General Info

[Marxh]

I'll be doing a long stopover in Japan and interested in the various approaches.

Are apps good? I'm interested in both day game and p4 p.

Curious about the no foreigners, does this apply to all non Japanese? I'm Asian so would I be able to slip into some spots as a non-white guy? No Japanese, or not enough to survive without my phone.

(re- post in correct forum after mis-posting in Nampa).

So in the summer I'll be hitting some main cities for three weeks on a food and culture visit, mainly, hopefully intersperse with some poontang.

[Miss MaryHinge]

Are prices comparable to western Europe?

[AussieGaigin]

Google lists numerous possibilities.

[Miss MaryHinge]

Looking for some feedback on the situation for getting tested for hiv and stds in Tokyo.

Have done previously in Bangkok at red cross clinic anonymously. Is such a thing possible here? Anon or not, what are typical prices for such tests? In Bkk the result is ready in around an hour. Anything similar in Tokyo?

[Miss MaryHinge]

(re- post in correct forum after mis-posting in Nampa).

So in the summer I'll be hitting some main cities for three weeks on a food and culture visit, mainly, hopefully intersperse with some poontang.

I'm used to the FL and P4 P scene in Thailand and a bit in Vietnam, where you just need to get on Line or Wechat and so on to start filtering and negotiating.

I realise it is probably different here to some degrees. So, if a non-Japanese speaking guy wants to bang a few cute uni students or young women or MILFs looking for some extra cash, where.

Should I start looking? Could you advise of apps and socials used in Japan?

Furthermore what kind of prices do these girls ask for FS on outcalls? I've seen on a few sites that FS isn't always on the table, just caressing, stroking or something.

If I could just get a quick read of the situation, I could decide whether it's worth the effort and / or $.

Thanks for any helpful forthcoming.

[Drbombay]

Kids are sick. Is this a Japanese version of the sick buffalo.

Sounds a total scam.

Teltel.

Just to follow up. I set up a time to meet and of course I got that "I'll be there no problem. " Took my time and was actually running late and forgot when I get the text I'm ready. Told her I was in a different color car and about 10 minutes out. Right as I got near I got another text from her stating she was still at home and needed to calm her kid down with play points so she could leave. Told her not going to do that, I was "concerned for the kids" and I would give her the Google play cards when we met, or otherwise I told her she was a scam. Of course I got the whole "I'm not a scam. " and I gave her a few pointers on running a scam. Namely don't bring kids "imagined" into it and to realize I as well as she was just another train in the night, I may not bite but somebody else will just like I didn't need her for anything there were plenty of other women out there.

Overall my advice, unless you meet face to face and you look like the latest Hollywood (or Bollywood and K-Pop idol) don't think that anyone online is too good to be true. There are a few out there, but mostly just scammers.

[Teltel]

Wanted to ask for some advice and opinions and to see if this has happened to anyone else. Long story short, met a local JN on MeetMe and chatted for a little and then she asked for my Telegram username. Obliged and we started shatting from that platform. Yong lady goes on to say she's into hook-ups and I'm good with that. All she wants if 5000 yen on an Apple card so her kids can be left alone playing video games while we do the do. I asked to meet her in the daytime and she said yes, but I would need to show proof of purchase and balked and told her that her kids should be in school why does she need to keep them busy with games, where I got the "my kids are sick and not in school yet. ".

Ok, I've been around the block, and actually had a similar experience with another JN with a similar set up and didn't bite. Don't think I will on this one either. It's too easy and I get suspicious.

Wanted to know if any of you fellow Lurkers have run across these types and are they part of some bigger scam?

Kids are sick. Is this a Japanese version of the sick buffalo.

Sounds a total scam.

Teltel.

[AussieGaigin]

Wanted to know if any of you fellow Lurkers have run across these types and are they part of some bigger scam?

Any girl who asks for payment by gift cards and "proof of purchase" (or any other form of pre-payment) is a scam. It's common in many countries. As soon as she has the details, she'll block you.

[Drbombay]

Wanted to ask for some advice and opinions and to see if this has happened to anyone else. Long story short, met a local JN on MeetMe and chatted for a little and then she asked for my Telegram username. Obliged and we started shatting from that platform. Yong lady goes on to say she's into hook-ups and I'm good with that. All she wants if 5000 yen on an Apple card so her kids can be left alone playing video games while we do the do. I asked to meet her in the daytime and she said yes, but I would need to show proof of purchase and balked and told her that her kids should be in school why does she need to keep them busy with games, where I got the "my kids are sick and not in school yet. ".

Ok, I've been around the block, and actually had a similar experience with another JN with a similar set up and didn't bite. Don't think I will on this one either. It's too easy and I get suspicious.

Wanted to know if any of you fellow Lurkers have run across these types and are they part of some bigger scam?

[German Man]

Dear AussieGaigin,

That sounds like a good advice, as I will have to work full time together with Japanese colleagues, so I expect to have to follow their working times. Asking the ward office to find out where I could give language lessons is an excellent idea, as lessons should also provide a legitimate excuse to leave office or my colleagues' activities during certain times. An interest for the local culture and language did help me a great deal in China, if made my FWB there turn into an LTR and provided lots of other happy moments, too.

Not yet sure whether it is going to happen (I definitely miss Asia, although I haven't been to Japan yet), but if it happens, I will post.

[AussieGaigin]

Dear fellows,

My favourite usually is to find someone and keep her for my stay rather than jumping from girl to girl, so making a MILF happy would be what I'd look for.

So my questions are whether there are these kind of ladies, and where to find them, like trying an office lady in my company or look online, and do they have a favourite dating app, or should I*just forget it and do P4P?

A bit more for starters:

I'd advise against getting into a relationship with anyone in the same office / company. Anyway you're not likely to find many OLs in your age range, they are expected to be married off by 25-30. MILF chasing is a good idea, but you would need to be able to meet them in the middle of the day, is this hard with a job?

Get yourself a Japanese tourist guide book; learn a few basic phrases to help you survive. Also learn a bit about their local culture, lifestyle, food, geography, etc. They are in awe of someone with this knowledge, or willing to learn.

Go to your local ward office and see if they have an information booth that can give you details of social groups that welcome foreigners. Perhaps being able to teach German might be a novelty, but English conversation groups are plentiful. Ikebana or Origami classes might bring luck.

[AussieGaigin]

Dear fellows,

My last visit to Asia has been a while ago, but it may happen that I will spend some half year or more in Japanland. Previously in China it was not too difficult to find freebies in my favourite age range (35-45, I would say), but I do speak some Chinese. I am aware that not speaking Japanese is an issue in Japan (and I speak none), but from what I read elsewhere about Japanese sex life, there must be tons of underfucked ladies, single mothers and office ladies.

However, I'd be interested to hear from you whether this is a myth?

My favourite usually is to find someone and keep her for my stay rather than jumping from girl to girl, so making a MILF happy would be what I'd look for.

So my questions are whether there are these kind of ladies, and where to find them, like trying an office lady in my company or look online, and do they have a favourite dating app, or should I*just forget it and do P4P?

Definitely not a myth, especially if you will be there for a continuous period.

Lack of Japanese would limit your P4P chances, but most ladies speak some English and love to practice it. Many ladies in your age range are "work widows" and would love some male company.

Have a read through the "Nampa" thread in the menu, it should give you some ideas of where to start. Get a book called "Black passenger, yellow cab" from Amazon for a tutorial.

[German Man]

Dear fellows,

My last visit to Asia has been a while ago, but it may happen that I will spend some half year or more in Japanland. Previously in China it was not too difficult to find freebies in my favourite age range (35-45, I would say), but I do speak some Chinese. I am aware that not speaking Japanese is an issue in Japan (and I speak none), but from what I read elsewhere about Japanese sex life, there must be tons of underfucked ladies, single mothers and office ladies.

However, I'd be interested to hear from you whether this is a myth?

My favourite usually is to find someone and keep her for my stay rather than jumping from girl to girl, so making a MILF happy would be what I'd look for.

So my questions are whether there are these kind of ladies, and where to find them, like trying an office lady in my company or look online, and do they have a favourite dating app, or should I*just forget it and do P4P?

[JackMa3]

Hello all,

Does anyone have any suggestions for websites to use to find independent ladies? I have used Locanto and Massage Republic with a little success in the past, but both have kind of gone quiet in my area. Has anyone used any other sites?

Thanks in advance.

You can Google for independent girls and use SA also.

[JackMa3]

Any mongers know of the best apps to use in Japan for finding freelancers? I usually use Tinder but it's pretty hit and miss.

You can use seeking arrangement. I use tinder too, and got some luck there.