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[Member #4387]

After a mongerspree of 9 days in Makati it was time to cool off with my designated cathay pacific cabin crew girl. She arrived in Naia last Thursday, we spend one day at Ascott rabbitwice and we sorted out where to go from there. I haven't done much of intelligence on this bird but I knew she is mixed (us / phil the caucasian way). I knew her late dad was a captain for United and so on. I know she is borned in US and I know she tried to become a pilot but didn't succeed due to some eye issues.

She is gorgeous, tall and pale skinned (just the way I like them). We have been meeting on and off wuite a few times. Sometimes in London, sometimes in Paris, HKG, LAX and ofcourse in phils. She has as far as I know been in relationship and cheated like I do. So in all a balanced "relationship".

When we met this time she was acting quite weird so I asked her what was wrong. She showed me some msg activity me and her processed earlier and her husband had found out. He hated me and had now broke up with this girl. "Wow, that's sticky" me thinks and I am afraid she is now will try delude my ass into a relationship. She tells me her mother has moved back to Cebu (from US) and she has to go visit her. We debate this while fucking and since she is a sexy spinner I can not help myself to say the strange words "ok I can come with you to Cebu, visit your mother and everything".

Next day we on our way and her brother picks us up at the airport. My girl tells me she have told them I am the new boyfriend and even if I don't feel comfortable with this I just play along. She knows I am in a committed relationship but she told me she just had to say something orelse it would be out of question to bring a new guy into their Cebu home.

Nice big apartment in the hillside of Cebu. Great view but still sticky. We spend one night at their house with additional party with loads of drinking and I found the brother very nice. He'd joined his mother from US to Cebu but was planning to go back Frisco this x mas as he had GF and baby over there. To my "GF" I told this is beeing to sticky lets go resort some. She followed my lead and thought that was a good idea. What surpised me was that the mother insisted on paying to treat us a nice time together in our lying relationship. We docked the next day at Mövenpick Mactan resort and it was quite a nice place. My "GF" borrowed one of the households cars and drove me around Cebu while giving me some heads up here and there. Everything nice in Cebu I found to be, according to her, either japaneese build or korean companies. The new SM mall opening 2017 looked smashing and I learned that the great fighter over here had bought 10 dekars of land close to this comming mall. We drove through Cebus only tunell (japaneese made) without me beeing very impressed (I am from Norway so tunells we know how to build). We drove like 3 hours one way to some "spectacular" waterfalls and back. I drank beer she was driving. The waterfalls, HM, again I am from Norway so if I say this fall was around 30-40 mts I told here in my country we do have some waterfalls of like 600 to 655 mts. But the place was beautiful with loads of screaming koreans out under the waterfalls while they had the normal picture bonanza.

The mentioned resort was all nice but crappy food. I don't know how they manage to destroy the easiest dishes here in phils but I would not give that resort a top star due to this. Others than that it was nice relaxing and you didn't need any money around the resort as you could just charge your room. Ibiza bar, nightclub, restaurant atthe resort very nice and additional entertainment. Found out they ran the same show every three nights but its ok. Some sexy dancers I must say.

And here comes the strange thing and I believe this is due to a combo of beeing drained from 9 days of heavy mongering to fall into something that could be a relationship lookalike. Even so I could not perform. She tried and tried to get to sex me. Many times each day (even in thecar on our way to the falls, it was a big Landcruiser so no problem there, spacewice). So then the famous words comes out from her lips "now you have to fuck me", "I am dying here and I am dead horny". Wow I wish I could perform but my willy just would not cooperate. I damned him and cursed him multiple times and told him this is unfair. Here we stand in a sideroad in the middle of the bushes and I can not fuck my cabingirl. It went after a while over to become a mental issue so the rest of the trip I just played her pussy with hands, fingers and tools. Atleast its something and even if she was not to happy it was ok.

I managed to fuck her yesterday while returning back at Ascott after 3 days resorting on her mothers bill. Now she has flown away and I am in BKK for some additional pussy on my way back home to my GF. Maybe the hole GF thing got my willy scared. It was atleast of some mental state. Never experienced this before and hope I never will again.

My soulution will be to still meet the girl but as we allways have and not this relationship lookalike kind of a deal. That obviously freightens the shit out of me and is very different from my normal 1 to 2 hrs sessions I normaly do girls under. Holy mother of God. This was a strange experience. Never again.

[Wicked Roger]

Thanks for the feedback RK. This girl didn't give me any signs. So you right the risk is too high. Maybe if I tried to establish a conversation first and invited to meet her again then it would be ok to hand over my contact details. But I got away with it and on top of that it turned out to be a huge success. But I doubt I will be as reckless again.

Lucky boy MA as a friend did the same and received a text message from her along he following lines:

"I am army and know you, if you go near her again I will put my gun up a** and shoot as I am army".

Turns out he was the jealous ex boyfriend who (and this is only pinay logic) she kept seeing and he looked at her phone!

So he was also lucky that they never met at that time. Well they did I the end only after he was sure no problems and he went around the houses to make sure no gun was shoved in a painful place LOL.

[Ms Account]

You identified in one hit the big risks involved in handing out contact numbers to random contacts. It is a big risk if the girl doesn't give you some sign that she is interested in you by some signal (such as the smile or the continuing looks or other signs).

Thanks for the feedback RK. This girl didn't give me any signs. So you right the risk is too high. Maybe if I tried to establish a conversation first and invited to meet her again then it would be ok to hand over my contact details. But I got away with it and on top of that it turned out to be a huge success. But I doubt I will be as reckless again.

[Red Kilt]

I wrote my name and number on a Starbucks napkin and as she was leaving, walked up and gave it to her.

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And you never know where your number will end up if the girl takes offence. Any views on the risks vs benefits of handing out contacts numbers to random meets in malls?

You identified in one hit the big risks involved in handing out contact numbers to random contacts. It is a big risk if the girl doesn't give you some sign that she is interested in you by some signal (such as the smile or the continuing looks or other signs).

I don't ever hand out my numbers and especially since one of my expat mates reported how he handed out his number to an SM sales girl in MOA last year and got a nasty text from her boyfriend telling him to grow up and stick to women of his own age group. The BF and girl could have arranged to meet him by text and done a lot more damage so he "escaped" lightly.

You really don't know where your number might end up if you hand it out unsolicited. I suspect we only ever hear of the success stories like yours in these threads and never hear about the incidents that generate problems that you might wish to avoid, especially if you are here for work and have a reputation that cannot afford to be tarnished.

[Stykler]

Go there for vacation, can be a couple of month. Enjoy the time then. But at the end have an escape plan back home.

This is very, very good advice.

[Ms Account]

Was in Cebu a few weeks ago. Had the opportunity to attend David's free Cebu ISG lunch. Small group but totally enjoyable afternoon. Thanks very much David.

Not a very eventful trip other than seeing regulars. Tried the Mango bar scene three nights in a row (after seeing regulars early evening) and still disillusioned. However I have to admit I am warming to Planet X. I have previously written in a FR about the Korean bias at Planet X. This trip over two nights I have to admit sitting with two different girls that were pushing me to bar fine them and they were actually passable looks wise. I didn't go ahead but certainly will consider Planet X as a regular stop every trip now.

The star of the trip was something I have never done before. Was sitting outside at Starbucks Ayala and a well dressed slim cute but short girl sits at another table. I wrote my name and number on a Starbucks napkin and as she was leaving, walked up and gave it to her. The attached photo is the result. Had a foreign BF before who lavished her with expensive clothes and underwear. Also had worked in massage shop before. So maybe not totally the innocent girl wandering the mall but she definitely was not one of the core P4 P girls doing Ayala laps or hanging out at the base of the escalators near Starbucks. But great passionate girl. Definitely an ongoing regular. I have read FR's before of guys handing out business cards (I remember one where the guy also handed the sales girls old phones to use to ring him). Not sure of the risks of this approach. This girl could have easily been under 18 (she turned out to be 20) given she was short and young looking. And you never know where your number will end up if the girl takes offence. Any views on the risks vs benefits of handing out contacts numbers to random meets in malls?

I have now decided to in effect take 1 year off next year (but doing speculative business idea work on the road). Plan to spend maybe 50% of the time in Philippines. Have not totally decided on the merits of Manila vs Cebu vs AC as long stay options. I have many more contacts in Cebu built over 2 years of regular visits but the P4 P scene in Cebu sucks. Also I calculated that the cost / benefit cutover point for renting long term vs hotels / apartments per night was 14 days and it is unlikely I will spend more than 14 days straight in any one city. AirBNB have some apartments near Ayala and It Park for around 2000 pesos per night. There was one in One Oasis (which looks to have a very good pool for lap swimming) for around 2000. So I will explore these options more in future trips.

[EatALotOpus]

I posted this in the General Philippines section. Would appreciate any thoughts from the Cebu experts here. Thanks in advance.

Was fortunate enough to make a first trip to Makati and AC a few months ago. Only spent about a day and a half in Makati, but it is obviously a good area. Only had time for a Burgos bar girl and a Havana Cafe freelancer, both were not that special but I can see how those with time and some fieldwork...

Have you tried Cebuanas? I had good luck there many moons ago. Word of caution: Lot of scammers there. Free to join, but you have to pay to communicate with the girl. Good luck.

[Amadeuss]

Guys I really love the Philippines and am convinced more than ever this is the place I want to retire to in 2022. South Cebu, Dumaguete area or possibly Subic now that I have made some friends there. The Filipinas and particularly Cebuanas are the sweetest girls I have met in all my travels. They make excellent wives or girlfriends if you can put up with their mooching relatives. Safe travels, amigos.

You scratched the surface only. Don't be mislead by a few weeks holidays there.

No 1 Problem once you there: Once you have a GF, you will be under 24 hours surveillance. No chance to bang any other girls without creating drama. As tourist you can change hotels or leave after a while. As resident you are stuck!

No 2 Problem: Life by western standards is not cheap. You want a nice appartement, not a shithole. You pay 1000 USD-month at least. You want a car, you like western food, not only vegetables and rice. All pricey.

No 3 Problem: Once you serious sick your only option is to get on a plane fly to Singapore or back home. Medical treatment and equipment is on a level 20 to 30 years back. And prices are hilarious which you as foreigner has to pay. Insurance. Over 70. No chance.

No 4 Problem: you are as foreigner an intruder. Whoever want to give you problems, will win over you. Even guys low under the radar do fall in a trap one day.

Go there for vacation, can be a couple of month. Enjoy the time then. But at the end have an escape plan back home.

[Sxxxx]

...Guys I really love the Philippines and am convinced more than ever this is the place I want to retire to in 2022...

Your a braver man than me. Just returned, and realised no retirement material for me. Excessive heat, humidity, and noise, don't make for any good retirement. Especially when in your 70's and beyond. Cheap pussy but Phil health care costs a fortune for foreigners. They pull out the USA rates, and charge accordingly. Retired friends of mine are testimony to that. Those that survived the health care available that is, LOL.

You will find living there and flying in, flying out (FIFO) quite different. Enjoy the present, the future will take care of itself, LOL.

One good thing about the new location of taxi queues ex Cebu airport is, young hansum guys like me, get mistaken for a Senior, and are directed, if not told, by Security to jump the queue and hop in the first taxi. I don't like queue jumpers and asked "why, why" a number of times, but then decided, this is the Philippines, queue jumping capital of the world, so I jumped in. Actually, purposely struggled to get in the car, just to prove to everyone else, I am a Senior, LOL.

Once upon a time in Davao noticed signs on taxi dashboards "Seniors Discount" think it was 15%. So promptly asked driver for the discount, he smiled and said "No discount for you, you too young". He got it so right, I gave him a tip. The Cebu Security guy who presumed I was a Senior, got nothing but grumpiness from me.

Got my cheap retirement place worked out, and it isn't the Philippines, but a neighboring country, yes. I can always FIFO the Philippines when I get an age old itch.

[D Cups]

Hi Guys, I spent a week in Cebu earlier this month and had various successes with DIA girls in Mactan, Cebu City and took my regular Cebuana girlfriend to Ocean Bay Resort in Dalaguete (South Cebu). I also went to Silver Dollar twice and had a great time there being swarmed by six or seven delightful bargirls who pester you for lady drinks but will settle for 100 P each to keep you company while taking turns fondling the schwantztooka. Time Out bar put on the Packer game for my wingman and I at 4 am which I am thankful for. Met a new DIA girl, a hotel student, who I had skyped with quite a bit before arrival in Cebu and she turned out to be a real treat and very busty 34 cee cup so I will definitely see her again and take her to a resort when I return next March. Guys I really love the Philippines and am convinced more than ever this is the place I want to retire to in 2022. South Cebu, Dumaguete area or possibly Subic now that I have made some friends there. The Filipinas and particularly Cebuanas are the sweetest girls I have met in all my travels. They make excellent wives or girlfriends if you can put up with their mooching relatives. Safe travels, amigos.

[ImFromAlberta]

She is in Cebu and sells wine for a living, has a son about 6 and her name is Jennifer.

Here is a pic, don't fuck her without protection!


PP.

This description is to accurate to be a coincidence and that's her in your photo. She also has a little heart tattoo on her shoulder.

She hasn't worked in several months but still tells everyone she is working at a wine store. Even telling that lie to her mum.

I spent several weeks in September with her going to a few different islands and stayed with me in Cebu. I admit I spent a lot of money on her and spoiled her. She's fun to hang out with and I liked her.

I played it safe with her the first few times but went uncovered after she started traveling around with me. I don't have any obvious symptoms but will get tested. I haven't played with any one else since and won't until I know the results and any thing I may have got has cleared up.

I'm still in contact with her. She tries to get me to send her money sometimes. I am glad that daydreaming of bringing her home was only a passing fantasy LOL I had a hunch of what she was up to.

I will let her know to go get tested but I know her well enough to suspect that she won't do anything about it.

I met her on Tinder and she also has a DIA profile but can sometimes be found hanging around TGI Friday's with her friends suckering guys into buying her drinks.

[Pcpc1688]

Depending in where you are that is too high also IMHO but if hey see you coming they will take advantage.

As don't bother with J or the bars as there is plenty hot girls outside those places prices can vary a lot as can service and some friends say while she looks super hot she really is a starfish.

But I know one or two who look as good as shag etc so YMMV.

WR,

I agree with that for sure. Any girls you have UTR or available that's worth a flip as I will be back in Cebu in 2 weeks. PM me would be great. TIA.

PC out.

[Questor55]

I've been to several resorts in Northern Cebu on various trips, including a few times at both Bantayan and Malapascua. Not been impressed with Bantayan, but it is popular with ex-pats, particularly Santa Fe. Big, flat island with a scrub interior, so-so beaches and poor snorkeling. Okay bars, but that's all. Tried San Remigio, but no coral reefs and an extensive mud flat at low tide. Prefer Malapascua for Bounty Beach, okay snorkeling, (most places in Philippines are less than great.) Hire a banca to circle the island and it will take you to several of the better sites over the course of three to four hours. For places to stay, I recommend Little Mermaid Resort, just 50 yards from the beach, as that will be in the range of 2500-3000 P. Ocean Vida, also on Bounty Beach, is probably the best resort, but style is rather motelish. Their prices will be higher. However, the restaurant at OV gives a lovely beach view and serves good food at reasonable prices. I'd stay at Little Mermaid, formerly named Sunsplash Resort. If the floating bar is back in operation, that's a must do at sunset. I've taken the bus, V-hires and taxis at Various times. I was able to negotiate a taxi ride for 2200 pesos a couple of times from Cebu City to Maya, however, the wait for the ferry banca may discount that option. The bancas to Malapascua work like V=hire vans, leaving only when they reach a certain capacity, or when your impatience results in your decision to pay the extra to get them to leave!

[Wicked Roger]

I've already posted this in the General thread, but it was quickly buried by other posts and no one replied. Sorry for the double posting.

I'd appreciate any and all info about good beaches, hotels and snorkeling in north Cebu, especially the pros and cons of the islands Malapasqua and Bantayan.

. X Man.

Did not see it XMan.

Will PM email you something that gives you an idea of Malapascua which is my preferred place but o semester break lots of college girls do go to Bantanyan LOL.

[X Man]

I've already posted this in the General thread, but it was quickly buried by other posts and no one replied. Sorry for the double posting.

I'd appreciate any and all info about good beaches, hotels and snorkeling in north Cebu, especially the pros and cons of the islands Malapasqua and Bantayan.

I will have a companion and we both like snorkeling. So p4 p and scuba diving info not necessary. But feel free to share if you think it will help others.

I've found dive resorts to be full of friendly, helpful people and they know good snorkeling spots, so I won't hesitate to stay at such a place.

I'd prefer not to pay over php 3,000 per night on accommodation.

I know it's a long bus ride from north terminal to up north, which is why I've always headed in different directions. X Man.