Ghana

[Global Citizen]

December, January or February are quite pleasant. It's quite dry and the temperatures in the mid 20's from the Harmattan.

Yes but the dust from the Harmattan will kill you!

GC

[Blackwhite99]

December, January or February are quite pleasant. It's quite dry and the temperatures in the mid 20's from the Harmattan.

Hi guys; planning to be in Accra just for fun after all I have read in the forum but one thing is not clear to me : which month would be the best time to be in Accra weatherwise? I mean, I do not want to be caught in soaking rain etc. And stuck in the hotel while I should be out hunting for my piece of Black Pussy!

[Mustakam]

Hi guys; planning to be in Accra just for fun after all I have read in the forum but one thing is not clear to me : which month would be the best time to be in Accra weatherwise? I mean, I do not want to be caught in soaking rain etc. And stuck in the hotel while I should be out hunting for my piece of Black Pussy!

[Mr Bonin]

I should caution you about starting a "long distance" relationship with a woman in a third world country. This applies especially to Africa. If you are worried about your girl going behind your back then I have news for you. It's going to happen anyway. Take it from someone that knows first hand. If you are sending her WU (Western Unions) , plus paying for her living conditions then she will screw someone else behind your back and when you return she will stop screwing until you leave. If she is an attractive woman you will competing with expats that have a higher disposable income then you or a wealthy local or a young stud that knows how to game women. Your best and only bet would be to move there. If you can't move there then she will definitely go behind your back with someone else as you as she sees someone that has more money.

Master Yoda you are dead spot on mate! Absofuckinlutely. It is not if you are away rather, when you are away she will definitely play. Local boyfriend (s) , other foreign boyfriends, to say nothing of the many "friends with the benefits." And what are you doing? Paying their bills. If or when you catch on to what she is doing, she will try to have some wild explanation as to how your findings are impossible. Or, she will try to reverse it on you and accuse you. On and on it goes. You there you fuck. You away, she still fuck. Just know that it is happening. And one more thing that you should be careful of. Take her back to your home country, because that is all she has been pushing you for while giving up everything to you to prove her love. Then after an amount of time to get to know the layout of the land and its workings, you go to work or out for some other reason, come home and she is gone. Hooked up with one of her other boyfriends whom she has called and said "baby, I made it here with the help of my girlfriend."

[Mr Bonin]

I should caution you about starting a "long distance" relationship with a woman in a third world country. This applies especially to Africa. If you are worried about your girl going behind your back then I have news for you. It's going to happen anyway. Take it from someone that knows first hand. If you are sending her WU (Western Unions) , plus paying for her living conditions then she will screw someone else behind your back and when you return she will stop screwing until you leave. If she is an attractive woman you will competing with expats that have a higher disposable income then you or a wealthy local or a young stud that knows how to game women. Your best and only bet would be to move there. If you can't move there then she will definitely go behind your back with someone else as you as she sees someone that has more money.

Master Yoda you are dead spot on mate! Absofuckinlutely. It is not if you are away rather, when you are away she will definitely play. Local boyfriend (s) , other foreign boyfriends, to say nothing of the many "friends with the benefits." And what are you doing? Paying their bills. If or when you catch on to what she is doing, she will try to have some wild explanation as to how your findings are impossible. Or, she will try to reverse it on you and accuse you. On and on it goes. You there you fuck. You away, she still fuck. Just know that it is happening.

[Ron Murray]

"And never bring them back to "your country" to live long term as they will all learn about divorce laws and division of property etc."

Truer words were never spoken. Take it from an old fool. Biggest mistake of my life. Cost me about 600k with the house included.

[Enigma84]

Pete Benetar, Global Citizen, Master Yoda and Ty down, Thank you all so much for your replies. This has encouraged me to take the next step and find me a nice Ghanaian beauty as a long term partner. Things with my wife are getting bad by the day. And thanks to all these news in place its very difficult for a man to do right here in Britain. I wish to have enough money to move out of England all together and move somewhere peaceful. But sadly I wouldn't be able to do that for another 10 or so years. I appreciate your concerns and your advice, especially the advice regarding surveillance. I have seen software out there that is suppose to be installed on smartphones like iPhone or Blackberry but I am not a techie and have no idea on how these things work. I suppose it would be like $400 or so to buy such software. I would look into getting such a thing done. Maybe buy a second hand phone and have the software installed. Then I could monitor back from Europe. I guess if I look in the obvious places such as coffee shops and banks I can feel real good women. Nightclubs and hostels are a bad idea in Ghana for a good non-pro.

[Pete Benetar]

I should caution you about starting a "long distance" relationship with a woman in a third world country. This applies especially to Africa. If you are worried about your girl going behind your back then I have news for you. It's going to happen anyway. Take it from someone that knows first hand. If you are sending her WU (Western Unions) , plus paying for her living conditions then she will screw someone else behind your back and when you return she will stop screwing until you leave. If she is an attractive woman you will competing with expats that have a higher disposable income then you or a wealthy local or a young stud that knows how to game women. Your best and only bet would be to move there. If you can't move there then she will definitely go behind your back with someone else as you as she sees someone that has more money.

I would agree that infidelity is a distinct probability and would suggest, at a minimum, electronic surveillance of cell phones and laptops etc. Laptops cells can be embedded with monitoring and tracking software. Tracking cell phones is much easier with closer proximity (e. G. GPS etc) , but can still be done. Human surveillance is much more expensive and tenuous and probably only really feasible if strong community contacts are established.

Having a girl in a different country let alone continent is clearly an invite to cheating. Some level of surveillance is clearly indicated in such a relationship and should be accounted for when assessing the financial feasibility of such a relationship. Still, I do not think it is impossible and may just have to go by the old default army adage of "Trust but Verify".

[Master Yoda]

I should caution you about starting a "long distance" relationship with a woman in a third world country. This applies especially to Africa. If you are worried about your girl going behind your back then I have news for you. It's going to happen anyway. Take it from someone that knows first hand. If you are sending her WU (Western Unions) , plus paying for her living conditions then she will screw someone else behind your back and when you return she will stop screwing until you leave. If she is an attractive woman you will competing with expats that have a higher disposable income then you or a wealthy local or a young stud that knows how to game women. Your best and only bet would be to move there. If you can't move there then she will definitely go behind your back with someone else as you as she sees someone that has more money.

[Pete Benetar]

I can only imagine the accuracy of your German friend's experience and to clarify, I'm not intending to "legally" marry my gf or any other African Trophy, at least anytime soon. Unfortunately, financial status has a lot do do with getting one of of these girls a Visa, especially student visa. But a "renewable" short term visa I think will prove fairly useful for keeping the girl's expectations in check and still provide her with everything I deem fair to both make her happy and to help her build her own future.

I was honestly surprised by the F-1 visa being granted and had tasked the girl to explore leasing options in the event I might support her. However,"keeping" a girl with no immediate plan to breed her (I would be more tactful and respectful in that case) , would have entailed more explicit conditions eg she remain faithful and monogamous unconditionally and I get my playtime. I might even require her to assist in my extracurricular arrangements (which this particular girl had already agreed to on my 2nd visit to Accra).

I think old school Mormons and some Muslims got it right on this account. So long as you can provide, you should not be limited in your earthly pursuit of heaven. Goes equally for the girls though too, IMO. If a lady can support a few impoverished studs, then the boys and girls might be quite happy in a role reversal.

[Global Citizen]

You as the provider should be in the driver's seat (unlike being married in the UK or in the USA).

You find a good girl, and she understands that the support you provide is and always will be optional, then I think you can find that slice of heaven.

I agree 1, 000%! Women in Africa are 2nd class citizens so if you don't "westernize" them, you'll be fine. And never bring them back to "your country" to live long term as they will all learn about divorce laws and division of property etc.

A German friend of mine divorced 2 Ghanaian women after he brought them back to Germany to live. Now his third wife has never been to Germany and they're still going strong. He still fucks around as much as he wants and his current wife turns a blind eye to his extra curricular activities because he provides for her and their kid.

GC

[Pete Benetar]

My idea is to find a suitable girl who is happy to be supplied with a house / apartment and living expenses or allow me to support her alittle with money if she already has a job. And if she is happy to have a few kids with me, and I will arrange to have them looked after, pay for education, food etc etc and visit her a few times a year whenever I can. Does it seem like a wise thing to do? I mean I am just not happy in my life at the moment. I made a mistake marrying this woman and I just want to find some happiness.

Is this just a bad idea or disaster waiting to happen?

I would really appreciate your thoughts on this. PM me if you like.[/QUOTE]Hey Enigma,

I feel for you and hope your personal affairs only improve.

I have only been to Ghana a few times and have settled with a girl whom I got an F-1 visa to attend school here in the USA. My experience with African women is thus limited and I have never had a "kept" gf. So take my comments or suggestions in the above context.

My gf moved here to the US exactly one month ago and it is going very well. Excellent companionship, great sex, real commitment (on both our parts). We chatted a good bit on skype before we met, so we got to know each other fairly well before actually meeting. While she is very conservative socially, she is a freak in bed.

I met this girl on a social date site. She is 21 yo, does not drink OR smoke, and was only in Ghana for 3 years before she came here to the USA. She left her central African homeland when she was a young girl as there was fighting going on there and her family did not want her safety threatened. She is very disciplined and has a very strong high school academic record, for which she kept all her academic evaluations. She also speaks five languages and in the course of 2 separate week long visits to Accra, I realized she was not only very disciplined, but she was also very intelligent and highly principled.

She is also head strong and while I have heard a lot of people regard that as a negative, I find it quite favorable given her conservative mores. Whenever we have a serious discourse in which she does not favor my opinion (the only real contention we have had since her arrival was when I began her practical training in advanced concepts of physical intimacy) , I let her know I will be happy to arrange a one way ticket back to Accra and she heels properly.

I think you could find a decent girl for your purposes, if you spend a fair amount of time in Ghana, as you say. Perhaps Accra is not the best place, but I found one there. Outlying areas may be more fruitful. I would suggest a girl who neither smokes nor drinks. I am Catholic and have 4 kids; all Catholic. If you are Christian do not automatically exclude muslim girls as these girls may be very disciplined, faithful etc and yet extremely satisfying to your manhood.

In any case, so many of these girls want to have children who can be sponsored, especially by a foreigner. Of course, the "right" girl will want you to move to Ghana full time and I think this might be a sign of a good woman, irrespective of whether or not it will ever be possible. You as the provider should be in the driver's seat (unlike being married in the UK or in the USA).

You find a good girl, and she understands that the support you provide is and always will be optional, then I think you can find that slice of heaven.

[Ty Down]

My idea is to find a suitable girl who is happy to be supplied with a house / apartment and living expenses or allow me to support her alittle with money if she already has a job. And if she is happy to have a few kids with me, and I will arrange to have them looked after, pay for education, food etc etc and visit her a few times a year whenever I can. Does it seem like a wise thing to do? I mean I am just not happy in my life at the moment. I made a mistake marrying this woman and I just want to find some happiness.

Is this just a bad idea or disaster waiting to happen?

I would really appreciate your thoughts on this. PM me if you like.

Enigma,

Find yourself a nice Ashanti girl.

[Global Citizen]

My idea is to find a suitable girl who is happy to be supplied with a house / apartment and living expenses or allow me to support her alittle with money if she already has a job. And if she is happy to have a few kids with me, and I will arrange to have them looked after, pay for education, food etc etc and visit her a few times a year whenever I can. Does it seem like a wise thing to do? I mean I am just not happy in my life at the moment. I made a mistake marrying this woman and I just want to find some happiness.

Is this just a bad idea or disaster waiting to happen?

I would really appreciate your thoughts on this. PM me if you like.

Enigma,

You are every Ghanaian girl's dream come true! My advice is as follows:

Ashanti girl. Money hungry and sleeps with anyone with money so stay away.

Ewe girl. Can't trust them as they will steal everything from you.

Northern girl. Nice strong women but hard to find one with a super hot body.

My advice is find yourself a nice Krobo girl. During Easter, go to Somanya for the Dipo festival (you can google it) and find yourself a nice virgin. You can negotiate with her parents then she'll be yours. Krobo girls have a bad and undeserved reputation but they are so faithful to the family that they will go out and prostitute themselves if the family needs money. They will also fuck you silly and do anything you want - no perversion is too perverted. They're also the most low maintenance girls I've had.

I've thought about doing what you want to do as well and a Krobo girl is the only one I would consider. If you want more info, PM me and I can put you in contact with someone.

But as with any Ghanaian girls, don't spoil them - give them the bare necessities (to their standard of living and not yours) plus a little shopping money - always keep them wanting more.

GC

[Enigma84]

Greetings to all, I had mentioned this before but I hadn't really been clear about it. I quite literally travel to Ghana alot on business and I spend alot of time on here. I have a wife back home in England and we currently have 1 kid. (She doesn't want anymore kids at the moment and she probably never will. But I do) I am probably the most sexually frustrated man in the world. I have a wife that only fucks me on occasion when she feels like it (approx 6 times last year, most times I just wack off) , she doesn't work or do shit, I do all the work and look after the kids. I don't love her the same way but right now I can't get a divorce because she would ruin me in the courts thanks to the system we have in place now. Each time I do travel to Ghana it's like a big sexual relief. Anyway when I do travel to Ghana in the coming months or so I want to get more into the GFE type of affairs with non-pros or regular girls and less of the hardcore street pros or nightclub pros. Don't get me wrong. I will still slam afew pros if they are hot enough but mostly its hard to get a hardbodied pro.

However, this request is for unusual advice from Ghana experts, but just hear me out for a second. Living in Ghana is quite cheap and if you get a girl that isn't too money hungry or one that works and can look after themselves why can't I start a serious relationship or start a second family with her. I love black women, especially Ghanaians and I travel to Ghana when in business around 5 or more times a year. My only problem is where to find a girl loyal enough that wouldn't fuck behind my back and ask for too much money. But If she can keep it secret until such time as I can decide when to make our relationship official or perhaps until I could retire and live in Ghana.

My idea is to find a suitable girl who is happy to be supplied with a house / apartment and living expenses or allow me to support her alittle with money if she already has a job. And if she is happy to have a few kids with me, and I will arrange to have them looked after, pay for education, food etc etc and visit her a few times a year whenever I can. Does it seem like a wise thing to do? I mean I am just not happy in my life at the moment. I made a mistake marrying this woman and I just want to find some happiness.

Is this just a bad idea or disaster waiting to happen?

I would really appreciate your thoughts on this. PM me if you like.