St. Maarten (The southern Dutch side)

[Mel365]

Wow,

That is some review of the Island.

I have found the talent in St Maarten to be good to exceptional. I always hook up with some beautiful hot Colombianas. I don't know where you were shopping.

The place up the hill you were referring to is called Casa Blanca- I never came across a Colombiana there. Casa Blanca is not one of my favorite places.

Mel.

I went to SXM a little over a year ago. Very underwhelming mongering scene but it's there in addition to all else the island has to offer. There is a club up a hill right there in Oyster Bay, practically around the corner from the OB beach resort. I found the selection there to be nice, the usual Colombianas and Dominicanas but also black girls from Jamaica and Trinidad with slamming' bodies. The Platinum Room I thought seemed like a ripoff and they didn't have many Eastern European girls as advertised. All the little ones like Carolina's and Captain whatever's and Crystal something or other were dog shit. Bunch of old broads who were 5000 fucks into a 2000-fuck pussy. All Latina girls that you could find literally anywhere in the Americas or Caribbean and probably for free.

[AveMariaPues]

I went to SXM a little over a year ago. Very underwhelming mongering scene but it's there in addition to all else the island has to offer. There is a club up a hill right there in Oyster Bay, practically around the corner from the OB beach resort. I found the selection there to be nice, the usual Colombianas and Dominicanas but also black girls from Jamaica and Trinidad with slamming' bodies. The Platinum Room I thought seemed like a ripoff and they didn't have many Eastern European girls as advertised. All the little ones like Carolina's and Captain whatever's and Crystal something or other were dog shit. Bunch of old broads who were 5000 fucks into a 2000-fuck pussy. All Latina girls that you could find literally anywhere in the Americas or Caribbean and probably for free.

[Barkey]

Hello gents,

In a few weeks, I will be one of those assholes getting off a cruise ship in SXM, hoping to score in the few hours I have before the whistle blows around 5 pm. What's my best strategy?

I assume you are referring to my comments which were directed at a specific individual who left a girl bruised, pinned her arms to the bed when she tried to push him off and put his forearm over her mouth when she tried to call for help. I trust you are not like that and didn't mean to offend anyone other than that individual. Have a good time. Follow Mel's advise and you will.

Barkey.

[Mel365]

Take a cab directly to Carolinas they open around 11-12. If not good go to El Capitan or Hypnotique. Both around the corner.

Mel.

Hello gents,

In a few weeks, I will be one of those assholes getting off a cruise ship in SXM, hoping to score in the few hours I have before the whistle blows around 5 pm. What's my best strategy?

[Equus]

Lucky you!

I think every "working" chica in SXM that I've spent more than 15 min in a bar talking with, asked if I was married. But not once did any of them proposed marriage, even jokingly.

Well I did know this girl for a while. I met her the first time she worked on the island a couple of years ago. She was working at Seamans and we hit it off. I was there for a week and any time I went into Seamans she would come over and talk and wouldn't leave even if I wasn't taking her back for some fun. I usually went back with her at least once a night for a session, once she even asked me to do a 3 some with her friend which I did and had a great time. They tried to talk me into another one later in the week but instead I told them I would do them 1 at a time. The bartender flipped a coin to see who I took back first.

I kept in touch with her after and this time when I went down she had just got back on the island, maybe a week or two before I arrived. She had sent me a BBM when she was leaving Colombia to head out and asked if I was going down. Turned out I already had my ticket booked before I knew she was going. She had told me she would be working at Caroline's this time so I dropped in to see her. When I got there it was packed and I had to squeeze my way to the bar and didn't see her when I walked in. When I was at the corner of the bar I saw her on the other side with a guy and when she saw me she just dumped the guy and came over and never left me the rest of the night. Sorry if it was one of you who she left. This would have been last March.

I have had others ask if I was married but she was the only one who suggested I should marry her.

[Junior Jr]

Hello gents,

In a few weeks, I will be one of those assholes getting off a cruise ship in SXM, hoping to score in the few hours I have before the whistle blows around 5 pm. What's my best strategy?

[Dr CoolHand]

On December 3rd Colombia is expected to sign a visa-free agreement with "Schengen bloc. " I'm curios how it will affect their ability for visa-free ravel to SXM, CUR and AUA, which on paper are independent countries within the Netherlands.

Also, if USA is going to continue so stubbornly deny visas, Colombians will travel to Europe instead. Many chicas I talked to would rather visit Paris, Rome and Barcelona than New York or Miami.

Already since July 1st, 2015, Colombians don't need a visa anymore to travel to SXM and CUR. Colombians are allowed to stay for a maximum of 90 days per year. This can be consecutive or accumulated during several trips (a. K. a. Multiple entry). However. Once they arrive in SXM or CUR, they still need to proof that they have sufficient means to support themselves during their stay, as well as a proof where they will stay (can be a hotel reservation or a private address) in praxis, the stay is granted for 30 days and has to be extend thereafter. The ninety days are not given right away. Well understood. This is a stay as a tourist only. Any kind of work would be illegal. (I'm just stating the law. How it turns out at the end might be different. Like I mentioned in an earlier post. Nothing in SXM is written in stone.).

[Lucky Strike]

and out of the blue she asked if I was married. When I told her I was single she suggested I should marry her.

Lucky you!

I think every "working" chica in SXM that I've spent more than 15 min in a bar talking with, asked if I was married. But not once did any of them proposed marriage, even jokingly.

[Lucky Strike]

A visa to the USA is 99.5 % impossible to a woman without a profession, an apartment, and money in the bank.
Even then it is difficult.

On December 3rd Colombia is expected to sign a visa-free agreement with "Schengen bloc. " I'm curios how it will affect their ability for visa-free ravel to SXM, CUR and AUA, which on paper are independent countries within the Netherlands.

Also, if USA is going to continue so stubbornly deny visas, Colombians will travel to Europe instead. Many chicas I talked to would rather visit Paris, Rome and Barcelona than New York or Miami.

[Mel365]

A comment to your question.

If you understood the life of a woman in Colombia you would know that the chica was not kidding when she asked you to marry her.

It is almost the only way to get out of the hell that many women live in with a smile on there face.

A visa to the USA is 99.5 % impossible to a woman without a profession, an apartment, and money in the bank.

Even then it is difficult.

What I admire about Colombianas is that they do not covet what other people have. They only wish to be able to exist and feed their children. What is truly amazing is that if something bad happens in their life they don't say woe is me. They just say it is Gods will and move on.

They are sweet loving beings and very easy to fall in love with. I truly respect them for their fortitude.

Mel.

[Equus]

I tend to agree with Mel that the girls are there as a job. I did have one girl who I had seen many times over a couple of years and the last time I saw her last March we were in the bar having a couple of drinks and out of the blue she asked if I was married. My Spanish isn't great but is I'm getting better so I can communicate a little and this part I understood. When I told her I was single she suggested I should marry her. I'm not 100% sure she was joking.

I will be heading down again on Dec. 13 for a week but I know she isn't there as she left the island on Nov. 10th, or at least that week. I was chatting with her before she left to find out if she would be there in December and I was also chatting with her last night and she confirmed she is back in Colombia.

[Tilleul1]

Hi everyone,

I will be 5-12 Dec. In the island. I have read many pages here very useful.

Is there someone on the island at this period? Share some drinks and stories.

P.S. ; to Wakaneo, it seems I cannot sent you a PM.

[FootnballCoach]

I have had girls ask these questions in casual conversation at the bar over drinks and for some its a vetting process to BBBJ. Because I say yes to married and act on the green horn side many have done BBBJ. Not to the point of letting them think I'm a sucker but just safe.

[Mel365]

The chicas that are in the clubs are looking for money, some even get lucky and hook a husband.

I remember a very old Playboy cartoon with a Femlin on a fellows lap. He he was answering A fellow next to him and said" I don't know, I just opened my wallet and there she was".

Bottom line, The chicas are not there for entertainment, except for one that I met years ago. They really do not care what your marital state is, They Just want your money. Some are looking for University or trade education monies others for an apartment or to support their families.

Mel.

[Barkey]

Interesting questions SXMmonger.

If you include the locals, I would say that the majority of the guys in the bars are married. From what I've been told most of the locals are married but don't go back to the room since: 1. Many of them are married and on a small island where news travels fast and 2. The locals do not generally have the resources to pay, most of them are just in the bars to drink, look and touch and have as much low cost fun as they can. As far as the "tourists" go I could only venture a non-educated guess of maybe 50/50?

Do the chicas care? I would think probably not, at least in most cases. If you are just taking them back to the room for a half hour session they are there to provide their services and make some money and then on to the next guy. My experience, as limited as it is, I don't recall having the question come up in the short sessions. Mostly just casual, pleasant, general, casual conversation then getting down to business and lots of fun.

The question likely will arise more often on TLD / TLD outings since there is more time for general conversation. Just part of getting to know each other better, which makes the outing more enjoyable, the subject of jobs, family and all kinds of other interesting topics just naturally come up. Marital status being one of them. If you do speak Spanish you can get involved in some interesting discussions with the chica as to why you or her are not married or, if you are, why you are here. While there may be some that want to know just to find out what the chances are of seeing you again and possibly to help out with the many "emergencies" she may have I doubt there are few that really care if one is married or not other than just general curiosity.

I am somewhat familiar with the Latin American culture and for many men it is common to go out to a club and hang out with his buddies and some girls. While the men don't go home and brag to the wife how the evening went, she likely knows what he has been up to. It is much more tolerated than it is here in the USA Even having an occasional or even regular girlfriend or mistress is tolerated to some degree. As long as the guy goes home to the wife and kids and keeps the paycheck there too. For most of these girls this didn't happen and that's why they are doing what they are doing. Lots of sad stories. To me it seems a bit crazy to let one of these beauties go but if you are a guy in Bogota, Medellin, etc. I guess there are so many more temptations out there it's hard to settle for just one.

For the married guys out there I guess you can always somehow find a way to escape for a bit. I just hope you all have a difficult time getting home, horrible flights, and just lots of problems so that damn silly grin is off your face when you get back.