China Women - Opinions and Advice

[Big Ass Eater]

Another aspect of Chinese culture (or mentality) is that they take offense for nothing. The Chinese always claim foreigners don't understand Chinese culture. In my view Chinese culture isn't that complex or hard to understand. One just have to experience the country for a while and learn how the Chinese think and act.

Yes, anyone can go back and read my previous posts. I don't understand Lao Ma's remark about my describing that Chinese women / girls meet foreigners at Sanlitun. Many Chinese still think it's inappropriate for Chinese women to be out late at night and specially meet foreigners. The few women, however, who aren't restricted by such a conservative mindset go to places where they can meet foreigners. And Sanlitun is such a place. But this is a minority of course. Most Chinese women take pride in being "traditional".

[Ikksman]

Reading your post here, and your post history, I can tell you have a deep and profound understanding of China and China culture, so I recommend everyone here to listen to what Mr. Big Ass has to say. Of course! Many Chinese have mental issues! I encourage everyone to go back and read his posts. For example, back in June, he informed us that expats go to Sanlitun on the weekends, and that's where Chinese girls go to meet up with their foreign guys. Useful!
Crikey.

I fully agree. After reading BigAssEater's posts, I have come to appreciate that he has the deepest and most profound understanding of China and Chinese culture of any ISG poster. Truly amazing!

Ikksman
^{"No need to expose fools. They expose themselves!"}

[Lao Ma]

One thing I can't stand about Chinese women is their obsession with culture, and especially their own Chinese culture. They are unable to choose for themselves the kind of life they wish to live. Many are curious about foreigners but at the same time look down on foreign culture and habits.

I got the impression that most middle-aged women were extremely unhappy and unstimulated. Most Chinese husbands don't give a damn about their wives after a few years and they live miserably. Chinese men often resort to drinking as well.

Surely many Chinese have mental issues.

Reading your post here, and your post history, I can tell you have a deep and profound understanding of China and China culture, so I recommend everyone here to listen to what Mr. Big Ass has to say. Of course! Many Chinese have mental issues! I encourage everyone to go back and read his posts. For example, back in June, he informed us that expats go to Sanlitun on the weekends, and that's where Chinese girls go to meet up with their foreign guys. Useful!

Crikey.

[Big Ass Eater]

A few months ago, I met a 28 yo photographic model. I wrote about this encounter in the SZ forum: http://www.internationalsexguide.inf...=1#post1564874 .

Whilst I was overseas recently, I spent time on WeChat with her. We arranged to meet last night for dinner. It was a great evening that culminated in her spending much of the night in my apartment.

We chatted a lot about life, and the fact that she was becoming a "left over" woman. She wanted to get married to a Chinese guy that would agree to help support her parents in their old age. Love was not important.

And her opinion of laowai? Mostly nice guys, but ignorant of Chinese culture and customs, and thus she could not develop relationships with them!

One thing she said that I had not heard before was that that her friends all agreed the most important physical attribute of men's xiǎo d di was for it to be stiff, strong and erect. Non-vertical dicks that could not support 4 wet towels, did not turn them on (my words, not hers)!

One thing I can't stand about Chinese women is their obsession with culture, and especially their own Chinese culture. They are unable to choose for themselves the kind of life they wish to live. Many are curious about foreigners but at the same time look down on foreign culture and habits.

I got the impression that most middle-aged women were extremely unhappy and unstimulated. Most Chinese husbands don't give a damn about their wives after a few years and they live miserably. Chinese men often resort to drinking as well.

Surely many Chinese have mental issues.

[YoungTriarii]

Freebies abound just as long as you're not black. Same all over Asia really.

[Fast Eddie 48]

Silly me, I thought Guangzhou was in China! In Shanghai the trick is not to go over the brink, but to be kept on the brink for as long as possible!

To F.

You don't even know where the hell Danshui is it and you start a Huizhou forum some NAIVE newbie just don't get it.

Fast eddie 48.

[Ikksman]

Silly me, I thought Guangzhou was in China! In Shanghai the trick is not to go over the brink, but to be kept on the brink for as long as possible!

Perhaps he meant to write "None of the Indian women can do that and I don't know of any American women that can do that either", as he has many posts in the Indian forums.

Ikks.

[Fuzimiao]

In saunas in Guangzhou, the masseuses are so well-practiced in their craft that they can almost send you over the brink of orgasm just by glazing their fingernails over your testicles, perineum, and penis. None of the Chinese women can do that and I don't know of any American women that can do that either.

Silly me, I thought Guangzhou was in China! In Shanghai the trick is not to go over the brink, but to be kept on the brink for as long as possible!

[Mua Tur]

I'm not successful with everyone for normal male / female reasons, but I make sure that I come across as a clean cut, decent, gentleman and that the girl can enjoy her time with me. I make sure theres generally no trace of the previous nights occupant in my bed or bathroom and treat the girls with a lot of respect. I'm never late, and when I'm with one girl, will only send texts or messages to another when I have trips to bathroom.

This is the post reminds my experiences that m having in these days. But not in China, these are in Thailand. The similarity inspired me to telling here an experience in short. It is necessary to tell about me that, m not a fan of P4P services unless it is a bared night. I used to be meet with the girls introduced by different sources including the dating sites too. If some one not ready to mark these GF type experience as free bees, I have no comments. Because m ready to spend money as in need for fun and pleasure. Any one will agree that spending money for right things is a satisfying event too. Spending time a little or more for the girls is a best sport for me. In event of dating sites sometimes it makes disappointment but all in all it's a great fun.

For my girls m confirming here that I never repeat the same room for different girls. So no need to make extra care for clean the trace of previous nights. I just change my hotel and after that if the things going to ends, if no chances to repeat with her again, I just through the sim I used for her. So I use new sim every time for new girls. I invite the girl to my apartment if I have planned to keep her for long time.

Sometimes I get overlapped too; once I was with a girl and in 4. 00 am I get sms from another girl arriving BKK from another city and need to pick up her from the rail station. It was not problem at all for me to leave the girl stayed with me in night in the room, since the girl can check out whenever she want before 12.00 pm. The problem started in the new hotel room when the new girl entered in wash room. Because I was so hurry to pick her from the rail station and forget to check the new room (generally I don't need too). While after using the wash room the girl came out with her heavy face, and claimed I was with another girl in this room. It was true but certainly not in this room. I checked the wash room and found a used condom on the floor and certainly by the previous user of the room. Quickly I called the room service and what the hack the lady can not talk Thai, she came from Burma and newly joined in this hotel.

Yes my new girl did not accept my explanation, and left over me, since we had just only one sex.

[Ikksman]

A few months ago, I met a 28 yo photographic model. I wrote about this encounter in the SZ forum: http://www.internationalsexguide.inf...=1#post1564874 .

Whilst I was overseas recently, I spent time on WeChat with her. We arranged to meet last night for dinner. It was a great evening that culminated in her spending much of the night in my apartment.

We chatted a lot about life, and the fact that she was becoming a "left over" woman. She wanted to get married to a Chinese guy that would agree to help support her parents in their old age. Love was not important.

And her opinion of laowai? Mostly nice guys, but ignorant of Chinese culture and customs, and thus she could not develop relationships with them!

One thing she said that I had not heard before was that that her friends all agreed the most important physical attribute of men's xiǎo dì di was for it to be stiff, strong and erect. Non-vertical dicks that could not support 4 wet towels, did not turn them on (my words, not hers)!

[Teltel]

Do you know a good bleach for my skin? I am a Black man with yellow fever, and I have no intention of being celibate or settling for chicks I don't want.

Do not worry about buying some bleach, if you are well behaived, a gentleman and have a good personality you should be ok.

I know of a few afro-americans in Beijing who have Chinese girlfriends, live in partners and better luck than most with the ladies.

Teltel.

[YoungTriarii]

Do you know a good bleach for my skin? I am a Black man with yellow fever, and I have no intention of being celibate or settling for chicks I don't want.

[JayFrank]

I'm not really young and anxious (40's, fluent in Chinese), but I also confess, that based on Freebie's posts, I had the impression that he had more than a small roster. I had the impression that he rolled into Maan's Coffee, and rolled out with two chicks under each arm.

I too have had freebies but they have all ended with me changing my phone number to escape. Maybe I'm just too good of a catch.

[FreebieFan]

So, I don't know how Freebie Fan does it, but by looking at his posts, he gets like 3 chicks a week, plus posts about 30 posts it ISG's various threads and I guess has a day job? Some of his posts clearly involve alcohol, but I guess other than that, he has just the most enormous set of balls ever bestowed on a man. As for me have never had a freebie that doesn't require several coffees, several dates,it's like a full time job. And if you want to get 1 chick to even meet for coffee you have to approach probably 10-15 before you get a hit. This chick last night, took her to a movie, she wouldn't come home with me until we literally had a High-school drama like conversation about "Do you like me" crap. Holy s* I agree with whomever posted that freebies aren't really free. I will gladly go back to just the straight up value proposition. My time is just too valuable. Not attacking Freebie Fan or questioning how he does it more just looking for sympathy. I mean a define the relationship talk? Are we 14?

I have a good full time job, that has peaks and troughs in application time, therefor sometimes have time to post and sometimes not.

Having showered recently I'd say I have average sized balls LOL.

I've been doing the free thing a lot, for many years in a few countries and seem to have figured out the type of girls I like and how to do it.

The current roster is Miss 33, Miss 22, Miss 24 all Chinese and Miss 32 whose an African student, and hopefully Miss 21 , a new African student will be added. Some days I like to be alone, but other days I don't.

I'm not successful with everyone for normal male / female reasons, but I make sure that I come across as a clean cut, decent, gentleman and that the girl can enjoy her time with me. I make sure theres generally no trace of the previous nights occupant in my bed or bathroom and treat the girls with a lot of respect. I'm never late, and when I'm with one girl, will only send texts or messages to another when I have trips to bathroom.

I think I do well because I come across as a normal guy who has some experience with women.

They all know I'm happily separated so no danger of a marriage hunter clinging on.

I have some girls who have been to my apartment and I haven't touched them as there was no indication it was warranted.

I would say I have some sort of relationship with all my ladies, just different from one to the other that's all. After all an evening with no talk only bonking would be boring. So with some e cook, or watch movies or play pc games or walk.. Etcetc. And I've never given anyone of them one cent, except time, and some shared meals.

[Bnlee2]

So, I don't know how Freebie Fan does it, but by looking at his posts, he gets like 3 chicks a week, plus posts about 30 posts it ISG's various threads and I guess has a day job? Some of his posts clearly involve alcohol, but I guess other than that, he has just the most enormous set of balls ever bestowed on a man. As for me have never had a freebie that doesn't require several coffees, several dates,it's like a full time job. And if you want to get 1 chick to even meet for coffee you have to approach probably 10-15 before you get a hit. This chick last night, took her to a movie, she wouldn't come home with me until we literally had a High-school drama like conversation about "Do you like me" crap. Holy s* I agree with whomever posted that freebies aren't really free. I will gladly go back to just the straight up value proposition. My time is just too valuable. Not attacking Freebie Fan or questioning how he does it more just looking for sympathy. I mean a define the relationship talk? Are we 14?

JF,

You are way too anxious. Being too anxious will get you little. Yes there are freebies that will cost you nothing, you may even receive more than what you give. My time is also valuable too. I do have a day job and am quite busy. And yes, I do get my share of Freebies. You sound like a young. Try to be a bit more calm, cool and collective (my 3 see's in life).