Tokyo

[Lubricate It]

Meat ManWhat you should have done is pack up and leave, but as you walk out, hand her a small slip of paper containing your email adress. You could say "I think you dropped this" or something like this as you hand her the paper.

[MeatMan]

Black women, in general, sometimes avoid looking at me when I'm walking on the street. I also get looks from caucasian women (mostly a smile as to say hello) ,But I've always wondered why do asian women stare? I've had it happen to me a few times! Here's an example..I was in a record store not to long ago buying a couple of CD's as well as listening to a couple of tunes. I happened to look my right and saw an lovely asian woman also listening to music. I didn't pay much attention to it but, when I looked to my left out of the corner of my eye, I noticed she was staring at me with no experession on her face. I find it odd when they do this.Another example...I was in a library checking my E-mails, and across from me was a Asian woman of either Chinese, Korean, or Japanese decent. Agian, lovely features et all. While checking my E-mails, she was staring at me with no experession on her face. I had thought I'd done something wrong, but I paid it no mind. I wanted to say hello, but I didn't know what to do!What would you guys have done in a situation such as the ones I've experienced?. This pretty much goes for Asian women overall...By the way, I'm African-AmericanItte rasshaiMeatMan

[Blue Sky Molka]

New Kid,I'm sorry that you have not had a good experience so far with Japanese women pro and non-pro. But to blame that on you being Asian is simplistic and not fair to these women. Like you, I am also Asian American (Chinese.) I've lived in Japan for 6 years in the past, I go to Japan on business several times a year, and I live in a US city with a high Japanese National population as well as a major destination for Japanese tourists.From my experience, I have not had major problems hooking up. I have been lucky with touists, J-women that live here, and the ones I've met in Japan. Don't get me wrong, there's been plenty misses but I've had my share of hits too. By the way, I am not a super rich or even a rich person. Not all J women like caucasian or black men. There are many that like Asians better. Maybe you have been looking in the wrong places. Have you tried going to pubs or clubs that cater to mainly Japanese? Not much help but just my 2 cents.

[Lazarus_Long]

I don't think it's the myth of the big dick as much as Japanese are racist towards other Asians, and have some bizzare complex vs. other races. That just makes the odds longer against finding an open minded woman. Good luck, it's not impossible though, I have known several Asian guys who have learned the ins and outs and learned how to score well in the game.At the same time if you're Asian you have the advantage that if you learn a smattering of Japanese, you can probably fake your way into many of the interesting pay for play establishments that would never let us in.We non-Asians are locked out of many of those opportunities, even if like myself, we speak fluent Japanese.And uh, what's this gookiesha term?

[Asia Nut]

New Kid,Just my humble opinion, but it may be your attitude. I've been here for the better part of 34 years and if you treat them like a lady, (pro or amateur) they'll respect it. The phrases "jap women"and "gookieshas" are not only offensive to them, but to me. I have several asian friends (nisei, sansei, Korean, Chinese etc.) that have had great success with both pro and amateur woman here, just by treating them right. Bragging that you're Asian isn't going to help (my guess is they're smart enough to notice it). Try places like Gas Panic in Yokohama, a girl in a Soapland in Yokohama told me she goes there regular and enjoys taking guys home on her off nights---go figure. Also Roppongi is a place you may be able to score if you want to stick with amateurs, just treat them like a lady.Happy Hunting,Asia Nut

[Vice Squad]

Even in Japan, Japanese women are not the only game in town. There are so many women in this world that you really can't afford to get hung up over any that aren't with the program.

[Soujourn]

Actually 2 of my best friends are mixe -asian, look more asian than not, don't speak ANY japanese and get laid ALOT ! So Idon't think it makes alot of difference about your race - of course some girls wanna taste 'the strange' - and guys, too. But for most Japanese - they actually prefer to be with 'their own'. Look at the hostess clubs, soaps, etc - they are largely off limits to gaijiin. I speak better japanese, been here longer and more aware of the culture than some of my japanese-euro buddies and guess what? They get let right into the primo places! As for suggestions - hit the Nanpa forum right here and learn all about scoring with j-girls on their home turf! Ganbatte kudesai!

[New Kid]

Hello,I'm new here and I have a problem with jap women. I believe it is the regular or the Pros gookieshas. You see, I'm Asian, and I noticed that most of these gookieshas are more friendly to either Caucasians or Black Americans, but unless you are a Very Rich Asian Guy, you are pretty much outa Luck.I am not that rich. Although I am Asian-American (not of Japanese ancestry though) I am so frustrated that I could not get hooked up w/ regular jap women and I have to spend ALL my hard-earned money on Pro gookieshas.Anyways, the reaon I am venting my frustration is that my buddies black and white and there is a couple of them Score easily with the regular gookieshas, just by BS! Like crazy! w/o spending all that YEN. I even bragged that coz I'm "Asian" I will have the better of it, but I was proven wrong primarily because of the preferential GOOKIESHAS!I am resigned to the fact that most of these gookieshas believe in the Myth of the Big Dick. No problem. I am not that small either, but I think that Discrimanation and Myths get the better of me.What do you guys think?

[Soujourn]

Hi there! This is an information report for those interested in where to get quality medical care in Tokyo by english speaking doctors. I highly reccomend the following from personal and referred experiences:1) International Clinic - Address 1-5-9 Azabudai, Minato-ku Telephone 03-3583-7831 By Appointment Website www.members.aol.com/draksenoff . This doctor is quite a legend in Tokyo. Old fashioned but always up to date. The friendly 'family doctor' environment. I've had some travelling associated bugs that he diagnosed and took care of perfectly. His diagnosis was exactly in line with my 'high tech' stateside physican.2) Akasaka International Clinic - Tokai Akasaka Bldg. 3F, 3-16-11, Akasaka, Minato-ku Telephone 03-5570-2288 Language English, Spanish, Tagalog By appointmentWebsite www.e-doctor.ne.jp/aic This clinic is modern, well staffed and professionally run. They also specialize in internal medicine and urology - so pertinent if you end up with a 'gift that keeps on giving'.Both locations are less than 10min walk from associated stations and the directions are indicated on their websites. Also - the reception staff speaks english as well as Japanese. This posting is simply a reflection of my personal opinion and I'm not trying to endorse or qualify any medical establishment. Just re-posting information that is available from other websites and private experience. I can say that it's really great when you can walk into a medical facility and be treated promptly, correctly and efficiently! I've had some bizarre experience in asian clinics - if you watched 'Lost in Translation' you'll get a gentle gist of the situation. Or if you've travelled extensively as I have, you'll know exactly what I mean!Cheers,

[Rondolo]

Avanti,Nice report. Could you post the websites for the deliheru you've used? Or could you private message them to me?Really appreciate it.

[Avanti]

A while back someone was asking about deriheru so I thought I would post my experience of Japanese and Korean ones.There are now large numbers of Japanese delivery services and if you can read Japanese you easily find them by searching "deriheru". Some are gaijin-oriented like club boo but most are targeted at Japanese. Either way the service is usually the same. After the girl arrives, you will decide the time period, typically 60 or 90 min. You then take a shower together, both mouthwash and gargle and go to bed and make out or whatever pleases you. This typically culminates in BBBJ to CIM. For the service to be legal in Japan FS has to forbidden but occasionally the girl may permit or even prefer this. AF is also legal but it is rarely offered.When you dial into a Japanese deriheru, you will usually speak to one of a team of Japanese guys manning the phones. In general they are not keen to have gaijin customers and will usually politely tell you they don't serve foreigners. However I've found if you speak your politest Japanese to them, calling the same place a few times you can sometimes hit on a guy who will allow you in. Once you've used them once and your phone number is recorded, even though you may be initially rebuffed, when they find you on the database you're fine. On the websites you can usually see pictures of the girls that are available. Some sites are not clear at all so I've only used those with good pictures. When using the Japanese sites, the girl that has arrived has always been the one from the picture. There's still some pot luck involved and the girl may be slightly more or less attractive than she appears in the picture. Still I've mostly been very pleased and would rate most as 8 or even 9. In general, they're really sweet girls, students or furita making extra cash. By the way, on the subject of gfe, I would agree with the guy who said dfk is key. For me it's not really exciting without it. Fortunately most girls have been up for that and only a few hold their mouths firmly closed. Maybe there's some health risk but so far I never caught anything I think and it's really no fun without it. Obviously it's not a nice thought if she's just blown someone else so I always take only the first reservation of the day. (You can see the time she starts work on the website.) Overall, I have had some awesome experiences with some gorgeous girls.My experience of the Korean sites has been very different. These sites have many pictures of really beautiful girls but sadly these have only been scanned from magazines. No matter who you choose, a random girl will get sent over. The two times I have tried, this has happened. The girls were really not much good in both cases like a 5 or 6. In both cases the end was FS with condom rather than BBBJCIM. I don't recommend using them.I hope this has been useful.

[Member #1005]

In my experience Japanese tourists going to many other countries have one of the most liberal agreements when compared to foreign nationals entering Japan. I have never known of this or heard of this before and to be honest I would think the girl is either (a) exaggerating (b) never travelled overseas before (c) looks mixed or very Chinese, (as this is a typical rouse for Chinese to fly to Japan and use false documents to enter other countries claiming to be Japanese). But all the Japanese girls I know have no problems coming to visit me, even when they are between jobs, only my Thai friend gets the occasional grilling from the immigration and she?s a frequent flyer in a good job and fairly wealthy and remembers she?s visiting four or three countries when she does a trip.

[Viagrant]

Mikster,You wrote:

Got a question for anyone who has faced this before. Met a few regular girls in Japan on my last trip and have invited them over one at a time to stay in my house for short vacations. A couple of them have told me that single women from japan traveling alone get the third degree from immigration about their reasons for coming here.

Where is "here"? Which country are you talking about?V.

[Shiofuki]

She should just say she is a tourist, sightseeing. She shouldnt need to say anything else.

[monet]

Mikster,From past experience, it is quite likely that a single girl from an Eastern European country, or from Asia will be questioned quite thouroughly. Immigration wants to be sure that the girl is here for legitimate purposes ( holiday, visiting friends or family ) and not here for a job, unless she has a work visa.If she has a return ticket and enough money to show that she will be able to survive for the duration of her trip, all should be fine. They will probably ask where or with whom she is staying. I suggest you send her a letter of invitation. Keep it light and don't suggest that you will pay her way or be responsible for her. Simply invite her to be a guest in your home while she is on vacation. Don't give the INS any reason to suspect that she is meeting a "rich American" and will never leave. She shouldn't panic and everything will be fine.I know that this sounds severe, but that's the way it is. They might not hassle her at all, but it is best to be prepared after flying halfway around the world. Feel free to ask any other questions that you might have.By the way, I will be in Tokyo from June 1 to June 9. I will be staying in Roppongi. Any tips from fellow travelers would be appreciated.Monet