Bali

[Manfield04]

You can try Four Seasons Resort at Sayan. It is very high end if only you can afford.

Anyone have any tips for the most high end hotel that is very girl friendly.

[Jjuky]

Anyone have any tips for the most high end hotel that is very girl friendly.

If I want to bring back multiple different girls per day (at night) as well as WeChat girls to arrive to hotel during day.

Prefer an upscale hotel, but hard to find info on this.

Would also prefer good location to be able to reasonably walk to the bars and clubs at night.

[Rob Jones]

Thank you all for the feedback and tips. Two quotations, one from Rob and another from Pedros are specifically important and useful for everyone to follow:

"My approach to be certain they know that is to ask do you have a Kost (room) we can meet in or should I book a room, that makes it all pretty clear then".

Discussing room-related issues early sure sends the right signal. Will follow this.

"I will use a 1 to 2 month vetting period before I arrive so I have my girls lined up and I'm not wasting time when I'm on the ground".

This is exactly what I'm doing. The problem is, I'm ending up with 20+ girls in less than a month. I'm thinking I should do 2/3 dates a day in order to finish the line up Or how about I book a suite and organize an orgy with the entire line up?

John,

The orgy sounds good LOL. If you are up for multiple partners in one day go for it. If you have 20+ time to vet even further on what is good for you whether it be age, chemistry, cost, experience, whatever floats your boat also keep in mind not all girls will come and if you have 20 girls there will be a 25% chance or so that they could be on their period! It's better to have too many and "disappoint" a few then not having enough and disappointing you. When do you hit Bali?

Good luck.

Rob.

[VonderJohn]

Thank you all for the feedback and tips. Two quotations, one from Rob and another from Pedros are specifically important and useful for everyone to follow:

"My approach to be certain they know that is to ask do you have a Kost (room) we can meet in or should I book a room, that makes it all pretty clear then".

Discussing room-related issues early sure sends the right signal. Will follow this.

"I will use a 1 to 2 month vetting period before I arrive so I have my girls lined up and I'm not wasting time when I'm on the ground".

This is exactly what I'm doing. The problem is, I'm ending up with 20+ girls in less than a month. I'm thinking I should do 2/3 dates a day in order to finish the line up Or how about I book a suite and organize an orgy with the entire line up?

[Empire1]

Today I had the pleasure of visiting Village Arum Day Spa in Sanur for the first time. I had seen from other posters that this place existed, but just never got the vibe to go there, Now I wish I had earlier.

This little pace is pretty easy to find. At the top end of Sanur, on Jl. Danau Tandakan or Jl. Panti Sindu (depending on which map you look at) , close to the by-pass and right next door to the well known Kayu Manis restaurant.

I found this to be a great massage+ spa. The rooms pretty clean, and the VIP room I paid an extra 25 K for was very dark, but OK.

The SPA has a decent massage menu of massages to choose from and you instantly know its a rub and tug place. So, I took the 90 min oil massage, and it was a lot of oil, and choose the VIP room just for a bit of extra privacy. I had a shower (almost in the complete dark) and got ready.

Not only was I surprised about the quality of the massage, but the touching started almost immediately. With lots of ass and ball rubbing while I was on my stomach. Which lasted for a good 40 minutes. So I was hard in no time. And she was ok with my rubbing her legs and ass during the massage too.

So when I turned over, it was on. She gave a really HJ, with ball and ass rubbing and she kept blowing on my cock at the same time. Needless to say, I did not last that long.

After I exploded and she cleaned me up, then the rest of the massage continued, and it finished with a really decent head massage (The top head LOL).

During the massage she kept her clothes on, but I will be back and see if she is open to more.

I have forgotten the girls name that massaged me (It could be Deta I think), she is from East Java, 27 years old and about 50 kg, quite slime and cute, said she is divorced and has a kid. Quite friendly and it was a most enjoyable time.

Damage 250 K + 100 K tip (yep it was that good).

Looks 7/10.

Body 7.5/10 (from what I could see and feel).

WIR Yes. Probably tomorrow.

[Rob Jones]

An excellent point that makes perfect sense. I will bear that in mind, as I'm planning to visit in March. To be honest I was dubious of these apps because what I've seen on them locally are some really scary women. And I live in a city known for its good looking (but high maintenance) women. I had to wonder if these apps were places for the local trailer trash and ghetto bitches to hook up. I am assuming the selection on these apps is going to be different in Asia? I notice a lot of guys here talk favourably about using dating and hookup apps.

Hi Eszpresszo,

I live in Australia and I haven't used any of these apps locally as I find it easier and more convenient to use hookers when I feel the need for a different pussy other then the wife's. I'm sure on all of the apps in any country there are "trailer trash" and crazy girls, met 1 Islamic Jihadist who was looking to cut off some infidels head first chance she got, as well that's why I will use a 1 to 2 month vetting period before I arrive so I have my girls lined up and I'm not wasting time when I'm on the ground. I have had success using this method in Bali and I will be in Thailand for the first time in February and I have just started to look at putting a team together for my week there.

Good luck in Bali.

Rob.

[Pedros Needs]

Many methods, if you don't have wee chat you need to download the app as they will contact you or you can find by searching near by, just need be cautious as many that contact you will be ladyboys.

I also have a number of business cards with me with my local phone number written on it, if I get I contact or see a stunner I will give a card AMD say contact me if you would like to meet on your day off, from ID say 6 give away 4 have come up trumps.

Fair to say most realize you didn't intend to meet for a coffee, my approach to be certain they know that is to ask do you have a Kost (room) we can meet in or should I book a room, that makes it all pretty clear then.

Got to love Bali.

Pedro.

[Eszpresszo]

The other thing is that if they are on Tinder, Badoo, Tagged or any other online dating service they either know what they want sexually or are open to experiment otherwise they wouldn't have their profile online. In Bali they are exposed to westerners regularly and know that many single men are on the hunt so they know what to expect.

An excellent point that makes perfect sense. I will bear that in mind, as I'm planning to visit in March. To be honest I was dubious of these apps because what I've seen on them locally are some really scary women. And I live in a city known for its good looking (but high maintenance) women. I had to wonder if these apps were places for the local trailer trash and ghetto bitches to hook up. I am assuming the selection on these apps is going to be different in Asia? I notice a lot of guys here talk favourably about using dating and hookup apps.

[Rob Jones]

I frame it as a question about if she is not too shy to be with a foreigner. It's a legitimate question and any Indonesian girl will understand that many inexperienced girls would have reservations about being with or seen with a foreign guy.

Also remember that Indonesians are very comfortable with questions that westerners would consider far too direct and impolite for a new acquaintance. Direct questions regarding race, religion, sexuality etc are considered perfectly acceptable.

The other thing is that if they are on Tinder, Badoo, Tagged or any other online dating service they either know what they want sexually or are open to experiment otherwise they wouldn't have their profile online. In Bali they are exposed to westerners regularly and know that many single men are on the hunt so they know what to expect.

[Rob Jones]

How exactly would someone "get a feel" if she wants to have sex or not, without being too blunt about it? In other words, I don't want to be straightforward in this and ask: "We go for dinner then we have sex OK? As it sounds too prostitution-like and cheap, at least this is how she would perceive it. Second, it would trigger the "conservative" side of some of the girls who would go like "I'm not into one night stands, thanks!" " if you're looking for sex go find someone else!" or feel offended by merely being asked / hinted about it.

A lot of these girls are not prostitutes or escorts, they simply come from a decent background and are well educated but they're looking for an adventure. But its sometimes challenging to know how to detect the limit of their adventures. Any tips on how to navigate that?

Thanks.

Hi John,

I must admit I am pretty straight forward and I don't have time when I do get my "alone" time in Bali to muck around too much. I will flirt outrageously and will imply that sex is going to be on the agenda. I ask questions if it is OK for them to stay out all night and if they like to stay over in my hotel telling them there is room for them, what would they like for breakfast etc. I do a lot of work online before I go so some level of familiarity is created and in some cases I will have naked photos from some of them and also even have a video sex session with them.

The conservative side of the Indo girl is usually when in public where kissing, hugging and even hand holding is considered impolite, but in private these girls are more progressive.

I think the best solution is to just ask what you want to know and they will tell you, they will openly discuss their menstrual cycle which doesn't happen in the west, and unless you are looking for the love of your life don't worry if you offend as there are plenty out there.

Have fun.

Rob.

[Goferring]

How exactly would someone "get a feel" if she wants to have sex or not, without being too blunt about it?

I frame it as a question about if she is not too shy to be with a foreigner. It's a legitimate question and any Indonesian girl will understand that many inexperienced girls would have reservations about being with or seen with a foreign guy.

Also remember that Indonesians are very comfortable with questions that westerners would consider far too direct and impolite for a new acquaintance. Direct questions regarding race, religion, sexuality etc are considered perfectly acceptable.

[VonderJohn]

Hi John,
Before you commit to taking the girl for dinner get a feel if she will have sex with you first, I usually try for a morning to early afternoon meeting and to be honest if I haven't fucked them after 1 hour I don't take them anywhere. If I have met the girl online before I get to Bali they will know my expectations.
Rob.

How exactly would someone "get a feel" if she wants to have sex or not, without being too blunt about it? In other words, I don't want to be straightforward in this and ask: "We go for dinner then we have sex OK? As it sounds too prostitution-like and cheap, at least this is how she would perceive it. Second, it would trigger the "conservative" side of some of the girls who would go like "I'm not into one night stands, thanks!" " if you're looking for sex go find someone else!" or feel offended by merely being asked / hinted about it.

A lot of these girls are not prostitutes or escorts, they simply come from a decent background and are well educated but they're looking for an adventure. But its sometimes challenging to know how to detect the limit of their adventures. Any tips on how to navigate that?

Thanks.

[Rob Jones]

Thank you Ceegee, and also an equal thank to Rob Jones. From what you guys said, here is my conclusion:

1) Do not hesitate to approach Asian girls in Bali, wherever you may find them, since they would be open to going out with you as a non-Asian guy. You just have to be upfront and decent.

2) Most of the girls go for dating driven by money-related reasons, and expect a westerner to be able to provide this. Yet it doesn't have to be 'prostitution style' I. E: let's have sex and I pay you for it. It can simply be an invitation for a fancy dinner, in a fancy place, along with a decent / sweet / enjoyable treatment. It may end up in sex, it may not, it all depends.

3) Use Badoo and Tagged for better chances than Tinder.

That being said, I guess Bali deserves a whole month of a vacation stay, otherwise I'd be missing out LOL.

Hi John,

You will need a holiday from your holiday after 4 weeks. LOL I haven't used Tinder anywhere so I can't say whether it is better then Badoo and Tagged so use all 3. Another tip is to learn a little Bahasa Indonesian before you go and it will take you a long way. Before you commit to taking the girl for dinner get a feel if she will have sex with you first, I usually try for a morning to early afternoon meeting and to be honest if I haven't fucked them after 1 hour I don't take them anywhere. If I have met the girl online before I get to Bali they will know my expectations. If you are staying for 4 weeks you will have plenty of fish to fry my friend. If you are going to be there around Christmas and New Year look out for girls from other islands, usually Java, who are on holidays, they will be curious about meeting westerners and you will score well.

Thanks,

Rob.

[VonderJohn]

Yes, exactly. Often you will see on their profile that they are not interested in asian men. As a white man, you are in high demand and you hold all the cards.

Depends on the girl. Depends on what you want to do. If just want sex and don't want them to hang around, just tell them that, but be prepared to pay.

Thank you Ceegee, and also an equal thank to Rob Jones. From what you guys said, here is my conclusion:

1) Do not hesitate to approach Asian girls in Bali, wherever you may find them, since they would be open to going out with you as a non-Asian guy. You just have to be upfront and decent.

2) Most of the girls go for dating driven by money-related reasons, and expect a westerner to be able to provide this. Yet it doesn't have to be 'prostitution style' I. E: let's have sex and I pay you for it. It can simply be an invitation for a fancy dinner, in a fancy place, along with a decent / sweet / enjoyable treatment. It may end up in sex, it may not, it all depends.

3) Use Badoo and Tagged for better chances than Tinder.

That being said, I guess Bali deserves a whole month of a vacation stay, otherwise I'd be missing out LOL.

[Rob Jones]

Hello everyone,

So I've been reading around the Bali forum and noticed some good action going on. But I'm fairly new to Bali and I'm planning to visit in the coming weeks. A few answers to the below basic questions would be helpful:

1) I'm using Tinder to pick up girls in Bali. I receive so much 'likes' on Tinder everyday from Indonesian / Asian girls than any other location. Is it because I'm a westerner and they prefer western / white men over Asian ones?

2) The Indonesian / Asian girls on Tinder who are upfront and open about going out and dating. Do they do this in hopes of getting money in return? (escorts) or is it the norm there to date, have a ONS, and move on? What should I expect in a date in Bali? That she turns out to be a trans? Or that she wants money? Or simply harmless fun?.

Hi John,

I haven't used Tinder at all anywhere in the world but I have used apps like Badoo and Tagged with success in Bali. The girls do prefer "bule" over Indonesian guys due to many reasons mostly income based. Some will want money because they are hookers or supplementing low wages and some will be happy with the experience and good times you show them. Ladyboys are usually upfront. Any bars around Kuta, Legian and Seminyak will have plenty of girls. Also don't be shy to approach girls in shopping centres etc. Particular if they are making eye contact with you.

Have fun and write a report.

Rob.