St. Maarten (The southern Dutch side)

[BigRiddah]

Here is a question for you SXM regulars: What is the best way to agree DFK / BBBJ with a chica on SXM?

My local playground is the Germany FKK clubs where these are pretty much standard services (at least BBBJ is). In SXM standard services are CBJ and FS (DATY pretty much too). I have been fairly lucky with getting LFK / DFK without too much effort on SXM (and them Colombianas surely know how to kiss!!), while with BBBJ you need to work a bit harder to get IME. So I am curiours what works for those of you who are seeking the same? Some talked about theories:

What do you guys think? I am hoping for some tips and maybe a good discussion on this.

- Seeking chemistry? If you get along with a girl she is more likely to provide the services you like (I like this theory!).

This is true for me and I believe others will confirm it is true for them. Some girls are very strict in their adherence to not doing anything uncovered or DFK to a random guy. Chemistry will ease that.

- Avoiding the most goodlooking ones? (I am not too fond of that theory ...).

I am not fond of doing this either. Perhaps people have read this before, it has been said that the truly on fire & hottest girls can get by on their looks only, and don't have to offer up the same level of service compared to lesser girls. This might be OK for some guys, and very rarely has it happened to me, but when it does it pisses me off and I end up not liking the girl & the session too.

I am probably explaining it wrong, but but Mel365 refers to a boring & uninterested girl in the room as a starfish, as in she spreads her arms & legs out "OK you caught me. Now do me. " and she just lays there. The image of her arms & legs plus her head makes 5 points, like the 5 arms of a starfish.

I experienced a great looking natural body, white skinned & sweet demeanor in the bar but a starfish in the room back 2013 with Dana at Seamans. See the attached photo.

I believe Mel365 experienced Catalina at Seamans a couple weeks ago as a starfish.

- Asking just before committing yourself?

Did this once and it worked to my advantage. She went along with it & made the session better.

- Asking in the room?

I have tried this & gotten both successes & failures.

- Wait until second date?

Most often this is what I do. I do not have a second session unless the first session was at least a Good Session if not a Great Session. Too many chicas & limited time to give another session to average session chica.

- Paying extra? If so, what is the "going rate" for BBBJ? (I try to avoid this as it increases the risk to pay extra for anything, but sometimes one need to adjust to "local traditions").

For a Jennifer in Seamans in 2013, I think it was and upsell in the room for $20 extra for BBBJ which was worth it as she had good skills. For the Dominicana at Petite Chateau this year, it was $10 extra which was not worth it as she was toothy.

- Picking the right nationality? Are Dominicanas more likely to provide BBBJ than Colombianas?

Perhaps. I don't have enough experience with DR chicas to say.

- Picking the right club? As Mel/ClubTed are mentioning, maybe the chances are simply better at Definance / Casablanca rather than the "tourist clubs" in Suckergarden?

ClubTed & Mel are probably correct.

A small detail: While it is easy to get a BBBJ at Germany FKK clubs, not all girls will provide attention to the boys (which is a service I am very fond of). However, while the chicas on SXM are quick to put a condom around the head, they are often very eager to service the shaft and the boys making the sensations "almost" BB-like. Just my experience so far.

This is true in my experience and I too enjoy that service.

Knowing Spanish, establishing chemistry, and being a nice guy helps a lot to get the GFE level services. But hygiene is important too. My hygiene is almost always perfect and I get treated very well because of it. I use cologne and apply it while in the car before I go in the club. I not only shower immediately before I go to the clubs (and perhaps this is Too Much Information), but I closely trim hair above the cock and shave clean below that including the sack. I also trim down any thigh leg hair too. In the room I wash the crotch before & after session. This vacation in November I got BBBJ and / or ball licking & sucking without even asking for it. In many cases they just went for it. Makes for a very nice session. So I reccomend shaving as a way to lower the barriers to getting the desired GFE services. But I understand that I'm single so I can shave & trim without alerting the wife or girlfriend.

Maybe its just me and my neurotic habits, but when I am bouncing from a chica in one club to a chica in another club, I bring a small backpack with a complete change of clothes, unscented pre-moistened baby wipes, tooth brush & tooth paste, and cologne. I use a stall in the club bathroom to clean up and change clothes. Then off to the next club and apply cologne before entering the club. No residual perfume from the previous chica.

Oh and I brush my teeth after eating chicken curry at the restaurant. I wouldn't want to get close to someone with curry breathe and I am quite sure they don't want to either. .

[Buck On89]

As everyone knows YMMV. And as Barkey mentions. Your Spanish may get you a better experience.

I wasn't saying I had a terrible time with Brenda. I was mostly trying to say it felt more like a business transaction vs a GFE.

So this may mean if you're fluent in Spanish you should be ok and if you don't know much in Spanish (like me) she'll look at you more like a 50 dollar bill.

And again Judy was great. The tops I've had on the island in attitude and closest thing to GFE.

[Shark16]

What are the best times during the day? Interested most in Carolina's and Seamans! Thanks for the info! Is the talent weak around Dec27?

Those two clubs open around 11 am. It's a good time to arrive as the chicas need to check in. Siesta starts at 4 pm, so at that time it's "too late" (but do not despair, just try more clubs). Whether a club is rocking or not on a particular day is often in correlation with number of cruise ships in port. You may want to check http://201.220.14.28/sxm/MainMenu.as...ScheduleType=2 .

[BlackHo1]

What are the best times during the day? Interested most in Carolina's and Seamans! Thanks for the info! Is the talent weak around Dec27?

[Barkey]

Here is a question for you SXM regulars: What is the best way to agree DFK / BBBJ with a chica on SXM?

My local playground is the Germany FKK clubs where these are pretty much standard services (at least BBBJ is). In SXM standard services are CBJ and FS (DATY pretty much too). I have been fairly lucky with getting LFK / DFK without too much effort on SXM (and them Colombianas surely know how to kiss!!), while with BBBJ you need to work a bit harder to get IME. So I am curiours what works for those of you who are seeking the same? Some talked about theories:

- Seeking chemistry? If you get along with a girl she is more likely to provide the services you like (I like this theory!).
- Asking just before committing yourself?
- Asking in the room?
- Wait until second date?
- Paying extra? If so, what is the "going rate" for BBBJ? (I try to avoid this as it increases the risk to pay extra for anything, but sometimes one need to adjust to "local traditions").
- Picking the right nationality? Are Dominicanas more likely to provide BBBJ than Colombianas?
- Picking the right club? As Mel/ClubTed are mentioning, maybe the chances are simply better at Definance / Casablanca rather than the "tourist clubs" in Suckergarden?

I'm certainly not an expert or SXM regular (yet) but during my recent stay I found that for me investing some time and a few dollars buying the girl drinks and getting to know them provided a better return on investment in the room. I guess you would consider that chemistry. Fortunately my Spanish is pretty good and communicating with a chica was not a problem. After we got to know each other a bit it was pretty easy to let her know what I wanted and find out what her limits were. Maybe it just made me feel better. More like a date than just a business transaction. Anyway getting to know the girl made for a much more relaxed and natural session. I would like to hear the thoughts from others too since I'll be headed back in March and always open to advice and suggestions.

[Barkey]

Thanks for the heads up regarding Brenda. Seems like the list of who to avoid is getting longer than the list of who you should see at this club. I'm heading down next Saturday for five days, so I appreciate the "who's been naughty, and who's been nice" intel.

I was surprised to read the recent comments regarding Brenda at Carolinas. When I was with her not too long ago, and I believe there were some other posts that were quite complimentary towards her, she was quite accommodating. Maybe she's getting tired or simply just a bad day. I personally wouldn't write her off.

[Shark16]

Here is a question for you SXM regulars: What is the best way to agree DFK / BBBJ with a chica on SXM?

My local playground is the Germany FKK clubs where these are pretty much standard services (at least BBBJ is). In SXM standard services are CBJ and FS (DATY pretty much too). I have been fairly lucky with getting LFK / DFK without too much effort on SXM (and them Colombianas surely know how to kiss!!), while with BBBJ you need to work a bit harder to get IME. So I am curiours what works for those of you who are seeking the same? Some talked about theories:

- Seeking chemistry? If you get along with a girl she is more likely to provide the services you like (I like this theory!).
- Avoiding the most goodlooking ones? (I am not too fond of that theory ...).
- Asking just before committing yourself?
- Asking in the room?
- Wait until second date?
- Paying extra? If so, what is the "going rate" for BBBJ? (I try to avoid this as it increases the risk to pay extra for anything, but sometimes one need to adjust to "local traditions").
- Picking the right nationality? Are Dominicanas more likely to provide BBBJ than Colombianas?
- Picking the right club? As Mel/ClubTed are mentioning, maybe the chances are simply better at Definance / Casablanca rather than the "tourist clubs" in Suckergarden?

What do you guys think? I am hoping for some tips and maybe a good discussion on this.

A small detail: While it is easy to get a BBBJ at Germany FKK clubs, not all girls will provide attention to the boys (which is a service I am very fond of). However, while the chicas on SXM are quick to put a condom around the head, they are often very eager to service the shaft and the boys making the sensations "almost" BB-like. Just my experience so far.

[ClubTed]

Thanks for the heads up regarding Brenda. Seems like the list of who to avoid is getting longer than the list of who you should see at this club. I'm heading down next Saturday for five days, so I appreciate the "who's been naughty, and who's been nice" intel. You probably made the right move by not saying anything to the Lorena chick while she was with a couple of other ladies in the restaurant. Depending on how well a chica is liked, she can easily black ball you to the others, if she's well connected and highly regarded in the chica food chain. Although money talks and no chica in her right mind would turn away business, but you don't want bad press circulating about yourself. I plan to just play her along while seated at the bar when I arrive. I'll be on the lookout for the blonde streaks in the hair and the tattoo on her chest. No ahora, pero tarde!

If it's the same Lucy from 2 years ago over at El Capt. , which I believe it is, per my discussion with BigRiddah, she is a sweetheart.

I usually make a day trip to Orient Beach and park where Pedro's is / was. Sounds like either where you stay, or just the beach side businesses, have been impacted by the storm. I take it the beach is ok, (in other words, no major erosion) and you can still access it via the road off the main road heading toward Grand Case (taking the right. Going straight will take you to the Butterfly Farm, and then the left to Club Orient / Orient Beach.

Aside from Mel's recent report, I'm still amazed that people aren't checking out Casablanca and even Defiance. Carolina's has become the marquee destination for both passengers and crew when ships are in port, so the chicas during the day are in a 'get them in, get them out' mindset.

At least the clubs further up the hill are a bit more laid back and off the beaten path. I've spent hours in Casablanca in the afternoon with the place being virtually to myself. Granted not all the talent was up and about, but I've had some great action right at the bar here.

Oh, I'll have to go back and reread some posts, but it sounds like the chica in room 2 at Carolinas, Viviane or Viviana has some great potential. I'm making it a point to definitely see her!

My long winded trip report.

Day 1 (first full day).

I did some daytime sampling of the local talent on this trip. The biggest reason was-- so I can actually see what they looked like prior to agreeing on anything.

First stop was El Captian. First thing I noticed was the new bar in the parking lot. Less parking space now but a more casual feel. I saw a decent looking chica with a sheer see through tube style top. Her areola was obvious. (unfortunately her face was not so good) Wow I love this island. I didn't see anything of interest over at the outside bar (even though they were waving me over) so decided to walk into the main building. And as you would expect I had an escort escorting me in. She didn't hang on my shoulder or grab my hand as I expected-- I think it was because she felt I was looking for someone specifically. I noticed maybe one guy inside and about 7-8 chicas sitting inside on their cellphone checking their facebook status. I didn't see any talent of the my likings so I decided to head over the Hyponitc / Seamans. When I drove up I saw about two other cars in the parking lot and no one outside so I decided to move on. (In hindsight I should of walked in and looked for Lucy.)...

[Buck On89]

My long winded trip report.

Day 1 (first full day).

I did some daytime sampling of the local talent on this trip. The biggest reason was-- so I can actually see what they looked like prior to agreeing on anything.

First stop was El Captian. First thing I noticed was the new bar in the parking lot. Less parking space now but a more casual feel. I saw a decent looking chica with a sheer see through tube style top. Her areola was obvious. (unfortunately her face was not so good) Wow I love this island. I didn't see anything of interest over at the outside bar (even though they were waving me over) so decided to walk into the main building. And as you would expect I had an escort escorting me in. She didn't hang on my shoulder or grab my hand as I expected-- I think it was because she felt I was looking for someone specifically. I noticed maybe one guy inside and about 7-8 chicas sitting inside on their cellphone checking their facebook status. I didn't see any talent of the my likings so I decided to head over the Hyponitc / Seamans. When I drove up I saw about two other cars in the parking lot and no one outside so I decided to move on. (In hindsight I should of walked in and looked for Lucy.).

From there I headed over to Carolinas. I parked by the restaurant and looked in the window to see what talent was in there. I got a few smiles as I peeked in but I was unable to see a few chica's faces from outside so I decided to go in the main door to the bar and go from there. As I walked in a few woman outside wanted my attention. I just kept walking. Sitting just inside the bar were two decent looking chicas but I was afraid they were sharks. So I looked right past them and looked around in general. There were many locals in the place and maybe one other tourist. After assessing the chicas in the bar, I headed over the to the restaurant bar door to see what I couldn't see from the other angle. I was quick to notice the rip-off chica with the blonde streaks, Lorena. I was tempted to go in and head over to her table (she was sitting with two other chicas) and see if I could subtly teaser into pursuing me and then ask if she is Lorena and then instantly turn her down BUT I had a senior moment and forgot what her name was (I left my ISG notes at home)(yeah I know that would of not been nice but that's my personality) Instead I just walked over to the bar and grabbed a drink. I sat at the 'end'. The 'back' part where the bartender would walk out-around from the bar. I did notice some thin gals. Not quite spinners but close enough. The one that caught my attention, the most, eventually walked over. She knew some English. So it told me she was more of a pro than others. Her name was Brenda and was from Cali. Really cute in the face. Nice body. I bought her a drink and chatted for a while. All the time I was waiting for a Colombian handshake, and never got one. Sadly I started judging chicas based on erection-ness. The quicker or harder I get in the bar the more likely I will be enjoy the bedroom time. Brenda really didn't get my blood flowing but I was running out of time. So I decided to take her for a spin. I really wanted to make sure I would get a condom free experience but there was a guy standing next to me / over me which seemed to either be the manger, owner or was very friendly patron and knew the employees. For a second, I thought it could have been Mel, but this guy walked behind the bar and I knew Mel probably wouldn't of done that and he wasn't on the island at this point. Maybe Mel knows of him. He wore a dress shirt and tie. Spoke Spanish very fluently. Mid to late 50's maybe. Kept looking at his iPhone. I digressed. I just didn't want to ask for something that would of gotten an instant no, if one of the bosses was able to over hear everything.

I paid the bartender the $3 bar fine and back in the room we went. In short order she undressed and was lying on the bed. (I was scratching my head) I almost always had the women do a quick clean up of themselves and then a thorough cleaning of my johnson. Not this chica. No cleaning (not complaining because the water is cold) She was all about getting down to business. After some warm up playing she was ready to give me a BJ. I requested no condom and she refused. After about 30 seconds of back-and-forth I caved since I knew this was not helping. (my motto is no BBBJ no DATY) I got a decent BJ and went through several positions. I used up every single minute of the session. She cleaned up and put on her silky nightgown and essentially showed me the door. Business was done on her end and she got her cash. I was not completely surprised she made no attempt to make it a GFE. So she eliminated her chance of a repeat.

I thought seriously on heading back to the bars, that evening, for another session, but didn't (usually once a day is enough for me – I'm no stallion).

Day 2.

Was a really nice day so I decided to skip a daytime trip and headed in the evening. This time I started at Hypnotic. There was one heavy chic that didn't hesitate to make herself known. It took a little a few extra no-s to get her to find someone else to bother. No one there caught my eye enough to stay and I moved on. I went to El Captian and was (as you expected) approached before I got out of the car. I think they need to rename the place to Drive-Thur. Captian. (you don't even need to get out of the car to get a chica) After shaking her off I looked around and kept getting approached until everyone got the idea that I was just looking. I moved on to Carolinas and was approached nicely by a few. Brenda saw me and I just gave her a cold look and she never even bothered to approach me for a second trip. I didn't hang around long enough to see Lorena. I went home without a pop.

Day 3.

This day was mostly overcast so I headed over to the bars for daytime fun. Again I started at hypnotic / Seamans. There were a few chicas standing outside this time. I walked pass them and didn't give them eye contact since they were not my type. I was the only guy in the place when I walked in and every chica looked at me and gave me the pick-me look. I went and sat down and had a drink hoping the talent would improve. As I sat there the same heavy chica started to approach me. (must on her auto-pilot) I put up my hand (waving her off) it took about a half of second to refresh her memory of me she just laughed and walk away and the other girls also laughed. A small thin gal walked in that peaked my interest but her hair and face where hard to visually see if she was cute or scary. She eventually walked over. (funny everyone in the bar expected me to turn her away) She made small talk in English and then she said she was Lucy. (ding ding ding – that was the name of the chica in all these reports lately) I was pleased. I was a bit hard to talk with but she persevered. Her personality started to come out. Glowing. Hard to describe other than she worked to turn any frown – upside down. She seemed like the woman that if you came home having a bad day she would turn that day around. (without sex being a part of it). She would make a great wife. She started getting my blood flowing and we were getting closer and closer at the bar. She showed me that awesome shaved pussy of hers. So we made it to her room (102 I think). Room charge was $3 per half hour. I didn't know how long I would be. They guy let me go back without paying until I came back out.

Wow what a great session. Let me first say she looks a lot nicer without her cloths on. (a rarity) We fooled around in the mirror. She loves the mirror. We next made it to the bed where I got a BBBJ and a little DATY. She came and decided to move onto making me happy. I banged her in several positions and continued to make her cum. I loved it. We wrapped up just under the 30 minute mark and walked out a little late. I thought I would have to pay for 1 hour ($6) but only paid $3 for. 5 hour. She walked me out hand and hand. Kissed me on my mouth which sealed my GFE. At this point I wished I was staying on the island longer but I was leaving the very next day.

My biggest regret was not entering Hypnotic the first day and look for her. Guys find her! Her looks may not be a 10 (although close) her service and personality was a 10.

Other notes:

The bridge to French side is really nice and cut travel time way down. Orient beach has gone downhill since the storm, so I plan to find a new property to stay at next year. I had a great meal at a Chinese place downtown on Front St. (closer to the suckergarden Road side) It is called Foo Ho. It is located up the stairs on the second floor. They also have free WiFi.

On the French side I ate at Lolos at Grand Case and had an ok meal with a nice view of the sunset. I had a really good meal at a place called Ranch Del Sol which is on top of a hill overlooking the Orient beach area. Reasonably priced place.

[Lucky Strike]

DavisLucJr,
I've not heard about Pineapple Pete working late, but the

http://cappuccinostmaarten.com/

says "24 H-7 D" the right on the web site.

[DavisLucJr]

If memory serves me right you can order meals at Pineapple Pete's in Simpsons Bay until 3:00 am. I spent a late night scouring the island for food last year and ended there.

I've tried there, and haven't seen them open that late before. Then again, I typically go during low season.

In any case, I'll try them again. Thanks for the tip.

[Knoteebuoy]

Aside from the McDonald's in Simpson Bay and the schwarma place mentioned a few pages back, can anyone recommend a place to get some late night food (ie 2 am)? I'll normally go during Carnival so there's always someone with BBQ, but I'm thinking of going a little earlier next year. Any recommendations would be appreciated. I searched the thread but was unsuccessful.

If memory serves me right you can order meals at Pineapple Pete's in Simpsons Bay until 3:00 am. I spent a late night scouring the island for food last year and ended there.

[BigRiddah]

"Cappuccino 24 HR" restaurant in Simpson Bay, across the street from the FedEx sign.

Maybe during high season there is a lolo barbecue grill going until 1 am, but I didn't see any after midnight in November for the years that I have been going to SXM. While on island a couple weeks back, Mel365, Knoteebouy, and I were talking about late night eats. I feel that I all the places mentioned, including Cappuccino, so far are it.

For those in the USA, Happy Thanksgiving. For everyone else, Happy Thursday!

BR.

[DavisLucJr]

"Cappuccino 24 HR" restaurant in Simpson Bay, across the street from the FedEx sign.

RIGHT! I forgot about that place. Total mental lapse. I've been there before a couple of times. I think in my mind I was trying to remember "fast food" places.

Thanks!

[Lucky Strike]

Aside from the McDonald's in Simpson Bay and the schwarma place mentioned a few pages back, can anyone recommend a place to get some late night food (ie 2 am)?'

"Cappuccino 24 HR" restaurant in Simpson Bay, across the street from the FedEx sign.