Filipina Cellphone Etiquette

[Member #4698]

Ringing phone maybe annoying at times but it could be an emergency from her family, babysister or whatever. I have seen lots of girls chatting away in between sex. It does not bother me.

With all due respect, what did working girls do before the advent of cheap cell phones? It is never an emergency, emergency. I think it is rude when a girl starts "chatting away" on my time and I ask my ladies not to do it.

[WestCoast1]

Why you want to take the phone from the girl? It is her lifeline for her business and personal life.

It is not her choice to use the thing once she has agreed to give it up. Nobody made her do that. Also, if its not an issue for the girl to give it up, you have to ask yourself: why is it an issue for you?

I give the girl respect and freedom that she desrves.

Such a nice guy. Not everyone thinks the same way you do. Stop pushing your way of thinking on to me.

Barfine does not mean you own her ass and personal freedom essentially holding her hostage like indentured labor or otherwise known as treating her like your slave. Slavery is abolished long time ago in case your stupid mind things it is ok.

Not sure where you came up with the slavery thing. Indentured means the person does not agree to the labor. Again, stop pushing your values on me. Feel free to express yourself in a better way. Any girl who insisted on leaving would get her phone back from me (after all, its not mine). But, oddly, that doesn't happen.

The girls may agree for your stupid requirement because they need to earn money.

Possible, but weak. How about the bargirls who hang with me after their shift for no money? She too comes to the room and just hands me her phone when I'm putting my stuff in the safe. Well? How about DIA contacts who come to the room without expectation of money?

Ringing phone maybe annoying at times but it could be an emergency from her family, babysister or whatever.

The girls who come out of AC bars have agreed to my terms, and then done so again in front of a waitress or mamasan. Also, the phone she's agreed to give up sometimes belongs to the bar (the bars have started giving the phones overnight to girls who don't have one). Not only is the girl aware that I'm putting the bar's phone in the safe, but so is the bar (via the waitress / mamasan, who is OK to it). If the girl, the mamasan, and the bar are OK with it, got to ask again: Why aren't you OK with it? The girl is agreeing, before leaving the bar, not to be in touch with anyone once we get to the hotel, until its time to leave. I let them txt away while we are out drinking / eating before going to the room. On the way back to the hotel, I tell them to send one last txt. So far, so good. I'm not the only one doing this.

I have seen lots of girls chatting away in between sex. It does not bother me.

I see. So, because it does not bother you, it should not bother others (it bothers me). Push your values on someone else. If you smoke cigarettes, would you assume everyone else in the restaurant is fine with the smoke in the room?

[Jorian]

I tell them all that their phone has to be off before we get in the hotel and their phone must be in the safe, whether bargirls, freelancers, mall pickups, etc. .

I think as long as they agree to it before hand, it is a good insurance. As I read these boards, runners has becoming a problem in AC & Cebu, especially the higher-end BFs. Some people have said they experienced no runners 5 years ago at Fields, but when they visited recently, almost every other BF is a runner. Sometimes it depends on which city you are P4P and your personal experience and if they like you or not. But I think a deal is a deal, if the girl don't like you, why try to rip them off with lies? Imagine paying LT for ST prices every other time, I'd be pissed-off too, I'd might as well spend it on ST model quality girls@Bangkok. The payment system in AC & Cebu encourages this, you are basically ALL-IN, so you really have no leverage except for that P200-500 tip. Girls are opportunists (the hot ones especially) and they know they can get another ST or LT instead of waiting for that meager tip in the morning. So if the girl have plans to run or have issues with the phone lock, THEY CAN SAY NO to your BF and run on another customer, as simple as that. We are just holding them to the agreement and nobody would be talking about this if they kept their end of the deal. So keeping their phone is a VERY GOOD preemptive step. It is a fair game because its the runners that has escalated this. Perhaps after if you become a regular or get good vibes, it becomes unnecessary. I mean what do they really need the phone for? I let my girl use my tablet if they are bored or watch TV. Some have argued you are enslaving them and preventing them from emergency calls. That is not true, what you are really doing is taking all the distraction and incentives for them to leave early and allow them to CONCENTRATE on the time they spend with you. And realistically, what kind of emergency are they going to get at 2 am that police can't handle? What about the times if her cell phone died or in the loud disco / bar where nobody can hear the phone ringing? It is a red-herring. If a family member can reach her cell, they sure can call the cops. Almost 99. 99% of the time, they are texting to / from mama-san or friends and making up excuse to leave early. More often, it is their BF or familiar customers who want to take your (paid) time away. For those who feel bad about keeping their phone, than just don't do it, maybe if enough runners happened to you, you'd have 2nd thoughts too.

[Sammon]

I tell them all that their phone has to be off before we get in the hotel and their phone must be in the safe, whether bargirls, freelancers, mall pickups, etc. In the taxi or walking to the hotel I tell them to make one last text, turn it off, and give it to me. In the safe will go my valuables, and her / their phone (s) , and I remove the battery (they set alarms sometimes). Having their phone in the safe is another way she doesn't bolter at 3am. If we leave the room after the deed on a LT to go grab some food, their phone stays in the safe (many girls will ask for it back at this point).

I started this phone thing two years ago, on the recommendation of my wingman at the time in AC. We were talking the usual, about the pissoff of the phone going off during the fun, or the girl txting constantly, when he mentioned he had been taking the phones away and dropping them in the safe. I was a bit incredulous at it, and thought: no way the girl will fall for it. Later that night in Body Shop chatting up a dancer, I just stuck it in my list of needs: Stay till 10am, mouth / pussy / ass, toys, camera, swallow, phone in safe. Like that. She didn't bat an eye and said OK. Over the next several days in AC when I mentioned it to the girls, none of them questioned the phone thing, I realized that other gents had been doing something similar. One night in Coyote Ugly a girl got nervous when I ran thru the list. She started looking around the bar, like she needed to talk to someone. I figured the word 'ass' might have bothered her. The mama came over and they talked in tag, then everything seemed fine with the girl; she said OK she would go. The mama looked at me and said: "She new. She worry the phone. Phone belong not to her. It ok now." I've had a few girls look at me funny back then when I mentioned the phone in the safe, but not anymore.

Every girl you see in my pics is, at that point, without her phone and has had her I'd photographed.

Why you want to take the phone from the girl? It is her lifeline for her business and personal life. I give the girl respect and freedom that she desrves. Barfine does not mean you own her ass and personal freedom essentially holding her hostage like indentured labor or otherwise known as treating her like your slave. Slavery is abolished long time ago in case your stupid mind things it is ok. The girls may agree for your stupid requirement because they need to earn money. Ringing phone maybe annoying at times but it could be an emergency from her family, babysister or whatever. I have seen lots of girls chatting away in between sex. It does not bother me.

[WestCoast1]

I like your advice on telling the girl, before getting into a taxi, to make any final calls or texts now.

I tell them all that their phone has to be off before we get in the hotel and their phone must be in the safe, whether bargirls, freelancers, mall pickups, etc. In the taxi or walking to the hotel I tell them to make one last text, turn it off, and give it to me. In the safe will go my valuables, and her / their phone (s) , and I remove the battery (they set alarms sometimes). Having their phone in the safe is another way she doesn't bolter at 3am. If we leave the room after the deed on a LT to go grab some food, their phone stays in the safe (many girls will ask for it back at this point).

I started this phone thing two years ago, on the recommendation of my wingman at the time in AC. We were talking the usual, about the pissoff of the phone going off during the fun, or the girl txting constantly, when he mentioned he had been taking the phones away and dropping them in the safe. I was a bit incredulous at it, and thought: no way the girl will fall for it. Later that night in Body Shop chatting up a dancer, I just stuck it in my list of needs: Stay till 10am, mouth / pussy / ass, toys, camera, swallow, phone in safe. Like that. She didn't bat an eye and said OK. Over the next several days in AC when I mentioned it to the girls, none of them questioned the phone thing, I realized that other gents had been doing something similar. One night in Coyote Ugly a girl got nervous when I ran thru the list. She started looking around the bar, like she needed to talk to someone. I figured the word 'ass' might have bothered her. The mama came over and they talked in tag, then everything seemed fine with the girl; she said OK she would go. The mama looked at me and said: "She new. She worry the phone. Phone belong not to her. It ok now." I've had a few girls look at me funny back then when I mentioned the phone in the safe, but not anymore.

Every girl you see in my pics is, at that point, without her phone and has had her I'd photographed.