Bali

[Rob Jones]

I frame it as a question about if she is not too shy to be with a foreigner. It's a legitimate question and any Indonesian girl will understand that many inexperienced girls would have reservations about being with or seen with a foreign guy.

Also remember that Indonesians are very comfortable with questions that westerners would consider far too direct and impolite for a new acquaintance. Direct questions regarding race, religion, sexuality etc are considered perfectly acceptable.

The other thing is that if they are on Tinder, Badoo, Tagged or any other online dating service they either know what they want sexually or are open to experiment otherwise they wouldn't have their profile online. In Bali they are exposed to westerners regularly and know that many single men are on the hunt so they know what to expect.

[Rob Jones]

How exactly would someone "get a feel" if she wants to have sex or not, without being too blunt about it? In other words, I don't want to be straightforward in this and ask: "We go for dinner then we have sex OK? As it sounds too prostitution-like and cheap, at least this is how she would perceive it. Second, it would trigger the "conservative" side of some of the girls who would go like "I'm not into one night stands, thanks!" " if you're looking for sex go find someone else!" or feel offended by merely being asked / hinted about it.

A lot of these girls are not prostitutes or escorts, they simply come from a decent background and are well educated but they're looking for an adventure. But its sometimes challenging to know how to detect the limit of their adventures. Any tips on how to navigate that?

Thanks.

Hi John,

I must admit I am pretty straight forward and I don't have time when I do get my "alone" time in Bali to muck around too much. I will flirt outrageously and will imply that sex is going to be on the agenda. I ask questions if it is OK for them to stay out all night and if they like to stay over in my hotel telling them there is room for them, what would they like for breakfast etc. I do a lot of work online before I go so some level of familiarity is created and in some cases I will have naked photos from some of them and also even have a video sex session with them.

The conservative side of the Indo girl is usually when in public where kissing, hugging and even hand holding is considered impolite, but in private these girls are more progressive.

I think the best solution is to just ask what you want to know and they will tell you, they will openly discuss their menstrual cycle which doesn't happen in the west, and unless you are looking for the love of your life don't worry if you offend as there are plenty out there.

Have fun.

Rob.

[Goferring]

How exactly would someone "get a feel" if she wants to have sex or not, without being too blunt about it?

I frame it as a question about if she is not too shy to be with a foreigner. It's a legitimate question and any Indonesian girl will understand that many inexperienced girls would have reservations about being with or seen with a foreign guy.

Also remember that Indonesians are very comfortable with questions that westerners would consider far too direct and impolite for a new acquaintance. Direct questions regarding race, religion, sexuality etc are considered perfectly acceptable.

[VonderJohn]

Hi John,
Before you commit to taking the girl for dinner get a feel if she will have sex with you first, I usually try for a morning to early afternoon meeting and to be honest if I haven't fucked them after 1 hour I don't take them anywhere. If I have met the girl online before I get to Bali they will know my expectations.
Rob.

How exactly would someone "get a feel" if she wants to have sex or not, without being too blunt about it? In other words, I don't want to be straightforward in this and ask: "We go for dinner then we have sex OK? As it sounds too prostitution-like and cheap, at least this is how she would perceive it. Second, it would trigger the "conservative" side of some of the girls who would go like "I'm not into one night stands, thanks!" " if you're looking for sex go find someone else!" or feel offended by merely being asked / hinted about it.

A lot of these girls are not prostitutes or escorts, they simply come from a decent background and are well educated but they're looking for an adventure. But its sometimes challenging to know how to detect the limit of their adventures. Any tips on how to navigate that?

Thanks.

[Rob Jones]

Thank you Ceegee, and also an equal thank to Rob Jones. From what you guys said, here is my conclusion:

1) Do not hesitate to approach Asian girls in Bali, wherever you may find them, since they would be open to going out with you as a non-Asian guy. You just have to be upfront and decent.

2) Most of the girls go for dating driven by money-related reasons, and expect a westerner to be able to provide this. Yet it doesn't have to be 'prostitution style' I. E: let's have sex and I pay you for it. It can simply be an invitation for a fancy dinner, in a fancy place, along with a decent / sweet / enjoyable treatment. It may end up in sex, it may not, it all depends.

3) Use Badoo and Tagged for better chances than Tinder.

That being said, I guess Bali deserves a whole month of a vacation stay, otherwise I'd be missing out LOL.

Hi John,

You will need a holiday from your holiday after 4 weeks. LOL I haven't used Tinder anywhere so I can't say whether it is better then Badoo and Tagged so use all 3. Another tip is to learn a little Bahasa Indonesian before you go and it will take you a long way. Before you commit to taking the girl for dinner get a feel if she will have sex with you first, I usually try for a morning to early afternoon meeting and to be honest if I haven't fucked them after 1 hour I don't take them anywhere. If I have met the girl online before I get to Bali they will know my expectations. If you are staying for 4 weeks you will have plenty of fish to fry my friend. If you are going to be there around Christmas and New Year look out for girls from other islands, usually Java, who are on holidays, they will be curious about meeting westerners and you will score well.

Thanks,

Rob.

[VonderJohn]

Yes, exactly. Often you will see on their profile that they are not interested in asian men. As a white man, you are in high demand and you hold all the cards.

Depends on the girl. Depends on what you want to do. If just want sex and don't want them to hang around, just tell them that, but be prepared to pay.

Thank you Ceegee, and also an equal thank to Rob Jones. From what you guys said, here is my conclusion:

1) Do not hesitate to approach Asian girls in Bali, wherever you may find them, since they would be open to going out with you as a non-Asian guy. You just have to be upfront and decent.

2) Most of the girls go for dating driven by money-related reasons, and expect a westerner to be able to provide this. Yet it doesn't have to be 'prostitution style' I. E: let's have sex and I pay you for it. It can simply be an invitation for a fancy dinner, in a fancy place, along with a decent / sweet / enjoyable treatment. It may end up in sex, it may not, it all depends.

3) Use Badoo and Tagged for better chances than Tinder.

That being said, I guess Bali deserves a whole month of a vacation stay, otherwise I'd be missing out LOL.

[Rob Jones]

Hello everyone,

So I've been reading around the Bali forum and noticed some good action going on. But I'm fairly new to Bali and I'm planning to visit in the coming weeks. A few answers to the below basic questions would be helpful:

1) I'm using Tinder to pick up girls in Bali. I receive so much 'likes' on Tinder everyday from Indonesian / Asian girls than any other location. Is it because I'm a westerner and they prefer western / white men over Asian ones?

2) The Indonesian / Asian girls on Tinder who are upfront and open about going out and dating. Do they do this in hopes of getting money in return? (escorts) or is it the norm there to date, have a ONS, and move on? What should I expect in a date in Bali? That she turns out to be a trans? Or that she wants money? Or simply harmless fun?.

Hi John,

I haven't used Tinder at all anywhere in the world but I have used apps like Badoo and Tagged with success in Bali. The girls do prefer "bule" over Indonesian guys due to many reasons mostly income based. Some will want money because they are hookers or supplementing low wages and some will be happy with the experience and good times you show them. Ladyboys are usually upfront. Any bars around Kuta, Legian and Seminyak will have plenty of girls. Also don't be shy to approach girls in shopping centres etc. Particular if they are making eye contact with you.

Have fun and write a report.

Rob.

[Ceegee]

1) I'm using Tinder to pick up girls in Bali. I receive so much 'likes' on Tinder everyday from Indonesian / Asian girls than any other location. Is it because I'm a westerner and they prefer western / white men over Asian ones?

Yes, exactly. Often you will see on their profile that they are not interested in asian men. As a white man, you are in high demand and you hold all the cards.

2) The Indonesian / Asian girls on Tinder who are upfront and open about going out and dating. Do they do this in hopes of getting money in return? (escorts) or is it the norm there to date, have a ONS, and move on? What should I expect in a date in Bali? That she turns out to be a trans? Or that she wants money? Or simply harmless fun?

Depends on the girl. Depends on what you want to do. If just want sex and don't want them to hang around, just tell them that, but be prepared to pay. If you are up front about money before you meet them, you might scare a couple away, but there are so many that it is not an issue. If you want to take one out for a nice dinner, you could meet her in a coffee shop first for a coffee to check her out. She might even want to come back to your room after coffee. Make sure she matches her photos, and get a feel for her. 80% of them will be wanting some money, a few might be too shy to say anything. If a good time is had by all, you can always offer some 'taxi money' and she how she reacts. It really is all up to you and how you want to spend your time.

Trannys seem to tell you up front on the dating app if it is not already on their profile. Many have it on their profile, most will admit it pretty quickly because they don't want to waste their time either. Only once out of many many girls coming to my room did a tranny turn up pretending to be a girl. It left sadly disappointed and without a cent.

[Pedros Needs]

Hello fellow mongers,

I have come to Bali today morning for the first time. Kindly share me details info about fun, FS, and all details. I'm particularly interested about mongering in famous Spa like riverview and taking freelancers in my hotel room.

Thanks in advance.

I think with respect you might need to have made some contribution, not be a first time poster before people give to much information, reasonable that you have to earn information being made freely available on this site.

Pedro.

[DonaldDhaka]

Hello fellow mongers,

I have come to Bali today morning for the first time. Kindly share me details info about fun, FS, and all details. I'm particularly interested about mongering in famous Spa like riverview and taking freelancers in my hotel room.

Thanks in advance.

[VonderJohn]

Hello everyone,

So I've been reading around the Bali forum and noticed some good action going on. But I'm fairly new to Bali and I'm planning to visit in the coming weeks. A few answers to the below basic questions would be helpful:

1) I'm using Tinder to pick up girls in Bali. I receive so much 'likes' on Tinder everyday from Indonesian / Asian girls than any other location. Is it because I'm a westerner and they prefer western / white men over Asian ones?

2) The Indonesian / Asian girls on Tinder who are upfront and open about going out and dating. Do they do this in hopes of getting money in return? (escorts) or is it the norm there to date, have a ONS, and move on? What should I expect in a date in Bali? That she turns out to be a trans? Or that she wants money? Or simply harmless fun?

3) Beyond Tinder, let's talk about picking up girls on the ground in Bali. What are some top hot spots for picking up girls for dates? (nightclubs, bars, hotel lounges. Etc).

Thank you in advance.

[ThreeLilBirds]

So this FR comes from back in early August, yes I know it's super-late but one I have to re-cap on as the first visit was memorable.

I had been chomping at the bit to get back to this massage+ place on Bukung Sari since my last report #5232 in April. I walked with gusto up to the front of the place and there were two young girls out the front. As I got closer however my joy soon turned to shock as I did not recognise either of them.

I thought I'd get a simple pedicure to put the feelers out. (I definitely needed one).

Once inside the boss lady appeared from behind some curtains. She wasn't the same one as before either. Ah crap I thought and sat down on the chair to begin proceeding.

The one girl started the foot bath and the other young girl knelt down beside me asking did I want a massage. I played it cool and politely declined.

I asked how long the girls had been working there and they both said one year. (which I knew to be false) but I didn't let on that I knew just yet.

During the pedicure the young girl, who BTW, had a very small frame and super-fantastic tits just waiting to be set free) kept asking me to give her 'a job'. I knew which one I wanted to give her. She said only 60 k for massage from the two girls, Must have been my perceived lack of interest that got her to offer so low. I had to get upstairs to the massage area if there was to be any further negotiations on anything. So I agreed and 15 mins later the pedicure was done and we headed upstairs.

When we got up there, they told me to undress and lie face down. When I did, I took off the pants and jocks in front of them to gauge any interest. They both gasped in shock and turned away which to me says this would be a challenge.

Fast forward. The massage was terrible. Then negotiating extras. These girls couldn't and so they had to call the boss lady in.

This is where she tried extorting me and I had to let her know that I was not a stranger to this establishment and the former costs.

They couldn't tell me where the previous tenants had moved to. Which is a shame.

The boss lady agreed to both girls, touching, but clothed he for 350 k total. Thats as low as I could get her.

Unfortunately for me, the HJ was worth nothing as it was the most lackluster HJ I have ever had.

Both girls totally uninterested, both quite reserved Balinese and would only touch my cock with one hand each. (their non-eating hand).

I kept trying to negotiate to get the girls to get their tits out, but they would have no part of it.

They allowed a fair bit of groping, but not right on the puss. I had to fantasize that they were enjoying it just to get the deed done.

Needless to say, won't be making that mistake again.

(goddamn, I'm going to have to do some serious leg-work to find the last girls that worked there).

Damage: 350 k.

WIR: f no.

[Aussie Fella]

I think we all know about Julia at Chloe Salon now, but I'm wondering if there's any other rub and tug places in Sanur that people would recommend. Previously I went to the one next to 41 x when Shinta was working there but she's given it away now and is basing herself at Sky Garden over in Kuta. Any good tips and applicable prices there would be appreciated.

So, to try and answer my own question I've tried two places over the past two days with vastly differing results.

First I went to Tantangan which used to be on Danau Poso but is now a short way down a gang on Jl Cemara. I don't remember the name of the lady I had but I'm pretty sure she's the one whose face graces the street signage with a claim that she was a Balinese actress. Hmmmm. Well, it wasn't a great experience. As with many rub and tug places, the massage wasn't the best. I'd say it was below average. When I'm paying for a massage, even if we both know I'm going to want the extra at the end, I expect the massage to be of a decent quality. Otherwise forget the massage and just wank me off! She rushed through the massage and got to the business end. For a HJ she asked 300 k which included the massage price. I figured that was OK and agreed. She slathered enough oil on my dick to run a taxi fleet for a year and then proceeded to furiously jerk away. Yes, I did cum but it was not a particularly happy ending and the whole thing was over and done with within 30 minutes!

Face: 3/10.

Body: I didn't ask her to take anything off as I felt no attraction whatsoever but with clothes on 5/10.

WIR: No.

Then yesterday I decided to go back to Riska Spa / Salon (next to 41 x) even though I know Shinta isn't working there anymore. I was greeted by an older lady named Ilu who still has an attractive face and is slim enough for my tastes. I agreed to go with her and she proceeded to give a top notch massage. To make it better, whilst I was still face down and she was doing the upper leg I arched my back a bit to give her access and she took the cue and spent a bit of time gently caressing balls and between butt cheeks. It was divine and had me rock hard. Eventually she had me turn over and did the other side, concentrating a bit on caressing around the balls. She then asked if I wanted extra and quoted 300 k for a HJ which included the massage price. I asked about a BJ and she quoted 400 k, including the massage price. A pretty good deal to me. She gave a pretty decent BBBJ and wasn't shy about a bit of anal play for extra stimulation, with the only negative being that there was the occasional teeth contact. She didn't offer to remove clothes and I didn't ask but I'm sure that would be available if wanted. It finished with CIM and I left a very happy customer.

Face: 6/10 (always hard to know what rating to give as she's above average for rub and tug ladies in Sanur but not a hottie that would turn your head on the street).

Body: From what I could see with clothes on 6/10.

WIR: Definitely. ASAP!

[Aussie Fella]

I think we all know about Julia at Chloe Salon now, but I'm wondering if there's any other rub and tug places in Sanur that people would recommend. Previously I went to the one next to 41 x when Shinta was working there but she's given it away now and is basing herself at Sky Garden over in Kuta. Any good tips and applicable prices there would be appreciated.

[Rob Jones]

Considering I had some good success with Badoo as I previously reported earlier in 2017 and gave my review of the app which was a good one.

Well fast-forward to now and the app has changed considerably. And for the worst. You can no longer let the app use your mobiles' GPS location to 'find who is near' and it only works off the city that you put in as your location. Not to mention there is sweet f. A. Talent on there at the moment.

And Bali Back page is absolutely wall to wall with balls. Trannys all over the place.

Will try out this wechat tomorrow.

What a difference a year makes. Last year in Bali I used Badoo with great success but I did all my contacting here in Australia with my location set on Denpasar and I didn't need to bother when I was there as I had solid leads for the 3 days of wife free time I had. I have also used Tagged and it is effective too. My next trip is to Pattaya and I'm having success again with both Badoo and Tagged.

Selamat Hari.

Rob.