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10-03-11 02:33 #2802
Posts: 173Hi,
Pete Benetar, Global Citizen, Master Yoda and Ty down, Thank you all so much for your replies. This has encouraged me to take the next step and find me a nice Ghanaian beauty as a long term partner. Things with my wife are getting bad by the day. And thanks to all these news in place its very difficult for a man to do right here in Britain. I wish to have enough money to move out of England all together and move somewhere peaceful. But sadly I wouldn't be able to do that for another 10 or so years. I appreciate your concerns and your advice, especially the advice regarding surveillance. I have seen software out there that is suppose to be installed on smartphones like iPhone or Blackberry but I am not a techie and have no idea on how these things work. I suppose it would be like $400 or so to buy such software. I would look into getting such a thing done. Maybe buy a second hand phone and have the software installed. Then I could monitor back from Europe. I guess if I look in the obvious places such as coffee shops and banks I can feel real good women. Nightclubs and hostels are a bad idea in Ghana for a good non-pro.
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10-02-11 06:14 #2801
Posts: 458Originally Posted by Master Yoda [View Original Post]
Having a girl in a different country let alone continent is clearly an invite to cheating. Some level of surveillance is clearly indicated in such a relationship and should be accounted for when assessing the financial feasibility of such a relationship. Still, I do not think it is impossible and may just have to go by the old default army adage of "Trust but Verify".
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10-01-11 18:51 #2800
Posts: 262Be very careful!
I should caution you about starting a "long distance" relationship with a woman in a third world country. This applies especially to Africa. If you are worried about your girl going behind your back then I have news for you. It's going to happen anyway. Take it from someone that knows first hand. If you are sending her WU (Western Unions) , plus paying for her living conditions then she will screw someone else behind your back and when you return she will stop screwing until you leave. If she is an attractive woman you will competing with expats that have a higher disposable income then you or a wealthy local or a young stud that knows how to game women. Your best and only bet would be to move there. If you can't move there then she will definitely go behind your back with someone else as you as she sees someone that has more money.
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09-30-11 19:08 #2799
Posts: 458I can only imagine the accuracy of your German friend's experience and to clarify, I'm not intending to "legally" marry my gf or any other African Trophy, at least anytime soon. Unfortunately, financial status has a lot do do with getting one of of these girls a Visa, especially student visa. But a "renewable" short term visa I think will prove fairly useful for keeping the girl's expectations in check and still provide her with everything I deem fair to both make her happy and to help her build her own future.
I was honestly surprised by the F-1 visa being granted and had tasked the girl to explore leasing options in the event I might support her. However,"keeping" a girl with no immediate plan to breed her (I would be more tactful and respectful in that case) , would have entailed more explicit conditions eg she remain faithful and monogamous unconditionally and I get my playtime. I might even require her to assist in my extracurricular arrangements (which this particular girl had already agreed to on my 2nd visit to Accra).
I think old school Mormons and some Muslims got it right on this account. So long as you can provide, you should not be limited in your earthly pursuit of heaven. Goes equally for the girls though too, IMO. If a lady can support a few impoverished studs, then the boys and girls might be quite happy in a role reversal.
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09-30-11 08:14 #2798
Posts: 272Originally Posted by Pete Benetar [View Original Post]
A German friend of mine divorced 2 Ghanaian women after he brought them back to Germany to live. Now his third wife has never been to Germany and they're still going strong. He still fucks around as much as he wants and his current wife turns a blind eye to his extra curricular activities because he provides for her and their kid.
GC
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09-29-11 21:50 #2797
Posts: 458My idea is to find a suitable girl who is happy to be supplied with a house / apartment and living expenses or allow me to support her alittle with money if she already has a job. And if she is happy to have a few kids with me, and I will arrange to have them looked after, pay for education, food etc etc and visit her a few times a year whenever I can. Does it seem like a wise thing to do? I mean I am just not happy in my life at the moment. I made a mistake marrying this woman and I just want to find some happiness.
Is this just a bad idea or disaster waiting to happen?
I would really appreciate your thoughts on this. PM me if you like.[/QUOTE]Hey Enigma,
I feel for you and hope your personal affairs only improve.
I have only been to Ghana a few times and have settled with a girl whom I got an F-1 visa to attend school here in the USA. My experience with African women is thus limited and I have never had a "kept" gf. So take my comments or suggestions in the above context.
My gf moved here to the US exactly one month ago and it is going very well. Excellent companionship, great sex, real commitment (on both our parts). We chatted a good bit on skype before we met, so we got to know each other fairly well before actually meeting. While she is very conservative socially, she is a freak in bed.
I met this girl on a social date site. She is 21 yo, does not drink OR smoke, and was only in Ghana for 3 years before she came here to the USA. She left her central African homeland when she was a young girl as there was fighting going on there and her family did not want her safety threatened. She is very disciplined and has a very strong high school academic record, for which she kept all her academic evaluations. She also speaks five languages and in the course of 2 separate week long visits to Accra, I realized she was not only very disciplined, but she was also very intelligent and highly principled.
She is also head strong and while I have heard a lot of people regard that as a negative, I find it quite favorable given her conservative mores. Whenever we have a serious discourse in which she does not favor my opinion (the only real contention we have had since her arrival was when I began her practical training in advanced concepts of physical intimacy) , I let her know I will be happy to arrange a one way ticket back to Accra and she heels properly.
I think you could find a decent girl for your purposes, if you spend a fair amount of time in Ghana, as you say. Perhaps Accra is not the best place, but I found one there. Outlying areas may be more fruitful. I would suggest a girl who neither smokes nor drinks. I am Catholic and have 4 kids; all Catholic. If you are Christian do not automatically exclude muslim girls as these girls may be very disciplined, faithful etc and yet extremely satisfying to your manhood.
In any case, so many of these girls want to have children who can be sponsored, especially by a foreigner. Of course, the "right" girl will want you to move to Ghana full time and I think this might be a sign of a good woman, irrespective of whether or not it will ever be possible. You as the provider should be in the driver's seat (unlike being married in the UK or in the USA).
You find a good girl, and she understands that the support you provide is and always will be optional, then I think you can find that slice of heaven.
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09-29-11 02:57 #2796
Posts: 503Originally Posted by Enigma84 [View Original Post]
Find yourself a nice Ashanti girl.
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09-29-11 01:31 #2795
Posts: 272Originally Posted by Enigma84 [View Original Post]
You are every Ghanaian girl's dream come true! My advice is as follows:
Ashanti girl. Money hungry and sleeps with anyone with money so stay away.
Ewe girl. Can't trust them as they will steal everything from you.
Northern girl. Nice strong women but hard to find one with a super hot body.
My advice is find yourself a nice Krobo girl. During Easter, go to Somanya for the Dipo festival (you can google it) and find yourself a nice virgin. You can negotiate with her parents then she'll be yours. Krobo girls have a bad and undeserved reputation but they are so faithful to the family that they will go out and prostitute themselves if the family needs money. They will also fuck you silly and do anything you want - no perversion is too perverted. They're also the most low maintenance girls I've had.
I've thought about doing what you want to do as well and a Krobo girl is the only one I would consider. If you want more info, PM me and I can put you in contact with someone.
But as with any Ghanaian girls, don't spoil them - give them the bare necessities (to their standard of living and not yours) plus a little shopping money - always keep them wanting more.
GC
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09-28-11 03:07 #2794
Posts: 173What do you think of this idea?
Greetings to all, I had mentioned this before but I hadn't really been clear about it. I quite literally travel to Ghana alot on business and I spend alot of time on here. I have a wife back home in England and we currently have 1 kid. (She doesn't want anymore kids at the moment and she probably never will. But I do) I am probably the most sexually frustrated man in the world. I have a wife that only fucks me on occasion when she feels like it (approx 6 times last year, most times I just wack off) , she doesn't work or do shit, I do all the work and look after the kids. I don't love her the same way but right now I can't get a divorce because she would ruin me in the courts thanks to the system we have in place now. Each time I do travel to Ghana it's like a big sexual relief. Anyway when I do travel to Ghana in the coming months or so I want to get more into the GFE type of affairs with non-pros or regular girls and less of the hardcore street pros or nightclub pros. Don't get me wrong. I will still slam afew pros if they are hot enough but mostly its hard to get a hardbodied pro.
However, this request is for unusual advice from Ghana experts, but just hear me out for a second. Living in Ghana is quite cheap and if you get a girl that isn't too money hungry or one that works and can look after themselves why can't I start a serious relationship or start a second family with her. I love black women, especially Ghanaians and I travel to Ghana when in business around 5 or more times a year. My only problem is where to find a girl loyal enough that wouldn't fuck behind my back and ask for too much money. But If she can keep it secret until such time as I can decide when to make our relationship official or perhaps until I could retire and live in Ghana.
My idea is to find a suitable girl who is happy to be supplied with a house / apartment and living expenses or allow me to support her alittle with money if she already has a job. And if she is happy to have a few kids with me, and I will arrange to have them looked after, pay for education, food etc etc and visit her a few times a year whenever I can. Does it seem like a wise thing to do? I mean I am just not happy in my life at the moment. I made a mistake marrying this woman and I just want to find some happiness.
Is this just a bad idea or disaster waiting to happen?
I would really appreciate your thoughts on this. PM me if you like.
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09-20-11 17:19 #2793
Posts: 11Labadi Beach will be happening tomorrow!
Originally Posted by BeachGuy8 [View Original Post]
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09-20-11 12:01 #2792
Posts: 23Daytime recreation
Question: Found myself with the day off. Besides meeting locals in the markets, are there any places of note in during the day in
Accra good for meeting some fine ladies for some afternoon recreation?
Thanks in advance,
BG
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09-18-11 03:41 #2791
Posts: 11Thursday & Saturday
Ok Thursday was a cool night, things got exciting in Seedies bedroom, had a few beers on the way home from work and decided I needed some action. Earlier in the week I got the phone number of a girl called Victoria who seemed sweet and was quite cute and also the number of a student called Helen so I text both with the line "fancy a fuck" well both were straight back on the phone but only one could get through so Victoria, from Mali or Senegal can't remember, said she would meet me in Legon in 30 mins. Helen said she would joined to but didn't know Victoria so maybe I can send a pic and she may join in. Anyway Victoria arrived and decided she wasn't up for that so I was a little despondant but mad the most of a bad situation. V wanted it very hard and demanded to be tied to the bed after BJ and I obliged, though I felt she wanted control, after the first tank empty she demanded the next well I am 40 so I told her to wait a while which she didn't like then explained to me how she needed a new door on her house which was 400 cedi's and after a few mins she decided to push the point with another BJ which I responded too and we went again before some sleep. Sadly the AC kept cutting out during a few power cuts and this ruined the sleep and a stupid o'clock in the I decided to have another ride.
During this go wear cramp almost got me half way through she had to had to do the riding and then I did get an hours sleep only to be woken up by her demanding a "big strong man". Anyway I dropped her on my way to work at 7. 30 and of course told her I'd call her sometime only to have her called me 20 mins after telling me she missed me. I explained this wasnt cool but in 2 days the girl has rung me 9 times. I have now resorted to texting her telling her I am not interested. I suppose she is only trying to pay for her door but I like variety and her BJ's were not great, she didn't do anal, had saggy tits and she wanted to lead when I was
Paying.
Anyway Saturday 30 cedi's BJ anal and kicked her out 30 mins ago. This girl will do anything seriously and as I wanted to watch the boxing I told her 2 hours then she could go but she really didn't want to, she just wanted to sleep. Anyway she arrived and was reluctant to get down to business and wanted to watch TV and smoke, she then told me she didn't like sex which of course isn't what you want to hear either. Anyway I told asked her to get undressed and due to my experiences with bad tits in Ghana I chose her bcs she had small tit and expected them to be small, cute and most importantly firm so imagine my thoughts when I saw the worst pair of boobs I have ever seen.
To her credit she made the most of her talents and gave the best BJ I have had here, working balls and going on to gag a few times before taking a load in her mouth and laughing. Whilst doing this I losened her ass with oil and finger and again to her credit she accepted fully. After the BJ she proceeded to give a half decent massage and I responded with little chap wanting more so after a bit of reverse cow girl (even though a cow has better udders) I went and took her doggy before working it in to her ass. She made some noises like it was uncomfortable but to be honest it wasnt that tight, I wasnt the first visitor by any stetch of the imagination. To finish I spaffed a present on her ass as I couldn't bear doing it on her tits, as my load would have been bigger and firmer those mams, before having a few minutes of rest. In this time she seemed to sleep and I had to prod her awake to get her out in time for the boxing.
Anyway moral of the story watch the clingers they are a pain in the ass, treat them nice and they want you to be "theirs", Treat them like meat and they will still want to hang around a little but ultimately were the fuck are the nice tits in Ghana. If I was in UK I would call trading standards and moan about false advertising. The push up bra is the worlds worst invention. I have pics of Saturday girl but I decided not to post them as the tits are so so bad!
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09-17-11 20:48 #2790
Posts: 11Impressed!
Originally Posted by Scout123 [View Original Post]
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09-15-11 03:01 #2789
Posts: 140Originally Posted by Jazz123 [View Original Post]
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09-14-11 08:43 #2788
Posts: 75A Ghanaian wedding
Don't know if members care for long reports but I tried to get some African atmosphere into this one. And here's extract so you can skip the rest:
"Met non-pro woman, went to wedding with woman, fucked woman, left woman"
It was too hot for my taste in Bolgatanga. I had been to Paga, petting the crocs and generally been bored. Now I was heading back for Tamale on a Friday noon, waiting for the bus to leave the usual hour late. I had picked a window seat and a young and not too pretty girl sat down next to me. The bus finally took off and the girl opened a bag with food."You are invited" for which I thanked while I cursed myself for not having better company. But just on the other side of the aisle there was a good looking woman. I had seen her at the bus station and she was a tall girl. With 5 kilos less she'd have been amazing, now she was 'only' gorgeous. During the drive we exchanged glances but couldn't really talk with the girl and aisle between us.
At the station in Tamale we started chatting because "I don't know anything about Tamale" and I found out her name was Janet and that she was 27, one child. She was taller than me, over 6 feet with very long legs. I offered her a soda and she told me she was going to a friend's wedding the next day. We spent almost an hour at the station talking and then she said that I'd be welcome at the wedding. That didn't seem like a good idea, I didn't know bride or groom. "No problem, I will get you an invitation" she smiled. I tried to get her to go out with me the same night but she couldn't because of the bachelorette party. "But maybe after that".
We parted, I got a room at Al Hassan Hotel and one hour later a call from the groom who would be happy to see me at the wedding. Now that's a formal invitation so I thanked him many times. I arranged the details with Janet and bought my wedding present, a bottle of South-African white wine nicely wrapped. And more talks with Jane during the evening, something went wrong with the bachelorette party and they had to go and pick up some guests whose car had broken down so it got too late for her to come. One more boring night.
At 10 am Janet arrived to the hotel dressed in her best clothes which was a brown suit made of what looked like polyester. I told her she was lovely (which she was), that I liked her clothes (which I didn't) while admiring her curves. I looked pretty good myself in nice trousers and a very colorful shirt from Donkorkrom. So into a taxi and off to the wedding. It was a Catholic church, large and fairly new. While guests arrived there was a band of men and women in very nice uniforms marching around outside the church, some kind of "Christian Soldiers". Lots of singing during the wedding ceremony and maybe 100 guests inside the church. A couple of guys filmed the whole thing and the only obroni got more than his share of attention, I may have gotten more screen time than the happy couple! The ceremony ended with a show by a dance troop from the groom's village and we were told to come to the party.
It was held at a nearby restaurant and I joined a couple of other guests while Janet went to her room for a change of clothes; polyester must be very hot in Northern Ghana. The place was nice but didn't have room for all guests inside so food was carried around by waiters, some sort of BBQ. My gift was very well received and judging from the other presents it wasn't too little or too much. There was also dancing inside to sweaty rhythms. Janet (now in red jeans and a tight shirt) shook what her mother gave her and I did my best to follow. Now and then she'd 'bump' me with that wonderful ass but because of her long legs it was like being punched in the solar plexus. After more mingling I told her that I needed a rest but that I'd like to take her out in the evening. And invited her to come to my room which she accepted because she "needed to charge the phone". Taxi back to Al Hassan.
The walk of shame when one guides a hooker through the reception in front of disapproving guests was a walk of pride this time. Inside the courtyard a big screen TV had been set up with its back a few feet from my room and maybe 40 guys watching Premier League while we made our way to the room. I turned around in the door and got thumbs up from a couple of the guys. I felt sweaty and took a shower, then put on underpants and a shirt and lay down on the bed while Janet showered. She came back in underwear and joined me on the bed. We cuddled a bit and talked other about our backgrounds and she showed me a pic of her daughter. Janet was sweet and played hard to get which was fine with me, no need to rush things.
Somehow I must have told her that I do a pretty good massage and she wanted to try that. Out came the coconut butter (which I use after sunbathing), Janet turned around and I started working her magnificent body. First her legs and then her back but "you have to take your bra off for that, dear". My compliments to her child! Usually African babies spoil their mothers' tits and they end up looking like plastic bags with a bit of oil in them. But these were fine and only a little saggy. I continued the massage for a good while which she clearly enjoyed and gave small moans of pleasure."No man has ever touched me like that" she whispered and rolled to her back. Well, I'm no expert at reading women but this couldn't be mistaken. I teased her and said that I wanted to finish the massage but it was hard to sound convincing with a very visible erection.
The sex was romantic. Kissing, slowly discovering each others bodies, DATY and BBBJ before fucking in multiple positions. Oh what an ass! I don't know how long it took but I held back as long as I could before I shot my load in the condom. She had 2 loud orgasms so I felt quite content with myself. We cuddled, talked and caressed for a while but a man's got to do what a man's got to do. So I did the obvious, took a quick shower, got dressed and left the room-I wanted a beer! The guys outside were still watching football, must have been the 2nd match of the afternoon. I got a couple of grins on the way, went to the spot outside and bought a Star and a soda to go. Back in the room Janet was all smiles, did she expect one more round? "Let's rest a little" which I certainly needed; a 27 year old African amazone is a tough match for a middle aged obroni in average physical shape. "And I have forgotten my malaria pill too". I popped a Stigra (generic Viagra bought in Accra) and hoped for the best.
Somehow we must have dozed off but it wasn't dark yet. Janet had her back to me and I moved closer. The Stigra was beginning to do its job so I placed my dick against her buttocks and felt it grow. And so did she. "You want again?" I mumbled something about celebrating a wedding and we started. It was wilder this time, I thought I was in heaven and all I could smell was pussy and coconut butter. The details are blurred but Janet deepthroated and I had pussy juice all over my face. After another shot I passed out or maybe just fell asleep.
I woke up in the early evening with Janet's arm across my chest. I woke her up an told her we needed some food. It was dark so I don't really know where we went but we picked up a couple of guinea fowls from a street stall and went to an outdoor restaurant where we had some fries to go with the poultry. Life doesn't get much better than that; a fine meal, a pretty African lady with a very pleased look in her eyes, fireflies here and there, unknown insects making noise and an almost full moon to top it off. Well, near perfect; I had my doubts if I could manage one more round and wondered if a 2nd Stigra would help? And would that be an overdose? That's when Janet's phone rang-it was the bride. The groom had gone out with his buddies and understandably the bride was all in tears! I'm not sure if it ruined my evening or saved my life but Janet walked me back to the hotel and left me to go and stay with the bride.
I woke late and called Janet for an update. The groom had returned after a few hours but it was certainly not a promising beginning for the marriage. For the record: the couple had lived together for some years and even had a child but that's no excuse for the groom. We decided to meet in the afternoon and go to a dance show in the evening. I took a short walk around town, got some food and one of the delicious yogurt ice creams, they're addictive! In an inspired moment I brought a couple back to the room where I started to pack some of my stuff, I had a very early bus to Kumasi.
Janet arrived, all smiles and looking even better than 12 hours earlier. We talked for maybe 2 minutes before we were in the shower and then on the bed. I'll spare most of the details but the afternoon included licking melted ice cream (chocolate of course) off each others bodies. Janet must have seen vintage porn and we started role playing with lines from 1980s black movies. I was "a baad baad man" and "you hurt me too much" while she was "ma bitchh" and "swallow that you ho" until we cracked up. A memorable afternoon for sure!
Well, this is where the story ends. We did go to the dance show and dinner but returned to a hotel with no electricity. Al Hassan had been OK with aircon but was hotter than Hell now. No way we could do anything there (I was actually feeling up to it) and Janet left me. I had a horrible night with hardly any sleep and packed the rest of my stuff with only a candle to give some light and then walked to the station. Janet came to say goodbye and I tried to persuade her to join me for some days, Lake Bosomtwe or the beach or whatever but no luck, she had to get back to her job and daughter.