Nigeria

[Dah1973]

Hi

Anyone who knows about Bayshore Suites? I want to know as much as possible, but especially how girlfriendly it is?

Thanks!

Can't say anything about the Hotel you have mentioned. Where is it in Nigeria. It is a large country.

Generally all hotels I have encountered are girl friendly. Maybe she has to sign in, that would be the most required.

Enjoy your stay.

[Mr Hubby]

Hi

Anyone who knows about Bayshore Suites? I want to know as much as possible, but especially how girlfriendly it is?

Thanks!

[Irish Hunter]

Guys,

Went to Lagos for an interview last week - looks like I may be leaving Abu Dhabi as it went really well

Stayed at Eko Hotel for 2 nights and enjoyed the following:

1: arrived at hotel approx 8pm, had a beer in the bar downstairs by the pool. Got chatting to a couple of expats also staying there. Half a dozen girls hanging around. One followed me back to my room (Stephanie) and we agreed $40 for ST. Had a very enjoyable session, and even remained sensible and asked for condom for all oral, vaginal and anal 'transactions'

2: Next day, had a free morning as interview not until 1pm. so had a rub and tug in the massage parour of the hotel gym - cost $15 over massage cost. Didn't realise this was an option, but at the end of the massage it would have been very difficult not to see why I needed some 'special service' at the end. Girl wasn't very pretty but did the job nonetheless

I felt really relaxed going to the interview ;-)

3: Back at hotel, having a beer at the same bar and one of the guys at the bar suggested going to 'Pat's Bar' - a bar close to the hotel, run by an expat...coincidentally called 'Pat'. Excellent bar and this place had roughly 30 girls there. General standard was very high. Took one girl (Elizabeth) back to the hotel, she gave a great service and cost about $40. After the 'deed' was done she asked 'you want me to stay or go?'. I told here that it was her choice...so she stayed as she said her home was terrible. My reward? A free session first thing in the morning!

4: Had a relaxing day at the hotel, then left early afternoon to travel back to Abu Dhabi. My views on Lagos have improved somewhat dramatically and hopefully there will be more to come!


Cheers,
IH

[Dah1973]

The idea of catching a cab at the airport in Lagos gives me frights. We have an armed escort of 2-3 trucks full of...well...off-duty cops. Sirens, lights, automatic weapons, radio contact, the whole nine yards. Costs a fortune, but I'd do it no other way.

Generally I would agree that just arriving and taking a taxi is not the best way to go. The armed escort is another extrem (depends how exposed your company is).

Book a hotel in advance and have the Hotel pick you up. I would even guess this is a cheaper version than taking a taxi. All hotels provide this service (well good ones at least).

Remember this is not a tourist country. The infrastructure is just not quite in place. Be street wise and safe.

[Brandon88]

I had a beer with a gent in Indonesia, that described to me his welcome to Lagos. Upon arrival, he proceeded to catch a cab to his hotel. During the ride he encountered a police road block. At the road block, he was told( at gunpoint), to get out and open his luggage. As the cops rifled through his belongings, tried on his clothes, divided his money, he was then told he could leave. Which he immediately had his cabbie return to the airport, he booked a flight, and got the hell out of there. Hope this helps with your decision to vaction in Nigeria!

The idea of catching a cab at the airport in Lagos gives me frights. We have an armed escort of 2-3 trucks full of...well...off-duty cops. Sirens, lights, automatic weapons, radio contact, the whole nine yards. Costs a fortune, but I'd do it no other way.

[Hesekiels]

What is a fair price? ... If you are visiting Nigeria always negotiate before (see above).[/blue][/size]

Dah1973:

Excellent written, brother! I cannot agree more that it is a must to agree on the price before one picks up a girl, but - as you wrote correctly - sometimes such an agreement is worth nothing! However, the special kick-out technique you have used is first class! Truly an intelligent idea! In case of need I will use it as well!

Cheers - Hesekiels

[Dah1973]

RG:

Indeed very interesting, but honestly spoken one must be more than stupid to enter into any financial deal with an unknown person in Nigeria (and not only there)!

However, now it would be even more interesting to know how Nigerian girls try to rip us off! The only try I can report about was one lady in Lagos who offered me her service for "500 USD only", which seemed to me slightly overpriced. Has anybody got a similar experience in the promised land? By the way, I believe that's also a very relevant topic for this forum, namely to save us mongers from scams !

Cheers - Hesekiels

What is a fair price. $ 500.- is absolutely outragous. I frequent the Sheraton Hotel in Ikeja a lot. The Club that is open from Thursday to Saturday is a good place to pick up a girl. Now if you stay at the Sheraton do not expect to pay the same price as I do. Here a few stories from the Sheraton:

A friend of mine staying in the Sheraton was chatted up by one of the girls in the club. Personally my scam radar was on full alert but hey it's his choice and mybe I am wrong. Talking about price she gives the standard up to you. He turns around to me and says what do you pay. I start to explain that I pay Naira 5'000. Before I could finish my sentece she rounds up on me "Who do you think I am, some cheap hooker. Naira, who takes Naira. I only take dollars. It is none of your business what I am talking here and please leave your friend alone." After this she turns around to my friend and in a sweet angel voice says: " So what are we going to do tonight". He flatly tells her to [CodeWord140] off. That performace really turned my friend off.

One of my regular girls here sometimes goes to the club for some extra money. About two weeks ago she meets a guy, she likes him, he likes her. they go up to the room. Now she told me:"This stupid guy, he did not even ask how much I want!" So the next morning, the deed done, time to go, He asks her how much it would be. She flatly states $300.--. This guyes eyes pop out. He says he only has $300 in cash and needs to buy plane tickes bla bla bla. Now this is why i like this girl, she says:"Well honey, since I like you and we had a good time, you know what we will do. You give me $150 and keep $150 for yourself." The guy smiled handed over $150.
I have a deal with this girl, I pay her $100 a month plus some small transport money and I can shag her as much as I like. Good thing is she lives right around the corner.

A little while back got talking to a girl in the club. I ask her what she does (mostly they are students). She says she is a marketing assistance in an Event Management Agency. Pulls out her business card. I'm very impressed. so I ask what she is doing in the club. She says:"Well I like to go out dancing, if I meet someone I like I might even earn some extra cash" and she winks at me. Deal sealed. Imagine having a one night stand and getting paid for it.

The most I ever payed was naira 12000. Picked this girl up in the club, told her before hand I pay naira 5000 and she says ok. We had a great evening together, good conversation (which is not often the case) and a very accomodating lady. Next morning, wake up BBBJ of under the shower. I put the money next to her bag. She walks out of the bedroom and throws the money at me. WTF.
She: Not enough
Me: that's what we agreed
S: That was yesterday (what kind of logic)
M: so what is it today
S: 20000
M: you are crazy
S: And I see you have some packets of noodles in the Kitchen. i want those, and the tins of tomato sauce
M: You are joking (I have now turned into a supermarket)
S: you know I'm not joking (she sits down on the couch)
M: OK let me get you the money
S: Fine
So I take 200 naira notes, roll them into a couple of 500 naira notes.
Walk out and show her the bundle. She wants to grab it but I walk to the door open it, and through the money out. Typicaly she runs after it and I close and lock the door. she bangs on the door and insists on the noodles but now I'm enjoying this. Next day I reported her to the manager of the Club and she was never seen again.

Now Prices, I have paid from Naira 3000 up to Naira 10000. The Naria 10000 would be for a 10 (well in my book there can never be a 10). But these girls know what they are worth. Also Price depends heavily on where you pick them up, if the entrance fee to a club is already Naira 1000 then you won't get away with Naira 3000.
If you are visiting Nigeria always negotiate before (see above).

EDITOR'S NOTE: I certainly hope that the author or somebody else will post a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please Click Here for more information.

[Dah1973]

Guys,

It's not as bad as it seems. Been there (Lagos) twice last yr. Plenty of action as many are keen to FL for the $$$.

Btw, PRC available in Hilton Ikeja for USD200 a night. Seen 2 batches during my 2 trips.. some are quite cute. But i wouldn't come all the way for PRC there. There's a bar/ktv ground floor. Starts around 9pm.

Sorry could not PM the Norwegian Fischer.

Live in Ikeja and know the area pretty well. I have no idea where the Hilton is in Ikeja. Would really like to know as some PRC action would be a nice change.
Frequent the club in the Sheraton Hotel and there are some PI girls there on their days of. Have not approached them as they are not that good lookin IMHO and have my hands full dealing with the local ladies of the night.

Thanks for the info.

[Dah1973]

WSGers.

What's the difference between a guy in the States going out on the town, meeting a chick at the bar, taking her back to the no-tel, waking up taking her to b'kfast and giving her some dash to get through the day vs. the story we are reading about the students and sex in Nigeria?!

I'll tell you. NOTHING. Women in the West put a price on sex. I do not care how you slice it. No one has sex for free (i.e. gas, food, condoms, lube, wine, beer, no-tel cost, mobile phone cost, etc.) In the West, the illusion of free love or companionship at no-cost is for the weak hearted and immature! How many of you are in a relationship in the West for free? Remeber time is money. Please step up and tell us! Until then, if a young and LEGAL age woman wants to partake in the original meeting place, I say be safe and let it be!

Me $.02 only!

Can't agree more, you always pay for sex one way or the other.

But I find the two articles posted by Gunner give useful information.

Notice the price! Naira 20'000.- WTF

In the last month I have talked to quite a few girls on the subject of what Nigerians pay and what expats pay. First they stated that it depends where you are picked up (high scale club - HiSo People). All of them said in general the Nigerians they would take pay more! On pushing the subect further they mentioned they feel safer when going with a westener. Apparently when going with a Nigerian they say they don't know where it will end. They come up with hell raising stories of rituals, dath of friends and so forth. That for them explains the higher charge.

PS - Gunner - stay safe in Warri,

Cheers

[Xxxphree]

WSGers.

What's the difference between a guy in the States going out on the town, meeting a chick at the bar, taking her back to the no-tel, waking up taking her to b'kfast and giving her some dash to get through the day vs. the story we are reading about the students and sex in Nigeria?!

I'll tell you. NOTHING. Women in the West put a price on sex. I do not care how you slice it. No one has sex for free (i.e. gas, food, condoms, lube, wine, beer, no-tel cost, mobile phone cost, etc.) In the West, the illusion of free love or companionship at no-cost is for the weak hearted and immature! How many of you are in a relationship in the West for free? Remeber time is money. Please step up and tell us! Until then, if a young and LEGAL age woman wants to partake in the original meeting place, I say be safe and let it be!

Me $.02 only!

[Gunner]

Cover Story : Encounter With A Pimp
Posted by admin on 2007/2/5 12:00:24 (1656 reads)
An upscale pimp, who prefers to think she is running an escort agency, tells BAMIDELE JOHNSON how lucrative campus prostitution is

It took a great deal of effort to convince her to talk. That was natural. What she does is fiercely criticised in the public, but frenziedly patronised in private, especially by highly placed people in the society. The meeting was facilitated by a senior colleague, with whom she is friendly. Even at that, she remained hesitant until a few jokes began teasing the responses out of her. Our discussion could have taken a lot less time, but for the almost ceaseless ringing of her two phones. “Sorry, let me take this call,” she requested intermittently. They were clearly important business calls, the type any serious person in business must prefer to some idle chatter about undergraduates in prostitution. Her name is Yemi. She is thirtyish and speaks with the self assurance of someone who is on top of her trade.

She evidently is. “My girls are writing their exams,” she told a caller during our chat. Though not an undergraduate, she is familiar with the calendars of the various institutions where about 50 girls on her books school. Cocking her head to one side, she brushed her hair backwards and asked what I wanted to know. “How campus prostitution runs and where you have your girls,” I said. She smiled at my request, explaining, politely, that she is no pimp. What Yemi does, she said, is run an escort agency, an undoubtedly posh name for pimping. So, how does her escort agency function? The agency, she explained, services the needs of upscale clients like senators, ministers, big business men, those coming in from overseas and other members of the monied and influential class. “I don’t have girls of ten or fifteen thousand naira,” she boasted. The minimum any girl in her stable is paid for a night, she said, is N20,000.

[Gunner]

Cover Story : Sexplosion On Campus
Posted by admin on 2007/2/5 12:04:45 (3307 reads)
Want easy sex? Go to the campuses of Nigerian universities and polytechnics. From citadels of knowledge, the nation’s tertiary institutions have become red-light districts, as female undergraduates sell their bodies

By Bamidele Johnson

Thirty minutes. That was how long it took two Lagos-based journalists to drink a bottle of beer each at an open-air bar in Calabar Museum, Calabar, capital of Cross River State. But it took them less than that to get the consent of two female undergraduates of the University of Calabar to keep them warm on their first night in the city. They had not seen the girls before, but it did not matter. The consent was secured on phone. Before then, as they drank, their eyes scanned the environment in the hope of finding girls that would warm their beds for the night. However, the frantic search was futile because the girls streaming in were either with men or waiting for them. The prospect looked very bleak. But in a flash, one of the journalists remembered that a friend in Lagos had told him fantastic stories about his visit to Calabar.

The friend, also a journalist, had limitless fun with girls during the four-day visit. He just may be of help, thought the man in Calabar. He reached for his mobile phone and called his friend in Lagos to announce that he was in Calabar and badly needed female company. “That is not a problem. Hang up, I will call back,” said the man in Lagos. Two minutes later, he called back, dictating a phone number. It was the number of one of the girls he’d slept with during his visit. He had spoken with the girl and she was expecting a call from the man in Calabar. “My name is John,” he told the girl, “and I got your number from my friend in Lagos. I am in Calabar with a friend and we would need company.” She got the message. The hardest part was over, as the girl asked where they were lodged and revealed where she was–the University of Calabar. The next stage was where to meet. Being unfamiliar with Calabar, the journalists relied on their phones. At that point, GSM seemed like an abbreviation of Global Sex Machine.

A meeting was fixed for an eatery. When the journalists got there, they called the number of the girl they had been speaking with and described what they were wearing. Two girls walked up to introduce themselves. The introduction continued over snacks. Minutes later, they were on their way to the hotel. “It cost us very little. We gave them N2000 each in the morning. They were happy and told us to call them again in the evening if we wanted,” recalled John. But there was no need. Having made friends with a male Calabar resident during the day, they secured a promise of similarly hassle-free sex for the next night. The resident, owner of a rich deposit of girls’ phone numbers, gave two to John and his friend. As they did on the first day, they called the girls and had them for the night. The girls, like those before them, were University of Calabar students, studying Economics. John was impressed, both with the sex and the conduct of the girls. “They spoke good English, discussed budget and political issues comfortably, dressed well and carried condoms,” he told TheNEWS.

[Gunner]

Two new clubs opened in Warri offering excellent music all night long. Tons of girls inside and many hanging outside who cannot afford the gate fee, or just won't be bothered since they just want to have best pick of men trying to get in.

1st Club: Fredd'y bar. Located at the end of petrol tanker drivers rest stop/parking yard, off a the main expressway into Warri town called Warri-NPA expressway. Very upscale, and frequented by Lebanese businessmen, some expats and rich middle class and some senior government officials who just want to have fun. This club is located inside a a very decent new hotel called Bluewaters. Very nicely run, with excellent security. You can stay in the hotel for the weekend and savour the rich offerings. Bar/club is airconditioned. Can't remember the club days, but Saturday is a must.

2nd Club is called "Revolution": Opened less than 6 months ago. Located on Warri-Effurun Road, close to Old Airport Junction. Similar ambience like Freddy's bar. Tons of girls, very young. Any hired cab will bring you here if you give the details above...

[Hesekiels]

Guys,

It's not as bad as it seems. Been there (Lagos) twice last yr. Plenty of action as many are keen to FL for the $$$.

FN:

You are right, one can have also a lot of fun in Nigeria. Nevertheless I would rather discourage everyone to go there, maybe except for business trips. I second Roman Guy that Ghana is a much better choice for vacations.

Cheers - Hesekiels

[Fisher Norway]

Guys,

It's not as bad as it seems. Been there (Lagos) twice last yr. Plenty of action as many are keen to FL for the $$$.

Btw, PRC available in Hilton Ikeja for USD200 a night. Seen 2 batches during my 2 trips.. some are quite cute. But i wouldn't come all the way for PRC there. There's a bar/ktv ground floor. Starts around 9pm.