Ghana

[Living Abroad]

1. Can I ask the girl I meet to come over to my room straight (in our first meeting at accra) away after exchange of a few e-mails and some chat? What's been the general experience?

2. Are there any indicators of girls I should select or avoid who may not convert on the first date? Unfortunately I am there for 5 days which 3 days bieng really busy hence wanting the collective wisdom to support me to be efficient.

3. I have slected a combination of young one's 20-24 and older one's 27-34. The older ones seem more interested in forcing the marriage discussion, is it futile to chase them and go after the younger ones?

4. Lastly any co-relation to education, most of the one's that I have selected are collect educated, smart and conversant. Is it better to look at high school girls only?

The attitude toward sex here is pretty casual. Even the very religious girls will come back from church and not have a problem casually banging someone. I wouldn't get too worked up about "converting on the first date." There is plenty of first date sex going on. There is a transaction for every relationship here. Long-term and serious, or a short one-off romp. If you are here for a few days, don't waste a lot of time. You shouldn't have a problem being direct and asking them to meet you at your hotel. Buy them dinner and invite them to sleep over.

As for the marriage thing. Geesh. Really? There are so many girls you can meet casually who are looking for a meal, a fun night out and generous taxi fare in the morning. Why waste your time? As for education. For me, the better educated girls are more enjoyable to spend time with. They're bright, articulate, and it makes for a nice connection when you have something you can talk about.

Why limit yourself to girls you've met online? There is a new club in Osu. DND. Folks say it's the new "Jokers." Next to Mama Mias. Worth checking out.

[The Greek]

toto. vagina slang. lagbatein. normal speech.

gbemi. vagina

dorlor. penis slang.

gb3i. penis slang.

dunaa. a-hole.

fufor. breasts.

gb3i shormor. penis suck.

l3mor lagbatein. vagina lick.

i want to lick your vagina? mitao ma l3mor o lagbatein.

chorkor is a name of a suburb by the sea. very popular for vulgar language. some use it because of the sound penis and vagina make during sex. chor kor, chor kor, chor kor.

you hear the chor kor sound when vagina is very wet.

wie3. f-ck.

ma wie3 bo. i will f-ck you!

i want to f-ck your a-s? mitao ma wi3 odunaa.

i want to f-ck you= mitao ma wi3 bo.

i want you to f-ck me= mitao o wi3 mi.

i want us to f-ck = mitao wor wi3.

let's f-ck= wor wi3.

now= bian3.

do you want to f-ck me=? o tao ni owi3 mi?

would you like to f-ck me=? obaa sumor ni owi3 mi lo?

would you f-ck me=? obaa wi3 mi lo?

i want to see-m= mi hein ba.

ba actually mean come. is c-m as verb or noun.

originally. he min ba translates. self is coming.

mi he min ba. my self is coming.

3 is an e sound like in "let".

[Roman Guy]

Dear All,

Congratulations on a well moderated forum. I have been on ISG since 2007, but been more a reader than a serial contributer. If anyone of you need inputs on India, Bangkok, Frankfurt and London let me know (PM please, this is a precious site and please support) these have been largely places I have experience, insights and contacts in.

My entire exprience so far has been largely pro WGs with some experience on non-pro, but more becuase I am a little reserved and very non pushy enough (Maybe I lack some experience as well). But this forum has changed my interest to look for non-pro and semi-pro and hence this clarion call for insights from seniors. Based on the RTTF on this forum I joined afrointorudctions last week and have been in touch with 6-7 girls. All of them are looking at serious relationships and not necessarily for short term friendship, while that is expected the questions I ask are as follows:

1. Can I ask the girl I meet to come over to my room straight (in our first meeting at accra) away after exchange of a few e-mails and some chat? What's been the general experience?

2. Are there any indicators of girls I should select or avoid who may not convert on the first date? Unfortunately I am there for 5 days which 3 days bieng really busy hence wanting the collective wisdom to support me to be efficient.

3. I have slected a combination of young one's 20-24 and older one's 27-34. The older ones seem more interested in forcing the marriage discussion, is it futile to chase them and go after the younger ones?

4. Lastly any co-relation to education, most of the one's that I have selected are collect educated, smart and conversant. Is it better to look at high school girls only?

I am hoping that this discussion would also benefit other members to understand better the semi and non pro environment.

Thanks

1. Yes you can. You can even put an explicit request without any email exchange. Sometime 30 minutes conversation are enough for a proposal.

2. The indicator is the answer and the result you get. If you are there 5 days and 3 are busy then why to wait any longer?

3. If you have time and possibilities go with both selection. I f they talk about marriage let them believe you are travelling to Ghnana every two months and next time you will prepare documents.

4. The most they are educated and the most the damage might be high. A student needs books, laptop, uni taxes, cloths what a hawker doesn't need and with 20 GHC is happy. There are educated ones that honestly don't "chop" all your money.

Keep us posted!

[Arabia Felix]

A few photos of Accra hotties to liven up the forum. Some of my recent samplings from Afro. I also Badoo and Tagged but Afro always delivers the goods. One honey told me there are lots of ex-pats on Badoo which accounts for me getting a better response from the darlings on Afro. The two little ladies with big bums turned out to be surprisingly good in bed. Buxom lady in the pink negligee (accra10) was lots of fun too, but guessed I had other honeys lined up. She has been pestering me for numbers of any other visiting friends. Any one interested?

[ApplePolish]

Dear All,

Congratulations on a well moderated forum. I have been on ISG since 2007, but been more a reader than a serial contributer. If anyone of you need inputs on India, Bangkok, Frankfurt and London let me know (PM please, this is a precious site and please support) these have been largely places I have experience, insights and contacts in.

My entire exprience so far has been largely pro WGs with some experience on non-pro, but more becuase I am a little reserved and very non pushy enough (Maybe I lack some experience as well). But this forum has changed my interest to look for non-pro and semi-pro and hence this clarion call for insights from seniors. Based on the RTTF on this forum I joined afrointorudctions last week and have been in touch with 6-7 girls. All of them are looking at serious relationships and not necessarily for short term friendship, while that is expected the questions I ask are as follows:

1. Can I ask the girl I meet to come over to my room straight (in our first meeting at accra) away after exchange of a few e-mails and some chat? What's been the general experience?

2. Are there any indicators of girls I should select or avoid who may not convert on the first date? Unfortunately I am there for 5 days which 3 days bieng really busy hence wanting the collective wisdom to support me to be efficient.

3. I have slected a combination of young one's 20-24 and older one's 27-34. The older ones seem more interested in forcing the marriage discussion, is it futile to chase them and go after the younger ones?

4. Lastly any co-relation to education, most of the one's that I have selected are collect educated, smart and conversant. Is it better to look at high school girls only?

I am hoping that this discussion would also benefit other members to understand better the semi and non pro environment.

Thanks

[IAmTk]

I've had our shared mongering hobby for a while. With a mix of up and down experiences, but never anything quite like this.

I was coming back late one evening, and passed a young lady in the street. I tend to avoid the street ladies for a lot of reasons. But one or two decent experiences in the past were enough to make me stop when I saw this stunning woman standing on her own. I doubled back around and picked her up. She claimed to be Ghanaian, and we started the negotiation. Normally the starting point in these conversations is way off from reality. I never end up somewhere if everyone isn't happy in the end. She was higher, I was lower, but we eventually found a point that was slightly higher than I wanted, but acceptable. Or so I thought.

We headed over to one of the movie houses, and right away I could tell it was going to be a problem. It was all attitude. No BJ (didn't pay enough) , wasn't going take off her top (didn't pay enough). I hate this. So after a few minutes of this I say that I'm out of there, and she was like, no, no, no. Off came the top. The effort level was very low. Attitude, attitude, attitude. It just sucked. 5 minutes in and my big head took over my little head. This wasn't going to happen. This is over, it totally sucks and I'm over the whole experience. Time to count my losses and leave. And that's when things really started to get strange.

I said "this isn't working" and started getting dressed. She jumped up and pulled the key out of the locked door. I said I was willing to settle for a fair compensation (having already dropped 20 Cedis on the room). She wasn't in the mood to negotiate. I keep saying,"tell me what is fair." Definitely not in the mood to negotiate..

These ladies always forget that "Attitude is everything". She wants to eat her a cake and have it but it does not work in the mongering world. Next time just be careful with them. I picked a lady like that sometime ago but quickly realise her stories does not add up and so let her loose before she created a scene.

[Living Abroad]

i've had our shared mongering hobby for a while. with a mix of up and down experiences, but never anything quite like this.

i was coming back late one evening, and passed a young lady in the street. i tend to avoid the street ladies for a lot of reasons. but one or two decent experiences in the past were enough to make me stop when i saw this stunning woman standing on her own. i doubled back around and picked her up. she claimed to be ghanaian, and we started the negotiation. normally the starting point in these conversations is way off from reality. i never end up somewhere if everyone isn't happy in the end. she was higher, i was lower, but we eventually found a point that was slightly higher than i wanted, but acceptable. or so i thought.

we headed over to one of the movie houses, and right away i could tell it was going to be a problem. it was all attitude. no bj (didn't pay enough) , wasn't going take off her top (didn't pay enough). i hate this. so after a few minutes of this i say that i'm out of there, and she was like, no, no, no. off came the top. the effort level was very low. attitude, attitude, attitude. it just sucked. 5 minutes in and my big head took over my little head. this wasn't going to happen. this is over, it totally sucks and i'm over the whole experience. time to count my losses and leave. and that's when things really started to get strange.

i said "this isn't working" and started getting dressed. she jumped up and pulled the key out of the locked door. i said i was willing to settle for a fair compensation (having already dropped 20 cedis on the room). she wasn't in the mood to negotiate. i keep saying,"tell me what is fair." definitely not in the mood to negotiate.

there is no way this is going to get out of hand, and i'm not going to get physical with this woman going for the keys, so i said okay. i was cool just sitting and watching the movie that was playing. we could chill for the next hour or so watching the movie together. she was not happy about this. the louder and more aggressive she got, the quieter i got. i pulled out 20 cedis and said here's what i'll do, take this and i'll pay more after she opens the door. she took the money, but didn't budge. at one point she reached into her purse and pulled out what (in the dim lighted room) looked like a small knife. i thought,"you've got to be kidding. this isn't happening." there was a guy outside the door, so i yelled "hey, she has a knife!" he said something to her and she laughed. and then i saw it was a pair of scissors. which is when i grabbed them away. she gets louder, i sit and watch the movie. after what seemed like forever (including me sitting there telling her how much money she was losing sitting there with me) she finally found the keys and unlocked the door. i walked out, and chucked the scissors over the wall. making a beeline for my car. she followed yelling for more cedis. as i opened my door she threatened with something else in her hand and then threw at me. hitting my shoulder as i jumped in the car and landing inside the car (it turned out to be one of her nice high heel shoes) i shut the door, peeled out going backwards and sped away as she pelted the side of my car with gravel. (now i'm pissed).

i had her nice shoe and probably would have dropped it out the window as i pulled out of the parking lot of the place (i could see her frantically trying to find it as i was driving out) , but i was really pissed about the rocks and gravel. i drove out onto the street, and ended up chucking it out the window at some point on my way home. that btch. i realize that life is pretty hard for these ladies, but this one pushed every limit i had. the hell with her. l had no problem ruining her night.

later on that evening i arrived back at the place i was staying and surveyed the car. no visible damage. i was lucky.

be safe out there gents. a lot of wackos. and the moral of this one is making sure everyone is one the same page at the beginning. the dumb thing is that i aways end up tipping a lot more in the end. it was her loss.

[IAmTk]

I live in Accra, I have few good contacts over here. PM me if interested.

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[Germed2012]

I live in Accra, I have few good contacts over here. PM me if interested.

For all my reservations about Calabash, I've actually found a few gems. One in particular is a very tight, Liberian number with skills. She has a sweet attitude, is very good at what she does, and readily offer's up a trip to the greek islands for a reasonable increase in the customary tip. PM me for details.

I'm up in Tamale for a week or so. It's a new territory for me. Anyone with any good contacts? I'll trade you for the Liberian's digits. LOL

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[Living Abroad]

For all my reservations about Calabash, I've actually found a few gems. One in particular is a very tight, Liberian number with skills. She has a sweet attitude, is very good at what she does, and readily offer's up a trip to the greek islands for a reasonable increase in the customary tip. PM me for details.

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I'm up in Tamale for a week or so. It's a new territory for me. Anyone with any good contacts? I'll trade you for the Liberian's digits. LOL

[Living Abroad]

Roman, thanks for your judgement. I have to agree with you. It seems you are well aware of Kumasi scene. I will be going there for a girl I met (!) on skype. She is a normal ebony girl. Sort of love affair. She is from not so well to do family. Asking me to buy a laptop and cell phone for her. I am not sure what should I do. I am seeking your judgement on this too.

A lot has been said on this, so I won't labor the point. But you must be crazy, bro. Why in the world would you ever be buying a cell phone and laptop for someone you've met online? If you're looking for a long-term relationship ("love affair") then this should be a sign to you that you're being taken for a ride. She is not for you. There are plenty of women looking for a stable relationship that won't be asking you to bring a cell phone and laptop with you. If you're just coming out to have a good time, you can make friends and enjoy someone's company for not much more than a smile, a meal and cab fare home. Even meeting someone who is P4P is a whole lot cheaper than buying some stranger a cell phone and laptop. Someone saw you coming from a mile away.

As for Kumasi. A lot of decent hotels out there. From the Golden Tulip or Royal Lamerta to some of the ones listed in these reports. I've never had a problem with any of them.

[Roman Guy]

Roman, thanks for your judgement. I have to agree with you. It seems you are well aware of Kumasi scene. I will be going there for a girl I met (!) on skype. She is a normal ebony girl. Sort of love affair. She is from not so well to do family. Asking me to buy a laptop and cell phone for her. I am not sure what should I do. I am seeking your judgement on this too.

And can you suggest me possible low cost hotel for my stay there in Kumasi? I think AC will be required. I will go there (decide after your wisdom) from Bogota. There is no direct flight from Bogota to Accra. Any idea about shortest and cost effective route though I am checking on the net.

Thanks once again,

LoveQuest

Hi, first of all sorry for the delay.

Yes, I am aware of the Kumasi scenario.

I must say that it is the city in Ghana that I like the most (for our hobby and the rest).

IMO I don't like to date girls through social networks and even to meet ones, known in previous travels.

This is because they result to be more expansive and to have much more expectations: as for your pen mate who requested lap top and cell phone. Better to know a girl there by case (square, bar, bus stop.). As for this case I don't know what to suggest. It depends on the importance you give to the affair. If it is something serious (relationship, marriage, having a child) invest money and time on it and do not limit your intervention to cell phone and lap top but if it is just an adventure, give it up!

Another reason is this: there are so many occasions that I always regret to have a date when I look around and I see how many good opportunities I miss when already busy with one girl!

About hotel I always go to Sanbra Hotel in Adum, every drivers know it, convenient location and good ratio price quality, of course girls friendly.

For the flight I know there are direct flights from USA and Madrid (just in your direction).

[Ty Down]

I am new to Ghana Board. I will be going to Kumasi soon for a few days. Could not get any report here on mongering scene at Kumasi. I am paricularly interested in white girls there. Experienced monger at Kumasi please help me get some idea on possible locales and cost.

Thanks in advance.

I've been to Kumasi many times, love the place. In my experience Roses Guest House (Vienna City Kumasi) at No. 4, Old Bekwai Road Nhyaieso in Kumasi is a good place, good food, nice rooms to stay, nice women, white, black and everything in between.

http://www.consulgames.com/kumasi.php

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hHBq0bArSdI

[Jiggydus]

Roman, thanks for your judgement. I have to agree with you. It seems you are well aware of Kumasi scene. I will be going there for a girl I met (!) on skype. She is a normal ebony girl. Sort of love affair. She is from not so well to do family. Asking me to buy a laptop and cell phone for her. I am not sure what should I do. I am seeking your judgement on this too.

And can you suggest me possible low cost hotel for my stay there in Kumasi? I think AC will be required. I will go there (decide after your wisdom) from Bogota. There is no direct flight from Bogota to Accra. Any idea about shortest and cost effective route though I am checking on the net.

Thanks once again,

LoveQuest

If you are just looking to drain your balls everyday, then there is no need to buy expensive items like laptop or even cell phone (despite the low wages paid for those lucky to have a job, African chicks love the expensive smartphones. I have had one tell me to my face she did not like my cheap Chinese cell phone I gave her! Well f*ck you beyatch!). If you have have met someone you like and feel compelled to continue the relationship, it is up to your discretion what you give. If you want to be considered a sucker, then you would get her that laptop and smartphone.

I have multiple girlfriends in Ghana, Togo, Kenya, Malawi, and Uganda and the most expensive gift I have given to ladies I had already met is cash to make up shortfall for a course (I never would give entire amount since they need to have some skin in their endeavor even if that means hitting up others for the remaining amount) and inexpensive cameras, cell phones and lingerie. I have received numerous requests for laptops and smartphones but I have not even bought such for my baby mama.

It looks like you will be traveling for at least a full day to get there. Most carriers route through Europe to get to Accra except Delta which has a direct flight from JFK. But you will be looking at 2 K minimum for your ticket from BOG to ACC.

Also, be mindful that cheap hotel accommodations in Africa WILL lack some amenity we take for granted in US, Europe and Asia. Places that go sub $50USD will likely have sub par beds, lack hot water, TV, or AC, or will lack "comfort" space. Good places do exist but you have to sometimes dig deep to find them. For comparison, a mid level hotel like Holiday Inn goes for sub $100USD in many non major cities in America (they can range from low 100s to $150 in major cities) , but you will shell out over $200USD to stay a night at Holiday Inn in Accra. The good thing about Ghana is that majority of people are non smokers so even the budget places will not reek the way they do in America or Europe.

[Pete Benetar]

Asking me to buy a laptop and cell phone for her. I am not sure what should I do.

Don't want to be abrasive but to summarize you are: 1) Planning an expensive trip to the other side of the planet, 2) To meet a girl you've never met, in "sort of love affair", 3) While considering purchase of laptop, cell etc for girl, you have never met, hoping to stay at cheap hotel, and 4) Search for white women on a black continent after you have traveled that far to court a black woman.

This sounds like a bad attempt at humor or that you might need some counseling, as in professional help. If you travel to Africa for poontang you should take advantage of it and not the other way around (don't be buying stuff save small gifts until she's taken care of your libido). And if you go to Seoul for Korean cuisine you might try the galbi and not look for pizza and hamburgers. If you are for real I strongly recommend you step back and try to sort out in your mind what you are looking for. You might pay for a membership here on ISG and get even more feedback by way of PM