East China - Shanghai

[Ing Hayalet]

I am member of the other site. I get some address from that web page. I have some more question.

1- Which is the best and clean massage parlor.

2- I will stay in Bodi Hotel last year and I will stay in there again. But no red rope in that parlor. If any body now English Red rope please write from.

3-l will stay in Shanghai 10 days and I want to find a girl who guide me Shanghai. She spend all day and night with me. Am I find any agent to give this kind of service.

Thank you all.

[Otwin]

At the east side of West Yan'an Road Station you'll find a very dark street called Zhaohua Road. Here the Chinese people live and work. You won't find any tourists here. But you will find, at the western side of the street, some hidden barber shops, with girls sitting and waiting for customers. The price is about 200rmb. The area and the rooms are dark and not very clean. But for a quick job, it's a bargain, I guess.

Have fun.

Just discovered, that this part of town becomes a huge construction site. Some barber shops are closed or demolished already.

[SamCan]

An acquaintance was just bemoaning the recent expensive shopping trip his "girlfriend" and her sister took in Hong Kong with him along as the ATM machine. (Nop, he did not get a 3 some out of it). He met her at a KTV. Add to that: renting her an expensive apartment, 5 figure monthly allowance. Etc. One can get a different top model at the sauna or an outcall girl each night and have left-over for a beer.

Well, the perils of mid life crisis.

Yep this was what my girl expected. I stopped well short of this but trust me she got more thAn her due

And don't forget the loss of variety! Sure you can cheat on her but the meter is still running on all the costs plus the charges to rent the next girl. This is not mid life crisis. This is listening to the little head over the big one.

Mid life crisis Can be fun in SH . Ask me how I know.

[Marty47]

Mr clen--this ones going to cost you!

Whoops forgot to add pic.

[Marty47]

Mr clen--this ones going to cost you!

[NorthSouth]

An acquaintance was just bemoaning the recent expensive shopping trip his "girlfriend" and her sister took in Hong Kong with him along as the ATM machine. (Nop, he did not get a 3 some out of it). He met her at a KTV. Add to that: renting her an expensive apartment, 5 figure monthly allowance. Etc. One can get a different top model at the sauna or an outcall girl each night and have left-over for a beer.

Well, the perils of mid life crisis.

[SamCan]

Hey North South.

Hang out with the massage gals getting a foot massage. They will teach you mandarin. Many are looking for boyfriends. Extras are available with tips and the possibility you are husband / boyfriend material.

Careful! The most expensive girl I ever had was massage girl turned freebie that became a girlfriend and almost wife. Sex was great but I will never get tied in like that again. There is a saying on ISG. Don't ever fall in love with a working girl. Massage girls included.

[SamCan]

My bar experience was not that bad, especially compared to my farcical foray in Changshou Lu. Thanks for your tips. They are very sensible and practical. I guess I am now not as into the bar scene. Unlike many, I am not really into the challenge of the hunt. I had a hard time turning away people I was stuck with, and I am not that good in haggling, especially with my Not-for-Prime-Time Mandarin. I feel better about knowing the price in advance, and just point and pick.

North south I could have also called my tips. Everything Sam has done wrong and what I learned! LOL. I know it's hard to walk away. I have found the girls are not insulted. They would rather know up front if they are "not for you". They are working and want to know up front if they are wasting their time. Brad Pitt? I am over 50 ,bald and carrying an extra 20 pounds. I won't even consider girls over 30 anymore. I like the tight skin of the under 27 crowd.

The girls there usually speak good English. Better than saunas. You are right spring festival may have slowed it.

I have made that mistake as well. Last time I had this 32 year old that kept hanging by me 4 beers later I take her back to the hotel. She's got a see section scar. Dec nt skin tone but not great. Sex was good but I have gotten fussy I guess. I should have walked away at the bar and chose a younger version. I paid for overnight and didn't want to repeat. Like Charlie sheen says. I paid her to leave. I threw her outand went to sleep. She wasn't insulted. She probably went back to work!

I just like paying 1000 or so for the option of 3 pops. Vs the saunas. It's either one and done or on the clock and whatever you can do before times up.

Each to his own. Enjoy!

[Beijing4987]

Hey North South.

Hang out with the massage gals getting a foot massage. They will teach you mandarin. Many are looking for boyfriends. Extras are available with tips and the possibility you are husband / boyfriend material.

[NorthSouth]

My bar experience was not that bad, especially compared to my farcical foray in Changshou Lu. Thanks for your tips. They are very sensible and practical. I guess I am now not as into the bar scene. Unlike many, I am not really into the challenge of the hunt. I had a hard time turning away people I was stuck with, and I am not that good in haggling, especially with my Not-for-Prime-Time Mandarin. I feel better about knowing the price in advance, and just point and pick.

[SamCan]

Thanks. I pretty much suspected that might be the case but it's good to verify. I'll probably just stick with what I know for now. I have seen my Craigslist girl twice. Gave her a repeat call after she exceeded my expectations the first time. She's 900 and not FS, but she's a lot prettier in person than her photo represented and gives good service. Nuru, prostate, and HJ almost to completion multiple times until you're really ready to pop.

I almost tried her based on your review. Frankly however I have gotten good FS for 1000 RMB (and 2 massage girls I built a relationship with for 600 to 800 RMB.

North south sorry about your bar experience. I have had good and bad luck there. I am now hitting much better there. A couple things I do.

1 play the field. You can find all nighters for 1000 there and ones that will actually go 2 to 4 rounds with you for 1100. If a girl is sticking to a silly price, move on.

2. Take a nap. I grab a nap from 7 pm to 1030. Then I head over. Girls start getting worried they will be going home alone after midnight. Also at my age, if I want 3 pops for my money I need to be ready.

3 be clear with the girls. If you think you can make 3 or 4 pops. Tell them that's what you want. If she is cringing at that, she is not your girl.

4 if your in Shanghai permanently tell them you want a girl for many nights. Maybe if you are both good for each other it could be her. For me, if I get a good one I will usually repeat. Price gets cheaper mid weak with her this way as well.

5 don't pick the girl who just stays next to you. Sometimes you miss the best ones later. Tell them you haven't chosen yet. You want to talk to other girls.

6 drink less. I suffer from the in the light you are shocked by what you had in the bar. Keep the beer goggles off! One or two beers but not 6!

Keep trying. You'll figure it out.

I pretty much am hitting 90 percent now. So can you.

[Grimmy23]

Definitely 95% of the girls there use faked pictures, so I would not expect the girl from the picture will come over! And also the posted prices are mostly "honepot-styled". If they finally in your room, they will find ways to explain, that this quoted price is only for a massage, the handjob will be 500 extra, get them naked again and so on! Target is to get as much as possible, so often the girls will not stop upselling, till they squeezed every RMB out of your pocket. I would say, if you try to find something pricey and safe, there should be better choices!

Thanks. I pretty much suspected that might be the case but it's good to verify. I'll probably just stick with what I know for now. I have seen my Craigslist girl twice. Gave her a repeat call after she exceeded my expectations the first time. She's 900 and not FS, but she's a lot prettier in person than her photo represented and gives good service. Nuru, prostate, and HJ almost to completion multiple times until you're really ready to pop.

[NorthSouth]

"To be clear, I would never even walk into one of the red / pink lit storefront parlors (such as on HongSongDong Lu near SongYuan Lu) - need a full body condom to be even close to safe".

When I first started looking into mongering in Shanghai a couple of months ago, I searched on the net and found a web site. Turned out it contained very general and out of date information for Shanghai. (As an aside, ISG is a great. A shout out to the web master for putting together this treasure trove. Live long and prosper! Chaojiadu (Changshou Lu area) was described as the officially sanctioned red light district. I wandered there one night to check that out. In one of the side street was a store front parlor with several women in short skirts, sitting and looking out the window. They waved at me. I walked in just to find out more (there was a young woman who was OK looking sitting to the side) and was immediately grabbed by a very aggressive woman the second I stepped through the door. I was pushed into the back room. She must be in her 40's, spoke no English and just made the sign of a finger going into the ringed fingers in the other hand, and said 300 rmb. I tried to say I was not interested, but she was already taking off my clothes. I would have to forcibly shove her away to stop what was happening, and I might be in more trouble if the goons were then called in. The room was dark and small with a dirty twin bed. I was literally pushed onto the bed with my pants down around my knees. She did a perfunctory CBJ (Thank the Lord) for 3 minutes, and hiked her skirt and started simulating what could only be loosely taken as copulation. 5 minutes later she said time was up and if I wanted more, I have to pay to extend the session. I certainly did not want more (I wanted to go, not come.) and tore out of the place. I took a cab home, telling the driver to step on it, so I could scrub myself off good and long in the shower, as quickly as possible.

It was my introduction to mongering in Shanghai. It was among the worst experience I had. The atmosphere was unappealing, the attitude disturbing, the execution barnyard like, and the price, when broken down into rmb / min, was expensive. There was not even a pretense of welcome. I knew I was a stupid "mark" primed for rip off, but I think it takes desperate people (even for locals) to go to those joints. Never again!

[Lur King]

Hi all,

I've seen references to this on various Chinese sites, e. G. 黑33310;24307; (black dance hall), 黑33310;23064; (black dance girl), 黑33310;32676; (black dance group) clearly with some kinky context. But my limited Chinese doesn't really allow me to fully understand what this is all about. Can someone please enlighten me? What is this black dance and where can one find it?

[Ringer5]

Bodi, Sacrosa, SiYuan (Merrilyn Hotel).

Until recently I would have suggested a full service sauna operating discreetly in the middle of Jinqiao, but it's re-opened after some "refurbishment" as a mediocre he massage joint. Not recommended, there are better places, more visible, on the streets nearby.