Sorry! Was so excited. Stumbling across this forum and going jakarta next month!
Right, you really are stumbling.
So how many pages have you read in the forum? Like Jude Bright in March this year, post #6136, who read two years back and than made a plan? Did you read the Links to Reports of the Distinction? Did you read the FAQ? If not, make that a part of your early plan.
Then pay your membership fee so you can use the search function and stop asking embarrassingly stupid questions.
I didn't know that, and bought recently Diesel Thavar jeans some 250 € in an official store. Anyway obviously you are familiar with market stalls (and also not aware of what "stylish jeans" means) , why am I am not surprised? No wonder why you have no success with classy women. BTW it sounds like it has been a while since the last time you were with a girl who didn't expect any financial benefice but simply liked you as a person (if that ever happened).
Mate, lets's not make this personal. We don't need to start a flaming war here. Each to his own - even Charlie Sheen said he pays them to leave so let's leave it at that. We all make our choices and everyone has their own preferences.
Sophisticate, haughty, upscale and witty women ask for Diesel. Available at every market stall from Tirana to Timbuktu.
I didn't know that, and bought recently Diesel Thavar jeans some 250 € in an official store. Anyway obviously you are familiar with market stalls (and also not aware of what "stylish jeans" means) , why am I am not surprised? No wonder why you have no success with classy women. BTW it sounds like it has been a while since the last time you were with a girl who didn't expect any financial benefice but simply liked you as a person (if that ever happened).
My recipe is to be fashionable and refined, look like I have money but am not obsessed with it, and stay MANLY.
Sophisticate, haughty, upscale and witty women ask for Diesel. Available at every market stall from Tirana to Timbuktu. You are on the pulse of the nouveaux mentality, ami.
Now that we understand a bit about their mentality. Finding them is less of a challenge.
Go to any shopping plaza. And Jakarta has some huge shopping malls.
Screw the ones outside of the city where we can buy delicate, cheap local stuff. Fuck those. Go to the ones in town, those with real branded goods. Plaza Indonesia, Grand Indonesia, Plaza Senayan, Senayan city.
Hey, even the second rated ones are good. Pondok Indah mall. Anggrek city. Pacific Place.
It's easy to just do a pick up anywhere in those malls but the best places are the typical English speakers hang outs. Starbucks, English book shops, sandwich shops, English lesson schools.
Or the women hangouts. Hair salon, Shoe shops, trendy branded shops. Basically, see a shop with lot's of young women, go in!
(And do what after entering you ask? Well, since I started doing this, I have been into manicure, pedicure, say I'm buying shoes for my sister, checking on clothes for my boss' mistress and a million other lies. The manicure is the only thing I truly enjoy.)
Now comes the next challenge. Spotting a willing local takes a lot of time and talent. And I have not yet perfected my recce SOP. So I do the next best thing. I let them spot me.
Beware though bros. Like anywhere else on earth, women are not stupid. They may pretend to be stupid to suck us in. But they are very sharp when they feel someone bio-ing them.
So we must be very natural. In fact, this one no need to pretend. Once you have tried and find that the method works. You will be calm because you know. Sooner or later you will score. No need to be pushy and play the hard up, desperate guy.
The game plan is simple. Ask questions in English so that other people can hear you. If your target is not into you, often times, another willing person will step up. Sadly, that willing person may not always be who you want. If that's the case, thank the person, ask one more question and then move on. But if she is who you can want, then switch target. Once in a while, the original target may come back for a reassessment if this new girl is into you.
Keep moving if the mission cannot complete at one place. You are a tourist and you want to see / try more things. And Indonesian girls are really quite helpful to clueless charming tourists.
Alrighty Bros. Thanks for reading so far. If you want to know the secret. You can send me USD 19. 99 or three installments of USD 9. 99. All the secrets will be revealed.
Hahahaha. Just kidding about the payment. I may turn this into a money maker later. But for now, I think I should share so we can all help each other out.