Ethiopia

[Nanar4697]

I was in addis some weeks ago and try to call helen massage. I ask to have a massage at my hotel and it cost me 200 bir instead of 100. The girl who came was almost good on the look department (6/10) and gave me a very good massage of more than an hour. After that I ask for extra and get only HJ for 100 more. But HJ also was very good. So I can recomend this girl, her name is "Rahiel" (I'm not sure of the spelling).

[Member #2001]

As a side note to this report: I don't post much on the ISG, simply because of the flame wars that often times take place. My last post was post/pre Domino on the Thailand thread. It's a bit disheartening when I see people flame on ISG and I am not sure why people flame. I have always thought that this is a forum for people to check out where the pussy is.

Ok, enough of the rant. The reason I am writing on this thread today is because I am relocating to Addis next week and I need to find a cheap quiet place to stay for maybe a week until I secure an apartment. I hope I can find something near to the atlas, or somewhere near there. I know many mongers like the Bole Medelehium (sp) area, but that has never been to my liking. There are other areas that people done know about that are out there. One or two have been mentioned here. Memo's and Concord are not one of them. These are huge rip-off joints. Drinks are expensive there and so are the girls. I have been to both. Bole, forget it. The Sheraton, no way in hell, the Hilton also no way. These places are way out of my price range. I know that there are some semi decent places that are hidden from the ferengi, but only known to locals, I just require a quite place to stay (no loud music after 10pm) and running water in the room. Any info on this would be appreciated.

Now for my 2 cents: Habasha generally find oral sex disgusting. Most, but not all *****s will not do it, but do receiving. WTF? Habasha are not so active when having sex, I think it's because of the extremely conservative country. This is because all the formal education has in the past, been done by the church there. A lot of that culture still remains in place. My experience there has been that SW's are terrible lovers. I would be carful of any SW because she might steal from you. The best luck I have had are with the cheap prostitutes on a street which I forget the name of at the moment. Those girls are just poor and need an extra cash to help them through the day. Pros, like the ones near to Atlas are really after your cash. If you're not Habasha then expect the price to double. Since I am hip to those games I don't bother with them, although at one point I have partaken just to see what it's like. If you really want the best sexual experience then you need to get a part time or a full time GF. I have had more than a few of the PT GF's and they have satisfied me every time. I have has AR, BBBJ, anal, and CIM in Ethiopia, but not from a SW. I think the secret is to find a few girls that you can switch out when you want. Also many SW there will not have sex unless it's covered. Yes, it is true that they are extremely attractive as a nation, especially the Amara and Tigray. I think that this is because of the large Italian influence in that part of the country. These people general have more Caucasian features then their parts in the south of Ethiopia. While the tribes in the south are also attractive they tend to be a bit darker, but still are smaller in stature. Habasha are generally small people, comparatively speaking to those in the west.

With that there are still plenty of opportunities to get laid. I was juggling 5 girls at one point before I left last time. And then again there was the average SW on the street. You don't have to do to the Sheraton to do it. Personally, I have never been there, because I think it's not worth it. Anyway I am not in the same league as some of the poster on this site. I mean that in a nice way. I just don't have the kind of expendable income as some other on this site, but that does not mean I can't get laid whenever I want it outside of the USA AKA sex prison (I love that term). There are plenty of opportunities to get laid everywhere I travel if you look for it. Often times it will not happen overnight.

One thing that people should be aware of is the begging that is constant, persistent and deliberate in Ethiopia. On Bole, you will be asked quite often for anda birr, anda birr. It gets a bit annoying, simply because some of them view it as a challenge to see how much they can get out of you. I think it's also part of the culture. They will beg from people that are not black, unless you are black and wear a nice suite, or if they hear you speak English. Overall Ethiopia is generally a safe country though.

So, yea I need help to find a cheap place to stay in Addis at the before mentioned place, and if anyone is interested to hook up with me in Addis then email me and I will return the email.

[John Auro]

Bordels in Ethiopia

There is a road with bordels close to the City centre of Addis Abeba. Its a road with old flat buildings and you see about 50 small rooms with small doors along the road. At night some of them are illuminated with red light and some of the girls are sexy dressed. I never spoke to them, just was slowly cruising up and down by car. I guess I pop is 50 birr (3€) or less? I was remembered on a similar place Falkland Road in Bombay/Mumbay.

To find the road you start at Mesquel Square, look for Total Petrol Station you take this road (Ras Biru Str.) towards south (Cherkos) for about 400m, take next smaller road right, again about 400m, take road right. Its actually an area behind the old railway station.

Who knows similar roads with bordels like this? (in addis or other towns)

John

[Mad Dog65]

John, Many thanks for the update on the Massage spas in Addis - I had a similar experience at the Chinese place you mention. I also checked out the Thai Spa which is above the Thai restaurant just off of Bole Road near friendship and got an expensive (250 birr) great massage but no extras.

Have you checked out any others of the spas near the Swiss Cafe - there are quite a few?

Cheers

MD

Update to massage parlors in AA

CHINESE PROF. MED. MASSAGE, Enter the street from Swiss Cafe (new Bole) and follow the sign on the right side. Big expensive building, massage cost 180 birr. Had "Dun Do" (?), cute petite sexy girl, long massage (1 1/4)hrs). Massage is done mostly not directly on skin but through towel. Massage technique was some kind of rough and not perfect, but after the massage i felt very fine (kind of long-lasting-effect, which might be missing by ethiopian massag?). "Dun Do" is quite charming and nice personality, but she speaks no English, She declined handjob/sex. She went for a [CodeWord140], was hearing her drops gushing, got an erection, she giggled, but she had no pitty with me....

[SL Willie]

I read a report here that Ethiopians respect whites and not so blacks. Words like Baria, ShaQla, used against non Ethiopian blacks.

The fact is like this. First Ethiopians like to put you in a higher social order if you are not Ethiopian, regardless whether you are black, white, yellow or brown. That stems from the fact that Ethiopians think the outside world is cooler than them. Second Ethiopians treat newcomers with respect. If you are a foreigner people think you are new to the area and tend to respect you, again regardless of your skin color. Problem is, in their eyes you will remain new no matter how long you stay in the country.

As for Baria, it means a "slave", as for TeQuara it means Blackie. "Negro" is a name given to Black Americans apparently with a positive undertone.

Here is some more, "Selatto" is a nic name given to Italians now used for all whites, its a put down, "Necho" means whitey, "Shasho" means albino. "Ferenj" means "white person" and this is the only positive term.

The word "Arab" is always used with a negative tone. "Hindye" is a name give to Indians also used with some contempt as Ethios believe Indians are greedy. "Tiftif" or "Tiftifcoh" is a name given to Asians, means flat face and has a negative undertone.

In conclusion Ethiopians will respect foreigners, only at a distance,and if they see you outside of the control of their culture. Some whites think of this respect as same as they see in the Middle east, India and other parts of Africa. This respect is same as you find in say Japan. Your respected but held at arms length in suspicion. I don't how else I can describe it.

Ethiopians do not have a varying degree of treating foreigners. They see and treat all foreigners the same way.

Those who immigrated to the US however did not escape the general stigma casted against black people. Some took solidarity with African Americans, others refused to accept they are black.

Thanks very much for this informative post. You seem to have taken the time to understand a bit of the culture. Many it seems, do not understand that when you visit a country, you are a guest and as such should show proper respect, even if you are there to "bang" their women.

Its no wonder that certain visitors are held in such contempt by the local populace.

[Chick Luver]

Hi,

There is a nice Saloon behind Friendship building near one of the favous bar. They have two girls for massage and both girls are cute and cooperative. I went there twice and had good service.

[John Auro]

To Namumakaa:

You mean RICH DAY SPA next to REEM Restaurant behind a large green lawn? A view hints would be helpful about the girl, as every girl is different! If you forgot her name, at least give some hints like dayshift/nightshift, petite/tall, slim/fat, straight/curly hair, english/ no-english speaking, basic cost for massage session, etc.,
john

[John Auro]

Update to massage parlors in AA

CHINESE PROF. MED. MASSAGE, Enter the street from Swiss Cafe (new Bole) and follow the sign on the right side. Big expensive building, massage cost 180 birr. Had "Dun Do" (?), cute petite sexy girl, long massage (1 1/4)hrs). Massage is done mostly not directly on skin but through towel. Massage technique was some kind of rough and not perfect, but after the massage i felt very fine (kind of long-lasting-effect, which might be missing by ethiopian massag?). "Dun Do" is quite charming and nice personality, but she speaks no English, She declined handjob/sex. She went for a [CodeWord140], was hearing her drops gushing, got an erection, she giggled, but she had no pitty with me....
Next time took another slim and petite, short hair, (lost her name), some english. Oh God, she made me suffer, squezed all my muscles. She was dry, unsexy and refused handjob. Gave her no tip. Will not go there anymore.

HELI MASSAGE, Howard (22), sign oppossite Axum Hotel, tiny street, follow signs, 100 birr for swedish massage, 150 for matress smassage, it includes streching of body, i prefer matress massage because when leaving the place you feel more "balanced".
AUGUST: "Betty", pretty, (school Maganagna), good medical, good massage around ass, denied handjob.
"Gigi", pretty, (school Kergy?), average, no full hour, denied handjob,

HELEN (Bole off) 100 birr: "Belem", friendly and beautiful Tigry girl, handjob yes, changed to MAHI Massage?,(Mesklin Flower Street, off, (near Dreamland Hotel).

HANDs UP: closed at the moment due to "internal problems"? Who knows where "Honey" and "Masrek" went?

ROSE MASSAGE (Mesklin Flower Street, off, behind DREAMLINER HOTEL), "Hanna" cute tall friendly girl, little Engish, school AROMA, good medical massage, handjob good. She works also at HELEN (Bole off).

HONEY, new place, 3 girls, take big road (Kenenisa rd) from ADWA-Bridge towards Maganania, sign right side, when crossing Djibuti rd., 100 birr, "Elisabeth" slim petite girl, some english, school AROMA, med.massage average, Handjob yes (they call it "extra"), but shy.
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john

[Namumakaa]

Dear Mongers,

Let me introduce you cool massage place discovered very recently. It is found in Megenagna area near Panoroma Hotel on the way from Megenagna to 22 (Haya-hulet) opposite NOC fuel station. I visited it one and found it cool. I tried matress massage and recieved very good service including deep lick in the heaven area surrounded by wet bushy forest for very reasonable damage. I recommend you to try one.

Cheers

[Sami29]

I personally, do not know you how got such classicfications. If you are Ethiopian, then these are your personal views. Do not generalise, please. What you are talking about is very subjective and is not related to Ethiopian people. You are a balck- hearted person, so you look at the Arabs and the Indians in negative tone. Ethiopians whom I know, never have such a racist view of other people.

I read a report here that Ethiopians respect whites and not so blacks. Words like Baria, ShaQla, used against non Ethiopian blacks.

The fact is like this.

First Ethiopians like to put you in a higher social order if you are not Ethiopian, regardless whether you are black, white, yellow or brown. That stems from the fact that Ethiopians think the outside world is cooler than them. Second Ethiopians treat newcomers with respect. If you are a foreigner people think you are new to the area and tend to respect you, again regardless of your skin color. Problem is, in their eyes you will remain new no matter how long you stay in the country.

As for Baria, it means a "slave", as for TeQuara it means Blackie. "Negro" is a name given to Black Americans apparently with a positive undertone.

Here is some more, "Selatto" is a nic name given to Italians now used for all whites, its a put down, "Necho" means whitey, "Shasho" means albino. "Ferenj" means "white person" and this is the only positive term.

The word "Arab" is always used with a negative tone. "Hindye" is a name give to Indians also used with some contempt as Ethios believe Indians are greedy. "Tiftif" or "Tiftifcoh" is a name given to Asians, means flat face and has a negative undertone.

In conclusion Ethiopians will respect foreigners, only at a distance, and if they see you outside of the control of their culture. Some whites think of this respect as same as they see in the Middle east, India and other parts of Africa. This respect is same as you find in say Japan. Your respected but held at arms length in suspicion. I don't how else I can describe it.

Ethiopians do not have a varying degree of treating foreigners. They see and treat all foreigners the same way.

Those who immigrated to the US however did not escape the general stigma casted against black people. Some took solidarity with African Americans, others refused to accept they are black.

[Lamrof]

I have to tell you, some of your field reports are from a really run-down, even disgusting part of town. I know mongering is generally a hush hush business but goddamn some of you go to really disgusting places. To put that here as if you want a trophy. Shishhhhhhhhh

I don't know, Sex in general and specially sex out of wed lock is really taboo in Ethiopia. Still.

People don't see it as a fun and cool thing to do but something you do only out of necessity. If women enjoy sex they keep it under wraps, no wild enthusiasm towards it. I know this stigma against women sexuality is everywhere but in some countries its the law like the Arab states, in Ethiopia the laws are relaxed like say in Kenya but the public holds this undeclared justice under the surface where the consequence of exuberant sex is deep and far reaching specially against the women.

I went back to Ethiopia in 2008 and I hated it. The facilities are dirty, the women are depressed, the public keeps a watchful eye over you. The women are not comfortable to be seen with you if you look like a forefinger. Others automatically assume she does things other than normals sex if she is seen with a foreigner. I was tired of sneaking in and out of venues

Ethiopia is not suitable for mongering. Its better suited for finding girlfriends, even then you have to deal with matters of her family and society.

I used to enjoy mongering but this days I am always in the dating scene wherever I am. I do a lot of international travel so my moto these days is try to hook up with a real lady, make friends with her crowd and keep them as friends when I leave.

Mongering is depressing.

[John Auro]

Early Evening in Kazanchis, 3 pixs, one nude

Arranged a date with T. (report 05.06.2010) again after 3 month at 6.p.m. at the lousy mystery house, just behind my bank Z.. It was raining, i was walking, put my cowl of my raincoat up and was enjoying that nobody would actually take notice of me, a "ferengy" walking.... She was not there yet, the watchman let me into "the bar" and gave me a coke and left. Nice chance for me to take pictures of the weird interior of this rotten villa which was used as a dosshouse.
T. came and we took the same filthy room as before (35 birr = 2 Euro) . This time i was prepared with my camera. She willingly posed nude, but when taking her sucking me, she protested "no sex photos". She had a cute body, light smooth skin. Ups she even started to lick my ass and i teached her taking my ball into her mouth. I stroked myself, was going to come, asked for her mouth, but she got serious again and completely refused CiM. (i did come last time in her mouth as a surprise and she spitted my semen immediately).

Ups, that turned my down, my point of no return vanished. Finally i was going to come. But where to explode? Not on her, as there was no running water in the room, just a lousy bucket. Not on the filthy blanket either, please not, i told myself. Ok, the gap between bed and wall, shit... She attentively came close to my body when i was going to ejaculate into the chasm. Before she opened her legs, masturbated her red clit, it turned me on. Want to fuck her next time, her pussy looks quite tight. When i gave her some money, she bowed deeply and did not look at the amount. She wants me to take her to Europe? As she speaks hardly English, i answered to her, have to learn amharic 1st (which i will never do, as this is a difficult language 4 me).
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Passed ChuChu bar a day later. Was not impressed by the place, OK, one girl was doing kind of wild lap-dance with a customer. Saw only one cute girl , stood a while next to her, she gently touched my back and she whispered timidly "enjoy, enjoy". I left, leaving her my change (5birr). Better go to SEGEN bar (kind of wild cheap disco, (Howlet-area/"22").
john

[Roman Guy]

You are welcome.

Very useful.
I find your report very interesting and useful for all who are going to visit Ethiopia and even for persons like me who hang around the Ethiopian diaspora overseas.

It is very important to know how a population considers other people, to know how we are welcome or not, which risks we are exposed at, whether accepted or not accepted: all these might make our hobby easier.

Thank you Lamrof and do not hesitate to write some other info like that if you know.

[Lamrof]

Lamrof! Thanks for the insight.

You are welcome.

[Lamrof]

Biffa you took the words right out of my mouth! Lamrof is an asshole.

Que! I certainly didn't expect this reaction. Sorry if I offended you in anyway. Take or leave my post for whatever it is. Don't worry about it.