Ghana

[LuvDaPuss]

Man, after reading the good doctors report, I'm more convinced than ever to visit Nigeria. Oh, how nice to be a big slob of an American and be fawned over by the wayward young college females that would do just anything for a few dollars!
Man - o - man, I promise I will visit before I am too old and degenerated to enjoy a lovely place like this.

[Mike_Q]

hello gents...
long time no see...
i saw this report in a local lagos paper about the state of affairs
in nigerian universities...have a good read..
i wonder how the situation is in ghana.?
if you have some info let me know.

the universities as sodom and gomorrah
24 -03 2003
by douglas anele


there is a worrisome development in the universities across the country today which has received scant attention from those at the helm of affairs in the tertiary institutions, parents, government officials and the nigerian society as a whole. the situation i have in mind is the rapid decline of what one might loosely call "moral consciousness" amongst our students.

an acquaintance with the activities of students in any university campus today, particularly those located at the urban centres, would reveal disgusting dangerous low level of moral awareness in our undergraduates, a veritable reflection of the moral dilemma of our country. the ugly state of affairs manifests in various ways. in the first place, many of our university undergraduates, both male and female join cults, a situation that oftentimes result in terrible consequences for both the students themselves and the entire university community.

cultism in our various campuses is one of the most unacademic manifestations of moral decadence amongst our students. also, the spate of thievery in the hostels has escalated seriously. in girls’ hostels, for example, clothes of all kinds, including underwear, jewelry, food items (both cooked and raw), books, toiletries, money, etc. are routinely stolen there. i even heard that girls "steal" boyfriends from one another. amongst the boys, money, clothes and books are targeted, and cases abound when even bathroom slippers are "poached" by the students. our students these days are quarrelsome. sometimes, the quarrels degenerate into real fights. this brand of indiscipline is an incontrovertible index of moral anaemia anytime, any day. the noise level in hostels especially from music systems, televisions and senseless chatter, constitute a disturbing variety of noise pollution.

our students in general are no better than pigs. if you visit the toilets and bathrooms in the hostels, not to talk of the rooms in which these students live, you would come away with the unmistakably feeling that you have just visited a pig’s sty. the hostels are so filthy, and the stench oozing from them so bad that one wonders what on earth has gone awfully wrong with the young men and women in our tertiary institutions. some of these hostels compete quite favourably with the dirtiest places in town. in a word, a vast majority of our university undergraduates are glorified pigs!

when it comes to man-and-woman relationship, university undergraduates have, in general, taken matters to a whole new level of absurdity. the way our girls dress while on campus can tempt even the holiest person on earth. campus girls now operate with the madness-inducing philosophy of "if you’ve got it, show it!", thereby leaving nothing to the imagination. those "old school" people who are quick to accuse lecturers of sexual harassment of female undergraduates have no idea of the sexual exhibitionism rampant on campuses. as a young lecturer, it is very difficult to shield oneself completely from the salacious and lewd mode of dressing by the "pepperlesses".

our female students have simply gone bananas. even those whom nature have treated unfairly in terms of bodily endowments have continued to insult our aesthetic sensibilities by their horrifying looks all in the name of spaghetti tops, body hugs, hipsters, pedal pushers, mini skirts, etc. sometimes, i find the spectacle very interesting, because it has opened up for me, quite easily, an insight into nature’s ability as a sculptor of female anatomy. i repeat, there is no way a healthy man, whether young or old, would not be distracted by the syndrome of half-nakedness in vogue amongst majority of our university girls.

romance on campus has lost the beautiful aroma of our days due to excessive materialism, on the part of the girls, and the debauchery of the male visitors from outside the campus who are willing to spend some fraction of their ill-gotten wealth on the "loose babes" on campus. love amongst university students is everything by lovely. girls go after their class boys especially during tests and examinations, in order to parasitize on the gullible boys at those critical periods.

most of these boys feel frustrated afterwards, since the girls are hardly interested in them romantically and would jump into the next available exotic cars, in the presence of the hapless boys! this unfeeling attitude of campus girls arouse strong feelings of jealousy and envy in the boys who watch helplessly as the "aristos" pluck the ripe fruits from their "territory" without giving a damn about who was watching and who was hot. as a result, some of these hollow young men join cults in the stupid belief that that is the best way to get back at the girls.

campus girls, i am sorry to say, create the impression that nigerian girls are very cheap. the average pot-bellied, ugly wrinkled lebanese, indian, pakistani, european or american who belonged to the dregs of the society back in his home country would tell you that by just flashing a few dollars, the nigerian female undergraduate, shamelessly performs real wonders on his placid, pale and sagging body. visit the clubs and "hot spots" in lagos, abuja, port harcourt etc. you will be appalled at the number of female students hawking their "wares" to the highest bidders.

for our female students, love is cash, and whoever lacks it can rot away in the golgotha of loneliness. indeed, campus love is dead or rather cremated; its ashes can be seen in the form of the decline in fructifying romantic relationships amongst students, with its attendant psychological dysfunction leading to all kinds of anti-social behaviour. some male undergraduate become robbers whilst their female counterparts routinely give sex for money.

there are several reasons why university undergraduates have lost their bearing on the important issue of morality. the fundamental one is the rapid decline in the socializing influence of the family on children. many parents, i am afraid, lack the requisite psychological and intellectual attributes to be parents. many rich parents are so silly to think that giving their children anything they want is a sign of love and good parenting. some of them, having failed to give the proper upbringing to their kids, mistakenly believe that they can make up for their failures by over-indulging the children. the latter grow up without the necessary moral ammunition to cope reasonably with the ever-complex society of which they are a part.

again, most parents are in a haste to have their children in the universities, with the result that these institutions are overpopulated with psychologically unprepared young boys and girls, the most venturesome impressionable stage of their lives. so, they are much more easier to be influenced by their peers into undesirable behaviour. as a corollary, these students, being quite young, still feel that time is on their side to behave as they please, without realising that time actually waits for no one. the system of education we have now merely produces certificated people, not really well educated citizens equipped with the moral and intellectual resources to cope with present-day realities.

something must be done quickly or else our universities would be modern day versions of sodom and gomorrah. parents must be alive to their responsibilities to their children, and stop the folly of dumping hastily in our universities, morally warped human beings expecting the universities to turn base metal into gold, so to speak. there must be a return to the discipline of those days in our secondary schools, there should be a return to the hsc system because that system has a better chance of producing more mature prospective undergraduates ready for the challenges of tertiary education. parents must monitor their children on campus to make sure that they do not deviate too much from reasonable behaviour.

the university authorities must invent new strategies for encouraging well behaved students. one of such strategies is the institution of awards for well-behaved students in each department at every level annually. another is to address the welfare problems students face both in the classroom and in the hostels. yet another is to organise fora wherein the importance of good behaviour by students is highlighted.

i advise nigerian undergraduates to constantly reflect on their lives and ask themselves the following questions: what positive contribution have i made to my family and society? what sort of life am i living? is it the kind of life i would recommend for others or is it the kind that i would condemn? does my existence as a human being has any meaning? in what way can i best use my productive powers to help myself, my family, and humanity in general? am i living an authentic life or is my life merely a projection of what others want me to be?

after all, socrates had said it all more than two millennia ago: an unexamined life is not worth living. the ball is now in your court, dear students, either to let your lives drift aimlessly or to give your lives a focus, a direction and a significance. the choice, indeed, is yours.

dr. anele teaches philosophy at the university of lagos, akoka.

[Waywardson]

Hey Frank,
Do you know where one can find good African smut on the internet? Or pictures of African girlies letting it all hang out? I figure Nigeria must have some sites. The only thing I have found is Africanamateurs.com which only has a few African girls.
Thanks

[Frank Africa]

Originally posted by Waywardson
Day One - a nice but slightly nervous looking young woman early 20s - when it was time for her to leave she asked me if I was a Christian and started talking to me about some Texas based church that she belonged to?...Not at all strange that a girl who had just commited prostitution would want to talk to you about her church.

I found the Macumba experience a bit hard core.

Be careful with these girls. Hide your stuff or better yet lock it up in your luggage. Lock the door and hide the key so she can't sneak away when you fall asleep.

I enjoyed your post as it brought back lots of good memories of my visits to Ghana.

Two thoughts about your shy Day One girl: first, she is not a prostitute and she doesn't see what she did as prostitution, but as an afternoon social event that ended up with some cash as a bonus to buy dinner, etc. Girls like her are usually the best girls to be with in Africa, certainly better than the Macumba scene, which I hate.

Secondly, there's no contradiction between her having sex with you and being religious - keep in mind that Africans have much less hangups about sex than we Americans - it's seen as a natural part of everyone's life.

Your safety advice is also right-on. I usually put all my valuables in the safe-deposit box at the hotel (if they have one), or else I lock up everything in my luggage. Rarely will these girls be interested in a full-scale robbery, but a quick grab-the-cash-and-run opportunity is too tempting for many ladies. I once had a girl quickly grab my trousers and try to go through my wallet in the 30 seconds that it took me to go to the bathroom to wash my hands - luckily I had emptied my wallet earlier of everything except the small amount of cash that I wanted to spend for the night, and I caught her "in the act" anyway. I ended up throwing her out of my room while alerting hotel security to keep her out in the future, which they did. But that's more likely with a Macumba girl, not the Day One shy girl.

[Waywardson]

I have made my 3rd trip to West Africa this year. This was a work related trip through Ghana, Togo and Benin. If you haven't been hunting for talent in West Africa you don't know what you are missing. Yeah the whole AIDS thing is a drag but if you take the proper precautions it is no more dangerous than anywhere else we perverts practice our sport.

You can get your dick wet dirt cheap. Without looking too hard you can find many semi pros, decent girls who need extra money to make ends meet. As far as prices here is an example - my third night in Accra I had a nice chicken dinner at the Bus Stop outdoor bistro, paid for several short taxi trips, 2 beers in an outdoor pick up bar and paid for the all night services of a nice, cute clean girl ( 2 nuts busted plus an unfinished cbj). All of this for about $30. I thought about you guys during this trip; especially you poor schleps in the States - cruising seedy neighborhoods for hours dodging L.E, inner city thugs, killer pimps, transvestites and competing against rival johns all for the privelege of shelling out $30+ for a rushed blowjob from a degenerate crack ho. Hey I know what I'm talking about I've been there! My apologies to the Crack Ho Anti-Defamation League.

Anyway in Accra I was put up at the El Elyon Hotel. A small, comfortable place well located in the OSU area. I think my room was $70 a night which I think is a bit pricey for this part of the world. You can find better bargains but hey I wasn't the one paying. This is a respectable place so be discreet.

I didn't waste any time. When I checked in the young man who took up my bags said he could run any errands or help guide me around town. My radar goes up. I'm terrible with names but I remember him being a tall, lanky kid and he did not wear a uniform. The other people working there did. To test him I tell him I need some mineral water. He runs across the street and gets me some, gives me my change. "Say, I need some company tonight can you help out?" His eyes light up oh of course I'm your friend, blah, blah. Now I've had some mixed experiences with this type of set up but I have 4 nights to myself, per diem in my pocket and despite the long flight, a stiff 6 Iron in my pants. I told him I was going to eat, shower and rest but he could bring someone by 2PM. I figured I could bust 2 nuts that afternoon and go out for dinner and a beer that evening. I described exactly what I wanted - there was a cutie at the reception that I used as an ideal but I specified that I didn't want her. I didn't want to embarass the receptionist. I didn't have much local currency so I toId him that I had a $20 for both of them. I would pay her and he would get his cut from the girl. Ghana is a dual currency country so $ are much appreciated.

I was in such anticipation of what would walk through the door that I couldn't take a nap. At 2:15 there was a knock, opened up and the dude came in followed by a nice but slightly nervous looking young woman early 20s. I was relieved that she wasn't fat or too hard core looking. Dressed in jeans and oversize t shirt, reasonable make up and real hair. So I thanked him and repeated that the girl would take care of him. When he left I tried to break the ice with the girl, name was Florence she said she was an computer studies apprenctice and that she had to leave by 6 PM. She was a bit stiff but seemed like a nice girl. Not a pro just a regular local girl looking for extra money to buy clothing, beauty products, etc.. To avoid all problems I repeated the deal - $20 and she would take care of our hustler friend, etc.. She shrugged at the money talk as if it was tacky to talk about such matters. That's OK I thought, you are going to have something a whole lot tackier dripping all over your face if things go according to my plans. Actually this girl wasn't a pro so you couldn't go for the jugular right off the bat. Nice girl who would probably give you a nice GFE if you treat her right, she gets to know you, are respectful etc..(Aside, Africans I have met are reluctant to talk about money. Not that the girls want to set you up for a scene when they leave because the money you are proposing is insufficient, people are just shy talking about payment, etc.. I don't know about places like Nigeria.)

Anyway, I told her let's make ourselves comfortable. She waited until I was completely nude before she started undressing. I slipped on two rubbers, climbed on top and went to work. I had saved up my juice for a full week so after a few minutes I felt the load perculating. Of course this was when she was just getting into it so instead of building her expectations and prematurely ejaculating I pulled it out, took off the 2 jimmies and after OKing it with her I jerked off a copious load of man mustard all over her tummy. She had been clean, perfumed and powdered all over but I fouled her up something good. I know she is getting paid to service me but I still have my pride I don't want to get off early and have the girl underneath me wimpering for more so I rather cut things short and unload the goods. I took a nap and gave her a second more satisfying round about 2 hours later. When it was time for her to leave she asked me if I was a Christian and started talking to me about some Texas based church that she belonged to? Ghana and many African coutries are full of evangelical sects and cults. Not at all strange that a girl who had just commited prostitution would want to talk to you about her church.

The second night I was planning on going to Accra's best known pick up joint, Macumba, but it rained. We are not talking about a London drizzle, eveerything shuts down during African rainstorms.

The third night I had a couple of beers before heading out so I was a bit giddy by the time I hailed a taxi about 10:30 PM. I said something about looking for women and Macumba but I don't know where he ended up taking me. I didn't see a sign outside but he told me this was the place. I found the Macumba experience a bit hard core. The girls were all pros, some of them too aggressive. I like to sit down, survey the herd, have a beer and make an independent pick. The place is a flesh market and like all markets you will be pestered by the merchants trying to sell you their wares. One girl with purple hair extensions, Aunt Jemima Pancake Mix makeup and about 20-30 extra pounds came over and sat down uninvited and wouldn't take the hint to leave. Another girl came over, ignored the first girl, shook my hand and introduced herself. The first girl took this as a great afront and started berating her in some pidgin English. I thought a catfight was going to break out and other patrons started looking our way. One of the bouncers/servers came over and made both girls get up. After these tacky going ons I didn't dare call another girl over so I paid and left. Fortunately there are girls outside the club and I found one who was presentable. I negotiated 150,000 cedis for the night (about $19). Of course I had locked up all of my belongings before taking her back to the hotel. No problem bringing her up to the room. Be careful with these girls. Hide your stuff or better yet lock it up in your luggage. Lock the door and hide the key so she can't sneak away when you fall asleep.

My last night in Accra was spent with co-conferenciers so I took a break. In addition to my mongering activities I had played with myself a couple of times so the keg was tapped out. Plus I was headed to Lome, Togo and Cotonou, Benin so I had to save some of my love. I did some real bottom feeding in Lome and Cotonou so read on guys.

[XXL]

Ghana

Ghana was my first 100% African country. Before that I had only been in Madagascar which is 50% African and 50% Asian

Ghana was a flop as far as I'm concerned. The hotel I'd booked in in Accra was far away from any action. There were no hookers in or around the hotel. Evangelical events were held there with people singing hymns until all hours and getting hysterical about Jesus (Ghana is plagued by cults).

One of the discos I remember was Kilimanjaro. It made no great impression on me. Girls very pro, not very young. What a contrast to the good time I'd had in Antanarivo a few months before that! (Madagascar was very good 6 years ago!. Haven't been there since the political/military showdown though).

Eventually, I got so dissappointed I went to KLM to change my ticket and flew home before the week was over.

I should've tried harder, maybe. My hotel was certainly in the wrong part of town and Accra was probably not the right place anyway.

I was later told there's a whole red-light district right on the Ghana/Togo border. Togo has the CFA Franc as currency. Contrary to the Cedi, the CFA Franc is convertible into French Franc or Euros so doing business in CFA is a bonus for Ghana prostitutes.

In fact, that Ghana trip was such and anticlimax that I very nearly gave up on black Africa altogether. Glad I didn't though.

xxl

[Weasel]

Now, As for Nigeria.

My hosts at the University scared me to death.

I bought a $300 ticket to go from Accra t oLagos. the fianl straw was that iwas not comfortable going ot nigeria. everyone told me it was bad...but Mike_Q made me think it was cool...the professor I was visiting finally convinced me not to go to Nigeria (his sister is a nun and she got harrased big time). I panicked and did not go..i ate the ticket. Anyways, I wish now that i went ot nigeria...but like Mike_Q sayts, did not have business ther and I don't know my way around.

[Weasel]

Let me first apologize to all of the mates..

I held out. I was not that thrilled with my trip. I was looking for the amateur GFE that I have read about on this site. It didn;'t occur.

I went ot Ghana in October. I went to Macumba, Waikiki, yes ,as reported there are total pros at these locations. It is easy and the groping is as previously deascriber. I went home wit hgirls all night from both....roughly 230 cedis....just under $30 US. I am sure they can be talked down. For me, the whole hting was rather despicable...haggling in the morning over money ruined everything. Now, all of these girls were from outside of Ghana and were pro refugees...Liberia, Sierra Leone, Nigeria. the Girls were nice and pretty but it was business. Very dissapointing.

As for amateurs...i just didn't have the style you guys do...none. Either because they belived my "innocent" story that i was ther to look aroun or they don't get freaky anymore.

I was a guest on the University of Ghana campus...and htere appeared t ome to be a stigma wit hgoing wit ha white man. i stopped a few girls on campus (ala Mike _Q) and ther was hooting and hollering from the dorms by the men...they caused the girls t obe stigmitized to talk to a whit man. None followed up with me ( I am a young good looking white guy )

[Explorer8939]

Sorry to be so curt, but your message leaves out a lot of necessary information.

Let's say I'm a tourist and I can't go out until dark to monger. What then? What's a rest house? How is different than a hotel? How does one get to a rest house? Etc, etc.

Lots of claims here, but little info (in other words, the boast/info ratio is waaaaaaaay low). If you need help in providing details for what is a new country for most of us, I would be happy to point out some useful posts to you.

Ex

Originally posted by Email
I see ex8939 seems to doubt my experiences of ghana due to not naming where to stay ?? go to any rest house government or private, then go outside into the streets in daylight so you know where your going, better if your sober??

[Anonymous]

I see ex8939 seems to doubt my experiences of ghana due to not naming where to stay ?? go to any rest house government or private, then go outside into the streets in daylight so you know where your going, better if your sober?? within a few yards people (women ) will greet you, if you want you take it, if not chat and move on its that simple.

The other way is to go out after supper get pissed and pay over the odds for one which booze has enhanced and spend all night worrying about your money and belongings if you doze off. Personally am into the first option.

CITY hotel in kamasi is jumping with pros?? as are almost all the Accra nightspots , again not my scene as i would rather be on the bed with my choice than rolling around in an ear splitting music disco and then going on the beach and lying among a weeks crap. As to getting a pro just move your hands away from your balls and a pair of ball crunching female paws will drag you along by the scrotum. My way is look , choose and enjoy at leisure.

[Explorer8939]

3.5 yrs in Ghana, but can't remember the details about where to stay. Hmmmmmmmmmmm.....

Originally posted by Email
I lived and worked in ghana for 3.5 yrs so i know my subject: Women

I was assigned my bungalow and within 8 hours had hordes of females outside, well 22 to be exact, all sitting on my fence.

[Anonymous]

I lived and worked in ghana for 3.5 yrs so i know my subject: Women

In ghana it amazes me when i hear of anyone buying sex!! It is free!! given with pleasure , if you keep off the well beaten night club scene. Every ghanian girls dream is to catch a man from the western world. any new man in town is targeted. and it is beaten on the drums when you arrive.

I was assigned my bungalow and within 8 hours had hordes of females outside, well 22 to be exact, all sitting on my fence. When I opened my door all heads turned and it was as easy as pointing to one or whatever, and in they came. as easy as picking berries in autumn. good ones too, not pros. changing women was easier than getting a shower. The prob is getting rid of them afterwards as all want to stay permanent. No money exchanged at all, all 8/10 +.

To hold a party meant telling one girl and too many turned up. So I am somehow staggered when I hear people saying they paid?? Remember I am no film star and am the wrong side of 50 but the girls dont care as long as they see the slighest chance of getting out of ghana and into uk or usa or where ever you come from. Kumasi-Takaradi- Tamale-Navrongo-- you name it is so easy.

In fairness I will agree if you are on a little visit to Accra and go to a night club then you get the same types as are seen all over the world but the real africa is outside the city as cities are cities anywhere.

[Ndara]

I plan to go to west Africa next year and stay there 6-12 months. What I have read Ghana seems to be the nicest place.
If someone could answer some questions I would be happy.
1) How much is cheap accomodation in Accra? a day, a month, hotel or apartment.
2) how much is food, taxis, beers, nightlife, gymprices etc?
3)Being young, blond typically scandinavian looking, would that help or making it harder to score girls?
4) is it safe to walk around at night?, best places to go to?
5) Do hotels accept girls being brought in? charge for that?
6) Other places than Accra worth going to in Ghana?
7) What other countries in west Africa would you recommend that are fun, friendly and cheap?
8) Finally how much should I pay the girls?

Thanks

Ndara

[KidNova]

not really a post, but a request: I miss hearing the old stories about Macumba and the like...where are you guys?

[Mugsey]

Generaly, Ghana is very safe, especially by W.African standards.

The beach at night is not the best/safest place to hang out, though if you know what you are doing u should be OK.

If in doubt, stick to the clubs and you will be fine - there are plenty of places to go (see the 2001-April 2002 Archives for a couple of spot-on reports).

Happy hunting.