Bangkok Reports

[NicFrenchy]

I think, actually I am sure, we have different ideas about what characteristics qualify a Thai woman as the "best."

Yet, that's the beauty of it all, there's many choices for those who know how to make it work.

Chok dee!

I actually agree with you on this one. I have found also that for me the best thai Ladies I have found Online

[Fon Tok]

I don't agree that the "best" ladies are on the internet.

The "best" IMO don't need to go online to meet a guy. They have many offers in everyday life already.

I think, actually I am sure, we have different ideas about what characteristics qualify a Thai woman as the "best."

Yet, that's the beauty of it all, there's many choices for those who know how to make it work.

Chok dee!

[Amjeck]

Just know, the best ladies are on the internet, not sitting at some beer bar or massage shop with a blank expression and som tam breath.

I don't agree that the "best" ladies are on the internet.

The "best" IMO don't need to go online to meet a guy. They have many offers in everyday life already.

[Amjeck]

I've been tempted on more than a few occasions to take a few board members out to RCA one night just to show that getting a good looking Thai girl for free is not an urban myth.lol.

Yah, it's not a myth at all, and of course it's easier when you're younger. You have more energy and younger girls like younger guys.

Share with us the quality of the girls you meet in RCA. How old are they? Have they fucked farang before? Can you take them straight from the disco to a room and fuck them, or do you need to date them?

[Goatscrot]

A very wise man once said: "You do not pay them to come with you. You pay them to leave you in the morning".

And that is the problem with "free" sex: it is rarely free, at least you will never know up-front whether or not she has any long-term plans with you. Such things only cause drama and stress. Perhaps the "older" generation among us have wizened up and have their bellies full of such antics and prefer the certainty of sex with no ties attached.

Wolv,

I am with you on this one. Who wants free sex? Not me. There is always something attached. There is always a cost and as we get older our egos matter not to us, we just want to have fun, and fun we have. Even in a relationship sex is not free, well unless you are a kept boy toy.

[Fon Tok]

I think it's his choice of dining, Maybe if he upped his game a little and quit hanging out and Burger King and the "Golden Arches" he might actually have a chance of some puss. However it does indeed seem he's afflicted with the small dick syndrome. I find it a bit amusing this thread has gotten so much play.

Yeah, it's entertaining at times. Makes you wonder, though.

As far as life in Bangkok? There're not a lot of tourists here right now, mongers or otherwise. Just some folks from the hotter, desert regions and the southern hemisphere where it's the dead of winter.

Plenty of pretty ladies in Bangkok, though, if you know where to look for them!

If I were a young(er) man, tech savvy, and some money to burn, finding beautiful women in Bangkok and the rest of Thailand would be a no brainer. Just know, the best ladies are on the internet, not sitting at some beer bar or massage shop with a blank expression and som tam breath.

However, to make it work it is important to speak a little Thai and Lao / Isaan, have a clue or two about Thai culture, and to be very respectful to Thai people (knowing when and why).

Just showing up with an attitude and agenda will get you nowhere, quickly.

For not-so-young men, or those with limited "game," don't fret, there's legions of sexy, young women at the oiles, soapies, and go-go girl supermarkets awaiting your hungry stares and open wallets.

Just find a cheap hotel, some soap & shampoo, RTFF, buy a BTS Rabbit Pass, and rest assured, you'll be more than happy!

[Monte3]

Maybe she was commenting on her estimated size of your dick, oh limp one?

Hahahaha. Just a joke (I think). Never take a sex forum too seriously!

I think it's his choice of dining, Maybe if he upped his game a little and quit hanging out and Burger King and the "Golden Arches" he might actually have a chance of some puss.

However it does indeed seem he's afflicted with the small dick syndrome.

I find it a bit amusing this thread has gotten so much play.

[Sunlover2]

You nailed it, thanks for poining out what some have forgotten- " Reading all the forum's to find specific facts would take days "

Perhaps while reading the forum you will acquire some general information beyond what you are looking for. And maybe just maybe you will learn some useful information on topics you didn't think to ask about.

But for those too impatient to absorb the valuable intel available by actually Reading TFF I would suggest using google outside the website; I. E. Google the phrase 'international sex guide{topic}' for some quick and efficient search results.

SunLover

[Wolvenvacht]

That's because most of the guys are older. Their chances of picking up a young good looking Thai with no money involved are slim. But just because it's difficult for them, a lot of them say it's impossible for everyone. I've been tempted on more than a few occasions to take a few board members out to RCA one night just to show that getting a good looking Thai girl for free is not an urban myth.lol.

A very wise man once said: "You do not pay them to come with you. You pay them to leave you in the morning".

And that is the problem with "free" sex: it is rarely free, at least you will never know up-front whether or not she has any long-term plans with you. Such things only cause drama and stress. Perhaps the "older" generation among us have wizened up and have their bellies full of such antics and prefer the certainty of sex with no ties attached.

[Ixgzca]

True, women all over the world fuck for free, and if you're young and got good genes then you have a shot at some hotties. Most of the guys you see in Thailand, however, who are picking up freebies aren't picking up the good ones. They are usually older ladies and / or average looking girls. The really good looking thai chicks are being approached by thai guys who now have money, and these girls would much rather go with a Thai. It is what it is!

That's because most of the guys are older. Their chances of picking up a young good looking Thai with no money involved are slim. But just because it's difficult for them, a lot of them say it's impossible for everyone. I've been tempted on more than a few occasions to take a few board members out to RCA one night just to show that getting a good looking Thai girl for free is not an urban myth...lol.

[Fon Tok]

(snip)Although recently that sweet girl cashier at silom burger king made a nasty gesture-I think she wanted to give me a blow job. She made that sucking motion with her lipps and pointed in the direction of the straws. LOL. I'm 100% sure it wasnt about the straw.

Maybe she was commenting on her estimated size of your dick, oh limp one?

Hahahaha. Just a joke (I think). Never take a sex forum too seriously!

[Amjeck]

Just from my perspective (and most of my younger colleagues) , we meet random good looking Thai girls out and about all the time and without money exchanging hands. You could pick apart my statement by saying "maybe the girls are ugly" or " they are uneducated girls" or whatever but, the fact of the matter is young attractive women can and do have sex with young attractive men all over the world with no money involved. How discreet they are about it depends on the culture but, it happens. I have the same amount of casual, no strings (or money) attached sex here as I had back in the west. Maybe a little more here in Thailand actually.

True, women all over the world fuck for free, and if you're young and got good genes then you have a shot at some hotties. Most of the guys you see in Thailand, however, who are picking up freebies aren't picking up the good ones. They are usually older ladies and / or average looking girls. The really good looking thai chicks are being approached by thai guys who now have money, and these girls would much rather go with a Thai. It is what it is!

[Waylon]

For those that are better looking than the norm our arguments will be much easier to understand. I consider myself middle aged, have experienced the same as you, but just no validation within the Thai culture. I can't believe the Thai's treats this as such a taboo rarity, especially where there are guys such as yourself that pop up to share their experience.

I feel right or wrong sex for Thai ladies has a different significance that it does in the west.

If you are from a poor rural background having sex can start with losing your virginity at an early age for a price that is paid to the parents as compensation or you lose it to the local young stud that you think you are in love with. This ends up with the girl becoming pregnant and the young stud legging it either before or shortly after the baby is born. Sex then becomes a way to earn a livelihood to support herself and whoever is looking after the child. When I read posts where the writer is raving over the GFE he had and how excited the girl was with his performance I smile. I am not saying that the girl doesn't sometimes enjoy the experience but mostly any exuberant display of ecstasy is usually a well practiced part of the service and I doubt that many girls go to work thinking I feel horny today and cannot wait to get laid. What does the mamasam say when you ask for your favorite girl and she is unavailable, she says "she working" and that is what sex is for these girls.

So what about the girls that don't go into P4P end of things have a high school or perhaps a graduate degree but work in a relatively low paid job. It's obvious from the many dating sites that many of these girls are only too happy to meet a farang but always with the hope that it becomes a long term relationship thereby changing their circumstances. Having sex with the farangs they meet is part of the dating ritual and no doubt as with any sexual relationship it can be hugely enjoyable or downright disappointing but I still maintain that very few Thai women involve themselves with farangs especially short term tourists just for the sex and a night out on the town.

Then you have the successful career / business woman who is highly educated or possibly from a wealthy family. Unlike in times past nowadays possibly because of the influx of professional expats over the past 20 years dating a farang is no longer seen as a bad choice. However you will not casually bump onto these ladies at the food court and end up dating. Almost always introductions will be through mutual friends or they are work colleagues and sex will not happen until a serious relationship develops and at least the engagement is around the corner.

Any variations to any of the above are in my humble opinions exceptions to the norm but I guess if you are young good-looking generous with a sense of humor your chances will be a whole lot better than most of the troops that are out and about.

[Ehunter]

For those that are better looking than the norm our arguments will be much easier to understand. I consider myself middle aged, have experienced the same as you, but just no validation within the Thai culture. I can't believe the Thai's treats this as such a taboo rarity, especially where there are guys such as yourself that pop up to share their experience.

[Ixgzca]

" hot chick on vacation " I presume translates into hot dude on vacation. I've lived in Thailand for the past 10 years and this description comes nowhere close to describing the vast majority of visitors at least those wandering around the Sukhumvit, Pattaya, Phuket locales. True this generation of women worldwide are more sexually liberated but there are cultural variations and it is wrong to assume that Thai women are as likely to want casual sex in the same way as for example their American counterparts. Just because the best performing P4P ladies will give you the impression that you are a great lover a "hansum" man and they have "finished" three times this doesn't translate into an educated lady in a McDonalds line is dying to have a romp with you even if by your own estimation you are HOT. Truth is while possible it is extremely unlikely.

Just from my perspective (and most of my younger colleagues) , we meet random good looking Thai girls out and about all the time and without money exchanging hands. You could pick apart my statement by saying "maybe the girls are ugly" or " they are uneducated girls" or whatever but, the fact of the matter is young attractive women can and do have sex with young attractive men all over the world with no money involved. How discreet they are about it depends on the culture but, it happens. I have the same amount of casual, no strings (or money) attached sex here as I had back in the west. Maybe a little more here in Thailand actually.