Jakarta

[Anal Kiss]

I am plan to visit in 2 weeks time guys. Almost 10 years ago I spent few days in Jakarta.

I forgot the name of 4 floor complex with disco and ST room inside. And they fully operate during daytime.

Is it still open? If yes, please tell me the name of the place.

Thanks advance guys.

[Steve 99]

Interesting that we both photograph the same assets in the same way. You got to love the Indonesian hooters. TTG

Looks like Emma is making the rounds. She's just as bad as us guys going from one to the next. Haha.

[TimTimGuy]

Interesting that we both photograph the same assets in the same way. You got to love the Indonesian hooters. TTG

[JustBlue]

Left Bali for a weekend in Jakarta. Meet Emma 26 year old girl of the internet Asaincupid at the Hotel and a fun night and she left after the weekend went south. Then rang a 19 year old girl of tagged name Fitrianai and arrive hour after the other girl left. Not that cheap a weekend with flights and Hotel. But a fun time and both girls were good value. Enjoy the Photo, s

[Master Diver II]

Would you mind that I pm you? I used to use IC and then tryed DIA, seems a few girls I went out with noticed me on DIA as it is free entry. They seemed rather unhappy about thay. I couldn't even find them on DIA. Both said "a friend of them noticed my profile.". So I am looking for some other interesting sites; as you mentioned the subscription fee is in a way an investment. I'm a guy who usually goes for the smaller spa's and inhotel services as I feel awkward alone in the well known bars or spas for the usual enjoyment. On the other hand I adore the dating scene as it gives me personally more satisfaction.

You should have just put your profile on all the sites anyway. Did you tell them that you're serious with them? I've never had any problems and I'm on both of those sites. But then again, they all know that I'm not serious with them, even though some of them are looking for serious relationships. I'm just being "used" as a stopgap measure until they find the"one". It is more fun going to the bars with at least one friend, but there's no need to feel awkward at all. You've been around enough and posted enough around the forum; why don't you get to know some of the other guys here? Check out the Travel Announcements and see who's around. There's no need to ask permission to PM me. You are right though, the dating scene is a blast: as Forest Gump's mama used to say, "Life's like a box of chocolates...".

MD II

[Medanboy]

I haven't trawled on DIA for ages but use a few others presently which seem to do the job rather nicely. I don't put any BS in my profile and am pretty straightforward without being overly obvious. It is a very fine edge to walk on, but if you strike the right balance, you can get rewarded rather prettily. It is advantageous to have all the chatting tools to communicate: BBM (still very much preferred as they don't have to give you their phone number to chat) Whatsapp, Viber, Line, FB, Skype, Yahoo Messenger (although less utilised now) etc. As HHM mentioned, I do know normal women who go to CJs (usually on ladies night) for the band, but they are much in the minority there. Much as there are many part timers and FLs in CJs, BATS etc, they are still "commercial" and at times rather "hardcore".

Otherwise you could try the clubs in Kemang,

Just a brief aside regarding cost: not all women are looking for money, but the lower they are on the income scale, the more it is appreciated or expected. Most women I've met over dating websites only want genuine taxi money (100k rupiah or less) if they find they are short of funds and insulted if they are offered more. So if there is a subscription cost for these dating sites, there is a return on investment. At the same time, I have come across VERY ns. If you want more details, you can PM me.

MD II

Would you mind that I pm you? I used to use IC and then tryed DIA, seems a few girls I went out with noticed me on DIA as it is free entry. They seemed rather unhappy about thay. I couldn't even find them on DIA. Both said "a friend of them noticed my profile.". So I am looking for some other interesting sites; as you mentioned the subscription fee is in a way an investment. I'm a guy who usually goes for the smaller spa's and inhotel services as I feel awkward alone in the well known bars or spas for the usual enjoyment. On the other hand I adore the dating scene as it gives me personally more satisfaction.

[Thommy84]

Just a quick comment on my below reports:

I don't know how it happened, but it looks like the order in which they are posted has somehow gotten turned around. Should now be read starting with Number 3, then Number 2, then number 1. That's the correct chronological order and helps the transition in the reports be more understandable.

[Thommy84]

Tommy. Any reason you didn't go to Delta? Price?

Hi Traveler,

Only reason was that I was actually looking for more than a HJ (which is as far as I'm aware the only thing on the menu in Delta). It was still on the shortlist, since it simply offers solid above average quality from my experience and usually has very decent facilities for enjoying some pool / sauna time before or after the massage. During my overall trip I definitely plan to visit (a) Delta at least once. Maybe the newly opened one in Bali.

Since I haven't been in a while I can only estimate the cost. If other members know better, please correct me. I would estimate that for 3 sessions including HJ you should be at around 600k, so on the higher end for massage places in Jakarta.

If anyone else has any recommendations for my next stop in Jakarta, they are more than welcome.

[Traveler1234]

Tommy. Any reason you didn't go to Delta? Price?

[FrdMen]

Hi MD II and HHM,

Thanks for your information and nope, I'm not Hanibo.

I've been to DIA at your advice and it works perfectly. I made clear what I'm looking for (but not to explicit) and get enough reactions from girls that meet my expectation. They are educated (University graduated for Indonesian standard and some western standard) , talk English very good and are independent (checked with linked in or Facebook, they match and have good jobs e. G. Producer). I do have to select for at least 5 girls meet my expectations so I've hidden my profile at this time (good looking face and classy style seems to help.).

I'm with an Indonesian woman myself that I've met in Europe and her parents think bule is not good enough for their daughter. I've been with her for 15 years now, luckily she's not Chinese and sure not ugly. But for once I would like to go back to 15 years ago when I met her. That's why my standard remains educated.

I can use your advice well so thanks for it. I'll get back when I've been to Jakarta to update on the results. But I don't think there will be a lot of pictures over here, don't think the girls would want that. But I'll think of something.

Enough information for me, so the subject can be closed.

Thank for the serious replies.

Frd

[Mighty Spearsman]

First, this post from Fred showed up here on ISG eleven days ago:

Hi,

I'm looking for a well educated, good looking girl from 25. 35 years to have some fun together somewhere next June in Jakarta.

I'm well educated myself and good looking. 40+. No cheap working girls please.

Fred

Now, we have the following post from Hanibo:

Hi,

I will visit Jakarta in end of May. I'm looking for some fun with nice ladies between 25-35 years. Any recommendation where I can contact some girls?

I have no time in the evening to arrange some visits in the Bars, so I look for some possibilities to reach some girls by phone to arrange some session in my room.

Anybody have some suggestion whom I can contact?

Just curious. Are Fred and Hanibo one and the same person?

If not, then:

Dear Hanibo,

Since your post is virtually the same request as Fred's request, I strongly encourage you to read the posts below that were written in response to his request.

However, I'm confused by one of your sentences. Do you really have absolutely no time to visit any bars at all in the evening? Assuming that it's not because of laziness, there are several ways to find girls quickly and have some fun while doing so.

If you are staying at the Shangri-La Hotel, then just walk downstairs to the BATS bar. If you're staying at the Mulia Hotel, then just visit CJ's. Other hotels (I. E. Ritz-Carlton) have bars / clubs as well. In all of these places, you can easily find female company within a few minutes of entering.

You could also try your hotel's massage service, although that could get pricey.

If you're walking through a mall, keep an eye out for girls. You could easily swap cell numbers and / or arrange for the young lady to meet you later. You could also flirt with cashiers / counter girls / waitresses / etc. You'd be surprised at how easy it is to pick up girls if you're a friendly foreigner.

There are several dating sites, such as DIA, that you can access to line up girls before you even arrive - they've been discussed extensively here, RTFF.

Every man who visits Jakarta, no matter how busy they are, should make time to visit one of the saunas, especially early in their stay. My personal favorite is Kartika, which offers a body-to-body slippery massage (even better is a 2-girl session), but there are many other places that are also good: Alexis (high-end) , Malioboro (mid-to-high end) , Maribaya (lower end, but where almost every girl is in your age bracket) , Hotel Travel, Hotel Classic, Sumo Shiatsu (in the Kelapa Gading area) and many others. Get a session on your first day, then if you like the girl, get her cell number and arrange to have her meet you at your hotel after her shift is over, for either short-term or long-term. Most Jakarta girls would love to spend the night in a nice hotel bed, both for the money but also because it's a lot nicer than the shithole room they live in (and share with 2 or 3 other girls).

Or, contact Jakarta After Dark 2 and he can set everything up for you (for a fee, of course, but money well spent).

RTFF! And please don't overpay.

[Thommy84]

[Thommy84]

[Hanibo]

Hi,

I will visit Jakarta in end of May. I'm looking for some fun with nice ladies between 25-35 years. Any recommandation where I can contact some girls?

I have no time in the evening to arrange some visits in the Bars, so I look for some possibilities to reach some girls by phone to arrange some session in my room.

Anybody have some suggestion whom I can contact?

[Master Diver II]

Hi,

I'm looking for a well educated, good looking girl from 25. 35 years to have some fun together somewhere next June in Jakarta.

I'm well educated myself and good looking. 40+. No cheap working girls please.

Fred

Ok Frd, I'll give this a shot as HHM did earlier. He's both right and wrong in some aspects so I'll try and clear this up and answer the best that I can, as it looks like you're looking more in my area of the local market than most of the guys here. I am approaching my half century with a reasonable amount of resistance both physically and mentally, so we're probably not that far apart. Perhaps a modicum less good looking than yourself, but I manage.

HHM is correct that there are distinct layers in Indonesian society, but like anywhere else, there are plenty of grey areas. The extremely snobby and exclusive families are in the topmost tier and very particular whom they go out with. However, there will always be women (even at this level) looking for fun, but VERY DISCRETE fun. That's an area you might be able to exploit, as they do look for foreign men so there's little chance of news leaking out. The difficulty is in meeting them, as they are extremely cliquish when out and about in town, and paranoid that they may be spotted by someone else. Your best chance is if they are going around with the their gay friend shopping or in the clubs. Your approach should be through him; nonetheless it isn't easy. That doesn't even cover the way they get to your hotel room if they finally decide they like you.

If however you aim a little bit lower, you can find all sorts of women in this target age group who are well educated and much more open to meet. They can be anyone from office workers to doctors, lawyers or bankers. Since you have time, do join some of the dating websites and set up a profile. HHM has suggested DIA but there are many others much more preferable to my eyes. I haven't trawled on DIA for ages but use a few others presently which seem to do the job rather nicely. I don't put any BS in my profile and am pretty straightforward without being overly obvious. It is a very fine edge to walk on, but if you strike the right balance, you can get rewarded rather prettily. It is advantageous to have all the chatting tools to communicate: BBM (still very much preferred as they don't have to give you their phone number to chat) Whatsapp, Viber, Line, FB, Skype, Yahoo Messenger (although less utilised now) etc. As HHM mentioned, I do know normal women who go to CJs (usually on ladies night) for the band, but they are much in the minority there. Much as there are many part timers and FLs in CJs, BATS etc, they are still "commercial" and at times rather "hardcore".

Otherwise you could try the clubs in Kemang, go with a wingman, get a bottle and do be generous with drinks. You never know whom you may land. HHM is correct regarding some of those other bars, but as he said it's tough to do it alone. See if anyone else is around when you're going and try and form a group. Alternatively, go and befriend a gay guy and take him out for drinks with you. It sounds weird but they can much more easily approach women than you can. I can also remember a few times where the girl I was meeting brought a couple of gay friends with her; once you pass their approval, they might disappear and leave you with her. It's much more common than you may think, but also very useful once you have knowledge of how it all works.

Just a brief aside regarding cost: not all women are looking for money, but the lower they are on the income scale, the more it is appreciated or expected. Most women I've met over dating websites only want genuine taxi money (100k rupiah or less) if they find they are short of funds and insulted if they are offered more. So if there is a subscription cost for these dating sites, there is a return on investment. At the same time, I have come across VERY "commercial" women on the same sites, but you can tell that within the first exchange of messages as they are normally pretty upfront. You can also tell from their profiles as well if you read between the lines. It would probably also make sense to subscribe here too (if you haven't already) so you can communicate directly with other members.

Incidentally Ramadhan (fasting month) starts about 28th June for about 30 days. It will definitely be a lot more difficult during this period as there will be restrictions on bars opening, especially on certain dates. Your initial query was rather naive and totally out of the general understanding of this forum, which is why you got so much stick. Most of us shot a few FRs out about our local areas before we asked questions. There is plenty of information out there if you really try and get through it. There is a forum search function to narrow it down, but I also realise that you still have a lot to wade through - but then again, plenty of us have gone to a lot of trouble to write FRs; since it is a whole lot slower writing all of this than it is to read it, we really would appreciate you taking the trouble to peruse through our various compositions. If you want more details, you can PM me.

MD II