Manila

[Ikksman]

These women seriously don't want to get a tan! They all want to be as white as possible.

Wonder if this Chinese fashion will spread to PI?

Ikksman.

[CallSign Papa]

Hi,

I'm worried a lot because I'm afraid she will be very shy on the bed and she will be not a passionate girl. In your opinion is there a connection with bikini on the beach and to be hot in the bed?

Thanks.

Are you just here because you're lonely and want to chat? The last time you were here it was another conundrum regarding meeting a girls parents. Big on questions, short on actually delivering anything back that could be considered worthwhile or useful.

[Goferring]

I do not think there is necessarily a connection between a girl's reluctance to wear a bikini and being hot in bed. I have known a number of girls who did not want to wear a bikini for a variety of reasons, but they were plenty good in bed. The girl may just be shy in front of others, or she may have Cesarean scar or something else she is self-conscious about. It might even be her religious upbringing. The solution is simple; buy her a one piece.

If she's from the province 1/ she will regard getting a tan as becoming less attractive and 2/ the skimpiest outfit she has ever worn out in public is likely to have been a T-shirt and shorts. Add in peer pressure at the chance of being seen "half naked" and it's understandable that she is reluctant to wear a two piece.

But that said, I totally agree with Pompetus, "never make long term plans with a girl until you have tried her on for size. " I hope everything goes well with you and your regular girl from Davao, but keep in mind that after a few days you may get tired of her or change your mind about wanting to take her to Samal. Things change.

I totally agree. See my previous posts on extended touring with a girl in tow. I'm reluctant to say don't do it but be mindful that the girl you know for a couple of days will change if you take her away from familiar territory.

[Hutsori]

Hi,

I'm talking for much time with a regular girl from Davao. She is catholic. We will be in my apartment for much time and we will reach also Samal island and she is happy. But she has just told me she will not wear bikini (two piece) on the beach. I was stunned. I'm worried a lot because I'm afraid she will be very shy on the bed and she will be not a passionate girl. In your opinion is there a connection with bikini on the beach and to be hot in the bed?

Thanks.

It's because a bikini doesn't conceal her enormous lady penis. Yes, definitely that.

A lot of Filipinos have the idea that wearing bikini means the girl is a sl*t. I know several girls who have posted their beach holiday photos on wastebook, their provincial friends see them, tell their mothers, and the gossip goes into overdrive. Soon the girl is being scolded by her mother who was humiliated by the community.

Other reasons to avoid wearing a bikini are stretch marks or other body flaws (real or perceived) and the compulsive need to keep one's skin as fair as possible.

There may be a correlation, but correlation does not mean causation. I've met girls who were initially timid in the sack, but after a few shags they started loosening up and put aside their hang ups; other girls were firecrackers on the first meeting. Gump's box of chocolates. The worst thing do to is make the girl feel she's being judged and knock her confidence. If after a few shags you find you're incompatible then go find someone else.

[D Cups]

Sometimes they are shy and also they don't want to tan. I don't think you can infer anything from not wanting to wear a bikini.

Hi,

I'm talking for much time with a regular girl from Davao. She is catholic. We will be in my apartment for much time and we will reach also Samal island and she is happy. But she has just told me she will not wear bikini (two piece) on the beach. I was stunned. I'm worried a lot because I'm afraid she will be very shy on the bed and she will be not a passionate girl. In your opinion is there a connection with bikini on the beach and to be hot in the bed?

Thanks.

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[Member #4698]

I'm talking for much time with a regular girl from Davao. She is catholic. We will be in my apartment for much time and we will reach also Samal island and she is happy. But she has just told me she will not wear bikini (two piece) on the beach. I was stunned. I'm worried a lot because I'm afraid she will be very shy on the bed and she will be not a passionate girl. In your opinion is there a connection with bikini on the beach and to be hot in the bed?

I do not think there is necessarily a connection between a girl's reluctance to wear a bikini and being hot in bed. I have known a number of girls who did not want to wear a bikini for a variety of reasons, but they were plenty good in bed. The girl may just be shy in front of others, or she may have Cesarean scar or something else she is self-conscious about. It might even be her religious upbringing. The solution is simple; buy her a one piece.

But that said, I totally agree with Pompetus, "never make long term plans with a girl until you have tried her on for size. " I hope everything goes well with you and your regular girl from Davao, but keep in mind that after a few days you may get tired of her or change your mind about wanting to take her to Samal. Things change.

[Member #4566]

Hi,

I'm talking for much time with a regular girl from Davao. She is catholic. We will be in my apartment for much time and we will reach also Samal island and she is happy. But she has just told me she will not wear bikini (two piece) on the beach. I was stunned. I'm worried a lot because I'm afraid she will be very shy on the bed and she will be not a passionate girl. In your opinion is there a connection with bikini on the beach and to be hot in the bed?

Thanks.

Never make long term plans with a girl until you have tried her on for size. Chris Rock claims that you know after the first kiss. I need just a little longer than that but never ever before the first Hello, fuck. As far as the bikini is concerned, I have met many Filipinas who don't like them. Remember these women prize white flesh and will carry umbrellas to stay out of the sun. I would soft pedal the sun and fun part of your plans. Buy her a wide brimmed hat. And remember there are plenty of available girls in the PI.

[CallSign Papa]

You would never recomend a closed down place, like 71, as a nice place to hang out in.

I heard it was open again after the refurb, is that not the case?

[Member #4558]

As a middle-aged fella, I still can't differentiate the sounds of drilling, sanding, and sawing from electronic dance music. Can't wheels of steel be turntables and disc grinders too? And who wouldn't enjoy dining, drinking, and dancing amongst the debris at Club Rubble? Drop a beat and dust my tapas with plaster.

Hehe. Yes, I know you know your way around and your info is trustable and up to date (ex when you pull someones legs). You would never recommend a closed down place, like 71, as a nice place to hang out in. I do have a small construction worker fetish so if they fill the place with female ones I am in.

[BaboyDave]

Since you give out advices in east and west I just want to get the latest details from Gramercy71. Did you enjoy yourself there lately? Hint; bars / clubs comes and goes rather frequent. Stay alert when give out recommendations.

What can I say VP, not everyone's style of explaining will be to your liking.

In anycase regarding G71, I'm happy to stand corrected, and if the place has changed since my last visit to the venue earlier in 2016, it is great to have someone as up to date as yourself to advise otherwise.

Enjoy,

Dave.

[Hutsori]

Since you give out advices in east and west I just want to get the latest details from Gramercy71. Did you enjoy yourself there lately? Hint; bars / clubs comes and goes rather frequent. Stay alert when give out recommendations.

As a middle-aged fella, I still can't differentiate the sounds of drilling, sanding, and sawing from electronic dance music. Can't wheels of steel be turntables and disc grinders too? And who wouldn't enjoy dining, drinking, and dancing amongst the debris at Club Rubble? Drop a beat and dust my tapas with plaster.

[Member #4558]

Not sure what you refer to as the "bigger clubs", 71 gramercy is nice and has a cozy feel to it as it's not as large as others (e. G. Prive, Valkyrie, chaos).

Enjoy your trip and report back.

Dave.

Since you give out advices in east and west I just want to get the latest details from Gramercy71. Did you enjoy yourself there lately? Hint; bars / clubs comes and goes rather frequent. Stay alert when give out recommendations.

[RoseBowl]

You fail to appreciate the barrel is at your place. Just tell them to come over.

Anyway, if you're looking for a cheap place to drink try Central BBQ on Malugay St near the corner of Buendia and Pasong Tamo. It's behind the Petron station and next to an Ayala apartment building. There's a second Central just down the street near the Cash and' Carry on Osmena Highway and Malugay (actually Emelia St becuase the name changes across the highway). Pulutan is p200 - p300 and cocktail jugs are 260 - that's 4 to 7 shots per jug. Young professional crowd. Loud EDM, especially at the one near Cash and' Carry. Foreigners rarely go there, but I've never had any hassle. Everyone is quite friendly, in fact. The only hassle is the wait staff is so busy it takes a while to get served; you need to be assertive to get their attention. Other affordable places to drink are Cowboy Grill and Padi's Point, both of which have multiple locations around Manila. Cowboy Grill has excellent live music.

Cheers for the info.

Inviting girls straight to my place seems unnatural.

I don't give these girls any money other than maybe taxi+lunch money in the morning.

Least I can do is take them out at night and show them a good time.

[Hutsori]

Thanks,

Yea it is for dates. Online dating is like shooting fish in a barrel. Standard routine is just to go out drinking to a bar or club late. Then around 2 am say "Lets go" and bring them back to my place.

By bigger clubs, I mean the more well known more expensive places.

Doing this every night starts to hit the wallet. No need when a cheaper spot will suffice.

You fail to appreciate the barrel is at your place. Just tell them to come over.

Looking for a cheap place with music (live music is good also) and decent ambiance.

Anyway, if you're looking for a cheap place to drink try Central BBQ on Malugay St near the corner of Buendia and Pasong Tamo. It's behind the Petron station and next to an Ayala apartment building. There's a second Central just down the street near the Cash and' Carry on Osmena Highway and Malugay (actually Emelia St becuase the name changes across the highway). Pulutan is p200 - p300 and cocktail jugs are 260 - that's 4 to 7 shots per jug. Young professional crowd. Loud EDM, especially at the one near Cash and' Carry. Foreigners rarely go there, but I've never had any hassle. Everyone is quite friendly, in fact. The only hassle is the wait staff is so busy it takes a while to get served; you need to be assertive to get their attention. Other affordable places to drink are Cowboy Grill and Padi's Point, both of which have multiple locations around Manila. Cowboy Grill has excellent live music.

[RoseBowl]

Hey,

Not really clear if you are interested in a place to meet new prospects or a place to take a date for a night out.

If the case is the latter, Rue Burboun in Salcedo Village (dela costa st.) has no dancing but is a really nice bar which is really fun to have a beer, including their own home made.

Strumms on Jupiter not too far from the corner of Makati Ave is pretty nice, different live band every night.

Not sure what you refer to as the "bigger clubs", 71 gramercy is nice and has a cozy feel to it as it's not as large as others (e. G. Prive, Valkyrie, chaos).

Enjoy your trip and report back.

Dave.

Thanks,

Yea it is for dates. Online dating is like shooting fish in a barrel. Standard routine is just to go out drinking to a bar or club late. Then around 2 am say "Lets go" and bring them back to my place.

By bigger clubs, I mean the more well known more expensive places.

Doing this every night starts to hit the wallet. No need when a cheaper spot will suffice.