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01-21-19 19:17 #19058
Posts: 7Originally Posted by PhotoSlider [View Original Post]
And there is a very simple reason behind this type of behavior. Locals call Kiev a "Big Village" which simply means that there is a good chance of bumping into someone you already know anywhere on the street or shopping mall or Buddha Bar or Avalon. In addition;- many girls may have jealous boyfriends or husbands or hidden admirers who may track every step she makes. So please keep this in mind when taking out your "sweetheart" outside of your hotel room or apartment.
Also in my experience. For P4P or even long-term engagements girls really don't care much if you are local or foreigner. As long as you treat her well and pay the right amount of cash. Few girls I know are only "working" with foreigners.
And there are a couple reasons for this. 1) It's a good opportunity for them to exercise foreign language (specifically English, French, Italian) so they can feel more comfortable touring other countries 2) They like "clients" (that's how they actually call sex-tourists) come and go. At the same time it's not easy to get rid of local patrons in case of excessive relationship or whatever. This may lead to some blackmailing, reputation damage and other negative things.
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01-21-19 18:29 #19057
Posts: 7Originally Posted by PhotoSlider [View Original Post]
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01-21-19 18:21 #19056
Posts: 710's (and 9's and 8's) going to Moscow, Paris, Dubai, etc is a minor phenomenon compared to competition from local men, plus the factor that foreigners are no longer seen as high status. On the contrary, being involved with older foreigner men is increasingly seen as shameful. Some guys don't see this because they live in the P4 P bubble, but I can definitely sense hardened attitudes among civilian girls since my first visit to Ukraine in 2015. (I interact frequently with civilian girls as part of my social activity.).
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01-21-19 17:18 #19055
Posts: 7There's also the issue of unspecified nonlinearity in these rating scales. Some even say there are no 10's, that's just an ideal. Linear percentile scale is better because everyone knows that there are exactly 10% of 22 year old girls in the top 10%, etc..
Sounds weird but it is what it is.
Anyway, where did the fabled 10's of the 1990's come from originally? Some from Kyiv (Kiev back then), many more from small towns. Has the overall gene pool of Ukraine degenerated such that mothers no longer give birth to 10's in these small towns? Because otherwise, there will continue to be plenty of 10's (and 9's and 8's) migrating to Kyiv so as to market their beauty. They don't immediately go to Moscow or Paris the day they turn 18.
Over 7 million people moved out of Ukraine since 19 XX and very few moved in. The separation of Cremea and Donbass contributed too. Lots of hot girls used to come from that regions.
Lot's of girls I've met over 10 years had moved to other countries (and many of them now have beautiful daughters) Very hot girls it's just too bad they're no longer around. The majority of girls I'm meeting these days are dreaming about moving out of Ukraine. They just don't believe in the bright future of this country. "I don't want my future children to be raised here. " or "There may be a bright future down the road, but I don't want to waste the rest of my life waiting for this "future" or "I'm selling my pussy so I can make good money and move out of here" - These are quotes I keep hearing from almost every girl I meet.
2. Economy:
After collapse of Soviet Union. The whole economical model had been heavily damaged by "democratic" reforms. Lots of people lost their jobs and those who still worked couldn't get their salaries for months, so lots of girls.
Entered P4 P market without any hesitation;- this just was the matter of survival for them and their families. Ukraine is still very poor country (probably the poorest in Europe) but you can't even compare to what is was back in 90 x tru early 20 x. So, as of now. The economy has rebuild to some sort of acceptable format and there are much better chances for the girls (specifically good-looking) of finding a decent job that keeps them on survival level + once in a wile they make some extra cash (semi-pros). But most of them do not post on mamba or go to night-clubs or deal with body-shop agencies. They just taking a straight tour to Paris or Milan or Dubai (this preferable due to "privacy" factor) or work with local pimps who sends them to "internal" clients. In any case. This category of ladies are normally best looking once but they're completely closed to "public".
3. Liberalization of Traveling:
Back in time. Kiev was the only comfortable and highly paying destination for the girls from all over Ukraine because It was very hard to cross borders to visit other places and getting EU visa was a nightmare for a single girl. Also, girls were not ready mentally for these moves. Mostly due to "soviet" style of thinking. "don't go far away from home" , "it's bad and dangerous out there" and so on. These days: getting EU visa is no longer required for Ukrainian citizens with bio-metric passports. So, for a girl from Vinnitsa or Kharkiv let's say. Why bother going to Kiev if she can fly directly to Dubai, Paris, London to double or triple her "salary" ? For the girls who don't speak any languages Moscow or St. Petersburg are a pretty good alternative to Kiev. Also, there is a "privacy" factor that's been very important for any working girl and the further she goes the more secure she feels about her privacy. 90% of girls you meet in Kiev are actually not from Kiev. They just follow basic rule of thumb: "don't f*ck where you live and don't live where you f*ck" and it's critical for P4 P business.
They don't immediately go to Moscow or Paris the day they turn 18.
And study in Kiev but making $$$ in Paris. Of cause not all of teenage girls go to Paris or Moscow as soon as they hit 18 . But many of them have parents in much better financial shape to help her out thru the college also.
In the present time there is much better possibility of finding a part-time job or a local dude with deep pockets than it used to be years ago. And obviously this category of "teenagers" is not available for P4 P.
Probable preference order for girls who would even consider foreigners: 1) marriage to rich handsome local their own age, with mutual love; 2) marriage to handsome local their own age who has good enough income, with mutual love; 3) marriage to rich old local; 4) sponsored in Kyiv by rich locals or visiting foreigners; 5) moving to Moscow or Paris for sponsoring; 6) day job, with occasional semi-pro P4 P with face control (she chooses clients); 7) full-time P4 P at Kiev escort club and hidden agencies, without face control.
I didn't cover all possibilities and we can argue about preference ordering, but important conclusion is that when you go hard P4 P, meaning one-time meeting with no face control and no emotional connection, you are only getting access to a very small number of beautiful girls who are psychologically suited to such hard P4 P, and to rejects who couldn't get anything better. If you want better quality girls, you need to move up to long-term sponsor rather than one-time P4 P client.
BTW: Girls also prefer long-term relationship as it makes them feel and act more relaxed and natural. They don't really like being working in brothels or strip-clubs or be "on-call" 24/7. There are a couple major issues here which I will cover in details in my following posts.
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01-21-19 06:56 #19054
Posts: 823Originally Posted by Kozerog [View Original Post]
I am not quite sure if those Ukrainian girls, going abroad in the hope of more lucrative endeavors, are that much different from University students and office workers that never get out of country. There are hardened souls at all levels and in all walks of life, and I have met well seasoned travelers, that opened up and were totally wonderful. I would say over time international travelers tend to expect more money as a compensation for their time. But there are always fresh young college girls incoming from remote towns and villages.
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01-21-19 06:05 #19053
Posts: 242Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
One was an AirBnb hostess. She looked like a 10 in her AirBnb profile (not why I picked the apartment, but hard not to be fascinated by the photo), looked even better in person, plus very intelligent and friendly. Worked as a secretary with the Orthodox church. Always accompanied by her fiance, a tall, handsome, assertive and very intelligent graduate student at the university. They are probably married now, poor but happy. None of us here would ever have had a chance with this girl.
Another was a clerk at the Autolux ticket counter at Vydubychi station. She no doubt could sense my admiration for her beauty, though I tried to conceal my feelings, and appeared annoyed when she detected my foreign accent: "Another sex tourist, probably thinking why a beauty like me is working at such a menial job, hope he doesn't say that. " She answered me in fluent English and we performed the ticket transaction as fast as possible. She was wearing a wedding ring. Age maybe 30, but the type of lean, fine-featured beauty that ages very well, like Norwegians. I have no idea who she was married to. It would be horribly insulting to proposition such a woman with a sex for money offer.
I have no interest at this point in marriage, but if I did, no way to meet Ukrainian women like this in bars, nor marriage agencies, nor online. They are in high demand by local men and have many candidates lined up from high school, university, work, social circles, etc, assuming they ever find themselves single. Furthermore, they are very leery of damaging their image by being seen in public with foreign sex tourists.
10's (and 9's and 8's) going to Moscow, Paris, Dubai, etc is a minor phenomenon compared to competition from local men, plus the factor that foreigners are no longer seen as high status. On the contrary, being involved with older foreigner men is increasingly seen as shameful. Some guys don't see this because they live in the P4 P bubble, but I can definitely sense hardened attitudes among civilian girls since my first visit to Ukraine in 2015. (I interact frequently with civilian girls as part of my social activity.).
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01-21-19 02:41 #19052
Posts: 823Originally Posted by Kozerog [View Original Post]
I tried once to introduce the multidimensional assessment for the ladies I met. Did it strictly for myself, and got completely lost, arguing with no one else except myself. Certain metrics are rather subjective. But let's attempt for couple minutes, even though it's an exercise in futility.
Looks and Performance are two high-level umbrella-like over-encompassing criteria.
Looks are the most subjective. For example I liked 1 m46 cm folk dance girl just fine, because she was very flexible, kissed like a fairy, and seemed to have multiple orgasms in the most sincere manner. She was young, great skin, perfect smile, gorgeous eyes. And certainly not a playboy material, heck no! And I don't want her to be. She'd be dismissed as 3 or 4 by model seeking vigilantes.
I also like those 10-15 cm taller than me. Measured with or without the high heels, doesn't matter.
My friend likes size 5 boobs, I prefer no larger than 3. Beautiful nipples and areolas mean so much more to me.
Now comes even more subjective. Performance. Try rating kisses, separate from CBJ, BBBJ, DATY, Greek and so on. Jymondor did rate in the most respectful way. How can these be combined into a composite metric? Weight coefficients? 5 or even 7 dimensional surface with extremums?
The rest has been argued about here ad nauseam, and I agree that even while slightly drunk, it is difficult to have satisfying sex with an ugly girl. At the same time that beautifully looking 9 (that everybody on this Forum may have agreed, that she is 9 based on her naked pictures with boobs, surgically enhanced Brazilian bootie, and all), even when she looks perfect without clothes, has a potential to quickly turns into a harpy in bed. What is her rating then?
When I say some lady is incomparable, it is to share my recent state of happiness. It is not to get a confirmation, or approval, not to assert or elevate myself above others. This is not a competition. Not for me. And I am totally content while others dismiss my objects of passion and desire.
Statistical approach introduced by Kozerog, and certain gentlemen before him, is based on percentiles. Agree to forget 10's as never achievable ideal, and let's say that if 80% of male and female population considers a certain girl better than lower 80% of Ukrainian 22 years old, than she is at least 9.
Kozerog is 100% on, -new and most beautiful candidates are born and properly raised all over Ukraine every day. At the current birth rate 50 babies are born every hour. 25 girls. 2 of them are 9 or 10. That is 500 new girls every year that are 9 and above. Kiev is at least 3 million, that is about 5% of Ukrainian population, residing in the country. At least 25 new 9-10 girls every year. Seems rather low. Perhaps I miscalculated somewhere, didn't account for incoming students not born in Kiev. Also 3 million does not count daily commuters, 2007 estimated total for Kiev was 3. 7 millions with commuters. Could be 5 million today, not sure. There is at least half a million refugees from Crimea and East Ukraine, many coming to Kiev.
Now back to our 9+18-26 years old makes up 10% of Ukrainian population. 2018 data shows 53% of country population are females. In Kiev it is higher due to students, office and service industry workers, but we'll keep them at 50%.
My rough calculations show that 37 K of Kiev population are 18-26 years old females that are no less than 9 by Kiev standards. And to my tastes those standards are high enough to justify my annual travels. Let's say half of those girls, 20 K, leverage visa-free option to fuck in confines of Italian Hilton's and Dubai establishments.
How many have reliable sponsors and husbands? Local or foreign, doesn't matter anymore. 5 K? 10 K? I do see them checking into fitness and spa at Avalon. They are surely not interested in me, and my ego is not hurt. Because at least 7 K are available and actively hunting, it is visible while walking around, riding subway, going to theater.
Even without all the above calculations I see hundreds of 9+ every day, and many of them are approachable. No more than 9 out of 10 reject my advances. It is arguable that more beautiful girls reject quicker. There's an opinion that too many males are afraid to talk to them, and they crave for attention. Therefore it is not a surprise that I get phone numbers of more than a few new hot girls daily. With already established contacts it is more than enough for me.
I cannot do the same in New York, or Madrid, or Zurich, or London, because of my age and society being against it. I can in Kiev.
Kiev changes, so do we. Some of us get older, and lets be honest, many of us become less attractive. Consequently some loose faith in Ukrainian women and Kiev in general. Women easily sense it, and they want to be worshiped, to increase chances for more reliable transformation of our funds into their apartment rent payments, Michael Kors purses, and so on.
I wouldn't bother to come to Kyiv for 1 week regardless of bankroll. If you have a big bankroll, use it to buy more time off from work.
Moving in permanently, with an easy way out, on as needed basis, is the ultimate objective, and not only because of classy ladies. As has been mentioned, business opportunities are still enormous.
1 week in Kiev is a substantial gamble for any newbie.
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01-20-19 20:49 #19051
Posts: 242Originally Posted by Sprusic2019 [View Original Post]
First, what is the point of an objective rating scale that is not objective? I use a subjective scale for my own process, precisely because ultimately what I like is what matters if the girl is intended for me, not what other guys like. But I understand the value of an objective scale so as to communicate with other men. However objective means just that. 10 means possible Playboy centerfold or similar. 6 means no way she'd be Playboy centerfold. No such thing as objectively 10 and 6 at the same time.
There's also the issue of unspecified nonlinearity in these rating scales. Some even say there are no 10's, that's just an ideal. Linear percentile scale is better because everyone knows that there are exactly 10% of 22 year old girls in the top 10%, etc.
Anyway, where did the fabled 10's of the 1990's come from originally? Some from Kyiv (Kiev back then), many more from small towns. Has the overall gene pool of Ukraine degenerated such that mothers no longer give birth to 10's in these small towns? Because otherwise, there will continue to be plenty of 10's (and 9's and 8's) migrating to Kyiv so as to market their beauty. They don't immediately go to Moscow or Paris the day they turn 18.
Probable preference order for girls who would even consider foreigners: 1) marriage to rich handsome local their own age, with mutual love; 2) marriage to handsome local their own age who has good enough income, with mutual love; 3) marriage to rich old local; 4) sponsored in Kyiv by rich locals or visiting foreigners; 5) moving to Moscow or Paris for sponsoring; 6) day job, with occasional semi-pro P4 P with face control (she chooses clients); 7) full-time P4 P at Kiev escort club and hidden agencies, without face control.
I didn't cover all possibilities and we can argue about preference ordering, but important conclusion is that when you go hard P4 P, meaning one-time meeting with no face control and no emotional connection, you are only getting access to a very small number of beautiful girls who are psychologically suited to such hard P4 P, and to rejects who couldn't get anything better. If you want better quality girls, you need to move up to long-term sponsor rather than one-time P4 P client.
If you arrange your sponsoring so it does not conflict with marriage to local non-rich guy, then you get access to even more girls. This would normally work as follows. You meet girl when she is going through her wild phase at university or shortly after, and establish sponsor arrangement where you meet her a few times a week in the afternoon at your apartment, but are never seen with her in public. Around age 25, she marries a local who isn't rich and continues seeing you on the side. She works some sort of commissioned sales job, which explains her big income and why she is frequently out of the office where she supposedly works. This is more or less what I proposed to my jewel, assuming she ever marries.
Some people underestimate wealth of local men, others like Sprusic2019 overestimate. There is not a huge pool of local men who have $1000/ month (28000 uah) extra disposable income to support a mistress. So if you can come up with that kind of money, you can compete with everyone except locals who are also offering marriage. I paid my jewel about $5000 last summer and might go up to $6000 this summer. $2000/ month is well above the going rate for sponsoring 8's and 9's (objectively, my jewel is 8 or 9), but if course I'm only paying for 3 months. $1000/ month for 10 meetings translates to $100/ meeting (2800 uah). So that's what the local rich are paying for their 8s and 9s, not $200+. Assuming meetings of 3 hours each (probably more than 3 hours of they go out to dinner), local sponsors are paying under 1000 uah / hour for 8s and 9s (I'm ignoring 10s to avid avoid a flame war regarding whether 10s even exist).
IF YOU WANT TOP QUALITY AT MODERATE PRICE, GO FOR LONG-TERM SPONSORING, NOT ONE-SHOT P4 P.
Originally Posted by Sprusic2019 [View Original Post]
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01-20-19 12:27 #19050
Posts: 7Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
About Moscow. I was there just few months ago and had a very good time. But the prices for hot chicks almost the same as in Europe starting: $300 . So if you're planning to visit Moscow again than check out.
Intimcity and russdosug. It's a bit cheaper option for mongers and locals. Also it's worth to visit few strip clubs: Aurora / Angels / Penthouse (same network) - it's much better than RIO but be prepare to spend $500 minimum.
Cheers.
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01-19-19 23:41 #19049
Posts: 823Originally Posted by TinyHippo [View Original Post]
Difference between local and foreigner is that foreigner will leave and most likely will not provide any of the above in sufficient quantity.
Admiration towards the foreigner may fade away quickly, unless the girl is bored and needs attention. Then ask yourself if you want to be her entertainer via one of messaging platforms.
If the relationship doesn't involve money, then what is the underlying reason?
She may go for it, if she is independent enough financially.
I have at least two LTRs which are not based on money. They did start with money, and then transformed into friendship with benefits. Occasionally one of these two semi-automatically tries to extort gifts and money, and the most I gave her in the last 8 weeks in Kiev was breakfast at Avalon and 200 UAH for her cab ride after having sex. She surely expected more. She wants to meet when I am in Kiev in May-June of this year.
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01-19-19 23:25 #19048
Posts: 823Originally Posted by Kozerog [View Original Post]
Please do not consider this as an attempt at flattering- you are sincere, intelligent, and treat those few ladies, that comply with your requirements, in a respectful manner. They know what to expect. Win-Win.
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01-19-19 23:20 #19047
Posts: 823Originally Posted by Sprusic2019 [View Original Post]
I would agree with no less than 75% of Sprusic's observations.
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01-19-19 23:18 #19046
Posts: 823Originally Posted by Dunba1679 [View Original Post]
2. GIA was acceptable. I didn't interact with KEC. Indirect indications are that it is not as reliable. Fake feedback about the girls, that is loosely disguised by the management as coming from the real customers. Evasive explanation of services. Higher prices.
Would anybody who used them recently care to comment?
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01-19-19 23:13 #19045
Posts: 823Originally Posted by Kozerog [View Original Post]
During the first intermission I went for a drink, and upon returning noticed that to the left of me there were two young ladies, showing obvious signs of attention, to which apparently I didn't react before the intermission. So, while I was away, they swapped, sort of chess castling maybe thinking that I would like the other one better, and will make the move.
Lady sitting to the right of my brother didn't waste her time, and they exchanged phone numbers, went for another performance next day, and still talking to each other to this day.
Not sure if any of this parterre pick up business continues today.
2. One more trick happened this October. I was with a single mom and her child, watching ballet in the front row of the mezzanine. Behind us there was a classy looking businessman from New York, and his Ukrainian escort. She was in her early 30's, with all the obvious attributes. Latest iPhone, high heels, puffy lips, and rather revealing dress. I was taking pictures and videos of outstanding performance on stage. And then I've heard her voice:
- I'm sorry, you have better seats, do you mind sharing your videos?
I automatically gave my phone, asking to type in her phone number. She asked, in a fake polite manner, fishing for information:
- Would your wife object?
I didn't explain that she is not my wife, as this was none of anybody's business. In fact, single mom had a wealthy enough sponsor for as many years, as we knew each other. She had his supped up SUV, that she drove me in. One of those Kiev triangles.
Anyway. I almost asked, tongue in cheek:
- Would your husband object?
So we exchanged. She contacted me few days later again. I decided not to, as she seemed too calculating.
Single mom was jealous though. Interrogating if I followed up. And that is how we roll. I know she has a sponsor. She knows that I know. She goes out with me, and insists that I should be faithful to her.
Experienced same in Latin America.
Who needs Theater! Kiev is Soap Opera thriller and more.
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01-19-19 22:13 #19044
Posts: 823Originally Posted by Riina [View Original Post]