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[BrendanGooch]

manon/lotsafun,

Thanks for the advice, sorry to bring this up on this board but I always feel that there is somthing missing in my life.

Its far easier to share my feelings and ask questions on a BBS such as this rather then asking someone face to face who will only laugh in my face.

Sex is great with a the female of the species, but for me I just havent experienced the passion of it, I still would like to experience a relationship oneday with a woman. even if it goes wrong at least I have been there and done it.

It seems that english girls only seem to meet guys through friends and relatives and not through meeting in bars and stuff.

The worst thing is since I have come back to the UK, I really dont know anyone apart from work colleagues.


There are times when I just got so fed up with everything that I just get totally drunk and go and pay for a hooker because I want female company. This is probably the wrong way of going about things but this is what I end up doing on weekends.

Maybe I should be alot more cocky and funny with the women, guess I am just too nice to the women of this world and thats why I keep falling into this trap.

Thanks again !

[manon]

Originally posted by BrendanGooch
Guys,

I must have spent a fortune on paying for sex, the thing is I am rather shy when it comes to trying to chat up women.

I have tried hard to get on with english girls but all they do is play mind games with me. I went to croatia and serbia for a vacation and had a wonderful time overthere with women, who were warm and friendly.

English girls seem to be rude and very cold towards me, I am good looking guys, and it hurts inside that one day I shall be old and not have had the pleasure of a relationship with a woman.

I really cant figure out how some of these repulsive looking guys always manage to get the girls ? Why is this ?

I get really depressed about this somtimes and really dont know who to chat to about this. If I talk to colleagues who I go out to drink with they will think I am some wierdo.

I would really appreciate some advice int his area.

Hey Brendan

I spent a long time living in the UK, ended up marrying a woman from the continent who I met there. Most of the women I dated in the UK were not English (one or two, but not a lot).

Don't let the British thing get you down. They think a lot like US women, money, money, bullshit. That don't mean there is no good thing to be had from marriage. I have two young kids, and a good marriage and it was worth the wait. And yes, I play, discretely, now and then (that's why I'm here, right) but mostly that's unnecessary. (But even I couldn't eat caviare EVERY day and you have to acknowledge and deal with the fact that men and women are SO differently wired.) And I get a lot of other good things out of it too.

Man, the crazy thing is I know a lot of really good single women, in the thirties or so, really looking for a good guy. A lot of them really want kids. It's out there, you just got to keep looking.

Some truth in what the last poster said about giving those Brot girls a little attitude. A lot of 'em only ever get to meet sad suits at the office or the usual alcys at the pub, so they treat men as a joke. In a way I don't blame them. The whole British repressive attitude to sex has really fucked a lot of people up (like the British).

anyhow, good luck. Just make sure you're having plenty fun while you're looking!

[LotsaFun]

Originally posted by BrendanGooch
Guys,

IEnglish girls seem to be rude and very cold towards me, I am good looking guys, and it hurts inside that one day I shall be old and not have had the pleasure of a relationship with a woman.

I really cant figure out how some of these repulsive looking guys always manage to get the girls ? Why is this ?

I get really depressed about this somtimes and really dont know who to chat to about this. If I talk to colleagues who I go out to drink with they will think I am some wierdo.

I would really appreciate some advice int his area.

Consider the following approach:
Don't be a nice guy when it comes to Brit and American Women. They're in need of "entertainment" as in be a cocky and funny guy, bust their chops in a teasing and humorous way, and keep them flustered. If they can't walk all overy you they'll chase after you.!!
laf

[BrendanGooch]

Merlin Magic,

Thanks ! for your response, its important that everyone is aware of these simple con tricks. The fact of the matter is I noticed alot of drunken foreigners that night who had ventured into the same area and were being approached by jamaicans asking if they wanted "cheap women ". God knows what happened to them.

Guys BEWARE OF THESE CON TRICKS !!!, stick to the models in the appartments.

A friend of mine has a father who works for a strip club called the WindMill in SOHO anyone been there ?

[Merlin Magician]

Brendan; you done right. You avoided one of the oldest cons in Soho. Yes you were probably targets of a ripoff or a potential mugging or robbery.

Besides, pussy is so damn cheap in Soho flats, at 20 quid, there is not much room for a "tip" anyway.

Too bad they did not try on Buster, he loves to crack skulls in Soho. Of course, they have to make the first attempt, after that, it is all over.

[BrendanGooch]

Hey Guys,

I was in SOHO on saturday night around 2-00 pm in the night, we not to far from Raymonds Bar (that strip place ). When two jamaiicans walked up and asked us whether we wanted women.

I replied "where"

They replied " The flat overthere there are two italian women"

I said " What do you get out of this"

Replied " A tip"

We declined and moved on, do you think this was a rip off scam ? i.e they lead us into the appartment then mug us ?

[CBGBConnisur]

britain is a great country for regular tourism but as far as it being a sex monger's paradise, it has a very long way to go. anyway this country never had a good reputation when it came to sex or love, the divorce rate here is almost double that of france or germany, and unlike other europeans this country can be really puritanical almost like the us. you're better off across the channel in holland, belgium, or germany where prices are also a fraction of what you would pay in the uk. pianist, 250 pounds is too much bloody money for those 'parties', i could find much lower prices in germany in the many fkk clubs rep001tered around the country and get complete uninhibited service whenever i want. if you want better sex with englishwomen, australia is your best bet, but its still not as good as europe or south america.

[Jimbehr2000]

Well folks I finally visited a few models in Soho today and have to say I was fairly impressed. Met a nice Asian and a Romanian and had a good time with both.Most of the action was on Peter St. with only a very few elsewhere in Soho. The quantity was less than I thought but the quality was good overall. Had a great time with the Asian and went looking for another Asian but couldn't find one. My new Asian friend is off tomorrow so I hope I can find another one in Soho. Damn my legs are tired from climbing those f'king stairs.

[ClassicPianist]

just to repeat the warnings about the peep and strip shows in soho which have slipped onto page 3 - don't even think about making an enquiry let alone go in or else you'll be relieved of a few hundred pounds in a matter of minutes. complaints to the police are futile as no criminal offence has been committed and in central london they have bigger fish to target their limited resources.

but there is one legitimate establishment for those who want to watch - sunset strip in dean street which has been in existence for decades where it costs £15 for entry and there's a bar for alcoholic beverages at pub prices. patrons can stay as long as they want and re-entry is permissible. there are normally about 6 girls averaging about 7-9 on the attractive scale during the hour and whilst tipping is welcome, there is no hassle for any additional outlay.

for those who want a bit of action in soho, walk ups are very safe to visit in terms of secuirty though a lottery in terms of quality of service but there is the occasional gem to be found who will give heart and soul and take her time for the basic £20. if you can afford to gamble then go for it but be prepared for those - in my opinion in the minority - who want to get rid of you asap. the remainder are those ladies who provide a good honest no frills service at minimal prices. many are eastern european or oriental under a variety of guises but they will make you feel welcome and give you the relief that you're seeking. be aware that the police have been known to make raids for immigration violations and while may very well be embarassing from a client's viewpoint, remember that you haven't committed any offence through partaking these services.

if you want quality then you'll need to go into the escort bracket many of whom cater for the incall market with apartments in the central london area. entry level is in the region of £150-200 per hour nowadays but standards will vary enormously as in every other sector of this industry - remember that the most expensive is not always the best.

the bottom line is that london may not be among the best location for paid sex but it's a long way from the worse if you know where to look. if you find yourself in the city and looking for a bit of action then you can have a wonderful time if you keep your wits about you.

[Merlin Magician]

Oh, and BTW, Brendan, I was also very depressed about this for years until I figured it all out.

"Oh, if I only knew then what I know now...."

Mainland Europe may not be a bad bet to move to. However, given my preference, it would be Australia or New Zealand. The people there are unlike any in the world with the exception of Ireland. Of all the cultures in the world, the People of Oz are my favorite next to the Irish and the Lebanese.

[BrendanGooch]

buster cherry/Merlin Magic,

Thanks for your advice, sorry to have brought this subject up, its
just I was feeling rather down in the dumps yesterday about
everything.

I might consider moving to mainland europe, as I find the english in general ( not all of them ) rather rude and nasty.

I guess that Donald Trumpet was right he remarked "for every relationship you have with a woman every woman is a *****". U pay for you get. I guess I am being a "fairy tale guy".

[Merlin Magician]

Buster is dead-on right. I've had many a good relationship with many of the hookers I've met over the years. I've never been very good at maintining a "straight woman" realtionship anyway. I guess I speak the language well and and I also empathize and identify more with the prostitutes.

Anyway, there' s no silly ass head games with a hooker; Hookers are usually very straightforward and honest with no hidden language or bullshit and you don't waste all your damn time and money with a hit or miss deal.

[Buster Cherry]

Brendan, just stick with the pay for play ladies you'll be much better off. That is unless you are looking to have a bunch of kids. Not many marriages or relationships last very long and you'll just wind up paying a lot of child support and some other poor asshole is raising your kids.

Besides paying for pussy is a whole lot cheaper than maintaining a girlfriend or wife. And..... you get to choose what you fuck; not be stuck with some worthless shitbag skank with a fish cannery between her legs.

Gimme a good ole ho anyday.

[BrendanGooch]

Guys,

I must have spent a fortune on paying for sex, the thing is I am rather shy when it comes to trying to chat up women.

I have tried hard to get on with english girls but all they do is play mind games with me. I went to croatia and serbia for a vacation and had a wonderful time overthere with women, who were warm and friendly.

English girls seem to be rude and very cold towards me, I am good looking guys, and it hurts inside that one day I shall be old and not have had the pleasure of a relationship with a woman.

I really cant figure out how some of these repulsive looking guys always manage to get the girls ? Why is this ?

I get really depressed about this somtimes and really dont know who to chat to about this. If I talk to colleagues who I go out to drink with they will think I am some wierdo.

I would really appreciate some advice int his area.

[Banana Joe]

Originally posted by Men who Pay
[...] why more men in the last 10 years are paying for sex than ever before.

It's the inflation, stupid! ;-)

Banana Joe