Medellin Reports

[Tnrwv]

Hey all,

I have a couple weeks off next week and was thinking of heading to Columbia. Was considering Medellin. Is it the best spot for a newbie?

I have been all over the world (FKK in Germany, Pattaya, Tijuana, Havana, KL) but never South America. It will be my sixth continent, and I am open to any suggestions.

[Wolf662]

Even bought me a small gift before I departed Medellin, something I never expected and found touching.

Ha, that happened on my 2nd trip last year, my main girl brought me a present, a stuffed tiger with "Te Amo" on it. Right after she left I had a cute VeraCruz street chick over to the hotel for our 2nd date, she saw the tiger and squealed in delight, "Un regalo para mi!" Sigh, I let her keep it, she sent me a pic of her with it. LOL.

We've kept in touch while I'm stuck in Sex Prison (aka America) and lately she's been saying that she wants us to be more than just "special friends". It's tempting but I doubt I'd be able to stay monogamous and I'm addicted to the constant hunt of finding newer better sexual partners and experiences. Any of you ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?

Sure, ride it out as long as you are enjoying your time with her.

[Talon]

The FB girst can be worth the effort. Just start friending a few girls and over time you will get more friend requests. Sometimes you will find a real Gem.

Ain't that the truth! In the huge dragnet of messages I sent I caught a non-pro college student who was at first suspicious of me but after some gentle small talk agreed to come to my place for 150 mil. Showed up wearing a gray college uniform which I found pretty hot. She was a total sweetheart, one of the best GFE I've ever had and gave a phenomenally good bbj. She quickly became one of my regulars and seemed to genuinely love being around me. Even bought me a small gift before I departed Medellin, something I never expected and found touching.

We've kept in touch while I'm stuck in Sex Prison (aka America) and lately she's been saying that she wants us to be more than just "special friends". It's tempting but I doubt I'd be able to stay monogamous and I'm addicted to the constant hunt of finding newer better sexual partners and experiences. Any of you ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?

[Balboa]

Actually you are completely wrong. The definition of GFE varies mildly between mongers. But let's use your definition, which is commonly accepted in the mongering world. So for the sake of argument, let's assume GFE entails kissing, BBBJ and DATY, just as how a real, unpaid girlfriend would perform. It is of no relevance whatsoever if you have to request these acts or not, or if you have to pay extra. As long as the prostitute is doing it as part of a paid session of sexual acts, it is GFE. Period. To contend whether GFE vs "simulated GFE" depends on whether you pay extra or not, or if you have to verbally request it, is just completely asinine. So by your contention, GFE is where a session with a prostitute involves kissing / BBBJ / DATY. But you're saying if you verbally ask for one or more of those acts, the GFE automatically gets transformed into "simulated GFE. " So if prostitute is performing CBJ and a monger utters two words "no condom" which results in the prostitute removing the condom and performing BBBJ, then you have yourself a "simulated GFE" session all because of two words the monger spoke? Utterly ridiculous. Or if a prostitute refuses to kiss, you offer her $1 extra, then she agrees to kissing. That $1 magically transformed the session into "simulated GFE?" Utterly laughable! If you're paying a prostitute for kissing / BBBJ / DATY, whether it is considered an upgraded or verbally requested service or not, you are getting GFE. And "simulated GFE" is a term which makes no sense. A simulation of a simulation. What's the point of that? Can you name one other thing on Earth that is a simulation of a simulation? I'd be hard pressed to think of one myself.

"Simulated GFE flat out doesn't exist. The only thing I can think of that could even remotely be a possibility is if your real, unpaid girlfriend who normally doesn't perform one or more of kissing / BBBJ / DATY suddenly agrees to one of these acts if you paid her.

Lighten up Dr Fun, no need to analyze it that much, LOL.

It just really doesn't matter what someone calls it.

[Giz99]

FB girls is just what it sounds like. Girls that have FB and are available. There isn't a specific group. Is individual girls that when you ask them in PM. If its your first time. I recommend to stay at the mansion a couple nights and get lay of the land and go from there. There is no easy way to get around the FB girls besides leg work. Otherwise look in the forum and see if there is some FB profiles but that would be about <%1 of the play field out there.

The FB girst can be worth the effort. Just start friending a few girls and over time you will get more friend requests. Sometimes you will find a real Gem.

[Zhagolo52]

FB girls is just what it sounds like. Girls that have FB and are available. There isn't a specific group. Is individual girls that when you ask them in PM. If its your first time. I recommend to stay at the mansion a couple nights and get lay of the land and go from there. There is no easy way to get around the FB girls besides leg work. Otherwise look in the forum and see if there is some FB profiles but that would be about <%1 of the play field out there.

Hi guys,

I have been going to Brazil for the last 10 years or so. But I wanted to try something that is a little different and a little closer to home. I am a big guy so to be stuck in an airplane for 8 hours or more is not fun for me. Since I live in South Florida I am going to be trying Medellin for the first time around the end of January. I have been catching up in this forum, but one thing I don't understand what are Facebook girls? How do I find them? Also I want to get WG but I Waldo wanted to try to get some locals a buddy of mine told me they are not that hard to get. Since I am fluent in Spanish. I wanted to get you guys opinions on that.

[ClamSlammer]

No he's not. I understood.

If you have to specifically request it or pay extra for it, then yes. Personally, I NEVER have asked or paid extra for "GFE", kisses, BBBJ, DATY. If the chica wants to kiss me and I want to kiss her back, it's a GFE. I usually let the chicas take the lead. Last trip, for the first time in my career, at New Life, a super sexy chica got really close to me and gave me a light kiss to gauge my interest I think. Once she saw I was interested, we started making out. If she won't kiss unless I request it or pay extra, that's simulated GFE and I'm not interested.

Actually you are completely wrong. The definition of GFE varies mildly between mongers. But let's use your definition, which is commonly accepted in the mongering world. So for the sake of argument, let's assume GFE entails kissing, BBBJ and DATY, just as how a real, unpaid girlfriend would perform. It is of no relevance whatsoever if you have to request these acts or not, or if you have to pay extra. As long as the prostitute is doing it as part of a paid session of sexual acts, it is GFE. Period. To contend whether GFE vs "simulated GFE" depends on whether you pay extra or not, or if you have to verbally request it, is just completely asinine. So by your contention, GFE is where a session with a prostitute involves kissing / BBBJ / DATY. But you're saying if you verbally ask for one or more of those acts, the GFE automatically gets transformed into "simulated GFE. " So if prostitute is performing CBJ and a monger utters two words "no condom" which results in the prostitute removing the condom and performing BBBJ, then you have yourself a "simulated GFE" session all because of two words the monger spoke? Utterly ridiculous. Or if a prostitute refuses to kiss, you offer her $1 extra, then she agrees to kissing. That $1 magically transformed the session into "simulated GFE?" Utterly laughable! If you're paying a prostitute for kissing / BBBJ / DATY, whether it is considered an upgraded or verbally requested service or not, you are getting GFE. And "simulated GFE" is a term which makes no sense. A simulation of a simulation. What's the point of that? Can you name one other thing on Earth that is a simulation of a simulation? I'd be hard pressed to think of one myself.

"Simulated GFE flat out doesn't exist. The only thing I can think of that could even remotely be a possibility is if your real, unpaid girlfriend who normally doesn't perform one or more of kissing / BBBJ / DATY suddenly agrees to one of these acts if you paid her.

[Queens35]

Trust me, you're the only one who understands what "simulated GFE" is.

No he's not. I understood.

GFE is a simulated experience by definition.

If you have to specifically request it or pay extra for it, then yes. Personally, I NEVER have asked or paid extra for "GFE", kisses, BBBJ, DATY. If the chica wants to kiss me and I want to kiss her back, it's a GFE. I usually let the chicas take the lead. Last trip, for the first time in my career, at New Life, a super sexy chica got really close to me and gave me a light kiss to gauge my interest I think. Once she saw I was interested, we started making out. If she won't kiss unless I request it or pay extra, that's simulated GFE and I'm not interested.

[Queens35]

First, apologies in advance for asking a bunch of questions that have surely been answered in the past but I used the search function here and I was chasing my tail. Holy shit, there is a lot of info here! I am 40, look like I'm in my early 30's, 5'9 about 160, generally fit, not "hot" by American standards but definitely told regularly that I am handsome. I don't mean that to sound arrogant, I'm not. I think it's relevant though for determining the best arrangement for my visit. I will be traveling alone and I'm sober so I won't be going out partying. Although I do want to check some places out. As of today I have reserved 10 days at Mansion, deposit paid. Looking at $70/ night based on the 2 night deposit charge on my CC. My Spanish is beginner but I have 3 months to study Rosetta Stone. I think a lot will come back to me since I took a couple years of Spanish in High School and a year in College..

I answered your questions inline. There's no way to change font color (as far as I know).

To your last point, use common sense.

Stay sober and have your bearings at all times. Alcohol is probably what gets guys in trouble. Stay away from drugs.

Don't follow your dick around, cause it tends to get guys in trouble.

Same security precautions as in any big city USA but times 10.

No jewelry, watch, expensive electronics in public. You will become an instant target.

No need to impress anybody by telling stories about how much money you have or showing pics of your house, car, boat. I've seen guys do all of it. We Americans have a tendency to show off. Recently, I saw a guy bring a fanny pack packed with cash to a strip club and was pulling out large stacks of cash each time he paid for a drink. And then walked back to his centro hotel (at 2 am). Last I heard, he made it alive (I think).

Stay away from possible jail bait. There are many [CodeWord902] girls working outside, the Mnasion girls should be good without needing to check. Don't depend on the hotel to check their ID's, make sure to check it yourself for picture and DOB. I just avoid anybody who looks even remotely young. I usually go for mi to late 20's. They are better performers in general.

If something seems to good to be true, it usually is.

Enjoy.

[BigB18]

Hi guys,

I have been going to Brazil for the last 10 years or so. But I wanted to try something that is a little different and a little closer to home. I am a big guy so to be stuck in an airplane for 8 hours or more is not fun for me. Since I live in South Florida I am going to be trying Medellin for the first time around the end of January. I have been catching up in this forum, but one thing I don't understand what are Facebook girls? How do I find them? Also I want to get WG but I Waldo wanted to try to get some locals a buddy of mine told me they are not that hard to get. Since I am fluent in Spanish. I wanted to get you guys opinions on that.

[Eszpresszo]

Over analyzing GFE tells it all, LOL.

Go with the flow man, enjoy life.

Exactly! Enjoy the P4P experience for what it is. Its about your pleasure and not worrying about her needs (you took care of that when you paid her). Sex with a WG simply cannot be like sex with a girlfriend, unless the subject happens to be your girlfriend. And I don't think having a WG for a girlfriend is a good idea (I knew of a few guys who did, but they didn't enjoy a long life, either).

[Balboa]

Actually no, GFE is a term specifically coined for the prostitution industry. GFE is GFE, which is a girlfriend-like experience provided by a prostitute. Simulated GFE is fake GFE, and no one really knows what it means because you're the only one who's ever used it.

Over analyzing GFE tells it all, LOL.

Go with the flow man, enjoy life.

[HBoy54]

I'm sorry you're not able to make the connection. Some people don't get it.

GFE is a term to describe, generically, an encounter with a prostitute who will do certain things that one expects from a girlfriend. I say generically, because every year there's a debate here about what GFE is. By definition, if you're paying someone to pretend she's your girlfriend, all of those things are fake, simulated, not done through desire. GFE is a simulation.

So simulated GFE would be a simulated simulation, or fake fake. But seriously true GFE is an experience I offer to attractive women all over the world, the Grandfather Experience.

[ColombiaLover]

For me, GFE means the girls is really into sex. Not necessarily with me, but with sex. She gives passionate kisses. She blows you like a champ. She orgasms when you lick her or finger her. She fucks and sucks you until you cum. And while she may not be in to me physically, she enjoys herself. With orgasms and sometimes with squirting. It's easy to tell when a chica is just faking it. Or when she's really into fucking, even if it's for pay.

[ClamSlammer]

I'm sorry you're not able to make the connection. Some people don't get it.

GFE is a term to describe, generically, an encounter with a prostitute who will do certain things that one expects from a girlfriend. I say generically, because every year there's a debate here about what GFE is. By definition, if you're paying someone to pretend she's your girlfriend, all of those things are fake, simulated, not done through desire. GFE is a simulation.

The same works for PSE. Unless cameras are rolling and fluffers are standing by, you're simulating what people think a porn star experience is like.

Pretty sure everyone else understood when I said Mansion girls would simulate GFE. You appear to be the only one that doesn't understand.

Trust me, you're the only one who understands what "simulated GFE" is. GFE is a simulated experience by definition. So why add a second "simulated" when everyone already knows it's simulated? So when you say "simulated GFE", you are actually saying, simulated simulated GFE. Which makes no sense whatsoever.