South Africa

[Zakmo]

Thanks a lot for the info. By the way, I'm African-American and so I appreciate the tip on race and relationships. That's part of the reason I'm moving to South Africa to be honest. Long story short, Brazil has been a nightmare for me due to its issues with racism / colorism. It's easy to meet women here but it's everything else that's the problem. It's one of those places that's great for a temporary stay but once you live here everything changes. Anyway, I'm just looking for a new country where I can live without always looking over my shoulder with concerns about xenophobic and racist locals, crime, and thereat there's a high quality-of-life. Along with beautiful women. I've chosen South Africa mainly due to the high standard of living and modern infrastructure although I still don't know much about the women there. I tried doing some scouting using Tinder and other dating apps just to see what the women look like but the results have been very disappointing thus far. It seems like attractive women (in South Africa) don't use dating apps because all I predominately see are 'big girls' looking for a date. I won't lie that does concern me a bit but at this point my first priority is improving my quality-of-life versus the mistake I made with moving to Brazil with women as the priority.

Ahhh, a Passport Bro that is done with Brazil LOL. Just kidding my man. I totally understand where you're coming from. I'm also in the US and black outside of making good money, US offers less and less for us. African continent with good funds offers more in terms of quality of life.

South Africa I think you'll be good for, especially Joburg / Jozi. Very cosmopolitan and good infrastructure. Best of the West but the freedom of Africa. And you, as a black man, should do well granted you dress well, are in decent shape and know how to talk to women. People speak English here so much better than Brazil, DR or Colombia that other black folks are flocking to.

South Africa is good to relocate but there will be crime and this is still a racist society. Difference is the black far out number the whites. And you, as an American, will be somewhat shielded from the issues native black South africans face. I suggest an 'in between' type of set up where you spend like 8 months in SA then 4 months across maybe the US and some other location.

Now onto SA women. SA is known for having some of the curviest if not curviest women in the world. Google 'Tits in Tops South Africa' and just follow that thread to see what I'm talking about. They are thick but you will see a lot of BBWs and SSBBWs, even if they have the shape (thick thighs, phat ass, big boobs), so just know that. But there are still a plethora of slim thick chicks out there.

With dating apps, the same rule applies in SA and in any other country. The best of the best women won't be there for long or usually aren't on there. The top tier chicks you'll usually just see on ground (malls, clubs, social venues etc). Africa is still largely boots on the ground type thing. Think about it, a 10/10 chick doesn't need to stay too long at a bar before someone chats them up.

I'm actually headed back to SA in a few months. I'd be happy to give you some pointers as well, PM me and we can exchange emails. If you read this SA thread / forum you'll see there was another Black american brother that went to SA for the first time after doing a lot of DR and Colombia I believe, dude said SA is the spot.

[DgWarMyMan82]

Like any other major cosmo city. Present well, interact well with women and you're fine. Women are fine with older relationships, but do keep in mind, if you're an older white man and looking to date younger attractive black women then you may run into a few issues here and there as some girls don't want to seen as sugar babies publicly and the biggest tip off is a white older man and younger black lady.

But generally speaking, go to the right lounges, social spots and you'll see women in spades.

Thanks a lot for the info. By the way, I'm African-American and so I appreciate the tip on race and relationships. That's part of the reason I'm moving to South Africa to be honest. Long story short, Brazil has been a nightmare for me due to its issues with racism / colorism. It's easy to meet women here but it's everything else that's the problem. It's one of those places that's great for a temporary stay but once you live here everything changes. Anyway, I'm just looking for a new country where I can live without always looking over my shoulder with concerns about xenophobic and racist locals, crime, and thereat there's a high quality-of-life. Along with beautiful women. I've chosen South Africa mainly due to the high standard of living and modern infrastructure although I still don't know much about the women there. I tried doing some scouting using Tinder and other dating apps just to see what the women look like but the results have been very disappointing thus far. It seems like attractive women (in South Africa) don't use dating apps because all I predominately see are 'big girls' looking for a date. I won't lie that does concern me a bit but at this point my first priority is improving my quality-of-life versus the mistake I made with moving to Brazil with women as the priority.

[Zakmo]

I'm a 40-year old American expat living in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil on a retirement visa but intend to relocate to South Africa in early-2024 on a permanent residence permit as a retiree. That said, I'd like some insight in terms of how easy is it to meet normal women in Johannesburg and / or other major cities in SA? Also, how do the younger women (mid-20's to early-30's) view relationships with older men in my age range (40-45)? I'd greatly appreciate any info anyone can offer.

Like any other major cosmo city. Present well, interact well with women and you're fine. Women are fine with older relationships, but do keep in mind, if you're an older white man and looking to date younger attractive black women then you may run into a few issues here and there as some girls don't want to seen as sugar babies publicly and the biggest tip off is a white older man and younger black lady.

But generally speaking, go to the right lounges, social spots and you'll see women in spades.

[DgWarMyMan82]

I'm a 40-year old American expat living in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil on a retirement visa but intend to relocate to South Africa in early-2024 on a permanent residence permit as a retiree. That said, I'd like some insight in terms of how easy is it to meet normal women in Johannesburg and / or other major cities in SA? Also, how do the younger women (mid-20's to early-30's) view relationships with older men in my age range (40-45)? I'd greatly appreciate any info anyone can offer.

[Param Ahmad]

"The South African government has introduced a plan to decriminalize prostitution, hoping to combat the growing violence against women. . . . It is hoped that decriminalization will reduce human rights violations against sex workers."

https://thecradlelife.com/legislatio...ony-ademiluyi/

[Boomshaka]

Wondering if anyone would advise on the Tinder and Seeking Arrangements scene in Cape Town. It it a long game, or are there plenty of fish in the sea? Also, any recommendations or directories on erotic massage in Cape Town -- not really into the escorting scene, but always appreciate a good rub and tug.

It's been a while since I partook in South Africa, but Escort South Africa was the go-to resource back then and, based on the current posts, it seems like little has changed.

Back then all escorts also offered massage and most were pretty good at it, too. They just charged the same as with full service so I never just did a rub / tug.

In terms of locals, I'm in the US and I regularly get matched with South Africans (specifically) on Bumble and that's without even trying. Not so much on Tinder, but that may be due to location settings. At any rate, I don't think you'll have any shortage of local women matching with you on either app.

That said, my experience with locals in South Africa is that they're very clingy and don't always put out. I ended up spending more connecting with locals than I did with professionals and the experience / performance was rarely as good. Towards the end of my travels there I connected with bar girls outside the bars. Just had to buy them food and perfume (or a nice outfit) and you were good for at least a week.

[Mozie]

Where is the pretty white pussy to be found in South Africa? That's what we want to know! Haha!

Had some of the best experience with a white girl in cape town. I forgot her name (may be Anna or something like that).

Found her online on an escort site.

1500 ZAR including anal. Had her for 1 HR and we exceeded a little bit. She was OK with everything. Let me took pictures. She really participated in the whole thing.

Face: 3/10.

Ass: 8/10.

Tits: 9/10.

Service 10/10.

[Vandelayart]

Wondering if anyone would advise on the Tinder and Seeking Arrangements scene in Cape Town. It it a long game, or are there plenty of fish in the sea? Also, any recommendations or directories on erotic massage in Cape Town -- not really into the escorting scene, but always appreciate a good rub and tug.

[CarlRoss37]

Hi guys,

I am in the Menlyn area for a few days. Are there any pointers for day time mongering in Pretoria that I can try out?

[Vecky98]

On my recent trip to Durban what pleasantly surprised me was the availability of Indian street walkers on the North Beach area. Some were pretty attractive, also it was early in the day, I did not partake as I was with family. Should imagine they are more affordable rides versus the ladies of Durban North. Indian ladies of Umlhanga are going to cost, so you need deep pockets.

I think SW everywhere of any origin will be a little less expensive, be it Indian or anyone else.

[Vecky98]

Where is the pretty white pussy to be found in South Africa? That's what we want to know! Haha!

Night clubs and bars are the places where you should look out for them. And some fashion events too.

[IAmSlobbyist]

BBJ and DFK available bro?

Yes and yes.

[AfAsia]

You can get massages from Indian beauties in Umhlangha often with extra's involved.

On my recent trip to Durban what pleasantly surprised me was the availability of Indian street walkers on the North Beach area. Some were pretty attractive, also it was early in the day, I did not partake as I was with family. Should imagine they are more affordable rides versus the ladies of Durban North. Indian ladies of Umlhanga are going to cost, so you need deep pockets.

[The Cane]

Where is the pretty white pussy to be found in South Africa? That's what we want to know! Haha!

[SlangTeng]

Saw some of the pictures in this thread and holy. I didn't know how badly I needed to add South Africa to my list. At least somewhere in Africa. Made me google "can you get HIV if you use a condom" (unfortunately it seems you can. Although I'the imagine it extremely reduces your chances) & "SA HIV rate" (about 1 in 7 is ridiculous). The 1300-1500/24 HR flight is a hurdle for sure but being able to pick from natural bodies like this seems like heaven. Not this year and maybe not even next but these are the type of women I would get on a plane and pay for.