurer]

As a general rule I agree that you don't pay in advance anyone with one exception. I live in the outskirts of London and made a booking through a known agency. The agency asked me to deposit a small amount of 20 as a guaranty. I made the deposit and everything went well. Of course this applies to large cities like London, Tokyo etc and for people that live away from the centre.

If it was a known entity like Ani Blackfox that has a great reputation and knows the players.

[AlanXL]

No, you don't advance money to anyone, anywhere, ever. You see what you like, get the deed done and only after you pay.

No guys and no referrals needed to have fun.

As a general rule I agree that you don't pay in advance anyone with one exception. I live in the outskirts of London and made a booking through a known agency. The agency asked me to deposit a small amount of £20 as a guaranty. I made the deposit and everything went well. Of course this applies to large cities like London, Tokyo etc and for people that live away from the centre.

[Questner]

http://doxyspotting.com/map/

[Questner]

There have been some pretty good reviews of girls from rossy on here, but none of these so called elite girls. You need to ask why. Review the blog on mongering in Hungary, it will help you understand what is going on. Also, before you advance money to anyone, check thoroughly to make sure you aren't basing that investment on guys with very low post count with zero reviews. Ask for referrals on at least 5 senior mongers that actively post. You will be glad you did. Enjoy Budapest, it is an awesome city and great place to monger.

No, you don't advance money to anyone, anywhere, ever. You see what you like, get the deed done and only after you pay.

No guys and no referrals needed to have fun.

[Il Drago]

I am truly humbled by all the great answers from you all. Thanks a million, your insights will definitely come in handy and make my trip that much more enjoyable. I only wish I could meet and thank you guys in person and, at the very least, treat you to a drink (or whatever floats your boat).

If all goes as hoped, expect reviews on a number of girls that offer a variety of services once I return from Budapest. Hopefully there will be something for everyone's taste.

You are welcome. Listen to everyone's advice, but decide by yourself. I believe in freedom of choice. Read carefully all the posts with the advice & than decide which ones will be the most valuable to you. After all no one will be there to hold your hand in Budapest. You will have to do it on your own. You can easily meet people from this great forum, all you have to do is to buy subscription. Once you are subscribed you will be able to get & send private messages from / to other members. That is how you can arrange a meeting with any member of this forum in Budapest or in any other city. I strongly suggest that you subscribe, it will be very beneficial for you. It is really nice to meet people from this forum in person / live. As a local I am very connected, not only in mongering. I am connected in all walks of life. For example, I know a very good bookeeper & a lawyer which was helpful to some members of this forum who wanted to start a business in Budapest. It is a good thing to have friends. Friends are the family you choose.

[FlAdventurer]

Add me to the list of mongers that have paid girls for excellent introductions. It works to have an introduction in this hobby as in all meetings in life. And looking at it from a monetary angle, a less than 5 minute phone call for 5.000 forint equates to 60.000 forint an hour for her time. It is silly for someone to post in their infomercial that this is not a good technique. This is much better than paying 60-100 euro's for a guide.

And it is even better coming from a gal that just saw you and can provide up to date info on you as a monger. It takes away a little of the mystery of who you are and what you are like as a monger.

[Karibuu]

I am truly humbled by all the great answers from you all. Thanks a million, your insights will definitely come in handy and make my trip that much more enjoyable. I only wish I could meet and thank you guys in person and, at the very least, treat you to a drink (or whatever floats your boat).

If all goes as hoped, expect reviews on a number of girls that offer a variety of services once I return from Budapest. Hopefully there will be something for everyone's taste.

[FlAdventurer]

The question that was asked was would it be better to call girls using a Hungarian SIM, which based on my experience I told him that more girls would answer his calls compared to using a non-Hungarian number.

The matter of paramount importance in this situation is that using a Hungarian SIM card will result in more girls answering the phone. He didn't ask anyone where he could find the cheapest Hungarian SIM card or which Hungarian cell phone provider has better service. If you do a google search for T Mobile Hungary, the first two results are Magyar Telekom so he obviously would have found the current name of the company if he wanted to purchase a sim card from them. The difference in cost between the two providers for a "pay as you go plan" is nominal.

Regarding asking a working girl to make calls for you and your claim that no one will do it for many reasons. That is actually incorrect because two English speaking foreigners that have visited Budapest often already reported on this thread that they had girls contact non-English speaking girls for them. See post number 4646 and post number 3795.

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...udapest/page48

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...dapest/page105

Add me to the list of mongers that have paid girls for excellent introductions. It works to have an introduction in this hobby as in all meetings in life. And looking at it from a monetary angle, a less than 5 minute phone call for 5.000 forint equates to 60.000 forint an hour for her time. It is silly for someone to post in their infomercial that this is not a good technique. This is much better than paying 60-100 euro's for a guide.

[Bts23]

This has to be of the paramount importance. So yes, buying a Hungarian SIM card is a must. I have mentioned this in many of my posts since I have joined the forum in 2014. There is no company in Hungary called T mobile, it is called Magyar Telekom. It used to be called T Mobile & Westel before that but we are in 2019 & accurate name of the company should be used. To offer someone who is a local 5000 Ft to call a working girl from his phone is a joke. No one will do it for many reasons.

The question that was asked was would it be better to call girls using a Hungarian SIM, which based on my experience I told him that more girls would answer his calls compared to using a non-Hungarian number.

The matter of paramount importance in this situation is that using a Hungarian SIM card will result in more girls answering the phone. He didn't ask anyone where he could find the cheapest Hungarian SIM card or which Hungarian cell phone provider has better service. If you do a google search for T Mobile Hungary, the first two results are Magyar Telekom so he obviously would have found the current name of the company if he wanted to purchase a sim card from them. The difference in cost between the two providers for a "pay as you go plan" is nominal.

Regarding asking a working girl to make calls for you and your claim that no one will do it for many reasons. That is actually incorrect because two English speaking foreigners that have visited Budapest often already reported on this thread that they had girls contact non-English speaking girls for them. See post number 4646 and post number 3795.

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...udapest/page48

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...dapest/page105

[Bts23]

Thanks for all the answers, though I had hoped that I wouldn't need a new SIM card. I might risk it and try to call the girls I have found interesting, and if I don't get any answers, I can always get a SIM card afterwards.

As to the idea that they won't date a foreigner, even if I call with a Hungarian number, won't they just deny my request once they pick up the phone and realize I don't speak Hungarian and am clearly from another country? And, while on the subject, while I live in and have been raised in Europe, I am of Middle Eastern heritage. I know that for some girls this is a deal breaker (also, I am a staunch atheist, though at first sight one might think I am of a certain religion, which is also a deal breaker for some), and I won't be surprised if that is true in Budapest as well. I have seen a few profiles online that explicitly state they don't date dark skinned men (though, I would probably say I have an olive tan rather than a dark tan), but besides those, how high are the chances they will deny me due to my Middle Eastern looks?

One thing to take a look at is the Hungarian version of the profiles on Rosszlanyok. The Hungarian version may be different and much more detailed compared to the English version. It may specifically state that a girl may not want to meet certain guys based on language, weight, age, skin color, etc.

I have spoken to more than 50 girls on the phone in Budapest that advertise on the two websites and have never been asked once what country that I am from, but usually girls will ask me that when they meet me in person just out of curiosity or to make small talk. Obviously that is not to say that if a girl detects a distinct accent that they may ask questions and may decide not to meet you or they could reject you at the door. Unfortunately I have no idea much difficulty you might have with that.

Regarding the Hungarian sim card, there will definitely be more girls that will answer from a Hungarian number. I can't tell you what percentage it will be since there are so many other variables to take into account when contacting a girl. I wouldn't waste time trying to understand the logic (or lack thereof) of why some girls will meet English speaking foreigners that call from a Hungarian number and they won't answer the phone from the same people if they are calling from a non-Hungarian number. You can certainly still reach some girls by calling from a foreign number or through the messaging apps, but it may take more calls and could limit your choices. Also some girls may not be working, but they don't always take down their advertisement. If they haven't logged into their page for 1 or more days, sometimes (not always) this is a sign that they aren't available.

Here are a few tips for contacting girls with the caveat that YMMV with any of these suggestions.

1) Unless you know that a girl speaks English well before you call, keep conversations very brief and basic. If you set up an appointment, the girl will usually follow up with a SMS message or contact you via a messaging app with their address. If they don't, send them a message requesting their address.

2) Many of the more popular girls will take most or all of their appointments for the day at the beginning of their working hours. Some will put their "call me now" button on their advertisement to indicate this, but others will never do it and you just have to call them. If a girl has 0-24 hours on her ad, it typically means that she works when she feels like it and will usually put her "call me now" button on to indicate when they are available.

3) If a girl advertises on both websites, check her ad on Beszamolok as they usually will confirm their working hours for the next two days.

4) If a girl hangs up on you, it may be that she works in an apartment with one or more girls and the person that speaks English is not available at that time. If you know that the girl speaks English (because it was written in a review), then call back later. If not, send an SMS to try to arrange a meeting or to find out when to call back. Obviously there are some that won't respond and it is better to move on the next one on your list.

Again good luck on your trip to Budapest.

[FlAdventurer]

Thanks for all the answers, though I had hoped that I wouldn't need a new SIM card. I might risk it and try to call the girls I have found interesting, and if I don't get any answers, I can always get a SIM card afterwards.

As to the idea that they won't date a foreigner, even if I call with a Hungarian number, won't they just deny my request once they pick up the phone and realize I don't speak Hungarian and am clearly from another country? And, while on the subject, while I live in and have been raised in Europe, I am of Middle Eastern heritage. I know that for some girls this is a deal breaker (also, I am a staunch atheist, though at first sight one might think I am of a certain religion, which is also a deal breaker for some), and I won't be surprised if that is true in Budapest as well. I have seen a few profiles online that explicitly state they don't date dark skinned men (though, I would probably say I have an olive tan rather than a dark tan), but besides those, how high are the chances they will deny me due to my Middle Eastern looks?

There have been some pretty good reviews of girls from rossy on here, but none of these so called elite girls. You need to ask why. Review the blog on mongering in Hungary, it will help you understand what is going on. Also, before you advance money to anyone, check thoroughly to make sure you aren't basing that investment on guys with very low post count with zero reviews. Ask for referrals on at least 5 senior mongers that actively post. You will be glad you did. Enjoy Budapest, it is an awesome city and great place to monger.

[Karibuu]

Interesting & often asked question by nonwhite guys. It is a complex issue & not easy to answer. I will give you my view as a local experienced monger, in over 20 years I have learned a lot. Are Hungarian girls racists? Unfortunately some of them are. Good news is not all are. It is simple, more educated / higher level girls are more likely not to be racist. Among the ordinary girls, the ones who advertise on 2 relevant sites, percentage of racism is higher. Funnily enough, very few girls have problems with guys from Asia. It is mainly because they think guys from Asia are shy & have small cocks. Black guys have the biggest problems. Girls think they have too big cocks. Guy from Arab countries & from India are somewhere in between. Elite girls are exposed to more multicultural environment, are involved with rich guys of all colors, they are educated, speak English language. So, racism among them is virtually non existent. On the other hand, ordinary girls are mostly uneducated, bigoted, most of them do not speak English language or speak very little which makes them more likely to be racist. Luckily, not all ordinary girls are racist. So, back to your question, how high are the chances they will deny you due to your Middle Eastern looks? Quite honestly, it will hugely depend on luck. It is sure that most ordinary girls who speak English will ask you what is your nationality / ethnicity. It is sure that you would not have problems with elite girls. I wish you luck.

Thanks for a thorough answer. It is as I had expected, but your words do make me think I will be just fine.

I 100 % support the girls in having a choice as to who they want to deny service to, for whatever reason they see fit, and therefore know about why some girls deny people that are, as you put it, non-white. And to some extent, I understand. I can totally imagine some of the bad experiences they can have with people of, especially, the Middle East. Sad to say, not all the people from my part of the world are as. Enlightened and respectful as one could hope. And then, at some point, you simply start associating that type of looks with that kind of behavior, which sucks for people like me.

Here's to hoping I will have some good luck with the girls I have found.