East China - Shanghai

[Midwestern]

I was here with a massage girl before I got serious about WG. I used to be in SH every other month. It was great, I enjoyed it. I had someone to show me around, be my interpreter, teach me chinese and go on trips over night when I travelled. Many times she would travel alone and meet me at my business hotel if I was travelling with colleagues. It, did however, cost me more than I ever imagined (it never seems to stop with just the agreed amounts). There are of course gifts, needs not defined at the time. . "all the other boyfriends do this, why you not give me for that?

I still miss her as I actually cared for her but she was Hell girl (as I called her many times) and I am also so glad to be free of her. I was addicted to that 24 YO pussy (I was 48) and it took me not letting her know when I was returning to shanghai to finally break free.

YMMV, it was an experience I am glad I had but not one I would want to repeat.

Thanks for the insights. Sounds like you had a GF in SH. I had those too when I was in BJ. But this time I am thinking about going straightforward er nai experience and do the arrangement thing. But I will proceed with caution. Still haven't decided yet.

[Midwestern]

I use to use SNG but obviously don't anymore. I keep seeing NLO, call me naive, but what site is that? I am still pretty green on China as most my knowledge and experience is from other countries. I am thinking about heading back up to Shanghai for a few days and will probably hit up M and J, but was looking to explore other options. Thanks for the help.

FLT.

Nightlife Online is someone trying to fill the void that SNG left behind after Steven and his operators got arrested and jailed. The NLO owner thinks he has learned from Steven's mistakes. And he was able to recruit some of SNG's gals. As with SNG, he had gals that were indies and gals that used the operator. However, recently, he only has indies. You can find their site in classifieds.

[Keric333]

I'm about to do what most of my well off Chinese friends have done and do. It's to have a mistress. This involves paying for her housing of course. And a monthly stipend too. I've done this before in the states, but never in China. Any advice and suggestions, especially from those with experience, would be highly appreciated. And before you tell me that pussy is pussy and that I should not do this, well, I actually like her. Long legs. Let's me do bareback. And provides almost genuine GFE. So. Call me whipped.

I currently have one on the side. Before you commit, a few factors you might want to consider. If you haven't started paying her rent or have given her any stipend yet, is it because money is a factor? Will you have a problem spoiling her by giving her things she asks for? Do you expect her to be exclusive only to you and be upset if you find our she isn't? If you answer yes to any of the questions, I suggest you strongly mull it over.

Granted, not all females are materialistic and I don't know to what extent your relationship is, but mistresses generally equates to moolah. There is no buyers remorse. You should be well off financially and money shouldn't be a problem when it comes to having a mistress. If it is, then don't do it. Nothing worse than worrying financially just to keep her around.

K.

[Sex God]

Hi,

Been residing around the World for years, resided in Shanghai about 5 years ago. Wow, amazing so long ago now.

Anyway, was obviously fun there in some ways and I like pretty, light skinned Chinese girls a lot and may choose one to marry someday.

Anyway, deciding between the next 2 months in shanghai and Hangzhou or Hanoi or Chiang mai.

I prefer clean light skinned girls and prefer natural (unpaid) sex and dating. (Not the sugardaddy style dating either).

Rent budget is about 20-23 maximum daily.

Which of those three areas is optimal? I speak some Mandarin, although not much Thai or Vietnamese.

Also prefer safe clean places. (Talking about the general area).

Thanks in advance for useful recommendations! Sitting in a hotel in Taipei now. Has been a slow process figuring out how to get the cutest girls in bed here.

[FLT09]

I use to use SNG but obviously don't anymore. I keep seeing NLO, call me naive, but what site is that? I am still pretty green on China as most my knowledge and experience is from other countries. I am thinking about heading back up to Shanghai for a few days and will probably hit up M and J, but was looking to explore other options. Thanks for the help.

FLT.

[AggieDad1]

I'm about to do what most of my well off Chinese friends have done and do. It's to have a mistress. This involves paying for her housing of course. And a monthly stipend too. I've done this before in the states, but never in China. Any advice and suggestions, especially from those with experience, would be highly appreciated. And before you tell me that pussy is pussy and that I should not do this, well, I actually like her. Long legs. Let's me do bareback. And provides almost genuine GFE. So. Call me whipped.

Its your money, don't worry about what others say. I have done this with three different Chinese women and a Mongolian (not at the same time, LOL). The Mongolian didn't last long because she couldn't handle money. Two of the Chinese women got dumped after awhile because they started acting like wives. The third Chinese woman I still send money too every now and then because I really like traveling with her and she is fun to be with. Not a great looker, but has a great body and likes sex. I use PayPal to send money. The Chinese government is regularly changing the rules and recently my friend had to start putting her PayPal money in an account separate from the one her regular paycheck goes into. Good luck and I hope it works out for you.

[SamCan]

I'm about to do what most of my well off Chinese friends have done and do. It's to have a mistress. This involves paying for her housing of course. And a monthly stipend too. I've done this before in the states, but never in China. Any advice and suggestions, especially from those with experience, would be highly appreciated. And before you tell me that pussy is pussy and that I should not do this, well, I actually like her. Long legs. Let's me do bareback. And provides almost genuine GFE. So. Call me whipped.

I was here with a massage girl before I got serious about WG. I used to be in SH every other month. It was great, I enjoyed it. I had someone to show me around, be my interpreter, teach me chinese and go on trips over night when I travelled. Many times she would travel alone and meet me at my business hotel if I was travelling with colleagues. It, did however, cost me more than I ever imagined (it never seems to stop with just the agreed amounts). There are of course gifts, needs not defined at the time. . "all the other boyfriends do this, why you not give me for that?

I still miss her as I actually cared for her but she was Hell girl (as I called her many times) and I am also so glad to be free of her. I was addicted to that 24 YO pussy (I was 48) and it took me not letting her know when I was returning to shanghai to finally break free.

YMMV, it was an experience I am glad I had but not one I would want to repeat.

[Midwestern]

I'm about to do what most of my well off Chinese friends have done and do. It's to have a mistress. This involves paying for her housing of course. And a monthly stipend too. I've done this before in the states, but never in China. Any advice and suggestions, especially from those with experience, would be highly appreciated. And before you tell me that pussy is pussy and that I should not do this, well, I actually like her. Long legs. Let's me do bareback. And provides almost genuine GFE. So. Call me whipped.

[Rak22]

I was in Shanghai 2 weeks back, staying in a hotel near Peoples Square. I went to Judy's and Manhattan on a couple of nights. Manhattan was crowded as usual with some very nice lookers and very loud. So, I ended up in Judy's for a more relaxed evening. After looking around for a while, I met Jeny. She had been standing in a corner by herself and was shy to approach anyone. After hanging out in the bar for some time, settled on 1200 for LT. Jeny is from Hanoi and was on her 2nd monthly tour of Shanghai. We had a really good time back in the hotel and she left around 9 am. I went back to Judy's a second time and met Jeny again and we repeated. I also found a regular date through Badoo, an office worker from Philippines, on my last evening in Shanghai for a very nice dinner and walk around the Bund. I am in touch with her since and I should have some interesting company for my next trip to Shanghai. I also tried to reach Sun, recommended on this board, but she had gone back to Vietnam when I contacted her.

[RW141]

A few experiences I would like to share from the site Massage Republic. Had a visit from Kaory, in my hotel. A mature Colombian lady, at least her fotos were accurate. In her add it was 1500 including owo. Did some weChatting, where she started at 2000. We agreed on 1500 plus taxi, still overpriced. Other than her add: owo was only after extra payment. Kind of kills the encounter. Not a repeat business.

From Massage Republic I tried as well 'Pretty Mature Lady', again a miss match. Hardly any English, massage was all right, sex was not with the details that we agreed on: no CIM etc.

The only good deals I found were in Manhattan and Judys, you get to talk to the girls first, then negotiate the details and usually they keep their word. Most of the girls are from VietNam. My taste is more for the older ladies, but are hard to find.

[Midwestern]

I would advise against it. Who know what hidden cams the landlord may have concealed. There is no concept of privacy in China.

This is a good point.

[Aurangzeb]

I've spent the last few months building relationships with girls at massage parlors. Regular visits, consistent tips and a smiling demeanor has served me well.

The first place (reviewed here: http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...849&viewfull=1#post2171849) is inexpensive, and spartan. A foot massage is 60, full body (no oil) is also 60. There are 3 ladies, all have (surreptitiously) given me handjobs, and I round off the bill to 100 if I am only getting one of the massages+he, or 200 if I'm getting both+he. There is one short haired lady who now regularly gives me a BBBJ w / CIM, and I push the total up to 300 for the massage+BJ.

The second location (details here: http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...154&viewfull=1#post2183154) is 188 for full body oil massage including a handjob (I round it off to 200), and the one lady I've been working on, now gives me a blowjob too and I pay 300 for the full body oil massage and CIM.

My point is, there are willing providers everywhere. Just need to take a little time and let them get familiar with you. .

[SapphiresF]

First off, just wanted to everyone who has been posting in the last few months. I'm coming to Shanghai next week and this thread has been invaluable. Planning to try out M and Js. Was thinking of Rain, but I hit her up yesterday asking what the specials were and she was super pushy and blocked me cause I did't repsond in time. So I guess that's a no go. I'll try NLO when I touch down. I'll be posting reports of each of the nights I go out so I can contribute.

[RobSH]

I've used them both in Beijing and Shanghai. For shanghai I've only used it with a regular but Beijing I used it with a random wg. Most the time the airbnb hosts don't live close by so it isn't a problem and they don't really ask questions. Problem with airbnb is some places are hard to find and pictures can be deceiving sometimes. Some are not as big as it appears or not as clean and beds are obviously not the hotel quality. Another big issue is since it doesn't tell you exactly where the location is you can end up in a very inconvenient place, thin walls or a lot of neighbors. In my experience it is better to book a larger apartment or house as smaller apartments you'll be able to hear the neighbors and they will of course be able to hear you.

Most the time you will only meet the host when you arrive if the place is hard to find or you need to get a key.

I would advise against it. Who know what hidden cams the landlord may have concealed. There is no concept of privacy in China.

[SpiceCat]

Wouldn't the new Sauna that operate out of a rotating set of hotel rooms be more safe?

Always moving from location to location, under radar, hotel likes the $ and if totally discrete no complaints from guest far safer too?

I fancying trying one and getting to see before I buy, LOL.

I've used these a couple of times now and had very good service! The contact will generally meet you at a convenience store near by and take you into the hotel or to the floor that they've occupied. Then they'll get you to choose. Sorry no gold fosh bowl with lights and music! But good eye to eye contact with the spinners!

Cat rub is vertical in the bath tub! So not great! Prices are higher, all the services are the same. Just try to make sure that the room is clean and has fresh towels!