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[X Man]

Tough emotionally and physically. I've hiked up a mountain with a gal wearing flip flops. I was expecting problems, but she outhiked me. Same trip, some young fellah wanted to be my guide and I tried to shoo him off. In the end I let him tag along carrying my rather heavy pack. He was wearing flip flops too. At the end of the hike I was totally spent. I gave the guy twice what we agree upon. 200 pesos.

Nevertheless, Westerners should know that in most Asian cultures, criticism / conflict is best softened or avoided. Watching some self-important Western arse ranting at the desk clerk about the pool closure (due to cleaning) makes me cringe. Just thinking about it.

These girls are a lot tougher than you give them credit for. They have to be to survive in their hard day to day existence and which is why they leave their comfort zone and arrange these liaisons in the first place. I suspect that the ego of the average foreign monger here is probably far more fragile than that of most of these young girls. I don't reckon that she will be reaching for the razor blades just because some stranger insulted her.

[Fredje1961]

I am not sure the point of your post. You seem to realize you have severely damaged the self worth of a Filipina. Even if she asked for the real & whole truth, you must realize her mind is that of a teenager or lower. Congratulations.

Indeed he realizes he did and he regrets. I think that's honorable. Nobody is perfect but admitting & learning from your mistakes is a proof of wisdom (as far as I'm concerned).

[Cunning Stunt]

I am not sure the point of your post. You seem to realize you have severely damaged the self worth of a Filipina. Even if she asked for the real & whole truth, you must realize her mind is that of a teenager or lower. Congratulations.

These girls are a lot tougher than you give them credit for. They have to be to survive in their hard day to day existence and which is why they leave their comfort zone and arrange these liaisons in the first place. I suspect that the ego of the average foreign monger here is probably far more fragile than that of most of these young girls. I don't reckon that she will be reaching for the razor blades just because some stranger insulted her.

[Makeupaname]

I had no intention of being mean, disrespectful or insulting, I just thought I would be helping her out for her future understand of foreigners, as well and maybe getting the word out that we like our girls to have sexy bodies, as opposed to chubby asses.

I am not sure the point of your post. You seem to realize you have severely damaged the self worth of a Filipina. Even if she asked for the real & whole truth, you must realize her mind is that of a teenager or lower. Congratulations.

[Red Kilt]

Opened my web site chat line.

Messages as received below.

She: Hi hello I like your profile. I want to meet you.

Me: Did you read my profile?

She: Yes.

Me: So you understand that you are way too young; much too chubby and short in height for me and I don't like that you smoke.

She: OK. So can we meet.

Duuuuhhhhhh

[Screaming Beaver]

So I typed it out in an email saying basically there was nothing there between us, I've had more intimate contact with my motorcycle rental guy. And also she's got a body shape typical of a large part of the female population. I told her it's not too late for her, she could still loose it. Then I said if you don't believe me, just look next time you see a foreigner and his girl. Look at the foreigner, if he's well dressed, not a pig, not smelly and sloppy drunk, look at the chick he's got under his arm. She will probably be sexy, nice ass. Now look at the disgusting slob foreigner. His chick will likely be chubby.

Poor thing, By the time she read that she immediately took down both her profiles. Doh.

Unfortunately Filipinas seem to have a very low opinion of themselves and can easily have their feelings hurt. It's always best to ignore those kinds of questions and just move on.

[Sam 14]

Man, I feel really bad on two counts. I accidentally insulted a lovely girl, and I took that same lovely girl out of the availability to foreigner pool.

The same young lady had her profile up on two sights. I considered her the top pick in the Dumaquete section. 40 kilo, pretty mug, no kids, etc.

We meet, and she's chubby. We kept the date anyway and went for a motorbike ride on the mountain, (actually her idea). Right off the gate it sucked. I couldn't get her to put her hand around me, she just kept asking me all the usual questions about where's my wife, etc. We stopped at the waterfall and I tried to get her to stay still so we could talk, but she was all over the place. I couldn't wait to get back so I cut the trip short. We got back, she disembarked and ran off.

By the next day I'm getting the texts. So finally a few days later I replied. She asked me how I was, I said I've upgraded to extremely available. She asked what was wrong with her? So I foolishly replied by asking her if she really wants to know. I should have just not answered or asked another question like allot of them love to do. But she said she wanted the long version and a complete and honest answer.

I had no intention of being mean, disrespectful or insulting, I just thought I would be helping her out for her future understand of foreigners, as well and maybe getting the word out that we like our girls to have sexy bodies, as opposed to chubby asses.

So I typed it out in an email saying basically there was nothing there between us, I've had more intimate contact with my motorcycle rental guy. And also she's got a body shape typical of a large part of the female population. I told her it's not too late for her, she could still loose it. Then I said if you don't believe me, just look next time you see a foreigner and his girl. Look at the foreigner, if he's well dressed, not a pig, not smelly and sloppy drunk, look at the chick he's got under his arm. She will probably be sexy, nice ass. Now look at the disgusting slob foreigner. His chick will likely be chubby.

Poor thing, By the time she read that she immediately took down both her profiles. Doh.

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[X Man]

She writes on profile:

If you are also a "SEX TERRORIST" I'm not the type of girl you need. You must prove that not all foreign man is only want that."every vacation change girl to be with"

X thinks:

Every vacation? You should be so lucky! You need to be pretty damn hot to get most ISG guys for more than an evening.

[Wazoo]

One Cebu lass is a realist about the limitations of men she is likely to meet:

"I get al0ng very well with guys who are direct, honest, knows what he wants, responsible, kind, understanding, mature, (financially, psychologically, emotionally and physically) stable, and all the good things. But as we kn0w we can't get everything if you have three of those good things then maybe we cn be c0mpatible."

I'm glad she won't hold my psychological instability against me, LOL.

[Chocha Monger]

i am not at all surprised at yolita from dia's situation. if filipinas had a forum to discuss monger activity i suspect we would see thousands of stories about married mongers impregnating young virgins in the philippines and then running back to their matronly wives in the west to beg forgiveness. the great majority of mongers visiting the republic of the philippines bareback the girls' pussy and assholes without nary a thought to any offspring being left being. guys like skogis who set up prenatal care at st luke's are the exception. lots of married guys like geoffe are swearing that they are single never married to naïve provincial filipinas just so they can have a free live in twinkie to fill and provide housekeeping services for a few months. geoffe's wife in oz obviously put his old nuts in a vise and squeezed out the truth. in the end he went back to his life of domestic servitude after his jailer extracted the contact info for poor pregnant [CodeWord901], yolita. look no further than the destroyer of teeny pinay assholes, frenzy3. the anally addicted harem master was actually a geeky family man back in oz.

[FreebieFan]

Is she looking for the father of her second child? No wonder it might happen.

Guys named Geoff need not apply.

[BionicMan]

Familiar scenario from the girls point of view.

Is she looking for the father of her second child? No wonder it might happen.

[Cunning Stunt]

Familiar scenario from the girls point of view.

I am just a single mother, having a lovely baby boy.

I'm came from the island of samar, but right now I am here in manila to find a good job so I can obtain the needs of my son, I leave my son from my parents who live in the island. The story about my self, the reason why I become a single mom, I meet my ex before on yahoo messenger, he plan to meet me after we meet I stay him with the hotel that day I really feel happy because his my first time that I created relationship, he told me he is single never get married, I give anything to him, just to make him happy. After 3 days he plan to live with me to the city, when we get an apartment I get pregnant, his happy sad to say the before I labor the I meet his friend and his friend told me a lot from geoffe his friend told me that geoffe had a family in austraia I get crazy that time, I just want to abord the baby but its to late. I frank him then he tell the truth to me, I just want to die that time but I realized that this is not the end of my life, I have to be strong because if I can't I will die with my son mom said. After I labor the baby I will not leave my ex I leave my parents home till geoffe never stop apologize on me never stop saying sorry till he said he devorce his wife he just want me to get back his life. He said he really love me. But that time I'm still not complete. Till I can recieve call from geoffe wife asking me to stop geoffe and then I said yes geoffe is all your. The girl said I'm too young I can find the men who can love me. Geoffe wife was so good thats why I realises I will never break the relationship of somebody, and mom said to me that marriage is an sacred act prepared by god before one could step into family life that why I say that I will never break the marriage of someone. I know there are things happen for a reason, god has plan for me and for my son. I don't lose hope.