North China - Beijing

[Loveasiangirls]

That's the way. Enjoy while the wife doesn't have a smart phone with videoconferencing!

Wife has been around for a while now so have had to duck and dive to have any sort of contact with the ladies. Fortunately thats about to change.

Booked an apartment for my use for Friday night, (can't take anyone to my real apartment) so if you see a mid 50s guy with a happy busty Filipina somewhere in Donzhimen that might just be me. We only met once for a " investment lunch". Meaning I invested the time for lunch on showing her I'm a nice happy guy. I suggested that as its cold she may want a night in a nice warm apartment with some red wine etc. She quite readily agreed.

Saturday, my regular Chinese date, who I haven't slept with yet, has suggested she will sleep with me as long as its not in Beijing. So it looks like we will have a train ride somewhere and I will have a nice ride thereafter.

I love the flirty ladies who can keep me interested for more than 3 or 4 dates and this one has done that very well.

No dount the wife will ask me " hows the weekend " and no doubt I will reply " oh, I did this and that "

[DogRice]

Folks,

Will be back to Beijing tomorrow for 4 days. Have been out for a while.

I think this week is bad week for our hobby as the government meeting kicks off this week. .

I have several potential freebies lined up for meeting and see whether I can score any of them.

Want to see any folks have experience with some of the sauna (such as &28698; &28023; &37329; &38307 and massage (I used to call WangJing 418, and their #16 gave the HJ) recently. I do read about the last 10 pages of the forum, and will continue to read more. If any bro has opinion / suggestion about Sauna and Massage, please let me know. Appreciate that.

[FreebieFan]

Wife has been around for a while now so have had to duck and dive to have any sort of contact with the ladies. Fortunately thats about to change.

Booked an apartment for my use for Friday night, (can't take anyone to my real apartment) so if you see a mid 50s guy with a happy busty Filipina somewhere in Donzhimen that might just be me. We only met once for a " investment lunch". Meaning I invested the time for lunch on showing her I'm a nice happy guy. I suggested that as its cold she may want a night in a nice warm apartment with some red wine etc. She quite readily agreed.

Saturday, my regular Chinese date, who I haven't slept with yet, has suggested she will sleep with me as long as its not in Beijing. So it looks like we will have a train ride somewhere and I will have a nice ride thereafter.

I love the flirty ladies who can keep me interested for more than 3 or 4 dates and this one has done that very well.

No dount the wife will ask me " hows the weekend " and no doubt I will reply " oh, I did this and that "

[FreebieFan]

A little tired of seeing people asking for contact details of a freebie. Clearly these people do not understand what a freebie is hence the reason why they cannot find any. If you believe that there is such a girl who will have sex with you for nothing, please read this to the end. I have used very few WG in China but stopped counting my freebies after 100. In am in late 50s and a little overweight but handsome and charming (apparently).

T.

Except for exceptional luck, you need to work to get a freebie and have time to do so. So please do not ask to share contacts of freebies, it does not work.

Its all about chemistry. I happen to enjoy the "hunt", the flirtatious chats. The sweet texts, everything that is designed to get a girl into bed. I've been doing it for many years in many countries. But becuase my style works on one girl there is no way, or guarantee that if I gave the girls number to a guy, that he would be instantly successful.

I always used to laugh back when I lived in Malaysia, and I would post a trip report about meeting a great freebie, and the next days 10 guys would all be " can you share lah "

Theres a world full of freebies but they all take time to chase pursue and successfully work your magic on. No point to share, it truly is pointless.

[Landa2]

Thanks for the post. I contacted Xiao Si and can vouch for what you are saying here. I have met her two times now. Very hot. Very nice. Great english. Great sex.

Both times I met her during the day. I live and work here in BJ and so it is easier for me to meet during days during work sometimes.

(original post by James in http://www.internationalsexguide.inf...17#post1326917)

Totally agree with Ma Li Qiang and James. Visited her some days ago and the experience was totally positive. You can say that James gave you the info and you will pay 1000 (she usually asks for 1500).

Her apartment, a Ikea decorated kind, is on a walking distance from Sanlitun and can easily found with any map or just asking for the address. XiaoSi speaks good enough english and is really kind. You will not feel any pressure or rush service. In fact she gave me a really erotic massage (300RMB) and kindly offered if I wanted something else. Nice CBJ, several positions (specially having her in missionary with her head falling off the edge of the bed or the doggy grabbing her from her arms). Very dedicated girl.

She can offer a wide range of services and probably everything is negotiable. She can even introduce you some of her friends.

If you are for ST in Beijing and don't want to lose time or any risks then text / call her. In call or out call available.

[GregoryB]

A little tired of seeing people asking for contact details of a freebie. Clearly these people do not understand what a freebie is hence the reason why they cannot find any. If you believe that there is such a girl who will have sex with you for nothing, please read this to the end. I have used very few WG in China but stopped counting my freebies after 100. In am in late 50s and a little overweight but handsome and charming (apparently). Their age ranged from early 20s to 45 (and that one had the body of a 25 year old in North America). The majority were probably 28 to 38 years old. Some I met one time, others I banged irregularly over a couple of years. Most had a great body even if sometimes their face was average.

The first thing to understand: these are not working girls. In other words, they do not screw 4 guys or more per day. They are normal people like your daughter or your sister. They will have sex when horny or if U-turn them on. However some are more slutty than others. Some will be horny enough to go looking for a guy once a week (the type you may meet in a bar) , some once a year and some once in a lifetime. You cannot assume that every girl you come across on the street will sleep with a random guy, no more than in the country that you come from (despite that you may see in porn movies or reading the Penthouse letters). Some will accept a loose arrangement of seeing you regularly and having no official relationship. In their mind this is a temporary arrangement until they find someone. There is a Chinese saying that goes "ride a mule and keep looking for a horse". Nothing wrong with being the mule for a while.

Why would the girl sleep with YOU, even if she is horny? Because she likes you, because you are charming or because she sees some long term potential with you. Understand that the typical Chinese girl has the same dream as the typical western girl: find her man, start a family, have a house and kids and live a happy life.

They key thing is that you need to be patient to bed her and never talk about sex too early. They already know that most foreigners in China are sex maniacs. Try to show you are normal. But do not mislead them, be honest about your intentions. Do not start talking about marriage thinking that this will convince them or say you love them just to sleep with them if you have no intention of calling them afterwards. Any ways, this is the principle I go by and it did not preclude me from finding tons of girls. BE PATIENT AND WORK ON IT. Unless you are super lucky, you will not sleep with them after the first contact. How often does this happen where you come from? You need to take time to chat them up, maybe have dinner or coffee once, etc. You need to treat a freebie or potential one like a GF or potential one. Remember, she will go to bed with you because she likes you and you charmed her.

If you understand the above, then you also understand that one cannot share contacts of a freebie. It is a personal chemistry thing. If you want a freebie then go out looking for one and work on it.

Remember the saying "free sex is more expensive than sex that you pay for". It doesn't have to be much more expensive but remember to treat the girl nice. I have a female friend who lived overseas before and was looking for a lover as her Chinese BF was not very talented in bed. She would not pick me as she knows my GF but she told me about the guys she was meeting. One time she agreed to meet a guy for coffee at Starbucks. The guy would not even buy her coffee not did he buy himself one. So do not be so cheap. He was actually expecting to go to her place after the coffee. That did not help either.

Except for exceptional luck, you need to work to get a freebie and have time to do so. So please do not ask to share contacts of freebies, it does not work.

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Its amazing that anyone in here is asking for freebies contacts. Hope much that this very clear and overdue summary reduces the number of such inpolite inquieries.

It may not completely eliminate them but hopfully reduces the "noise" and helps to leave more room for valuable reports!

I can only strongly second LA's statements.

Gregory

[Loveasiangirls]

A little tired of seeing people asking for contact details of a freebie. Clearly these people do not understand what a freebie is hence the reason why they cannot find any. If you believe that there is such a girl who will have sex with you for nothing, please read this to the end. I have used very few WG in China but stopped counting my freebies after 100. In am in late 50s and a little overweight but handsome and charming (apparently). Their age ranged from early 20s to 45 (and that one had the body of a 25 year old in North America). The majority were probably 28 to 38 years old. Some I met one time, others I banged irregularly over a couple of years. Most had a great body even if sometimes their face was average.

The first thing to understand: these are not working girls. In other words, they do not screw 4 guys or more per day. They are normal people like your daughter or your sister. They will have sex when horny or if U-turn them on. However some are more slutty than others. Some will be horny enough to go looking for a guy once a week (the type you may meet in a bar) , some once a year and some once in a lifetime. You cannot assume that every girl you come across on the street will sleep with a random guy, no more than in the country that you come from (despite that you may see in porn movies or reading the Penthouse letters). Some will accept a loose arrangement of seeing you regularly and having no official relationship. In their mind this is a temporary arrangement until they find someone. There is a Chinese saying that goes "ride a mule and keep looking for a horse". Nothing wrong with being the mule for a while.

Why would the girl sleep with YOU, even if she is horny? Because she likes you, because you are charming or because she sees some long term potential with you. Understand that the typical Chinese girl has the same dream as the typical western girl: find her man, start a family, have a house and kids and live a happy life.

They key thing is that you need to be patient to bed her and never talk about sex too early. They already know that most foreigners in China are sex maniacs. Try to show you are normal. But do not mislead them, be honest about your intentions. Do not start talking about marriage thinking that this will convince them or say you love them just to sleep with them if you have no intention of calling them afterwards. Any ways, this is the principle I go by and it did not preclude me from finding tons of girls. BE PATIENT AND WORK ON IT. Unless you are super lucky, you will not sleep with them after the first contact. How often does this happen where you come from? You need to take time to chat them up, maybe have dinner or coffee once, etc. You need to treat a freebie or potential one like a GF or potential one. Remember, she will go to bed with you because she likes you and you charmed her.

If you understand the above, then you also understand that one cannot share contacts of a freebie. It is a personal chemistry thing. If you want a freebie then go out looking for one and work on it.

Remember the saying "free sex is more expensive than sex that you pay for". It doesn't have to be much more expensive but remember to treat the girl nice. I have a female friend who lived overseas before and was looking for a lover as her Chinese BF was not very talented in bed. She would not pick me as she knows my GF but she told me about the guys she was meeting. One time she agreed to meet a guy for coffee at Starbucks. The guy would not even buy her coffee not did he buy himself one. So do not be so cheap. He was actually expecting to go to her place after the coffee. That did not help either.

Except for exceptional luck, you need to work to get a freebie and have time to do so. So please do not ask to share contacts of freebies, it does not work.

[Easily Pleased]

A valuable lesson for me being a 'shabi laowai' recently is to say "San bai quai ma?". When they look blank, I just do the universal sex hand signal and it's all good. I have been searching and searching and the great thing is you always come across (literally) some absolute gems. Gems for 300rmb is quality IMO, but you have to search. I see alot of areas closed up shop but the further you go out, the more ye find, right?

[ShanghaiNemo]

FF

I would like to suggest that you and Shanghai Nemo get together and have a go in Shanghai. Maybe you can come up with a comprenhensive guide to the hobby for the rest of us. You guys are a real inspiration, especially for those of us who have wives or girlfriends to keep in the dark about our fun.

Cheers,

Bj4987

So far Freebie has been reasonably quiet. Found one or two Chinese freebies, one or two pay for play, one or two Filipinas for afternoon delight but theres a job to do so can't spend all day playing (and wife watching my every move at night!). However one lady and I have been having some interesting dates. Lots of ambiguous wordplay, fumbling under the table at restaurants etc. She's told me won't go to bed with me unless I take her out of Beijing and given that I'm in a new job thats hard to arrange right now.

Last night tho was fun. She suggested we go to a foot massage place, near St Regis, which I wasnt wild about, but when we get there, its a nice private place, private room etc, so we have our feet done then attendant leaves us alone. As we are in these nice loose massage costumes we got to have lots of play. No one disturbed us and we were left happily alone for at least 2 hours. Worth considering just like the Tea room suggestion.

Eventually she and I will get to bed, and then I will be bored with her, but she's playing a nice tease game so far and its fun. And getting your partner semi naked in a foot massage place was equally fun.

[/QUOTE]Eeheheheheeh.

Take a look my last photos of yesterday night.

[FreebieFan]

FreebieFan, how did you get in touch with this tour guide girl? Sounds like a great time. Please share!

Posted an Ad in Craigslist.

[Beijing4987]

FF

I would like to suggest that you and Shanghai Nemo get together and have a go in Shanghai. Maybe you can come up with a comprenhensive guide to the hobby for the rest of us. You guys are a real inspiration, especially for those of us who have wives or girlfriends to keep in the dark about our fun.

Cheers.

Bj4987.

So far Freebie has been reasonably quiet. Found one or two Chinese freebies, one or two pay for play, one or two Filipinas for afternoon delight but theres a job to do so can't spend all day playing (and wife watching my every move at night!). However one lady and I have been having some interesting dates. Lots of ambiguous wordplay, fumbling under the table at restaurants etc. She's told me won't go to bed with me unless I take her out of Beijing and given that I'm in a new job thats hard to arrange right now.

Last night tho was fun. She suggested we go to a foot massage place, near St Regis, which I wasnt wild about, but when we get there, its a nice private place, private room etc, so we have our feet done then attendant leaves us alone. As we are in these nice loose massage costumes we got to have lots of play. No one disturbed us and we were left happily alone for at least 2 hours. Worth considering just like the Tea room suggestion.

Eventually she and I will get to bed, and then I will be bored with her, but she's playing a nice tease game so far and its fun. And getting your partner semi naked in a foot massage place was equally fun.[/QUOTE]

[FreebieFan]

So far Freebie has been reasonably quiet. Found one or two Chinese freebies, one or two pay for play, one or two Filipinas for afternoon delight but theres a job to do so can't spend all day playing (and wife watching my every move at night!). However one lady and I have been having some interesting dates. Lots of ambiguous wordplay, fumbling under the table at restaurants etc. She's told me won't go to bed with me unless I take her out of Beijing and given that I'm in a new job thats hard to arrange right now.

Last night tho was fun. She suggested we go to a foot massage place, near St Regis, which I wasnt wild about, but when we get there, its a nice private place, private room etc, so we have our feet done then attendant leaves us alone. As we are in these nice loose massage costumes we got to have lots of play. No one disturbed us and we were left happily alone for at least 2 hours. Worth considering just like the Tea room suggestion.

Eventually she and I will get to bed, and then I will be bored with her, but she's playing a nice tease game so far and its fun. And getting your partner semi naked in a foot massage place was equally fun.

[AKRogger]

Had a quiet begininng to life in BJ as the wife was with me. So stayed low and didn't contact anyone. After she departed, I perused various websites, started some chat with a few ladies and all is going well.

Found a Filipina who is a sure thing in two weeks (she's not allowed out till then ). Having had millions of Manila adventures I kind of know how to play Filipinas. She's ready to play when she gets free.

Been seeing one girl, who is 29, normal office type, very cute face and body. We were out drinking last night at 1. 30 am and I thought I had it nailed when taxi was heading towards my place. But it turns out her place is further down the road and no she really didn't want to go back with me. I think she added " this time: but maybe that was wishful thinking. She knows I'm a serial player but she shared all her past and current loves so were even.

Another one contacted me, telling me she was a tour guide. Told me her price but told me we could have kises instead of touring. We met for a " lets see what I might be geting " meeting. Nice long hair, happy smile, long legs, slim, . Very normal but worth it I felt. Agreed to meet this weekend.

Just back from 5 hours with her. What was good tho, was I told her my passport is with PSB for stamps etc. She said " you can come to my place " to save on hotel fees. Her place was in Guomao, she shares with another girl who was away. Nice apartment, very nicely funished. 5 hours of nice company, for TM 450. Seemed like a good deal to me. Was very happy. Tol me her room mate is away for another two weeks. Oh and she screamed like a dog in heat, thanks to a very prominent clit.

Tonight will go to a bar where I'm told the Filipinas tend to gather on a Saturday night. And the beat goes on.

(PS. With no relevance to this post. Jackson you do a great job. Was a tad drunk last night when I made my whingeing comments. Sorry Sir!)

Freebie: Please share contact details through PM or otherwise.

[Anonymous All]

Another one contacted me, telling me she was a tour guide. Told me her price but told me we could have kises instead of touring. We met for a " lets see what I might be geting " meeting. Nice long hair, happy smile, long legs, slim, . Very normal but worth it I felt. Agreed to meet this weekend.

Just back from 5 hours with her. What was good tho, was I told her my passport is with PSB for stamps etc. She said " you can come to my place " to save on hotel fees. Her place was in Guomao, she shares with another girl who was away. Nice apartment, very nicely funished. 5 hours of nice company, for TM 450. Seemed like a good deal to me. Was very happy. Tol me her room mate is away for another two weeks. Oh and she screamed like a dog in heat, thanks to a very prominent clit.

Tonight will go to a bar where I'm told the Filipinas tend to gather on a Saturday night. And the beat goes on.

FreebieFan, how did you get in touch with this tour guide girl? Sounds like a great time. Please share!

[Split]

Just wondering what everyone thinks. You can tell by my name what floats my boat and after 300rmb for a half an hour session, I am nearly always leaving happy. Is the service between a 300rmb and a 1500rmb ST really THAT different. If so, what exactly is ST? AM I missing something?

Probably not much. I've had better nuts in in the dirty 238rmb bathhouse in dlc. The hot factor has been overall better too.