Ghana

[Jiggydus]

I stopped reading this post right on this sentence. Indeed you probably don't have the same extensive experience I do when it comes to Ghanaian women. I have lived here on and off for like 6 years. Ghanaian women are not the best. I'll reserve that spot for the francophone women.

Let me explain to you so that you understand true Ghanaian culture.

Ghanaian women are very very deceptive. I know alot of people will say "yeah but all women are the same". Not true in my opinion. Different cultures breed different women. In the case of Ghana they are a country with solid traditional values trying to copy Anglo-American / Anglosaxon female hypergamy. They copy the likes of rhianna, nicki minaj blindly. They are trying to copy their Afro-American sister and at the same time try and appease their traditional culture. The result is that traditionalism thrown out the window in place of female hypergamy, ultra materialism and feminism. It's funny how women here actually think they are indepedent yet all their income is coming from some foreigner or rich guy somewhere. Yet the make out like they are independent or they have the ability to be so. I laugh some times when Ghanaian women talk like this. At least Afro Americans take 2 jobs and try to better their family if they have to but this is just too funny.

So Now a girl will need more than one boyfriend. The asshole that is stupid enough to send money and the other handsome muscular young guy perforates her pink love hole whilst the other moron sends money. This happens to certain degrees in all cultures but in Ghana its quite extreme. And if your an outsider, you'll never fully understand the women.

Middle class girls are the same or even worse. Your best bet is to have short term flings and not bother with silly long term relationships. Your only fooling yourself. Not saying all Ghanaian women are like that but like my ghanaian brother said "your more likely to see a unicorn in your back yard then to find an honest ghanaian woman". He was being extreme but I believe it will be hard.

There are exceptions but I would have to agree some Ghanaian women are deceptive. I returned from there last month visiting a few of the exceptions but I did run into one Afro chick that told me she makes all of 400 GHC a month at her job but had no problem hopping into a taxi cab to come a distance to meet me. Imagine if I would not have paid the cab fare of 20 GHC! She looked a club working girl and I cut my losses after one drink. I also know a Ghanaian guy who now is an American citizen that married a girl from village he grew up in only for her to announce she only married him to get to the US. Marriage ended before even a year had passed.

[Master Yoda]

I agree with you 100% percent. I feel bad for the guy because looks like he gave his all to the relationship and I'm pissed for him. One think you are also right about is she was truthful with the guy she was cheating with. Maybe she knew this guy could handle it I suppose? Stories like this pisses me off and I'm not even the guy.

Even though it must sound like I think badly about Ghanian women, I believe out of all african woman Ghanian women are at the top when it comes to how they treat their men. If you find the right one (and you are with her constantly LOL). My next trip is Kenya. I will be swinging back through soon. When I was on the bus ride to cape coast there were so many small town and village women who were knock dead gorgeous. No make up or fancy clothes just natural beauty. Their bodies were brick houses. It was many times I wanted to get off the bus in mid travel and offer these women what ever they needed for their time LOL. Yep, that's what I will do next time I'm back in Ghana.

I stopped reading this post right on this sentence. Indeed you probably don't have the same extensive experience I do when it comes to Ghanaian women. I have lived here on and off for like 6 years. Ghanaian women are not the best. I'll reserve that spot for the francophone women.

Let me explain to you so that you understand true Ghanaian culture.

Ghanaian women are very very deceptive. I know alot of people will say "yeah but all women are the same". Not true in my opinion. Different cultures breed different women. In the case of Ghana they are a country with solid traditional values trying to copy Anglo-American / Anglosaxon female hypergamy. They copy the likes of rhianna, nicki minaj blindly. They are trying to copy their Afro-American sister and at the same time try and appease their traditional culture. The result is that traditionalism thrown out the window in place of female hypergamy, ultra materialism and feminism. It's funny how women here actually think they are indepedent yet all their income is coming from some foreigner or rich guy somewhere. yet the make out like they are independent or they have the ability to be so. I laugh some times when Ghanaian women talk like this. At least Afro Americans take 2 jobs and try to better their family if they have to but this is just too funny.

So Now a girl will need more than one boyfriend. The asshole that is stupid enough to send money and the other handsome muscular young guy perforates her pink love hole whilst the other moron sends money. This happens to certain degrees in all cultures but in Ghana its quite extreme. And if your an outsider, you'll never fully understand the women.

Middle class girls are the same or even worse. Your best bet is to have short term flings and not bother with silly long term relationships. Your only fooling yourself. Not saying all Ghanaian women are like that but like my ghanaian brother said "your more likely to see a unicorn in your back yard then to find an honest ghanaian woman". He was being extreme but I believe it will be hard.

[NoWahalla]

Will also recommend the Stellar Lodge, it's behind the Planters on the next parallel road, they also have a good sports bar "Champs", rooms are good & GF, try to get a room on the higher floor (less noisy at night)

QUOTE=Jiggydus; 1505085]I have only made drive from Accra to Takoradi by private hired car which runs over $100 USD per day. The flights seem inexpensive but once in Takoradi, it would be better to rent a car than to use taxi since I have scored pickups that way. So driving from Accra or flying then hiring car might end up costing the same. Another option is you can take a big bus (cost less than private auto or airfare) but it is public transportation and thus the trip takes longer. It is a 4 hour drive from Accra to Takoradi under optimal traffic conditions. Also you lose latitude in stopping along the way to check out castles at Cape Coast or Coconut Grove hotel (I always stop there for late breakfast or early lunch and most celebrities stay there when visiting Ghana). Even less expensive is to go to Achimota bus station and hop on one of the long distance trotros. I hear the cost is about 10 GHC but I would not recommend. It is common to read about those having fatal accidents. My life is worth more than 90 or 200 GHC, which is what you will save by taking that risk.

All hotels in Takoradi are girl friendly. Just find online and choose one that fits your budget. I have walked from Planters Lodge and Raybow to the Vienna night club. Others you have to drive to get to them. I don't know of hotels near this other night club but Vienna is where everyone goes and there are multiple good restaurants nearby like Captain Hooks and Acroma Plaza.

The market is also nearby and affords interesting opportunities. If you are seeking to go economy, it may be best to stay in Accra or head to Kumasi. If you have some cash to burn (the hotels in Takoradi cost over $100 USD per night) , then go the option that affords you greatest flexibility. I would not want to rely on public transportation to either get to or around in Takoradi. Sure, some guys have been fortunate enough to score a hookup from the bus trip, but that is luck of the draw. More opportunities will present themselves if you have ability to stop and approach.[/QUOTE]

[Roman Guy]

Thanks Roman.

PS: My last Ivorian sexscapade. She was talking to her boyfriend in Paris while one time during at the conversation she was on top of me and the 2nd time she was sticking a full banana in her ass, no lubricant. Her choice, and yes she ate the banana, no I didn't ask her to.

This remind me my Nigerian girl friend in Italy.

We f-ck and in the while she speaks at the telephone or she watch tv. When her eyes meet mine she says "I love you".

Later she complains that I am not able to wait for the end of the call (sometime a call lasts her 1 hour plus) or the tv to be switched off (after 2 a. M.).

[The Greek]

I copy a link.

It is about Nigerian women but it fits perfectly to Ghanaians.

Open the attached file and copy the url or click it.

Thanks Roman. Thanks also WestCoast1, Simian, Arabia Felix, Jiggydus, Slowalk, SureThing and anyone else who responded to my posting. I was delighted to read clear thinking intelligent comments and mature answers.

I also get the feeling. Yes I do have my own negative experiences- that most of you / us don't believe that a Ghanaian woman can make a great honest wife. Am I that wrong or am I a naive dreamer / optimist? My experience from Ghana with a few exceptions (they are always there) not all women are after your wallet or to get something for you. Yes, the GFE can be emotionally confusing compared to the treatment.at least I have experienced- with women in western cultures. But in my dating in Ghana (I am talking about dating not SW) , I have you paid nor been asked for money or other gifts. Probably that makes my judgement a bit blur sometimes.

Now if I were to talk about my experiences with Francophones (girls I met from Cote the' Ivoire, Cameroon and Mali). Those will f_ck anything at anytime and even for no reason. Not even for a basic attraction. Most likely because you just asked them to or because they were bored that very moment. Have seen similar attitude with Kenyans. But that has not been my experience with Ghanaian women. I am not sure if it makes a difference that no one of my dates were younger than 30 or so.

Any comments are just welcomed.

PS: My last Ivorian sexscapade. She was talking to her boyfriend in Paris while one time during at the conversation she was on top of me and the 2nd time she was sticking a full banana in her ass, no lubricant. Her choice, and yes she ate the banana, no I didn't ask her to.

[The Greek]

info@sammarlodge.com

The standard rooms are Gh&8373; 65, the double rooms; Gh&8373; 75 and the suite Gh&8373; 120.

As a standard, all rooms are fully air conditioned, have access to dstv and wifi. Your accommodation will also come with breakfast.

Look for pictures at their website. You can also find their location at Google maps.

BTW, Planter's Lodge is expensive but it has 4-poster beds (if you are into it)

Hope that helps.

[Naked Gunz]

She told me that there aren't many foreigners on Afrointroductions which explains my high success rate so far.

This foreigner is and can't wait to score my Ghana visa. I use to have Liberian gf in the states with a great a$$. Too bad she AND her family started applying marriage pressure. African women (all of them really) start to be a pain is the a$$ when they have nothing. As usual, I meet the women that don't even have a pot to [CodeWord140] in. Thanks for the info.

[Arabia Felix]

Went to Labadi Beach yesterday to relax and do some talent spotting. Elegance Spa is at the entrance to the public beach and a pretty thing gave me a hand-out (wish it was a hand-job) advertising their services. I have had a few quickies there over the months using Patricia and got her to visit me a few times at my place. There are always ladies sitting outside in the daylight hours and they seem reasonable lookers. The place itself is a bit basic but adequate for a few minutes of naughty fun. I wish there were more massage places around Accra to sample at leisure. So I will keep monitoring this forum for any massage tips and recommendations.

The cutie in the other pics is a Liberian off Afrointroductions. You can't go wrong with the Liberian ladies in Accra. They just seem hotter and naughtier and aren't WGs. They're just pleased to have fun and get paid / laid from time to time. She told me that there aren't many foreigners on Afrointroductions which explains my high success rate so far.

Hopefully in the coming weeks I can report back from my first visits to Takoradi and Kumasi (still in planning stages). Thanks for all the good advice posted here on how to enjoy yourself there.

[Roman Guy]

Thanks for your answer Jiggydus.

Is it safe to walk in the streets at night? Do most girls are in the clubs like Vienna or in the street?

Yes, as Jiggydus reports, very save but as anywhere in Africa (in the world) keep a high alert. Do not get drunk and walk on roads in the night: this might be dangerous (pay a look on your back frequently)!

As for Vienna take anyway a taxi, it is too far and dark.

I don't like to go to Vienna City in the night because of the too many hookers sitting and waiting like hungry animals. I prefer Vienna in the early afternoon: different population. Beware: there are two venues (2011) called Vienna. One is on the way to the other: it is an outdoor bar on the way where a lot of girls work on road (it looks like an Italian road!). Another is the former Ocean and is still known under this name: it is on the seafront, on the beach. I prefer this one.

I was also in the other two mentioned bars.

My bars are anyway the two bars on Collin Street and SOS on Market Circle

[IAlvsg]

I have walked all over Takoradi by myself at night and nothing ever happened to me. You will find ladies both outside around the traffic circle and inside.

Ok, that's a good point if not too dangerous.
By "traffic circle" you mean market circle?

The only way for mongering in Tako. is to bring back a girl to your hotel or there are some "massage or brothel places like" as in some other countries?

How much is it for ST (on place or in your hotel) and TLN (any difference if she is a girl from a club like Vienna or the street)?

[Jiggydus]

Thanks for your answer Jiggydus.

Is it safe to walk in the streets at night? Do most girls are in the clubs like Vienna or in the street?

I have walked all over Takoradi by myself at night and nothing ever happened to me. You will find ladies both outside around the traffic circle and inside.

[IAlvsg]

Thanks for your answer Jiggydus.

Is it safe to walk in the streets at night? Do most girls are in the clubs like Vienna or in the street?

[Jiggydus]

Hello guys,

I would like spend about a week in Ghana and more especially in a city which is not as big as Accra. Takoradi seems to be a good average but I have a few questions.

International flights only land in Accra; do you advise to go from Accra to Takoradi by plane or with a taxi?

Are domestic flights safe enough? I saw that the company "Viva air" has daily Accra-Takoradi flights and read on the forum that it's not so high.

Which girl friendly hotels near clubs and bars do you recommend?

Thanks,

Ialvsg.

I have only made drive from Accra to Takoradi by private hired car which runs over $100 USD per day. The flights seem inexpensive but once in Takoradi, it would be better to rent a car than to use taxi since I have scored pickups that way. So driving from Accra or flying then hiring car might end up costing the same. Another option is you can take a big bus (cost less than private auto or airfare) but it is public transportation and thus the trip takes longer. It is a 4 hour drive from Accra to Takoradi under optimal traffic conditions. Also you lose latitude in stopping along the way to check out castles at Cape Coast or Coconut Grove hotel (I always stop there for late breakfast or early lunch and most celebrities stay there when visiting Ghana). Even less expensive is to go to Achimota bus station and hop on one of the long distance trotros. I hear the cost is about 10 GHC but I would not recommend. It is common to read about those having fatal accidents. My life is worth more than 90 or 200 GHC, which is what you will save by taking that risk.

All hotels in Takoradi are girl friendly. Just find online and choose one that fits your budget. I have walked from Planters Lodge and Raybow to the Vienna night club. Others you have to drive to get to them. I don't know of hotels near this other night club but Vienna is where everyone goes and there are multiple good restaurants nearby like Captain Hooks and Acroma Plaza.

The market is also nearby and affords interesting opportunities. If you are seeking to go economy, it may be best to stay in Accra or head to Kumasi. If you have some cash to burn (the hotels in Takoradi cost over $100 USD per night) , then go the option that affords you greatest flexibility. I would not want to rely on public transportation to either get to or around in Takoradi. Sure, some guys have been fortunate enough to score a hookup from the bus trip, but that is luck of the draw. More opportunities will present themselves if you have ability to stop and approach.

[ApplePolish]

All,

As promised I am dropping a report on my recent experience in Ghana. I was there week before last 24nov. 30 nov for a week. As suggested in this forum had created an ID on Afrointroductions and chatted up with more than 15 odd girls (It's easy to connect with them, even if you don't put a picture on your profile as long as you are not local). I finally selected 5 who I would meet. I wasn't sure if any of the 5 would come to bed, I had wholesome long term relationship discussions / chat with most of them, except one. Selected all educated one's, with at least a 6 rating based on photograph. I also wanted to explore the p4p scene. My days were busy but had time in the evenings as I had managed to sneek a hotel away from my collegues (I booked in La Ville Botique).

Hotel Feedback. Decemt rooms (definately not worth the price) , nice pool and resturant area especially in the evening, it's a small almost intimate hotel, but service and wifii was good. Very girl friendly.

Unique Session: Landed in the afternoon on Emirates, and had booked a hotel pickup, checked in and while being taken to a room, saw a small cleaning girl with a huge rack, sweeping the fallen leaves near the room. Asked her for some extra towels and when she came to the room, tipped her 10 Cedis, just after she left the room I went back and asked her, if she could help me with some stuff after her work and she said she was finishing soon and she will come later. In any other country I wouldn't dare reach out to anyone, but I think this forum helped me gain some courage. She came in after an hour, I offered her a drink and she choose a miranda. We spoke a bit, she had just finished school and working in the hotel for the last 2 months, wanted to do nursing, she was muslim, Fati was her name. I asked her for a massage, and she said he doesn't know how to, I asked her to come sit next to me on the bed, she agreed, then I pointed to her tits and said they are large and can I touch them, she was reluctant and I put my hand on her tits but she didn't flinch. I asked if I could really touch them, she said why, I said I love them and I will pay. Finally after some to and fro got her to remove the shirt, a haulter top and finally the bra, to get the most gigantic naturals on a slim 5 feet 2 inch girl, I have ever seen. I wanted more but she would let me touch her down there. Finally I told her will pay her 30 cedis if she lets me have her tits for 20 mins, managed to convince her, and tit fucked her to glory. Great experience, although there were moments where I was wondering if I was crossing the line beyond reluctance. Paid her 50 cedis finally (didn't have change).

Afro-Girls: The girls I met was (Names Changed) Kaya (30+) , Dally (35+) , Mellissa (25) , Naa (25) , Lara (19)

I could take 2 of them to bed out of the 5, among the other 3, one of them which is Naa, I didn't want to have her. Lara was an interesting episode. Only Dally would sleep with me on the first evening, and I got her back each night, she was a former lingerie model, who had done shows in Europe, and US.

Face: 6.

Figure: 9. 5, She was 5. 11, weighing 64 Kg, C-Cups, tight rounded ass, long long legs. Perfect, what a find.

Attitude: Eager to please, but not variety.

Background: Well educated, well travelled, financially stable.

Sessions: Dally had a really tight pussy for a women in her 36th year, and she was great GFE experience, and I slept with her for 4 of my nights. Sad to let her go.

Couldn't finish this, will send a 2nd report.

[Roman Guy]

This is a real story that happened a few years ago (as in 15). So my friend Mark is dating this Ghanaian woman and they are both really in love with each other. Mark was my 'introduction to Africa". Mark is based in Europe but he is working for an NGO with its african Headquarters at that time in Accra. I know a lot of amazing 'personal details' to the point that I have no doubt in my mind that she- Abena, is also genuinely deeply in love with Mark. Mark has been a real sexual teacher for her. She has done everything for him. First time anal, lactation, female ejaculation, whatever. They have recently engaged (traditional ghanain knocking ceremony) and they are about to get married and move to Europe with both Abena's two children.

I have flown to Accra and then immediately gone to Takoradi because my then date decide to go to the sea. The bamboo huts we stay are exactly that. Bambou construction so we can hear the whole night the couple making passionate love and later an argument. Apparently Nick, the man of the couple next to us after they had sex has been raising his voice arguing with the women because he just found out (after their sex session) that she has been engaged and she is about to get married; based on his sayings he obviously morally doesn't feel good about that whole sexscape thing. Apparently they had a sex fling for the last 2-3 years but they haven't seen each other for a year or so.

In the morning my partner and I we are sitting having breakfast and of course we could see the couple next to us from last night coming out of their hat to have breakfast. To my surprise, astonishment or whatever that word should be, the woman is no one else than Abena!

1. If she is so much in love my friend Mark (and I can't explain that here, but take my word for it. I have no doubt that she was deeply in love with him and that is why I can't explain her behavior) , why would she sleep with the other guy / former lover? He didn't even know that Abena was engaged.

2. From the anthropological biology point of view, why would Abena jeopardize a relationship that offers stability to both her and her children for just plain sex? Especially is the casual sex was not as great as that which she had with my friend Mark (we overheard that too)?

Could anyone help please explain? Is it a female thing or is it an African culture / attitude on sex thing? This has been an open question in my mind for years. Actually this (and probably another similar one) has kept me probably for falling deeply in love with an African woman over the years.

Could anyone help?

Thanks

I copy a link.

It is about Nigerian women but it fits perfectly to Ghanaians.
Open the attached file and copy the url or click it.