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04-22-21 04:36 #1699
Posts: 11Advice needed guys
I have been to many countries and Ukraine once. But back then I stayed in a hotel and grabbed street hookers for fun at $100/ each. Fun back then but not now. Now I want less of a street girl. After this Covid stuff dies down and we can freely travel, I would like to rent an apartment in Odessa (where?) but not sure how to find girls to come over. Any leads? Websites?
Thanks guys.
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03-29-21 20:32 #1698
Posts: 823Originally Posted by IvanBuyan [View Original Post]
The room has the door, which supposedly provides privacy. But the rest of the apartment or even the whole building is more like a dorm, with people coming in and out. There also might be a screen or a bookshelf separating your bed from the door. Happy customer leaves his clothes, cash and other valuables closer to the door, and engages in foreplay with the beauty (Ukrainian or Chinese or Cuban or some other country, same scam). The other partner in crime enters, - stealthily, or simply quickly grabs your clothes, takes possession of the valuables, and leaves without being noticed, or maybe creates noise to scare everybody, relying on the fact that customer's dick is inside the girl, and the customer himself, not so happy anymore, but still naked, is too shy to run through the hallway in pursuit of his credit cards, ID, etc.
The defense against this is obvious: control your environment, do not go to unknown locations. Invite the girls to your own scam-proof apartment. The rest is. Just as Ivan explained: do not place yourself in a position of a target.
Besides that, I do not like fucking the girls at their apartment anyway, even if it's an agency, or an indie. Do not trust their hygiene, etc. It is also difficult to romance the young beauty with my boyish charms while mamasan is outside the door, ready to knock while you still have 10 more minutes, and literally are trying to come.
Drugs represent a serious offense in Ukraine, and bribes on the spot may not help. Legal system is significantly different. Do not do it as a foreigner. In fact, do not accept anything, even water from an unknown person in a potentially risky situation, even from the cab driver. Have your own. Best of all. Do it at your own place.
Otherwise, IMO mongering in Ukraine is safe. I personally had minimal challenges, that I could totally handle on my own. Even while drunk, I am treated as a repeated customer, and crime against me is bad for business. The worst is when the girl is not that much into me, or vise versa. First sex was great, but then in the morning she doesn't seem as attractive anymore. The solution is simple. Get another one. Or two. Rinse, repeat, until completely satisfied, then sleep it off, and keep going. Lots of young ladies celebrate their 18th birthdays every day all over Ukraine!
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03-29-21 12:09 #1697
Posts: 34Scams in details and some GEMs
Another scams that are less common but a lot more dangerous and they still may happen in Ukraine are the scams aimed to scary the shit out of.
Easy sex seekers and sometimes even hurt them (and take their money of course).
Again, this may happen to anybody not being cautious in any country.
So the most common start of the scam is same as consummation. Some nice looking girl approaches you and doesn't offer sex for money straight away.
She accepts your cocktails, talks to you, laughs a lot and then (when you are drunk) offers to continue the party in some other place or at her apartment.
If you accept the offer, then there are few outcomes:
1) You are super lucky and it ends with real party and sex afterwards.
2) You are taken to some suburbs district with zero foreigners and end up in some apartment where some other guy appears and acts husband or policeman.
It may turn out that the girls is underaged / has drugs on her so you will lose money not be beaten by a jealous husband or not to be taken to the police.
3) The least pleasant variant. You may get robbed when you step out of the taxi car by some other dudes that work closely with the girl.
And back to some drugs. Also one of the most common ways to scam foreigners is to sell them "drugs".
In the best case it will end with you getting what you did not pay for (for.
Example some cheap low quality amphetamine in stead of cocaine. Low quality amphetamine.
Is super popular among hookers / party girls in Ukraine but be careful.
Remember that cocaine is super expensive in Ukraine and may cost up to 200 dollar per gram.
If you are offered a low price, then most likely you will lose money or get some low quality.
Amphetamine which will keep you awake and uncomfortable for many hours.
I know some girls offer to sell you Viagra like its something illegal and hard to get.
Remember, in Ukraine you can buy Viagra in almost any drug store. It can be sold.
Without doctor's prescription.
Common sense, less alcohol, stay away from non-tourist places outside of Kyiv / Odessa center.
And some advice from me that look obvious for some users but may be new to others.
A) don't flash money. I prefer to keep money not in the wallet and have.
It in different amounts and different pockets. When you are a foreigner and take out your wallet at the bar to pay for cocktails / food. Trust me, chances.
Are really high that many eyes are looking at what you have inside. Its a sign that you need to be robbed / fooled when you have a stash of 500 UAH bills along.
With euros and dollar inside. Better leave the wallet at home. Take 200 UAH bills + some 50 UAH bills for tips and keep them in different pockets.
When I want to party and plan to spend some money for "love", I take 50-100 $ bills and hide it inside my ass (kidding), I put in inside my deepest pocket and.
Don't touch it unless I need to pay for sex in some cosy and safe place. Then I put some 200 UAH bills in the right pocket and 50-100 UAH in the left pocket.
This way I am sure that I can "dive" into my right pocket, count 5 bills and take 1000 UAH without flashing anything.
Another GEM. In Ukraine, you don't need to register sim cards, so I suggest you to buy 200 dollar Android phone and a sim card for pubs / bars / parties. I once lost.
My main phone with all the mail / bank / messengers profiles which drove me nuts.
Believe me, bling bling on your hand and neck + iPhone 12 max + leather wallet with multi GEO bills = you are a target for scammers.
Cash, regular phone, nice but not casual expensive clothes, smile and the absense of fear on your face + moderate tipping (10-15%) you are a romantic traveler, a nice dude who chose Ukraine.
Among other countries and this will attract only good vibes to you.
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03-23-21 21:48 #1696
Posts: 823Originally Posted by IvanBuyan [View Original Post]
I made friends with some escort girls, strip club security guys and and all sort of people over few last years of living in Kyiv. Trust me, foreigners and locals are scammed the same way.
It's just foreigners have more money as a rule and girls like to scam them more.
Dating sites,
Arena City,
Strip clubs.
Those are designed to scam. Strip club IMHO is not about naked ladies, it is about stripping the customers off of their hard earned cash.
The most common scam is so-called "consummation" is when a girl gets a % (usually 25%) from a check of the.
Food and drinks consumed by her "guest". It is super common is strip clubs. Ever wondered why strippers like pine apple fresh juice so much? Cause its expensive.
Girls try to make you drunk first, very often working closely with bar guys to add more "hard" stuff into your cocktails. When you are drunk, you lose control over your money. I heard few stories from.
Strip clib security guys that foreigners give them credit cards to go to the nearest ATM and cash out more funds for fun (how stupid can it be! + when you are drunk, they will add more items into your check.
So the most universal rule to avoid scams. Don't get too drunk and use common sense.
If the girl gives you a present on the very first date, then it's a scam. Wait for a follow-up request.
If the girl invites you to go shopping, then it may be a scam. Agree on the compensation amount, or she'll try to squeeze money out of you. I am OK with having sex first, and then me saying "Why don't we go now, and buy you a dress for our going together to theater tonight? I have 600 UAH." That's better than her pushing with a promise of a bright future while rubbing my cock in the taxi.
If the girl refuses to go to Puzata Hata fast food chain, and insists on Alaska or Monaco or Velyur, then it's a scam, and I will reply that I am unfortunately busy, will cancel the date with her, and instead invite one of my regulars to Velyur, simply because Velyur has a sofa in the men's washroom, and me and my girl did test-drive it already, having fun before waiting for our order being cooked in the kitchen. Back in 2013 Velyur had great food and impeccable service. I like those locations where I don't even have to open the menu, but rather explain what I'd like to eat, and they make it. And if I don't have sufficient time, then my regular will join me at Puzata Hata, NP. GIA girls went with me, - easy. I consider it a good test of girl's trustworthiness, - first lunch date at Puzata Hata.
I do value ladies with decent degree of dignity. At the same time, any attempt to control me, any chance of her pretending that she is the only one in the whole country of Ukraine, and she gets the boot. Next one please.
If the girl is approaching you and she definitely looks out of your league, then ask hew straight away. How much she wants for sex. If she is a real pro hooker, she will tell you the price and you can negotiate on where and how you want to do it. Is she says some bullshit like "I'm not like that, I just like you" along with too many compliments, then most likely you are the aim for consummation.
I have been almost scammed with lost wallet on the floor at Sheremetyevo airport in Moscow. Check-in desk airline employee and police were all visibly involved in staging it. At the time I didn't know the particular structure of that scam. Common sense helped to avoid it.
There was an attempt in San Diego with a P4P girl, saying "Pay me upfront" and then she had to go to get her purse from the car. Kicked her out without giving her money.
I do not leave my drinks unattended.
I do not go to any dating sites, and God forbid, I would never think of marrying an Administrator / Manager of a dating site / agency. Not in Ukraine, not anywhere else. And even knowing all that is going on in those dating sites, I would still not think that Kiev and Odessa are the scam capitals of the world. Don't be stupid, do not expose yourself to the obvious dangers.
There are threats, vulnerabilities and risks. Making someone less protected by frequenting locations with higher probability of materialized threat, makes that person more vulnerable, more susceptible, raises the risk. Simple math.
Again, I never go to Arena City, and as much as I enjoyed Rio and Star Rhino for a few years, I stopped. I could see Rio across the street from my balcony, and felt no appeal. I think of them as vacuum cleaners, sucking money out of my pockets. Mandarin next to River Palace has been great, but is long time gone.
Getting regular, or even hourly girls from established consolidating dispatchers is so much safer, because those dispatchers treat me as a repeat customer, and it is in their interest to keep me safe and returning. I vet the girls during curbside casting, and still maybe 10% or so in my bedroom do not live up to expectations, that's the inevitable price of business, just like banks allow a certain degree of online fraud to keep the cash flowing, or customers go elsewhere. Typical allowance at large institutions like JP Morgan Chase is 5% or less. The most secure way to avoid financial fraud is not to be in business at all. Same with mongering.
Once I picked a girl, paid right away, and gave the money to the other girl that didn't pass the casting (I always ask to deliver at least 2 girls to choose from). So, she decided to play smart, that perhaps I have too much, and don't care, or am drunk and in a hurry. She announced:
- It's one 500 UAH bill short!
Well I always count the money before getting out of my apartment, put the exact amount agreed upon over the phone in my jeans pocket, plus 100 UAH in another, if I decide to reject, but the girls are polite and classy enough to give them the ride fee. Anyway, I firmly said: "Find it. Call your mama-san. I gave it to you" Well, lo and behold she found it. Why? Because back at the agency apartment she would have been explained of consequences, and potentially penalty might have been imposed.
I've witnessed personally three occasions with Kiev hourly girls fined. Two of them for $200 - for giving their personal phone numbers to me, and enforcement checked all the messengers. And another girl - $500, for going incommunicado, in that one I wasn't involved.
So, you are right, Ivan. Scams are evenly distributed throughout the world. There are extremums around locations destined to attract crime.
I enjoyed my lengthy stays in Rio de Janeiro. Crime is very high in Rio and Sao Paolo. I didn't experience any. I had an awesome college girl Danielle at Monte Carlo Terma. After 2 am she had to leave the premises, so she simply said to my happy face:
- I am going with you to your place now!
Did I feel I was in danger? No. I didn't pick her up on Copacabana beach, she didn't look like a drug addict. I didn't find her through the dating site, and I had no intention to marry her, or even have a relationship with her. I also didn't go looking for girls in Rocinha or Vigidal favelas. I speak enough Brazilian-Portuguese (or Russian, or Ukrainian) to understand that she was indeed a Liberal Arts student. We didn't discuss money, and she became my friend and language instructor with great oral skills for the rest of my stay. No regrets. Gorgeous smile, amazing coffee with milk skin tone body. In the end she insisted on going with me to the airport, seeing me through check-in, and giving a loooong 20 years old GFE DFK. That was after back at my place we were almost late for our taxi, because she wanted to get a third shot out of me, and succeeded. Then while riding with me in the taxi, she took off her panties, and asked to put it into my check-in luggage. Later I learned it's a national tradition in Brazil, a sign of ultimate admiration. What a lady!
BTW, my apartment is always girl-proof. In any country. Still I behaved with Danielle like I trusted her. That's the only way to open up the beautiful young lady, to live a life. Cariocas IMHO are the closest to Ukrainian girls in their behavior.
So, screw the resident drama troll, badmouthing Kiev for his own failures, pretending to protect newbies, while in reality begging for attention and respect. As GDreams explained, we can decide ourselves.
Forgive my lengthy rant. Yes, I love Odessa, Kiev, Ukraine, and beyond. Woman in any country is what you will make out of her.
Be safe, gentlemen!
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03-23-21 12:06 #1695
Posts: 34Scams scams scams
Hey guys,
A lot of forum members think Ukraine is all about scams. Is it so? - Definitely yes. Just like any other country of the world if you look and act like a guy who needs to be scammed.
I made friends with some escort girls, strip club security guys and and all sort of people over few last years of living in Kyiv. Trust me, foreigners and locals are scammed the same way.
It's just foreigners have more money as a rule and girls like to scam them more. The most common scam is so-called "consummation" is when a girl gets a % (usually 25%) from a check of the.
Food and drinks consumed by her "guest". It is super common is strip clubs. Ever wondered why strippers like pine apple fresh juice so much? Cause its expensive.
Girls try to make you drunk first, very often working closely with bar guys to add more "hard" stuff into your cocktails. When you are drunk, you lose control over your money. I heard few stories from.
Strip clib security guys that foreigners give them credit cards to go to the nearest ATM and cash out more funds for fun (how stupid can it be! + when you are drunk, they will add more items into your check.
So the most universal rule to avoid scams. Don't get too drunk and use common sense.
If the girl is approaching you and she definitely looks out of your league, then ask hew straight away. How much she wants for sex. If she is a real pro hooker, she will tell you the price and you can negotiate on where and how you want to do it. Is she says some bullshit like "I'm not like that, I just like you" along with too many compliments, then most likely you are the aim for consummation.
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03-22-21 03:32 #1694
Posts: 823Originally Posted by GDreams [View Original Post]
I almost said "Do not cast your pearls before swine", but then nobody would have had the pleasure of witnessing how brilliantly you debunked our resident drama troll.
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03-18-21 01:16 #1693
Posts: 690Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
Both Kiev and Odessa are nice places to visit and much easier than Russia so a lot of people will visit there whether you recommend it or not.
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03-17-21 21:19 #1692
Posts: 2794Originally Posted by GDreams [View Original Post]
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03-17-21 14:53 #1691
Posts: 690Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by SeanEZ [View Original Post]
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03-17-21 12:06 #1690
Posts: 16Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
I have also heard this story first hand. Guy gets a girl to come to apartment and he pays her first. Then she says she is underage and will leave and if he complains she will call the police or her brothers or whatever.
So, I take the precaution of meeting them at my apartment but say that the domophone is broken and then I meet them outside and size them up.
I also obviously working girl-proof my apartment. Documents, cards, cash, etc. Well hidden. I do have some expensive gear that is part of my profession so I have this risk. However, I keep a military medal (real) and retired police badge (my cousin's) on the bar where I invite them to sit. I also keep helmet and vest from war on a chair next to bar. I want to signal that they should think before trying a crime of opportunity. I don't know if this is effective but I haven't hd a problem yet. Of course I have had duds, cold fish, etc. Between that and dog tags, which I also make kinda obvious, I let them know what I am capable of. Some don't even notice and I wonder if they are stupid. They should also be paying attention to their surroundings!. Anyway, not everyone has such stuff of course. But I do think it is very possible top create a back story that will make them think twice before grabbing something. And obviously, with all this said, my goal is to have a nice time with a pretty girl for a few hours. So, I do all of this very subtlety. My point is that you should definitely take precautions, let them know who you are (even if it is not real), and then, after that, you are taking some risk.
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03-17-21 03:05 #1689
Posts: 44One more place to visit
Restaurant oblaka I visited on Sunday evening with some friends.
Very upscale and place to meet high end escorts.
Lots of model type girls could be seen with some guys or sitting alone.
If not lucky the visit to the restaurant is worth it.
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03-17-21 02:53 #1688
Posts: 44Adding a positive note to Odessa
Finally I could find some girls from tinder who were willing to come to the hotel instead of taking me to the shady bar.
She was around 30's and asked for 1500 uah for 2 h.
Also in Amsterdam bar there were some W / G on the weekend as probably in other places.
Will come back when weather will be better and hoping to find more fun.
Happy mongering.
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03-16-21 16:19 #1687
Posts: 2794Originally Posted by Wgmm99 [View Original Post]
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03-16-21 09:06 #1686
Posts: 16Same thing happened to me
Originally Posted by WonderfulLife [View Original Post]
I met a girl on Tinder and met in some Irish bar right in touristy area. And then her friend showed up. And it was a huge mismatch. The girl I met was cute and dressed well. The other one was fat and dumpy. I can smell the bullshit but I am 20 meters from my airbnb and worked all day and was hoping to bang a cute girl and got to sleep. I understood that this won't happen but I am too curious and want to see where this will go. First off, they ha a story that they are from Vinnitsia on vacation and will go home the next day. I also work in Vinnitisia a lot and it is crystal clear they have never been there. I also didn't question this girl about the fact that she told me she was working in the afternoon and now says she is on vacation. Anyway. I have a few beers and say I am going home. The cute girl is now kissing on me and grabbing my dick and telling me how handsome and interesting I am and I should go with hem to a disco and if I don't feel like dancing she will dance for me. She is laying it on very thick and I am curious to know exactly what is the scam. SO. I say you will go and I use my uber to get the taxi so I will know where I am. I also went in the bathroom and put all my money in my sock except for maybe 1000 grivna and also hid my main bank card. I kept a PrivatBnak card on me with also maybe 1000 grivna. Now, in the car they are both tugging on my dick and kissing my neck, etc. Even though they said it should be a 5 minute ride, it was like 20-30 minutes. Now we are in the most gaudy nightclub in MOldavanka. Not a great area at all. And I can see 2 types of groups. Other middle aged dudes with a few young bitches hanging on them or wannabe gangster types. They ask me what I want to drink and I saw whiskey and coke. Boom. On the table is a bottle of johny walker blue, cola, ice, hooka, cheese and meat plate, etc. And of course the charade continues. I poured a large glass of whiskey. Maybe 1/3 the bottle and watched my glass close as possible. In the meantime this chick is jerking me under the table but also trying not to do too much. I excused myself to the bathroom and called an uber (I brought my drink with me) and then when I came back to the table, I could see that my uber was outside. I texted the driver and said I will be out in 2 minutes. I ordered a bunch of shots for us and for next table. Drank my shot, said I wanted to grab a cigarette and walked outside. It was clear security was watching closely so as soon as I was maybe clear of the door, I took off, jumped in the cab and said to go. This dummy was texting me for next 24 hours saying she had to pay the bill and she will find me, blah blah. I am not sure how the scam works. I assume they get a percentage of the inflated bill. But not sure if they had to pay after I stiffed them. But, I do hope so.
This was definitely a 1 time adventure and I don't recommend trying this at all. I understand it could have ended badly. But I have to say, they tried to fuck me and they got good and fucked instead!
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03-16-21 00:10 #1685
Posts: 2794Originally Posted by GDreams [View Original Post]