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[Fast Eddie 48]

Fast Eddie,

I remember all of those places you mentioned. Those were really the good old days. Lotus street out the outskirts in Zhuhai was good too, but thoese were more SW than BBS.

I think that BBS is becoming extinct. Most of girls are graduating to Saunas and KTVs. Primarily KTVs as they are becoming so prolific in so many cities around China. So eventually, it sucks to say, but you just have to pay more to get WG at KTVs in the future. Girls are just. Upgrading. Especially the post 90's generation, who the heck still wants to work in a BBS when KTVs are so much more high class and high pay?

I wish I had more fun during the old days when it was BBS galore. I'm sure you had your fair share of fun right?

AsnDragon

To Asn

I am still having fun in China if you know where to go yes all the BBS in large city is closed down due to crack down, China is changing fast but there are still BBS and sauna actions avalible in smaller town you just need to look harder.

Fast Eddie 48

[Loveasiangirls]

I feel that many wives do know whats going on. They can't be that stupid and blind. Usually a woman can look the other way if you do not embarass them with the affair. A scorn woman is a dangerous be$tch. If you keep it discreet and clean I found that you can ge. Maintain her physique. Some women body go to heck as they grew older. Thank god that I do not have a wife in that category.

Just my two rmb on this

I remember coming to China with an investor group. The group organizer looked depressed on day. He said he was just on the phone with his wife. She had been talking to her friends who told her that 100% of the men who go to China cheat on their wives.

I was once reading some threads on an expat web site. There was some question by wives whose family was about to be transfered to HK or China. They were concerned about their marriage based on stories they heard. Most comments were to the effect that she was right to be concerned.

So I think that most wives know.

[FairFromJerz]

Ehhh, your wife knows what you're doing? This brings me actually to a more general point : for us guys, living in China has its special attractions, plenty of action etc. But for all the foreign gals here (in a relationship or not) this is not a factor to consider, for them China's lure is about : Language, culture, jobs, shopping, food etc. If they ever knew what goes on behind all these "massage" and "sauna" shop windows. Sometimes ignorance is best. Sure they can imagine there is prostitution, say getting BJ and FS, but things like : cat bath, soapie, rimming, red rope, fantastic oily HJ etc? Sometimes ignorance is best. Once I read " a woman is like a cat, once she opens her eyes, she sees everything". Happy mongering and stay safe in the land of 5, 000 year civilisation!

Cheers, changlelu

Changlelu, Of course my wife does not know what I do on these trips. She knows what I want her to know, that I am in HK / Macau for the casinos. As long as I come home with a little extra cash in the pockets, there are no questions asked.

But as mentioned earlier, the wives know. I figure as long as we don't expose them to it (ie. Phonecalls, e mails, or bringing "something" back) they deal with it in their own ways.

Ultimately if we take care of "home" things shoud be aiight.

[FairFromJerz]

I guess most people would say go to Shenzhen, Dongguan, Changping. Shenzhen is the closest city to HK, accessible by train. See the boards for these towns (they would all begin with South China- (name of town)

Mao don't.

Thanks for the info Mao!

[Chaddockst]

Hello to all.

I am travelling to Guangzhou next menth and hope I could get some help in sorting out a good hotel in guangzhou. I am looking for a mongering area where I could be busy all day!

[FairFromJerz]

To Fairfromjerz.

Hong kong is alot different than mainland China in Hk and Macau most people speak english but not in China, If you don't have much tim then Shenzhen and Guangzhou is near HK and mongering and girl are much cheaper but you need a China visa to do that, if your wife see the China visa stamp on your passport she will know.

Fast Eddie 48

Thanks for the info. From the way things sound, I should just enjoy HK and Macau. The visa will require too much explaining.

[Member #4689]

I feel that many wives do know whats going on. They can't be that stupid and blind. Usually a woman can look the other way if you do not embarass them with the affair. A scorn woman is a dangerous be$tch. If you keep it discreet and clean I found that you can get away with it.

I did not mean that the foreign ladies do not know / imagine about prostitution, but I think they do not have a clue what exactly goes on inside the SPA / Sauna / BBS venues. How could they know, unless they are secretly reading this forum LOL. I mean, before I started reading this forum, red rope was unknown to me and I am not exactly innocent LOL.

Cheers

[Bnlee2]

Ehhh, your wife knows what you're doing? This brings me actually to a more general point : for us guys, living in China has its special attractions, plenty of action etc. But for all the foreign gals here (in a relationship or not) this is not a factor to consider, for them China's lure is about : Language, culture, jobs, shopping, food etc. If they ever knew what goes on behind all these "massage" and "sauna" shop windows. Sometimes ignorance is best. Sure they can imagine there is prostitution, say getting BJ and FS, but things like : cat bath, soapie, rimming, red rope, fantastic oily HJ etc? Sometimes ignorance is best. Once I read " a woman is like a cat, once she opens her eyes, she sees everything". Happy mongering and stay safe in the land of 5, 000 year civilisation!

Cheers, changlelu

I feel that many wives do know whats going on. They can't be that stupid and blind. Usually a woman can look the other way if you do not embarass them with the affair. A scorn woman is a dangerous be$tch. If you keep it discreet and clean I found that you can get away with it.

I also feel that most women will look the other way if they have financial security (home, savings and cash that they have stash away without telling you about it, just in case of a divorce they will be financially secure) put away. I'm sure that my wife has done some of this too.

I have been working on both side of the pacific rim for years. I do have some fun on long business trips but make sure that I sanitize my bags before returning home and no unwanted pics in my camera. I also make sure that I give her some lovin when I return. I am glad that she has grew old looking well and maintain her physique. Some women body go to heck as they grew older. Thank god that I do not have a wife in that category.

Just my two rmb on this

[Fast Eddie 48]

Fellas, I am a regular to HK, but am interested in information in regards to somewhere in Mainland China that I (an American) can get to hassel free. I am getting tired of the HK / Macau scene. I can make moves to these places with the wife knowing and little suspicion as to what I am doing. Wanting something a little different though. Any advice?

To Fairfromjerz.

Hong kong is alot different than mainland China in Hk and Macau most people speak english but not in China, If you don't have much tim then Shenzhen and Guangzhou is near HK and mongering and girl are much cheaper but you need a China visa to do that, if your wife see the China visa stamp on your passport she will know.

Fast Eddie 48

[Bearsk]

You need to apply for a multiple visit business visa for PRC in USA.

Fellas, I am a regular to HK, but am interested in information in regards to somewhere in Mainland China that I (an American) can get to hassel free. I am getting tired of the HK / Macau scene. I can make moves to these places with the wife knowing and little suspicion as to what I am doing. Wanting something a little different though. Any advice?

[Mao Dun]

I guess most people would say go to Shenzhen, Dongguan, Changping. Shenzhen is the closest city to HK, accessible by train. See the boards for these towns (they would all begin with South China- (name of town)

Mao don't.

Fellas, I am a regular to HK, but am interested in information in regards to somewhere in Mainland China that I (an American) can get to hassel free. I am getting tired of the HK / Macau scene. I can make moves to these places with the wife knowing and little suspicion as to what I am doing. Wanting something a little different though. Any advice?

[Member #4689]

Fellas, I am a regular to HK, but am interested in information in regards to somewhere in Mainland China that I (an American) can get to hassel free. I am getting tired of the HK / Macau scene. I can make moves to these places with the wife knowing and little suspicion as to what I am doing. Wanting something a little different though. Any advice?

Ehhh, your wife knows what you're doing? This brings me actually to a more general point : for us guys, living in China has its special attractions, plenty of action etc. But for all the foreign gals here (in a relationship or not) this is not a factor to consider, for them China's lure is about : Language, culture, jobs, shopping, food etc. If they ever knew what goes on behind all these "massage" and "sauna" shop windows. Sometimes ignorance is best. Sure they can imagine there is prostitution, say getting BJ and FS, but things like : cat bath, soapie, rimming, red rope, fantastic oily HJ etc? Sometimes ignorance is best. Once I read " a woman is like a cat, once she opens her eyes, she sees everything". Happy mongering and stay safe in the land of 5, 000 year civilisation!

Cheers, changlelu

[FairFromJerz]

Fellas, I am a regular to HK, but am interested in information in regards to somewhere in Mainland China that I (an American) can get to hassel free. I am getting tired of the HK / Macau scene. I can make moves to these places with the wife knowing and little suspicion as to what I am doing. Wanting something a little different though. Any advice?

[AsnDragon]

Fast Eddie,

I remember all of those places you mentioned. Those were really the good old days. Lotus street out the outskirts in Zhuhai was good too, but thoese were more SW than BBS.

I think that BBS is becoming extinct. Most of girls are graduating to Saunas and KTVs. Primarily KTVs as they are becoming so prolific in so many cities around China. So eventually, it sucks to say, but you just have to pay more to get WG at KTVs in the future. Girls are just. Upgrading. Especially the post 90's generation, who the heck still wants to work in a BBS when KTVs are so much more high class and high pay?

I wish I had more fun during the old days when it was BBS galore. I'm sure you had your fair share of fun right?

AsnDragon.

To ocean 25.

There use to be many infamous BBS in China but they are all but gone. Seibu is almost gone only few shop left, my favorite are the old Mulan night market in CP, Wuzhong Road in Shanghai they have over 60 BBS in the old days and quality is great and the Old sha tsui, Ha sha BBS and the Citic area in Shenzhen all this area have over 30 bbs and many hot girls I don't think you will ever see that again.

Fast Eddie 48

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