Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Flyboy 2000]

So I'm doing a bit of mix-and-match on this first trip to Manila, seeing some freelancers from Date in Asia and Blendr as well as the bar scene. Will post more after the trip's done but for now, have to share this at least to 'vent'.

WTF is it with some Pinays who seem just so frigging dumb? Yes, working off a small sample but seems that others here have noted similar. A few of them during online chats seeming dense, well, I can accept differences in language although sometimes they just don't 'get' stuff.

Anyway, I have a shortlist of several I met online who've been duty rated, and I decided to give my afternoon to one who is early 20's and has a child and is out of work. Was a toss-up between her and a 19 yo student, my body said "Student, hot!" but my heart said "MILF, after all she's got a baby to look after". Should have ignored the heart!

The MILF was very appreciative of my offer to "help her out", ken to meet up, and so it was that we met for lunch and then headed back to my hotel.

Now alarm bells were buzzing away when she seemed a little 'distant' rather than 'enthusiastic' but I put that down to her perhaps just not being 100% comfortable for some reason, although I did consider after lunch sending her on her way with a little spending money for her time, but no, I decided to give her benefit of the doubt and so we headed back to my hotel. She did hold my arm in a nice gentle way which made me think she was perhaps just a bit shy at first.

Anyway: we get into the room, and at the appropriate point I go to kiss her and it's barely a peck from her, I pull back and ask point blank what's wrong. She says she has her period! WTF?

I just look at her, count to five, and then ask in a firm but not angry way why she agreed to meet me and come back to the hotel if she had per period? Did she ever have sex during her period? No, she replies, at which point I say "Well why did you come here? I think it's very selfish of you to do this to me" and March her back out the door, down to the lobby, she's totally clammed up like a frigging 8 year old caught doing something wrong by a parent and given a good speaking to, yet which point she has the asks for some money for her son. "Sorry but I bought you lunch and in return you wasted my time, so lunch is all you get today. ".

I just can't fathom how anybody could have their brain in neutral to such an extent!

Okay, off to get some proper fun for the evening!

[Flyboy 2000]

Should have been more specific, my request was with regards to Manila, but am sure others here will appreciate the pricing for different regions.

[D Cups]

Ya I was doing some "finer" bargirls but you're right; average streetwslker is way cheaper.

Why such high prices for Angeles? I usually give 1000 for ST and 1500 for LT for freelancers that I find in WeChat or Badoo.

[Mogwai]

Manila 2000-5000; cebu 1500 - 3000; Angeles 2500 - 4000;province 1000 - 2000.

Why such high prices for Angeles? I usually give 1000 for ST and 1500 for LT for freelancers that I find in WeChat or Badoo.

[D Cups]

Manila 2000-5000; cebu 1500 - 3000; Angeles 2500 - 4000;province 1000 - 2000

FB: Manila? Cebu? Province? The amount changes.

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[WestCoast1]

What's a fair price to offer casual "dates" from Date in Asia, Blendr etc? Realise there might be a gulf between very active freelancers who are almost part-time WLs, and those who are more casual and maybe do one or two hook-ups a week, but what's a fair price to offer for a short-time visit and an overnight? Would not want to offend or disappoint a nice lady by handing her an envelope with too little shopping money, eg P2000? But nor do I want to spoil things by paying well above the mark and raising expectations, eg P5000?

FB: Manila? Cebu? Province? The amount changes.

[Flyboy 2000]

What's a fair price to offer casual "dates" from Date in Asia, Blendr etc? Realise there might be a gulf between very active freelancers who are almost part-time WLs, and those who are more casual and maybe do one or two hook-ups a week, but what's a fair price to offer for a short-time visit and an overnight? Would not want to offend or disappoint a nice lady by handing her an envelope with too little shopping money, eg P2000? But nor do I want to spoil things by paying well above the mark and raising expectations, eg P5000?

[Wicked Roger]

There are people who argue that getting on a video chat is important for a couple of reasons. One: To ensure that the pics really do represent the person you are connecting with. Two: The argument is that if you can convince them to send naked pics and / or strip down to any extent on video, you both guarantee that they are DTF, pretty much end any LMR, and also hugely increase the likelihood that they will show rather than flake (they have now 'invested' in seeing you.). As to long conversations, that doesn't seem necessary!

Cheers,

BH.

Both great points BD and if unsure if a LB (as a main reason for me to cam with them) and can't be sure then a strip will / may help your knowledge LOL (and surprise you also maybe LOL).

But if a stunner in your eyes I would strongly suggest a cam chat and have a see (not a quick 10 seconds but a long chat).

[Mr Enternational]

I have location settings on for we chat but its throwing up people from Cebu saying they are 100 mtrs from me and I'm in Dumagete, now I'm no geography expert but Cebu is deffo more than a few hundred mtrs from Duma, something ain't right.

I think Cebu is more like a few thousand meters from Dumaguete. I forgot which part of Cebu me and my ex went to that resort in, but when I was scuba diving one American guy on the boat said his son was working with the Peace Corps in Dumaguete while pointing to the land across the water. We were only maybe 2 minutes from the Cebu shoreline at the time. On the map, that corner piece of land on the right side of the water is where we were diving from in Cebu, while on the left is Dumaguete. Appears to be no more than 4km of water between the two.

[Sammon]

Typically I rely on face to face options (bars, shopping malls, freelancers etc) for hook ups. However, I'm in Dumaguete heading to Cebu tomorrow so I thought I would try my luck at using PinaLove to prearrange some options.

Let me say upfront that I have zero experience with the Chat sites and zero Game when it comes to on line hook ups. Despite that I've been flooded with options for meetings and within one or two messages, I've got their number and an ok to meet up when I arrive. Only one girl told me outright that she will not meet at the hotel (perhaps she will be ok with returning after an introductory coffe, who knows? All the other seem keen as mustard. I realise that some / a lot will just be promises and will fall by the way side but the odds are still looking good for a busy time in Cebu.

My question is what value do others see in extended online correspondence with the girls? I read of guys having long conversations with them, video chats etc. Is there value in this? I've got no interest in dirty talk nor swapping naked pics. I've already got their contact details and know what they look like so why the courting period online?

My plan is to meet at a convenient coffee shop or similar for final interviews. If the profile photos are 5 years or 50 lbs ago we can just shake hands and walk away. I've only lost the cost of a coffee. That's a small price to pay for the opportunity to judge the viability. Is this a good plan or have I missed something?

I have done both. Have the girls come to the room and met them outside. Video chat is good in the sense you get to see each other and also discuss intimate details which cannot be done in chat sites. Can plan plan how many days and find out what benefits she is expecting. Sometimes it is better to interact so that Ice is broken. Many of the girls are scared to be with a stranger. Once they feel you can be trusted rest is easy. Sex is better. It is also easy to convince girls to take a trip to be with you, go on vacations. I have gotten girls to come from the provinces and stay with me many times.

Meeting outside gives you and the girl to easily escape if you do not like each other. Problem is sometimes they do not come alone. Sometimes with family and sometimes with a friend. It is impossible to talk when families are present and delicate when friend is present. If the girl likes you she will come with you.

Generally coming to the hotel is good although you have not seen the girl in person. I insist on coming alone which they do. I also have had ladyboys pretending to be a girl come to the hotel. Security usually warns you and I tell them to not to let the person to my room. Sometimes I met downstairs in the lobby. If I do not like the girl I give some money for the taxi and tell them I am not interested.

Overall I have had good experiences getting girls from dating sites. Need to be patient and treat them like a GF rather than a prostitute although money definitely changes hands. I have taken girls on vacation and had great sex with them.

[BaddHabbit]

My question is what value do others see in extended online correspondence with the girls? I read of guys having long conversations with them, video chats etc. Is there value in this? I've got no interest in dirty talk nor swapping naked pics. I've already got their contact details and know what they look like so why the courting period online?

My plan is to meet at a convenient coffee shop or similar for final interviews. If the profile photos are 5 years or 50 lbs ago we can just shake hands and walk away. I've only lost the cost of a coffee. That's a small price to pay for the opportunity to judge the viability. Is this a good plan or have I missed something?

There are people who argue that getting on a video chat is important for a couple of reasons. One: To ensure that the pics really do represent the person you are connecting with. Two: The argument is that if you can convince them to send naked pics and / or strip down to any extent on video, you both guarantee that they are DTF, pretty much end any LMR, and also hugely increase the likelihood that they will show rather than flake (they have now 'invested' in seeing you.). As to long conversations, that doesn't seem necessary!

Cheers,

BH.

[Goferring]

Typically I rely on face to face options (bars, shopping malls, freelancers etc) for hook ups. However, I'm in Dumaguete heading to Cebu tomorrow so I thought I would try my luck at using PinaLove to prearrange some options.

Let me say upfront that I have zero experience with the Chat sites and zero Game when it comes to on line hook ups. Despite that I've been flooded with options for meetings and within one or two messages, I've got their number and an ok to meet up when I arrive. Only one girl told me outright that she will not meet at the hotel (perhaps she will be ok with returning after an introductory coffe, who knows? All the other seem keen as mustard. I realise that some / a lot will just be promises and will fall by the way side but the odds are still looking good for a busy time in Cebu.

My question is what value do others see in extended online correspondence with the girls? I read of guys having long conversations with them, video chats etc. Is there value in this? I've got no interest in dirty talk nor swapping naked pics. I've already got their contact details and know what they look like so why the courting period online?

My plan is to meet at a convenient coffee shop or similar for final interviews. If the profile photos are 5 years or 50 lbs ago we can just shake hands and walk away. I've only lost the cost of a coffee. That's a small price to pay for the opportunity to judge the viability. Is this a good plan or have I missed something?

[Mogwai]

I have location settings on for we chat but its throwing up people from Cebu saying they are 100 mtrs from me and I'm in Dumagete, now I'm no geography expert but Cebu is deffo more than a few hundred mtrs from Duma, something ain't right.

That's because those people have chosen to fill in Cebu as the region where they live in their profile. Like you said there are only 4 choices, so they take the one that's the closest to where they live.

When you are in Angeles and use WeChat you will see that almost all of the people that show up in People Nearby are from Manila. But most of them are not really from Manila but live in Angeles and are really close to you.

[RengadeMaster]

I suppose you are talking about the region you have to enter in your profile? It doesn't matter what you fill in there. You can fill in your home country and region or any other country and region.

Just click on 'Discover' and then 'People Nearby' and WeChat will find the people who are close to you, based on the location setting of your phone. So that must be turned on and set to 'high accuracy'.

I have location settings on for we chat but its throwing up people from Cebu saying they are 100 mtrs from me and I'm in Dumagete, now I'm no geography expert but Cebu is deffo more than a few hundred mtrs from Duma, something ain't right.

[WestCoast1]

My experience too. And they see no point in continuing wiith it.

From their perspective, floss is also expensive. Also the girls brush for fresh breath, I'm not sure they are familiar with plaque.