Bangkok Reports

[Banana Boi]

Glad you enjoyed KC1, Natty. Been trying to tell people that is a gogo bar not to miss in BKK for about a year now. Sadly it still seems to be missed by many. Was much better last year but still good now. Good playful staff. Friendlier girls than other BKK bars.

[Blanquiceleste]

That's about it so far. I am enjoying BKK. Its good to be back.

Perhaps you should consider Modesty as a middle name?

Great going NB. I am inspired.

[Syzygies]

Today I checked Crazy House briefly, looking for long lost girls. Not found. I found one girl with a cute face and two girls with good bodies, but different ones. The rest was pretty average crap for me. Take into account as always not into surgeries look.

Went to Five star and was pleasantly surprised. The car alarm music was at the start but actually moved into some songs that were tolerable as time went by. So I did not have to cover my ears for that long. Still they really have not got the music right. You have to just tolerate it. Why was I pleasantly surprised? Not because of the 50 year old nude girl dancing. LOL However there were many natural looking girls and several had quite nice looking tits. The line up was a lot better than Wednesday for me. No. 45 was even cute and I would BF her in right circumstance. None of the girls looked really skinny, but a couple could pass for slimmish. Today I did not intend to take a girl. What is interesting is I enjoyed watching several girls dancing nude, where I did not at Crazy House. The lighting was much better than CH. Also the girls are all facing the audience, so you see tits and pussy (some nice ones). In CH I admired some girl's ass but never saw her from the front properly. Five star girls are now like a throw back to how Long Gun girls might have been 17 years ago. E. g. Isaan girls not that light skinned, exotic looking, some good curvy bodies, some good tits, not one girl had sillies, and only two or 3 nose jobs. Sat with Ging who I know but she has converted to a Coyote girl (not barfinable for sex any more). Still next time I could easily try another. Today 45 and another girl were BFed by a lady to take back home to her husband / BF I heard. Ging commented that one girl with a good body and looks 30, had rather few customers at CH, but now is BFed daily at 5 Star. The customer base at 5 star is different. Mostly older Farangs. Maybe they liked Long Gun 17 years ago too. Don't get me wrong. 5 Star does not have quite the same number of girls and talent levels as what Long Gun used to have, However I am reminded of former times with so many natural girls, and not many of them were really ugly. In CH a lot were ugly to my taste. Certainly a lot of CH girls have ugly sillies, and many have ugly faces. I could see myself preferring 5 star now.

For those into excessively young girls, 5 star is not going to be working I think. Crazy has much more young girls (but ugly). 5 star girls will probably be ugly to Asian guys. I don't see it getting overrun by Japanese and Koreans. I think Crazy House has more girls with baby damage too. I did not see ugly damaged bellies despite the good lighting, at 5 star. Fortunately 5 Star had only a small number of Coyotes (over dressed). Some girls with very small tits but not much sag bags, in addition to no coconut shell tits. So the average tits standard was high, for me. Several good full tits that I would love to fondle. No absolute fatties either. They must have a higher girl selection standard than at CH, barring the one with 50 YO face. I would say these days at Crazy House , they take almost anything.

If they put on music to suit older Farangs, the bar could even take off. LOL That is definitely holding it back.

[Member #4698]

I have noticed that a great girl for one Farang, can be crap for another. Natty Bumpo and I have accidentally (by co incidence) tried several girls in common. Some were really good for both of us, yet another is good for Natty but was poor for me. Sometimes a guy and girl are just not suited to each other. Other girls have been poor for me first try and good on a 2nd try. Was hard to fathom it, but related to inebriation levels of the girl. Could change her mood completely.

Yes, I resemble that remark.

The girl we both liked was a Suzy Wong girl of a couple years ago. What a nice girl and with a super body. Funny, my 1st time with her was tentative and not all that amaxing, but fortunately I went back to see her 4 or 5 days later and we really clicked upstairs in the SW short time bedroom. After that we began hooking up in the afternoons quite regularly for pool party, boom boom and early dinner sessions. That girl was a dolphin when it came to swimming and diving. All natural.

The other girl we have in common (that I know of LOL besides a possible Mango girl or two) Syzgies found to be dick shy, but not me. She is a close GF of another CH regular of mine and that's how I met her one night. The 2 girls have been my CH dynamic duo for a couple of years now. But on my 1st night back in CH this trip, neither girl was in attendance and I was sad because I had lost communication with them a couple of months prior to my trip. (Nobody (not mamasan or my two regular waitresses who knew me well) gave me correct data on my girls and played dumb) So, I thought they were long gone forever. Then a few nights later I wandered back into CH and surprise suprise. I see P dancing naked on the stage in her usual spot and we both did a simultaneous double take on each other, since both of us were caught under such happy and somewhat surpising circumstances. So thus far I have hooked up with them both twice and P solo a couple of nights ago when S and I barhopped a little around Nana.

BTW S, I went back to Billboard last night and the cutie spinner I spoke about was back in attendance. The two girls we had met the previous night where nowhere to be seen. After the 2nd round of Tequila, I barfined the petite 21 year old. She goes by the name of P, yes another P, and was very demure yet friendly. She has a big tatoo on her back which somehow I had not noticed while she was dancing on the carousel. But she has a pretty face, nice little butter cup tites, and a very pleasent personaity. She also has a very tight little pussy so I was very gentle with her and took my time going in. Nice! I plan to see her again, maybe Saturday night. She also told me she used to work at Butterfies for a year and then recently moved to Billboard whcih she says she likes better.

So thus far this trip I have had some good 1st time trysts with girls in Kings Castle 1 (very solid stable of good looking young girls), RB 4 (a topless bar), Twister, a 35 year old Spasso FL, a mango girl, a 5* Mitu girl who gave me a slurpy, goopy, good time - LOL, and unfortunately one dud, a sexy Badabing spinner who put me on the clock after 12 minutes or so. She promised that next time it would be better. 555. I told her there is no next time baby, only this time.

I guess this post is turning into a trip report. OMG! Ok here is a quick summary-.

Bars I like:

1. Kings Castle 1 and to a lesser extant KC2. Sheer volume of young good looking talent is very impressive. The barfines: 600, 800, 1000, 1200, & 1400 are crazy. But very very high talent level! KC2 Barfies are 800 & 1000.

2. Billboard. The talent is not as extensive as KC1, but on both nights I was there it was pretty good.

3. Baccara. Suprise surpise. A ton of girls. Something for everyone's taste. I called a very pretty spinner over for a drink. Nice girl. I plan to do her at a later date.

4. RB4 - topless bar catering to NE Asian tastes. The girl I asked over was a petite China Doll with a bang hairdew. I called her over becasue she had lovely tities. 20, friendly, ready and willing to be barfined by the Gringo. I liked her and I plan to see her again. She possessed a small tight pussy too.

5. CH. I already talked about. When my girls are there its great. When they are not it's ok. I think they have to do more to recruit some nice young girls in order to compete with the likes of KC1.

6. Twister. I have similar feelings about Twister. I barfined a lot of girls out of this bar in 2017. But none of my 2017 girls were in attendance when I stopped by last week. Maybe they will be there when I go back. Without them the talent level is not as good as last year IMHO, but I still managed to find a nice little spinner who really knew how to take care of me. Actually she found me as I was about to leave. LOL.

7. Butterflies. I went there with Syzygies 2 nights ago. I liked the layout. There seemed to be a number of friendly girls there. I will probably go back.

8. Crazy Cats. Small bar. It's seems ok. They have "PR" girls sitting outside to attract customers, but I sat with a dancer (another P, 555) last night after P (my Billboard girl) left. I might go back.

Bars I am ambivalent on:

Badabing. I am conflicted on this one. It is obvious that it is in decline. Last year they had 15 girls on stage per set. This year 6. But of that 6, 2 were pretty hot. I barfined one of the hotties since she passed the audition with flying colors, The 1st 12 minutes of sexual congress was good. Then things went down hill (time clcock girl). I probably will not go back again this trip.

Bars I do not like: 5 Star & Exotica. Both pretty are bad IMHO.

That's about it so far. I am enjoying BKK. Its good to be back.

[Syzygies]

I think so. Of course, "a lot" is a relative term. But for girlfriend relationships being, let's say, dating with sex included on a weekly basis for more than half a year, I have had many USA-born and raised girlfriends (mostly Caucasian, one I married, two African-American girls), more than one each from Central America, China, Japan, U. K., the Philippines, Thailand (met in the USA, one I married, several now in Thailand), Korea, Vietnam, one from Laos, one from France. Probably missed one or two I don't recall now.

Generally, the Thai girls, with the exception of the one I married (maybe why I married her. LOL), were and are the ones who stand out for very rarely DOING something of a sexual nature for me without being asked each time. And that is despite expressing undying love for me and hoping that we'll be together forever, blah, blah. Pussy shaving, BBBJ+CIM, please pull your hair back and out of the way before you do this or that so you don't have to keep pushing it back all during the process, gee wouldn't it be great if you set up a nice evening just for my pleasure once every year or two, that kind of thing required me mentioning it, asking for it, reminding them, whatever. It just doesn't seem to be in their nature to give much consideration to and putting much effort into DOING something of a sexual nature for a man (maybe only me) unless asked or, as in a P4P situation, there is an immediate, tangible kibble reward in hand for it.

This seems to somewhat match your experiences with Thai girls too, btw.

And they certainly do seem to enjoy what I pro-actively DO for them sexually, particularly the DATY part. But apparently without it inspiring them to reciprocate all that often. Even the Thai girl I married after dating for a dozen years rarely initiated anything, but her BBBJ+CIM+Swallow skills were so fantastic and her pussy so wonderful feeling, it took longer for me to notice. LOL.

My Thai Gfs (non P4 P) were older girls, more traditional, no shaved pussies, perhaps trimmed. Fortunately my current GF naturally has a nearly bald pussy so landing strip style. Yes some would probably not do a BJ unless asked, none would do anal (I did not request anyway), none would do CIM. Of course my Farang wife was little better. Did she do BJ? Honestly I can hardly remember if her BJ was any good or not. If memorable, I am sure would remember. I tend to forget detail quicker when ordinary to bad. My ex Farang wife was not into DATY. Maybe I was not good enough at it. Got very well trained by a Thai girl after split with ex wife. Now every experienced at DATY and almost all Thai girls like it a lot. LOL.

In general I found black and latin girls to be superior sexually to all others. I remember very fondly a slim girl from Cuba who could not speak a word of English but I had a fabulous time with her despite communication being close to Zero. I think we both had just a few words of German in common. LOL.

For my Thai liasons, I stick to mostly very experienced, fun, and relatively skilled girls now, although more lenient if they are very pretty and have a fabulous body. LOL. That is as good a turn on for me as doing a super BBBJ with DT etc. Girls in mid 30's are very acceptable if have stayed in good shape.

I still run into gorgeous girls with really crap service occasionally, especially in Soapies. It is very hit and miss. 20+ years ago I don't recall ever getting a lot of Thai P4 P girls that were really crap. This seems to be a modern thing. In old times, most girls were enthusiastic and that helped so much to make a good time. I have to allow for possibility that a lot of change is in myself. We get more fussy and more difficult with age.

I have noticed that a great girl for one Farang, can be crap for another. Natty Bumpo and I have accidentally (by co incidence) tried several girls in common. Some were really good for both of us, yet another is good for Natty but was poor for me. Sometimes a guy and girl are just not suited to each other. Other girls have been poor for me first try and good on a 2nd try. Was hard to fathom it, but related to inebriation levels of the girl. Could change her mood completely.

[EihTooms]

And you have a lot of experience with many non P4 Ps in other countries, to be a comparison? My non-Asian non-P4 Ps are far too few to make a useful comparison.

I think so. Of course, "a lot" is a relative term. But for girlfriend relationships being, let's say, dating with sex included on a weekly basis for more than half a year, I have had many USA-born and raised girlfriends (mostly Caucasian, one I married, two African-American girls), more than one each from Central America, China, Japan, U. K., the Philippines, Thailand (met in the USA, one I married, several now in Thailand), Korea, Vietnam, one from Laos, one from France. Probably missed one or two I don't recall now.

Generally, the Thai girls, with the exception of the one I married (maybe why I married her. LOL), were and are the ones who stand out for very rarely DOING something of a sexual nature for me without being asked each time. And that is despite expressing undying love for me and hoping that we'll be together forever, blah, blah. Pussy shaving, BBBJ+CIM, please pull your hair back and out of the way before you do this or that so you don't have to keep pushing it back all during the process, gee wouldn't it be great if you set up a nice evening just for my pleasure once every year or two, that kind of thing required me mentioning it, asking for it, reminding them, whatever. It just doesn't seem to be in their nature to give much consideration to and putting much effort into DOING something of a sexual nature for a man (maybe only me) unless asked or, as in a P4P situation, there is an immediate, tangible kibble reward in hand for it.

This seems to somewhat match your experiences with Thai girls too, btw.

And they certainly do seem to enjoy what I pro-actively DO for them sexually, particularly the DATY part. But apparently without it inspiring them to reciprocate all that often. Even the Thai girl I married after dating for a dozen years rarely initiated anything, but her BBBJ+CIM+Swallow skills were so fantastic and her pussy so wonderful feeling, it took longer for me to notice. LOL.

[Syzygies]

Then again, my observation about Thai girls being among the more sexually selfish and lazy females on the planet is based much more on my regular, non P4P girl encounters; girls I've met in restaurants, shopping malls, dating sites, etc., and not so much girls in the direct P4P business. A different cultural character and pattern emerges in them and my expectations are different when I am not more or less directly dangling roughly a week's wage over the head of a girl in order to entice her to behave a certain way for the next 90 minutes and then go away vs those often longer term romance and dating scenes that come about as the result of meeting a non pro around town or online.

And you have a lot of experience with many non P4 Ps in other countries, to be a comparison? My non-Asian non-P4 Ps are far too few to make a useful comparison. I knew as soon as I saw James Bond in Japan (as a teen ager) that I really liked Asian girls. LOL After basically one ex wife from home country, I became allergic to girls there. Too bossy. Was followed by a string of Asian GFs only, and mostly Thai, but still a small sample. One Thai GF (non P4 P) was very lacking on the bed due to lack of training, lack of experience, lack of knowledge, and low sex drive. However comparable to the ex wife in skills (or lack of them) LOL.

Girls with P4 P experience are vastly superior overall. If choosing a non P4 P girl now, I would take one that at least masturbated from a young age, as an indicator that at least she is horny. Most if not a all of my past GFs, claimed to have never masturbated, although one or two were not really responding so probably did (these were Thai girls). I leave out any hookers, ex hookers, etc. Here.

[EihTooms]

I think it is probably more of the first. The guys comment and since there are more of "them" than "us" the gals respond in kind. And as you said, it is less for them to do as well. I think the Asian punters for the most part have different wants and needs than their Western counterparts.

I remember being told by an Asian dude "bald tiger" was a sign of ill health. Perhaps back in the days when shaving was the cure for lice that was true. Could explain the origin.

I guess that is another factor in favor of meeting non pros and FLs on the dating sites for me. With the non pros, they couldn't care less what an Asian punter wants since they are not really in the business of attracting Asian punters. And with the more direct P4P FreeLancers I meet online, I can filter out for shaved vs hairy well before a "booking" if not before exchanging Line info.

Then again, my observation about Thai girls being among the more sexually selfish and lazy females on the planet is based much more on my regular, non P4P girl encounters; girls I've met in restaurants, shopping malls, dating sites, etc., and not so much girls in the direct P4P business. A different cultural character and pattern emerges in them and my expectations are different when I am not more or less directly dangling roughly a week's wage over the head of a girl in order to entice her to behave a certain way for the next 90 minutes and then go away vs those often longer term romance and dating scenes that come about as the result of meeting a non pro around town or online.

[Syzygies]

The non trans mamasam sat down next to me and asked why I have no one and I told her the fish analogy to which she replied "how about such and such number". She didn't get what I said but I didn't expect her to, I was merely speaking rhetorically. I ended tipping her 100 baht, she felt me up and bit and headed off to push a number on someone else that probably didn't want it either.

I try very hard to stay away from the fat old. She is generally disliked and distrusted. Tip her or buy her a drink, and she will pester you forever, like flies to a corpse. There are about 4 or 5 mamasans in total.

If you are too slow, can note the girl's number and try for her again another time.

I was there Wed, and thought only 3 girls were really top class that I would consider them. Natty said was better another night. I chatted to No. 52 Cake who seemed quite nice. 62 also appealed a bit, and forget the other one now.

Despite that, Billboard does seem to have a better standard than any other bar in Nana (remembering I don't like the surgeries look), for natural slim girls.

Butterflies is a good imitation, but overall standard of the girls is a rung or two lower.

Diamonds may have a classy girl or two based on my last visit there. Twisters had gone down in my ratings.

[Goatscrot]

Do you think a lot of Asian punters are actually telling shaved girls to please let it grow wild and nasty or I won't choose you again? Or that they are checking and rejecting shaved girls and choosing hairy ones instead? I mean, how do you see this getting into the heads of the Thai P4P girls who used to shave but now no longer bother to do so? Maybe it is unspoken by the fact that the girls are showing up hairy and their Asian punters seem perfectly fine with that? But their Asian punters would likely be perfectly fine and say nothing if they were still shaved as well, no?

I think it is probably more of the first. The guys comment and since there are more of "them" than "us" the gals respond in kind. And as you said, it is less for them to do as well. I think the Asian punters for the most part have different wants and needs than their Western counterparts.

I remember being told by an Asian dude "bald tiger" was a sign of ill health. Perhaps back in the days when shaving was the cure for lice that was true. Could explain the origin.

[Bubba Boy]

Got into town on the weekend, first chance to get out and about was Tuesday. Headed to Billboard in Nana (3rd Floor). From previous trips they always tend to have the look that I like and I prefer short time so it is a win win for all parties This was the first time I have been there in probably 6 months and only recognised about 6 workers and maybe the same number of bar staff, turnover is either high or being the rainy season perhaps some are on a break.

I sat in the benches on the first row and scoped out the talent, spa to the left, rotating stage to the right, coverage is good from this spot. As I was checking out the talent a bunch of maybe 6 to 8 Japanese men sat pretty much behind me filling the second and third rows. I was taking my time but these guys were on it from the get go. There were woman being hooked in left and right from every direction. I felt like I was on a fishing boat without a rod with all these fish flying past me and not being able to grab anything. They pretty much scooped the talent pool. I am not complaining at all, just commenting, if you are too slow to grab someone then you deserve to go home with no fish. Kudos and respect to these dudes.

The non trans mamasam sat down next to me and asked why I have no one and I told her the fish analogy to which she replied "how about such and such number". She didn't get what I said but I didn't expect her to, I was merely speaking rhetorically. I ended tipping her 100 baht, she felt me up and bit and headed off to push a number on someone else that probably didn't want it either.

I ended up drinking 3 beers over an hour and a bit, served by a waitress that knows me from past trips so isn't too pushy with me. Billboard tends to be very pushy with drinks and women to the point of being irritating. By tipping the waitress (200 baht) bit and putting up with a mild groping from the old fat mamasan they tend to be cool with me, less pushy so it all works out well in the end.

I didn't grab anyone but noted 3 numbers that are on my radar for next visit, so if a Fishing party comes in I will be on it like a fat kid on cake. Total damage 900 baht- $30, cheap entertainment I guess.

[Syzygies]

Well, having worked with both genders in Thailand, I would say that most Thai women (non-P4 P mind you) are quite hard working. Selfish sexually? I'm not sure I would say that. Conservative and repressed is the way I would describe them. Even the WGs for the most part. Thailand has been getting more and more conservative since the coup in '14. Women are not dressing sexy, on the contrary, are very conservative in their dress and manner.

And for years the trend with WGs was to shave. I think the emergence of Bush is purely due to a change in punter demographics. Most Asian guys, especially Koreans, Japanese, HK, and Chinese prefer au natural.

Yeh, Thai girls are very interested to copy now, anything that Korean women might be doing, or Korean styles. I had not noticed more conservative dress, other than following the death of the King. 27 years ago Thai girl dress in Bangkok was very conservative, so progressively became far more revealing, especially with tight stuff showing ass crotch and tits very clearly. Many years ago, Thai girls definitely did not want to look like hookers. Now cut off jean shorts can be seen a lot, and also tight ass hugging thing stretch pants. Even in the village my Thai GF seems to wear stuff now that looks rather revealing like can see her ass shape too well or no bra, and she claims the young Thai men won't notice. LOL.

[Syzygies]

No, actually. Finding Thai girls who go bareback and, assuming they're capable of or interested in getting you to the point of cumming via a blowjob, finishing it CIM is not that big of a problem. Can't speak to the ass issue since I am not an ass man. But even taking it up the ass doesn't really require the girl to DO something. She could be incredibly sexually selfish and lazy and still find the energy to stick her ass in the air and keep her head on the pillow if you request it. Same for going bareback or finishing with a CIM (again, assuming the girl has been able to follow simple instructions and GETS you there. Ah, there's the problem). Those are not the points where sexual laziness takes over at least. Sexual selfishness can come in when they stubbornly insist on doing it their way and balk or play dumb about doing it the way you want.

Doing something well, skillfully, consistently and often enough to keep her man interested is the problem with sexually selfish and lazy Thai girls. Keeping up with the pussy hair grooming / shaving is the just one of the more visually obvious examples of the lack of those qualities. Most Thai girls will be able to squeak out a decent level of sexual attention the first or second time around.

Makes me wonder how sexually selfish the guys are, not doing it the way the girl wants? LOL Many guys supposedly don't give a rat's ass about the girl's pleasure, whether with hookers or not.

Doing it right for your partner, requires experience, willingness to try something new, stamina, regular practice, etc. , for the girl, being able to tolerate a big cock down the throat without gagging and getting jaw lock or ache, etc.

Normally we read about women complaining their guys don't perform well enough. Like a pub staff girl that I know particularly well complained to me her French BF / Gik had sex for far too short a time for her to get off. He always came too quick. His dick would not stay up long enough if she rode him bareback. He was poor at DATY and hardly did that. Basically I advised her to train him how to do DATY right, and to dose him with Kamagra to keep his dick up longer so he did not have to cum too quick. She reported good improvements subsequently. I had said if all else fails, find a new sex buddy. LOL. She would not take me since I am too old and she knows I have a hot looking GF.

Similarly I think that inexperienced girls need practice and training. I have a pretty Laos girl that was very weak newbie 1+ years ago but now is a good enthusiastic performer. She has improved a lot. Could be the attitude and horniness improves once she feels comfortable with the guy.

I gave up hookers in my own country as they were so bad (90% and found Thai and Asian hookers to be vastly superior, back in home country. Some European hookers are very good (way better than my home country), but I find latin hookers to be the most reliably good of all. Can't say I have enough experience of non hookers to have a good sample. My ex wife was not great on the bed, so does not compare favourably. Most of us have done huge numbers of hookers and far fewer non hookers in our life.

My good reliable Thai girl comes to me shortly. Never found her to be lazy or selfish on the bed at all. However definitely not an average girl. More like a sex bomb and very experienced indeed. However she does have things she does not like, so we naturally go things that we both like. She had provided her ass in the past but is not into it any more.

Sex is not normally where one partner has to tolerate something really disliked that the other one wants to do. As example, if a girl finds a particular sex position causes the dick to keep crashing her uterus, I could imagine we would have to find other positions. I especially find that most girls do not enjoy anal so I don't ask for it. I also don't ask for CIM. If I tell her I am cumming and she takes the load, it is her decision. I might be weird but I try to have both parties enjoy as a far as possible, and we both have to try to do things the other likes if we can manage it. However if she wants to strap on a dildo and fuck my ass, no thanks. If she wants to bite, I only tolerate that so much. If she wants me to fuck very very fast, I have limited ability to do that because it does not feel good for me, and dick will probably sag. If she wants me to squeeze her nipples very hard, sure I can do that.

I found my bargirl of yesterday to be somewhat abnormal as she really did not complain about anything or avoid anything and went to great lengths to give me as good as possible. She probably wants repeat business. LOL So easy to meet reticent or very inexperienced timid bargirls.

One bargirl I used to fuck, has become a Coyote now, no longer nude, and no longer going for a fuck. Naturally she is now useless to me. I don't visit bargirls just to yack. LOL

[EihTooms]

And for years the trend with WGs was to shave. I think the emergence of Bush is purely due to a change in punter demographics. Most Asian guys, especially Koreans, Japanese, HK, and Chinese prefer au natural.

Do you think a lot of Asian punters are actually telling shaved girls to please let it grow wild and nasty or I won't choose you again? Or that they are checking and rejecting shaved girls and choosing hairy ones instead? I mean, how do you see this getting into the heads of the Thai P4P girls who used to shave but now no longer bother to do so? Maybe it is unspoken by the fact that the girls are showing up hairy and their Asian punters seem perfectly fine with that? But their Asian punters would likely be perfectly fine and say nothing if they were still shaved as well, no?

[EihTooms]

Is that because some don't want to do Bare back and no CIM and don't want to take it in the ass? LOL.

No, actually. Finding Thai girls who go bareback and, assuming they're capable of or interested in getting you to the point of cumming via a blowjob, finishing it CIM is not that big of a problem. Can't speak to the ass issue since I am not an ass man. But even taking it up the ass doesn't really require the girl to DO something. She could be incredibly sexually selfish and lazy and still find the energy to stick her ass in the air and keep her head on the pillow if you request it. Same for going bareback or finishing with a CIM (again, assuming the girl has been able to follow simple instructions and GETS you there. Ah, there's the problem). Those are not the points where sexual laziness takes over at least. Sexual selfishness can come in when they stubbornly insist on doing it their way and balk or play dumb about doing it the way you want or when you want.

Doing something well (having enough interest to want to learn how to do it well), skillfully, consistently and often enough to keep her man interested is the problem with sexually selfish and lazy Thai girls. Keeping up with the pussy hair grooming/shaving is the just one of the more visually obvious examples of the lack of those qualities. Most Thai girls will be able to squeak out a decent level of sexual attention the first or second time around.