Bogota Reports

[Simple Man]

Cachaca,

I won't presume to tell you what you should or shouldn't do, your a grown man and capable of making your own decisions. I will, however, share some actual personal experience and my opinion.

I did support a 21 year old woman from Medellin, her mother and 3 year old sister for over a year. My situation did not end the way that I hoped. I am not bitter or angry about that, only disappointed.

I still think that it is possible that the situation that you are describing could have a happy ending. The complication with yours is your existing family but you know your situation and feelings there better than anyone else.

I would agree with the people that have advised against rushing into the situation. If there are pressing needs which are causing her to go to work in another country then maybe you could offer to take care of these immediate needs if she postpones her new employment.

I would think that to support the girl it would cost at least $500.00 a month. If she is supporting other family members then be prepared to pay more.

If you do go forward with this, then I would recommend that you make sure that you spend time with her on at least a monthly basis. I think that a large factor in the failure of my own relationship was that we only saw each other every 2-3 months. It made it hard to keep the fire going in the relationship. No matter how much you talk on the phone or e-mail its not the same as being there.

I would also advise to keep other people out of your business and make sure that she agrees with that philiosophy. I had the misforune of having a friend of mine meet a girl that knew mine. The ensuing meddling was the source of most of my problems in my relationship.

Finally, take this board with a grain of salt. There are some posters that actually put some thought into what they write and offer advice based on actual experiences. There are others that seem to talk out of their asses and offer expert opinions on issues that they know nothing about and claim a myriad of experiences just to read their own posts and feel important. I am sorry if this insults anyone but I know for a fact one person posting in this chain is full of s***.

Whatever you decision is best of luck and always pursue what makes you happy.

[Surfer]

cachaca lover: Caution is required, and don't act hastily, but your idea IS doavble in my opinion. Yes there are snakes in the grass, but Colombia is also full of sweet, honest young lasses in economic distress who could use some help but will treat you like a king in return. US women will drain your wallet even more efficiently and without giving back the sex & love which Colombianas will give you.

[Rabo Verde]

Well if she got a full-time job as a secretary she would earn about $200 a month.

[Ferolga777]

A question for those in the know, so that our friend Cachaca Lover can get an idea of how much to send his mistress in Colombia. Let's say that she lives in Bogota and he wants to make her a reasonable offer. How much per month should he send her?

Oh, by the way. Whenever I start having feelings for a working girl I go and bang someone who looks like her from behind. In other words, I agree with those that think developing a relationship with her is a mistake.

[I Love Sluts]

YEP, THE COLOMBIAN SEX TRAP,


These colombian girls are all the same, they are so desperate because they are so poor that they will do anything for there survival. I agree with many of you that you can find a sweetheart out there, but most of these colombian girls do the same thing, they try to get two to three boyfriends with the same attributes,(suckers with money), they get three to four guys to pay them monthly dollars and it adds up very nicely. I see it all the time in Panama City, these girls get apartments for free and they are escorting on the side when the American is in the United States. I know many girls in Panama City that have Americans paying for there apartment and they are fucking on the side for money. I know this because i am the one fucking when they are out of the country. Remember

1. Would these girls support you if you were the one with no money?
2. do you really think they would care about you if you were poor?
3. if they were the ones with the money, would they give you the time of day, or would they be looking the other way,I guarantee they would be looking for more money, not interested in paying you jack shit

I might sound cynical and rude, but come on guys, these Colombians are only out for your money/ a better life for themselves. I AM ONLY LOOKING OUT FOR MY FELLOW AMERICANS AS I WRITE THIS, if you want to throw your money away, fine, but these girls see you as an investment, not a person, these girls view us like we view the LOTTERY, it sure would be nice. My experience has been that it is great to hang out with these girls, they are great sex, nice people, but i would not get to involved, soon you will be paying for her cousins cousins whom you will never meet. Keep your money and just bang them. I have seen to many stupid Americans paying for these girls in Panama City /apartment/food/utilities etc. , and they fuck there clients in the apartment that the American has paid for, I know this because I am have seen it first hand as i have banged girls that i did not even know had American boyfriends. Just my 2 cents, but I believe is the truth.

ILS

[Rabo Verde]

This is an old old story. Been there done that. The girl always "just started" and isn't really that kind of girl. Blah blah blah. She may be the nicest, most sincere person in the world, and make a big point of not asking for money at first, but believe me, you will end up sending money. No matter how much you send, it will never be enough. If she is playing you, she will want the money for herself, if she is really nice, she will care about her family and will ask for more and more money for them. As soon as you take care of her problems, her relatives will start hitting her up. They don't really need to make up stories, they usually have legit problems, Uncle Jose is a diabetic who can't afford insulin, etc. Your girl may have no intent of "using" you, but Colombianas are very family-oriented, so they can't say no to their families. There is a never ending chain of family tragedy which only you will be able to fix. If you do not come thru, she will have no choice but to go work the bar scene in Costa Rica, Panama, etc., even tho it breaks her heart to do it. Do NOT abandon your U.S. family for this pipe dream. You have an addiction. At least set a monthly limit on what you will send, and stick to it no matter what. No matter what these girls say, they are NEVER able to send home more than $500- $1,000 a month from the "other country", so if you are sending $1,000 a month, she is doing better than she would otherwise. Set her up in an apartment if you want and go see her there. If you still feel the same in 3 years, maybe do something then. You are no doubt 20 years older than her, so be aware that the girl will probably see other guys when you are not there, no matter what she says. You can easily verify this for a few hundred dollars by hiring a Colombian private investigator.

[Ferolga777]

<<So – am I crazy or what?>>

Yes you are. In the way that all men are. Here's the setup. Don't get rid of your wife. Your kids need a daddy and a mommy. Plus divorce can be so expensive.

Instead, you rent a nice apartment for your girlfriend in Colombia. Give her a nice monthly stipend. Don't go overboard.

Now, be French about the whole thing. She might be unfaithful to you while you are away. That's okay. You say to yourself, hey, no biggie.

Always let her know far in advance when you are going to show and always wear a condom for vaginal or anal sex.

You are not the first, you won't be the last.

Good luck,
Ferolga

[Ricker]

Cachaca,

It's great to find someone who rocks your world! ...

You seem to be an experienced guy ... here's the question ... is she asking for $$$?

If she goes to this different country to work ... you can't see her anymore?

Enjoy this chica, get to know her better ... with time you'll get a better feel for her feelings or if she's just using you.

Suerte.

[Cachaca Lover]

I’ve been a lurker around here for quite some time and finally decided to register so I can join in the conversation about Colombia. Actually, what I really want to do is describe a situation I find myself in, and see if any of you have had similar experiences and can offer me some advice.

My credentials for being here are this – I’ve been traveling for business to Latin America for 20 years, with the last 10 years mostly focused on Colombia. It wasn’t long after my first arrival in Bogota that I discovered that Colombian women are the best looking women in the world. It wasn’t long after that that I started discovering places like Copacabana, Casanova, Exstasis, Lancaster Club, the Lido (my personal favorite), and the various massage parlors on Carrera 13 between Calles 82 and 83. I’ve been a regular in all these places – the waiters know me, the girls know me, and I get treated well. My own personal record is 7 different girls in one 10 day trip.

When I was in Bogota recently, I paid my usual visit to the Lido. There was a new girl there who immediately attracted my attention, so we started talking. It was just her second day there. We hit it off, went to my hotel, and had a great time. I gave her a call 2 days later and she came by for another visit. The time we spent together was one of the greatest sexual experiences of my life (sorry guys, she’s no longer working at any Bogota club).

I returned to the US from this trip and we started a regular email correspondence. Turns out I needed to return to Colombia again a couple of weeks later, not to Bogota but another city. I asked if she wanted to join me there and she said yes. I bought her a plane ticket and she came and stayed with me. What I found out was not only she the most exciting sexual partner I had ever had, but she was smart, intriguing, complex, and a wonderful person to spend time with. We kissed goodbye at the airport when I had to return and have since been in constant email contact.

Yes, you guessed it – I have fallen head over heels for her. For all the other beautiful and interesting women I have met in Colombia, there has never been anyone who has so totally captivated and enchanted me like this. Now here’s the rest of the story. I am married with kids, but almost feel like I’d be willing to toss everything to be back with this beautiful and compelling Colombiana. She is considerably younger than I am. The fact that I exchanged money for her favors of course complicates the whole situation for me – are these real feelings I have for her and she for me, or is this just the illusion of another GFE that I’ve let overtake me? Believe me, I’ve had more than my fair share of GFEs with beautiful Colombian women, but this time it seems very different to me.

Her financial situation is that she is considering leaving Colombia to work in another country sometime in the next few months. That is, unless I can convince her otherwise.

So – am I crazy or what? Have any of you had something similar like this happen and what have you done about it? This is a new kind of experience for me, and I think I would benefit from anyone who was any advice to offer.

[SandRabbit]

think i'm gonna try Suites Real 85, $37/night.......anyone know the pros & cons of this place, looks good on the website??!i'm only gonna be there 4 or 5 days............RAB

[SandRabbit]

the rabbit is planning a trip to BOG(JAN or FEB) to see a chica friend, looking for a safe hotel in the $30-50 range,.... she's coming from outta town to meet me, since her area is muey peligroso!!!.......any recommendations, 'cause i ain't havin' alot of luck on the WEB finding a place........BTW, what's going on in BOG the 2nd week of FEB, cause almost all the hotels are booked up!!???($80-400 range)wtf...............the rabbit

[Big Johnson]

Read about Casablanca or Casa Blanca on another board. Anyone with experience with this place? Near 24th and the autopista?

Im going to be there during the week of Sept 29.

I am going to try Estrato 6 at Transv 33 #123-30. Tel 620-0700.

I'm going to try this place out. Anyone game?

[Phil]

Hello. I went to Bogota with a friend of mine about 2 weeks ago. He
was telling me how dangerous Bogota is so he insisted I only go with
him. To make a long story short I was only there for one night and
not being super fluent in Spanish I had my man have the hotel get a
girl for me (I know-big mistake). Anyway I figured if I told them
specifically what I wanted that would help. I was looking for a dark
skinned Colombiana with a fat ass, kinda like one I saw in Costa Rica
at Blue Marlin two weeks prior (a girl I wanted to fuck but she was
already with some a middle age dude), I'm young and black myself so
the fat ass part you can probably understand. Anyway the Bogota
hotel guy sent a girl that was light brown kinda petite which I took
as a warning. But I needed nude photos for school project as well as
a good fuck. We negotiated the photos which turned out great it was
the sex that sucked. As well as the fact that the time with the
agency is bullshut. It was like s
he was counting the milliseconds. I felt like I was fucking the
agency not the girl. I couldn't believe how wack this girl was in
bed. Pussy was loose, no anal, the blow job was covered. I was like
Got Damn. The best thing she had going was the hand job which was
fantastic as well as when I came all over her body or should I say
exploded because I was incredibly horny. This week I'm going to Cali
because people have told me it's better as well as the post I've been
reading here have suggested Cali. Also a guy on the plane trip back
told me the black girls are on the coast. I told him I plan to hit
every city because I do like the morena girls too but I was looking
for a clone of that girl I saw in Costa Rica. In Bogota I saw
several fine ladies but also I see the internet sex scene in Colombia
is very limited. Well I'll have faith that what I've heard about
Cali is true, but I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much.

Phil

[davel]

Yes, this is my first but not last posting.

I was in Bogota for several days last week. I'm not one to go out much so I used the chuscas.com website and tried out three, all very good (young and beautiful) GFEs. I don't consider the rate (120,000 pesos/hr) to be that bad, especially with their promo of buy 2 hrs get one free.

All three gave me their private numbers and I worked out lower rate. I am fluent in Spanish and treated them very good so that helps.

On one ocassion, the service called me back to tell me the girl was running late and offered me another comparable one who would be only 20 minutes. I took them up and have no regrets and yes, she was on time.

Next time will try Cali. But I recommend chuscas in Bogota.

[Surfer]

Just back from Bogota and while there IS ample action to be found, prices arte higher and attitudes more businesslike. NObody should confuse it with Cali (mongerwise). Will post details soon, but IMHO if you spealk passable Spanish and mongering a priority of your trip, other cities in Colombia are much better IMHO.