German FKK Clubs - Lounge and chat area

[Mr Ho]

Get a second facebook account for your hobby only. Just for girls and guys you meet in clubs or other institutions.

HB.

This can be an idea, but I only have one FB account, in which I got few FKK girls on my friend list. BUT it is trust based friendship with them and they got more to lose than me It is friendship based on money mostly with bit of trust on her end more because it is her private account and her real name. Only up side is I can contact her to do outside meeting if I want, but cost me more. Either way having friendship with FKK girl definitely get you better intense sexual services from them I get used to the level of service that it is hard to go to room with girls I am not friend with in FKK who provide me normal service, you know I get spoil.

FKK girls beside some problems in their private lives are mostly actually good hearted girls. No need to fall for them, but to me they are some kind of friend who provide me intense sexual memories, in return I give them some reasonable amount of money to help her out, which is kinda help she need. They never ripped me off if they do I can always refuse to pay which never happened.

[Hessen Bub]

Get a second facebook account for your hobby only. Just for girls and guys you meet in clubs or other institutions.

HB.

[Faceless78]

Well said. You need a firewall between the two worlds and separate facebook pages to go with it; one for your real life friends and one to friend all your FKK girls. LOL.

You have the point here. Before I added some FKK girls on my FB, it was fun to see how their daily lives were like at first, then it became a concern for me since it's wired that some Eastern Europe girls appeared in my friends list and I'm not sure I should share some of my posts with them especially when they left comments on it.

At last, I had to delete them, and it took me a while to explain to both sides.

[Dufey]

Well said. You need a firewall between the two worlds and separate facebook pages to go with it; one for your real life friends and one to friend all your FKK girls. LOL.

Ok, so the view is coming out similar to the girls that we need to lead double lives with the mongering side and the normal sides of life. So the maintenance of the anonymity, use of nick names, false back stories and so forth is the same for both the men and the women. So guys really should not get upset when a girl claims a false back storey to them or be aware that the girls will know men will tell them false things too.

The legalisation of prostitution has not managed to deal with the stigma of doing this job as a local or as a foreigner or as a customer. You keep it secret and keep it safe.

As The Cane, for some people, without this forum there is no one that they could discuss their mongering issues with. You would be all alone with your thoughts with no other views.

Luckily guys make connections with other guys who do this hobby and become friends that you can talk this hobby with. Makes the double life easier.

The issue or problem is maintaining the balance and walls between the normal life and the mongering life.

[Trans Atlantic]

As a good friend of mine who has long since passed away once advised me, the best kept secret is one that is known only to one. You. Following that advice, I draw a sharp line of division between my mongering life and the rest of my life, and never shall the two be permitted to meet. At least not anytime soon. I don't think that prostitution should be criminalized or stigmatized, but it is, so it's best for most of us to keep our mongering hidden away from the view of those who know us in our "other" lives. This is true for both the women and the men who we know! Nothing good can come of talking about it openly with non-mongers. That's why I'm glad we have forums like these. I've learned a lot here, and I hope that over the years I've shared some good knowledge, advice, and experiences myself.

Well said. You need a firewall between the two worlds and separate facebook pages to go with it; one for your real life friends and one to friend all your FKK girls. LOL.

[Mr Ho]

As a good friend of mine who has long since passed away once advised me, the best kept secret is one that is known only to one. You. Following that advice, I draw a sharp line of division between my mongering life and the rest of my life, and never shall the two be permitted to meet. At least not anytime soon. I don't think that prostitution should be criminalized or stigmatized, but it is, so it's best for most of us to keep our mongering hidden away from the view of those who know us in our "other" lives. This is true for both the women and the men who we know! Nothing good can come of talking about it openly with non-mongers. That's why I'm glad we have forums like these. I've learned a lot here, and I hope that over the years I've shared some good knowledge, advice, and experiences myself.

I agree. Nothing good comes out being honest about mongering. But almost bad things can be expected by being honest about mongering.

Mongering is a secret hobby of mine, the only solution to fuck like 7 different girls on same day with different countries, religions, hair color, tits, tattoo, non tattoo, blonde, brunette, different age range etc. Where else beside FKK men can have this all the time when you want this?

FKK provide me sexual dream we all me have deep inside, some are willing to put that crazy dreams into action by going to FKK.

I am pro monger, I cannot get enough of beautiful girls pussies. I have lines of beautiful girls pussies that I conquered around the globe and I will continue to do so till the day I die, before I close my eyes in my death bed, there are few things I can be sure of, I travelled around the world since teenager, ate many different type of fantastic food and I fucked all different kind of beautiful girls.

For me that all it matter. If marriage going to stop all this, hell no! I ain't going down to hell like that. I got my destined meetings waiting for me at German FKK. the destined meeting that last while she is working at FKK, then one day, she is gone with the wind back to her nation and never see her again. Just crazy sex memories remain, how fateful is that. They are mostly from some remote town of eastern Europe that I would never go as tourist, but FKK united us in bed.

[The Cane]

This is an interesting thing to talk about. Sure it's kind of top secret, in most of cases, people won't accept it and treat you as before. So I keep my mouth shut, and when sometimes friends happen to come across this topic, I'll just keep silence or bring up another thing to talk about.

As a good friend of mine who has long since passed away once advised me, the best kept secret is one that is known only to one. You. Following that advice, I draw a sharp line of division between my mongering life and the rest of my life, and never shall the two be permitted to meet. At least not anytime soon. I don't think that prostitution should be criminalized or stigmatized, but it is, so it's best for most of us to keep our mongering hidden away from the view of those who know us in our "other" lives. This is true for both the women and the men who we know! Nothing good can come of talking about it openly with non-mongers. That's why I'm glad we have forums like these. I've learned a lot here, and I hope that over the years I've shared some good knowledge, advice, and experiences myself.

[Mr Ho]

This is an interesting thing to talk about. Sure it's kind of top secret, in most of cases, people won't accept it and treat you as before. So I keep my mouth shut, and when sometimes friends happen to come across this topic, I'll just keep silence or bring up another thing to talk about.

Yet while years go by, it's difficult to keep a secret. There are at least 3 ones who know I pay for sex, against or for my willing.

The first one is a close friend, who volunteered share his experiences, so later I told him mine as return, it's a bad idea actually but he didn't know my other friends; second one is my best friend in europe, I was all alone here so sometimes we have long long talks. Somehow I cannot resist the idea of telling him my secret, at last it took me several months to do it, even though he never did it but he's quite interested in, so as a result I brought him in. Now he's my wingman in clubs; last one is my father, which is surely not my own will. The story is stupid. One year I was back home visit family. I didn't really want to live with my parents, so I stayed in my uncle's hotel. One night, I got boring and somehow had the idea to find a woman. I know there are some"special services" in some big hotels, including the one I stayed. So I decided to go down to the "sauna" even thought I was aware it's a stupid stupid idea to fuck here. So things went on well first, until I went into the room, my phoned rang and it was my father. I let the girl keep quiet and picked up. He asked where I was, I said I was on the bed (it's midnight already), then after a long silence, he told me he was outside my room and knocked for 10 minutes. He asked me again where I was I had to say I was just wandering around in the building and would be back soon. Shortly, I went back to see him, since I was still in the hotel robe and slippers so he could know I'd stayed inside the building all the time. After 10 minutes of awkward conversation he left, but before he left he said he wished I didn't do anything stupid since it's easy for him to check on all the video cameras in the hotel. Then the next 2 weeks at home was a totally disaster for me, but it seemed my father kept the secret for me, if not, my mother would have definitely killed me already. And until today I can't figure why he came by that night at that time.

People thinks I am very serious relation type guy actually, and I keep it that way, my whoring activity is something only one friend of mine knows and as for the rest, it is top secret nobody need to know, but I love mongering till the day I die, it is best hobby there is.

[Faceless78]

It is top secret No one knows that I go to FKK or buy porn stars for sex. I rather got clean rep. I only have one friend who knows I go to FKK etc. For the rest, people think I am the clean guy who do not pay for sex. I mean whatever that means.

What is the difference between normal girls and pro girls. For both you have to pay, it is just that pro girls are cheaper and less problem to fuck them. For normal girls you end up investing more money, time and nerve, only good thing with normal girl is you can fuck them without condom and you can cum inside her pussy, which is great.

I do not see any problem buying prostitute and go crazy, but I am aware that society do, so it is top secret, no one knows about my secret sex life in land of the HO. I like to have chance to fuck with no condom and cum inside pussy now and then you know. If there is no bareback sex, cum in pussy with normal girls. Then I will only fuck prostitute, I got no interest in companionship with girls, I just want to have sex with beauties that is all I want with beautiful girls, can I tell this truth to girls or my friend who may tell the girls. Hell no, it will be end of no condom sex cum inside sex for me, so I keep it secret.

Seriously, as fucked up as I may sound, I think I am rational guy. I see guys marrying to some used up around the block girls and they invest their life for such women by marriage. What a bad investment of money, nerves and life. Oh it is called love? It must be most expensive thing on earth. If I do get married, I will have pre agreement to protect my money from honey Like James Bond says, never enter the room with no exit.

With FKK there is exit, you walk out from the door you walked in, it is called the entrance. LOL.

This is an interesting thing to talk about. Sure it's kind of top secret, in most of cases, people won't accept it and treat you as before. So I keep my mouth shut, and when sometimes friends happen to come across this topic, I'll just keep silence or bring up another thing to talk about.

Yet while years go by, it's difficult to keep a secret. There are at least 3 ones who know I pay for sex, against or for my willing.

The first one is a close friend, who volunteered share his experiences, so later I told him mine as return, it's a bad idea actually but he didn't know my other friends; second one is my best friend in europe, I was all alone here so sometimes we have long long talks. Somehow I cannot resist the idea of telling him my secret, at last it took me several months to do it, even though he never did it but he's quite interested in, so as a result I brought him in. Now he's my wingman in clubs; last one is my father, which is surely not my own will. The story is stupid. One year I was back home visit family. I didn't really want to live with my parents, so I stayed in my uncle's hotel. One night, I got boring and somehow had the idea to find a woman. I know there are some"special services" in some big hotels, including the one I stayed. So I decided to go down to the "sauna" even thought I was aware it's a stupid stupid idea to fuck here. So things went on well first, until I went into the room, my phoned rang and it was my father. I let the girl keep quiet and picked up. He asked where I was, I said I was on the bed (it's midnight already), then after a long silence, he told me he was outside my room and knocked for 10 minutes. He asked me again where I was I had to say I was just wandering around in the building and would be back soon. Shortly, I went back to see him, since I was still in the hotel robe and slippers so he could know I'd stayed inside the building all the time. After 10 minutes of awkward conversation he left, but before he left he said he wished I didn't do anything stupid since it's easy for him to check on all the video cameras in the hotel. Then the next 2 weeks at home was a totally disaster for me, but it seemed my father kept the secret for me, if not, my mother would have definitely killed me already. And until today I can't figure why he came by that night at that time.

[Mr Ho]

You have a point.

But is there no family, including your parents putting pressure on you to have children and a relationship?

No I have been living freely since young age and no parent pressure (I got good close relation with them, good childhood etc.).

It is so called society's norm vs my value I found in my global mongering.

I mean, I give deep thought about it, but each time I go to working girls, good working girls I feel so good, where as when I fuck normal girl. It is like job that I put so much investment is finally done kind of feeling because it takes so much energy, money, time, nerve etc to fuck normal good looking girl and when I finally do, then it just feels like difficult job is done finally kinda feeling. Where as good working girl you get it right at spot and you got varieties of beauties from all over the world.

I love mongering man LOL.

[Dufey]

I really wonder how many marriages the FKKs destroyed in Germany.

At the same time, I wonder how many marriages the FKKs saved in Germany as well.

As long as you got cash in Germany, you got so much easier access to different varieties of pussies than most of other country. FKK are that good.

Because of the FKKs, I do not see the point of relationship sex anymore.

You have a point.

But is there no family, including your parents putting pressure on you to have children and a relationship?

[Mr Ho]

However, I agree totally that it is not something that locals would discuss opening even though prostitution in Germany has been fully legalised since 2002 which has been some time for the social stigma to have changed.

I really wonder how many marriages the FKKs destroyed in Germany.

At the same time, I wonder how many marriages the FKKs saved in Germany as well.

As long as you got cash in Germany, you got so much easier access to different varieties of pussies than most of other country. FKK are that good.

Because of the FKKs, I do not see the point of relationship sex anymore.

[Mr Ho]

Do any of your friends that are girls know that you spend your spare time seeing prostitutes?

If the girls do know you fuck women for money, do these girls criticise you for your habit and maybe distance themselves from you or are they wanting to know that the professional girls do in the room which they do not do for any money?

I can see that some of my friends may know but they are too polite to say anything directly to me, or maybe the girls I know talk to each other about it which is probably more the case. I know my girls I know in normal life can think what they want.

I suspect that even some of my family know I go to see working girls but it is a taboo to ask me so the topic has never come up.

Now as to regarding what my male friends that see prostitutes. I know that some of my girl friends knows another of male friends sees prostitutes. It is known he goes to strip clubs and then frustratingly afterwards he would go to a brothel to see a girl and spend hundreds on the evening including a hotel (as he does not want to do in call at his apartment in downtown City centre). The girls say to me that they are disgusted by him, but tolerate him for the sake that he is my friend I think, but they did ask and say they were creeped out by his activities. The girls asked me why I associate with a man that sees prostitutes. So by implication I think these girls must not think that I am seeing prostitutes.

It is top secret No one knows that I go to FKK or buy porn stars for sex. I rather got clean rep. I only have one friend who knows I go to FKK etc. For the rest, people think I am the clean guy who do not pay for sex. I mean whatever that means.

What is the difference between normal girls and pro girls. For both you have to pay, it is just that pro girls are cheaper and less problem to fuck them. For normal girls you end up investing more money, time and nerve, only good thing with normal girl is you can fuck them without condom and you can cum inside her pussy, which is great.

I do not see any problem buying prostitute and go crazy, but I am aware that society do, so it is top secret, no one knows about my secret sex life in land of the HO. I like to have chance to fuck with no condom and cum inside pussy now and then you know. If there is no bareback sex, cum in pussy with normal girls. Then I will only fuck prostitute, I got no interest in companionship with girls, I just want to have sex with beauties that is all I want with beautiful girls, can I tell this truth to girls or my friend who may tell the girls. Hell no, it will be end of no condom sex cum inside sex for me, so I keep it secret.

Seriously, as fucked up as I may sound, I think I am rational guy. I see guys marrying to some used up around the block girls and they invest their life for such women by marriage. What a bad investment of money, nerves and life. Oh it is called love? It must be most expensive thing on earth. If I do get married, I will have pre agreement to protect my money from honey Like James Bond says, never enter the room with no exit.

With FKK there is exit, you walk out from the door you walked in, it is called the entrance. LOL.

[Sebastiane]

Came across this article by an escort and thought it was interesting reading so am posting the link here: http://exoticescortdiary.com/2011/06...s-perspective/.

She gives her perspective on the types of clients. I think it is USA-specific but still interesting as I'd imagine all working girls must think similar thoughts.

[Dufey]

Even visiting a strip club can give you a bad reputation here with the American girls, the one exception being if you happen to have gone that one time two years ago as part of that bachelor party with the guys.

I've asked professional Germans about this as well, and they've confirmed to me that they generally keep this sort of stuff hidden from their non-FKK mates, that it's not appropriate to just bring up in a random discussion.

Regarding strip clubs, the girls that I know have a bit more tolerance for that since they understand boys are boys and like to see naked girls. They understand that aspect of men thank fully in my circle of friends. Maybe because all the girls are professional workers (a couple for example are lawyers), that they can see the other side of it for men. It is not like you got your cock out since you cannot even touch the girls in a strip club. So I think if I discussed strip clubs with my friends that are girls they will discuss but would find it weird. Well, I know sometimes when the boys go out they tease us on which strip club that we are going to and even name the clubs that they suspect we are going to in the city centre near the main train station.

Regarding German professional colleagues, there are a couple that I know personally that go to the FKK clubs with their boss. It is funny since one guys says "Hey Chef (German for boss)" to his boss all the time. I know even the girls know that some men work together in the same bank in Frankfurt and go to the clubs together.

However, I agree totally that it is not something that locals would discuss opening even though prostitution in Germany has been fully legalised since 2002 which has been some time for the social stigma to have changed.