Jakarta

[Dorman]

I too like to keep a couple of friendly, non-commercial but non-committal relationships when not hanging out in the shebeens of north Jakarta or trawling the campuses of Salemba. Indonesians even have a term for this sort of relationship, they call them "TTM", teman tapi mesra.

The thing you have to realise about a lot of women in Indonesia is that if they are not virgins and not married by 25 their choice of husband material is really quite limited. Most Indonesian men want to marry a virgin (I know, a huge generalisation but we'll let it stand for the time being) added to that is the fact that a disproportionate percentage of women are in decent jobs compared to men. Therefore a man with a decent job in Jakarta can pretty much have his pick of eligible young women to marry and bring home to Mummy. This leaves a huge heap of nice women in their twenties and early thirties, well educated and earning a reasonable wage but who might have been around the block a couple of times feeling a little bit left on the shelf.

These are the woman who any man who (a) knows how to dress (yes guys it is important, trust me no amount of inherent bule charm is going to overcome the sight of you in shorts and a Bintang singlet and flip flops in the centre of Jakarta on a weekday afternoon, would it kill ya to put on a pair of trousers and an ironed shirt?) , (b) can hold a reasonable conversation (limited BI helps but isn't necessarily essential and by conversation I usually mean listening and tut-tutting at appropriate points when she tells you her problems. Money and men basically. The problems are always the same) , (c) doesn't feel the need to email pictures of his cock to every woman he meets (why bother? She'll be getting a look at the real thing soon enough if you take it easy) and (d) is prepared to act like a half way normal, likable guy, should be scoring with at every opportunity. Starbucks and cafes attached to large office buildings in central Jakarta are target rich environments just be prepared to put your hand in your pocket for meals, drinks and taxi fares.

Think of it this way, you're a nice looking young woman, you're not a virgin and you like sex but you've broken up with a couple of guys along the way, your job's not bad but not really going anywhere, you live in a room in a boarding house or worse with your overbearing family in Bekasi. Meeting a nice enough bloke who will take you out for dinner to nice restaurants, nothing fancy but places you don't often visit, go to clubs with and allow you to let your hair down now and again, well it doesn't sound like such a bad deal. If a relationship develops great but if not you're no worse off. It's a win win situation.

The only problem for guys thinking about this is the risk of getting hooked. Simple really, do what I do; tell them you're married from the start, you might lose fifty percent of your options (worst case scenario) but that still leaves a hell of a lot of uncomplicated, no strings fun out there to enjoy.

[Pak Mike]

One girl I met at starbucks and asked to sit next to her. Bit of chatting up, do the old first time in jakarta story can you show me around and got a call the next day.

One girl I met on a reputbale matrimonial site and one the other was a waitress at a restraunt I was dining in.

I don't go for every girl, but am selective and then employ some charm.

100% success rate so far not one rejection, take chances it really pays in this city.

To get normal girls hang around at the better class malls. I don't know if I'm reading too much into this but every girl I have had has been from south jakarta!

If you pick up from clubs and bars. You get a different type of girl entirely, these girls never club or very rarely.

I never try to bed them on the first date, and by the second meet they are pulling their panties down. I guess you have to play to their conception of themselves as " good girls" and let them think they are ladies by being a gentleman on the first date. Its fine, I like the thrill and the sexual tension of wanting someone but not being able to have them immediately.

I guess because the normal girls are with parents they do not have many opportunities to have sex, and all that pent up sexual energy is released!

Oh the way those pussies hug tightly is magical.

I'll be there again this weekend cannot wait.

More or less my modus operandi. Have also had luck with Tagged and DIA, but need to be selective and invest time over a few weeks.

[Smoothy]

did you see any Jakartan cuties with big boobs? . Thanks.

I was sleeping by the pool at my hotel in Bali a while ago and when I woke up and opened my eyes, there was a gorgeous pair of big tits right in front of my face. The German girl beside me was topless and bending over to get something from her bag. Great way to wake up!

[Faaris]

Hi Faaris, did you see any Jakartan cuties with big boobs? . Thanks.

Hi D Cups,

Not too many. The women in this part of the world are not built like that generally. But yes, there are around but rarer. I have never had bigger than a C cup in jakarta. See cup is considered big boobs here!

[Faaris]

So how'd you discover them? Any tips?

One girl I met at starbucks and asked to sit next to her. Bit of chatting up, do the old first time in jakarta story can you show me around and got a call the next day.

One girl I met on a reputbale matrimonial site and one the other was a waitress at a restraunt I was dining in.

I don't go for every girl, but am selective and then employ some charm.

100% success rate so far not one rejection, take chances it really pays in this city.

To get normal girls hang around at the better class malls. I don't know if I'm reading too much into this but every girl I have had has been from south jakarta!

If you pick up from clubs and bars. You get a different type of girl entirely, these girls never club or very rarely.

I never try to bed them on the first date, and by the second meet they are pulling their panties down. I guess you have to play to their conception of themselves as " good girls" and let them think they are ladies by being a gentleman on the first date. Its fine, I like the thrill and the sexual tension of wanting someone but not being able to have them immediately.

I guess because the normal girls are with parents they do not have many opportunities to have sex, and all that pent up sexual energy is released!

Oh the way those pussies hug tightly is magical.

I'll be there again this weekend cannot wait.

[Pita123]

It took me a year of traveling to Jakarta to discover the amazing opportunities available with "normal" girls in Jakarta.

So how'd you discover them? Any tips?

[Pak Mike]

It took me a year of traveling to Jakarta to discover the amazing opportunities available with "normal" girls in Jakarta.

I never thought I would be dragging myself away from the delights of Alexis and Malio but the normal girls here fuck better than the Pros!

What is it with women in Indon? They seem to be made for sex and make you feel like a king and a tiger in bed. They are all freaky and with the tightest pussies they seem to know instinctively how to please as a gf.

I spent a week with this real cute girl. 24 and gorgeous. Fucked like crazy for a week in jakarta and Bandung. On the morning I left jakarta she gave me a bbj just before we left room to have breakfast CIM and wa a thrill she had my spunk in her mouth as we got into a crowded lift. Shit, she says she is in love with me and wants to introduce me to my family! Not interested in that, but am sure going to use her as my fuck bunny when I'm next there.

I also met a cute girl in a headscarf. Could not believe she agreed to have a drink with me, was amazed that she followed me up to my hotel room but was most flabergasted that she was giving me a BBBJ. And she had definetely done it before.

My confidence in chatting up these cuties is sky rocketing.

I always pay for meals but apart from that these girls are freebies. I'm 33, average looks, out a shape. But seem to be able to pull anything here. I love this place.

I have a few pics I will put up

Yep, have been doing the "good girls" for many many years, and yes they are amazing. Good, normal girls, many living at home with families and with good jobs in Jakarta, and they just love to fuck with not too many strings attached.

The religion is interesting. They do the prayer thing early morning in a corner of my hotel room while it is still dark, then back into bed for a couple of rounds of heavy sex before breakfast. Also sets me up nicely for at good day at work.

[Ekspat]

I also met a cute girl in a headscarf. Could not believe she agreed to have a drink with me, was amazed that she followed me up to my hotel room but was most flabergasted that she was giving me a BBBJ.

Having had several "normal" girls with headscarf before, IMO wearing the headscarf doesn't mean too much. It's more if she's wearing open shoes, take a look whether she's wearing socks (covering her feet). If yes, then better forget about it. IMHO.

Love Jakarta too. Cheers!

[Faaris]

It took me a year of traveling to Jakarta to discover the amazing opportunities available with "normal" girls in Jakarta.

I never thought I would be dragging myself away from the delights of Alexis and Malio but the normal girls here fuck better than the Pros!

What is it with women in Indon? They seem to be made for sex and make you feel like a king and a tiger in bed. They are all freaky and with the tightest pussies they seem to know instinctively how to please as a gf.

I spent a week with this real cute girl. 24 and gorgeous. Fucked like crazy for a week in jakarta and Bandung. On the morning I left jakarta she gave me a bbj just before we left room to have breakfast CIM and wa a thrill she had my spunk in her mouth as we got into a crowded lift. Shit, she says she is in love with me and wants to introduce me to my family! Not interested in that, but am sure going to use her as my fuck bunny when I'm next there.

I also met a cute girl in a headscarf. Could not believe she agreed to have a drink with me, was amazed that she followed me up to my hotel room but was most flabergasted that she was giving me a BBBJ. And she had definetely done it before.

My confidence in chatting up these cuties is sky rocketing.

I always pay for meals but apart from that these girls are freebies. I'm 33, average looks, out a shape. But seem to be able to pull anything here. I love this place.

I have a few pics I will put up

[Non Olet]

It probably does violate the Man Code but any chance we can get something back off the ceweks is a plus in my book after all the "philanthropy work" I have invested in over the years. Hehehe

Sounds rather "pimpy".

NO

[ImaHore]

I'm 6'.88kgs and alean mean surfing machine so I can get away with pretty much anything I want to do and I do.

Of course you are. You are probably bullet proof too. The guy who got beaten up was bigger than you. Surprise did the damage. He had no chance to react, and got what he deserved.

[Ekspat]

It was the man who paid for that drink, not the ceweks!

A "man" can pay for his drinks himself, no need to use ceweks or other guys.

Pitiful guy in case the story is true.

[Menteng]

It probably does violate the Man Code but any chance we can get something back off the ceweks is a plus in my book after all the "philanthropy work" I have invested in over the years. Hehehe

It was the man who paid for that drink, not the ceweks!

[KangK]

Never, ever. I've seen it backfire badly. When the guy realized what was happening he walked up to the freeloader, called him a ****, grabbed him by the collar, pulled his head down and smashed his face with his knee. Three times, before he just turned and walked out of the bar. It was all over in a few seconds. The other guy's face was a bloody, pulpy mess.

I'm 6'.88kgs and alean mean surfing machine so I can get away with pretty much anything I want to do and I do.

[Kretek]

I will be in Grand Kemang on July 24Th. Anyone knows a good massage plus plus or FJ nearby? And Perhaps Roomservice?