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[ExpatLover]

Does anybody know about New Years Eve parties at Frankfurt area clubs? The only thing I've seen so far is something at Sharks, but couldn't read it as it's in German and it's a pic, not text, so not translatable.

Any info would be appreciated. Will report back. Thanks!

Not a good idea to spend your NYE in a club, last year at Oase for example the 30 minutes was 150 euros, I will never visit on a 31 of December, so many more nice things to do that to spend the last evening of the year with prostitutes.

[Vito Corleone]

I plan to go to Germany in one month, and I want to visit the Frankfurt or NRW area clubs. I would like to know what are considered the best FKK at the moment?

Salome in herne was earth shattering!

[SF49U]

I plan to go to Germany in one month, and I want to visit the Frankfurt or NRW area clubs. I would like to know what are considered the best FKK at the moment?

[Pistons]

Some days I mainly go for a certain type of girl, while other days I go for a different type of girl. Especially below the 10/10 who allways work for me, the 8's and 9's are based on daily instincts, and these instincts can even pull the 8's and 9's up to level 10. It is as if I am able to switch entirely from one day to the next, and the main hurdle I need to cross is just 5 hours of non stop sleep. A 2 hour nap is never enough, and this leads me to think it is based on dream sleep.

Carl Yung wrote:

"Dreams are impartial, spontaneous products of the unconscious psyche, outside the control of the will. They are pure nature; they show us the unvarnished, natural truth, and are therefore fitted, as nothing else is, to give us back an attitude that accords with our basic human nature when our consciousness has strayed too far from its foundations and run into an impasse."

So by the idea that I sometimes switch preferences after sleep, this leads me to think that one of either two ideas hold true. 1. I am naturally polygamous, and I believe any person having the same experiences are the same. This is on an individual basis where I just want a different experience from one day to the next. 2. I want my polygamous spread of interactions (probably gene related) to vary as much as possible from one day to the next. However, since I may be on the same spree of days with the same attraction variables, it usually never lasts longer than 3 days maximum before the poles change.

In a way I tend to think theory 2 is the most fitting. My unconscious are very pro native diversity of the genepool, and wants an ala'carte. So within a club, smart girls should therefore have as many different hairstyles as possible. The hair is such a big part of ones look that it has a much bigger effect than smaller attributes. Green, blue, purple, blonde, black, white, striped, pink, brown etc etc. At some clubs when I see a girl with an unusual hair color, I usually jump at the chance to try it out. Alexia at Sharks was smart that way with her green stripes on blonde hair that ran out after each day. And the red haired girls at Wellcum are onto something. But this also comes down to lingerie options. Corsettes, leg warmers, different colors, boots, high heels, slippers, plateau boots, collars, arm warmers, jewlery, white lipstick, black lipstick etc etc. And if you have tried one girl with one look, her changing the looks from one day to the next, or from one month to the next can revitalize a lot. This way we can fool our dreams. Psychologists call this same thing 'spicing up ones sex life'. While in reality it is just an affirmation of our very own polygamous unconscious psyche shown to us through our dreams.

Girls who wants to make money should take notice of this, and be creative.

[Chezz]

Does anybody know about New Years Eve parties at Frankfurt area clubs? The only thing I've seen so far is something at Sharks, but couldn't read it as it's in German and it's a pic, not text, so not translatable.

Any info would be appreciated. Will report back. Thanks!

[Kosher Kowboy]

Pertinent to our tangent is that KK himself has professed that he is not a chronic porn abuser or engages in much masturbation. He has also professed in the past that his issue was not finishing entirely but mostly finishing with a condom.

I do not engage much in pleasuring myself, I usually just go online and find some $100/15 min quickie girl locally (I REFUSE) to pay any more, unless it is a $140 HH. Last trip last week I reached an all time low in performance to the point that come day 2 of 6 I was needing handjobs to either get me over the finish line or to the point I could fuck. Even at Day Care I encountered issues to the point I would get my BJ and Catholic sex but still couldn't finish so various Gypsies simply used oil and jerked me off than a minute before would climb aboard and ride me anywhere from 30 seconds to two minutes until I vashed them. The first three sessions on day one went perfect as did the first one on day two but after that many were like the above with the exception of two or three others, one when I tried out a new girl and the other with my newest Queen which shocked all the Gypsies as for the first time I did a whole hour. Part of this failure to perform is mental. At Mainhatten it was usually always blowjob, than blowjob / HJ together until close, on went the condom and I had a 100 percent finish rate inside the condom. The one Red Toweled Gypsy who let me AO her I had zero issues with, slammed her like I was 20 something again and fired a load when I pulled out of her doggie that nearly hit her neck. Other than that I was a loser, including most sessions at E44/ T32 as well.

As I said, I agreed that KK should address his fatigue and insomnia issues first and foremost. But let's say a "reboot" (I. E. quitting porn and masturbation) only increases his number of pops per trip by one or two, I still think it is worth the effort. A reboot takes only discipline and willpower. Starting an exercise regimen or following a healthier diet are obviously worthwhile efforts as well, but those lifestyle changes place additional demands on time, maybe as much 60-75 minutes per day.

Make sport, be fit, don't smoke nor drink to have a full power heart, then, even over 50 you can fuck with very hard dick for few hours. As say girls: You fuck more than 20's guys.

First and foremost the fatigue and insomnia issue were addressed. Per the advice of medical staff I started taking Melatonin, sold OTC here although I hear in the UK maybe elsewhere an Rx is needed. They say take 5 MG at a time and 10 MG is the max but I take 20 MG (2 pills) and they are fast acting and like a candy dissolve / melt instantly, faster than the fake M&Ms that Siri loves to eat at Dietzenbach on his secret rendez-vous's he has with Gypsies on his clandestine trips. Actually I do not know if Siri attends Day Care, I am simply trying to figure out why the Gypsies collectively have the loosest pussies ever since I started going (although Selena still has a vice grip) . Some godzilla is banging them. The Melatonin has changed everything, I sleep like a baby now and can not even remember if I wake up or not to CODEWORD1 and I pop out of bed refreshed each morning at 5:30-6:30 AM sharp well rested ready for the day. I have not slept this good in years. I love this stuff! I even have lots of dreams and remember many of them.

No ' reboot' needed, porn and jerking off not issue but the rest of what MacA and Siri suggest have been addressed. No smoking at all, this is probably an issue on my past trip (s) as I like to join the prozzies in sucking on cancer sticks. I don't drink anyway. I have tried googling information on smoking and erections / sex / cumming and all I can find is the usual ' smoking cigarettes can harden your arteries etc. ' and kill your dick.

What I am trying to figure out is can one cigarette cause an issue? Does one need to smoke several to have an impact? Even if just one I can only assume joining the hooker on the couch or smoking lounge for a smoke right before the session might have been one of the causes to my CODEWORD1 poor performance.

Since I returned 6 nights ago I have been the the gym and done cardio and weights 5 consecutive days, all of the contents of my fridge and cupboard were given to a friend and replaced with nothing but health foods. I exercise as MacA and Siri suggest to the tune of 2-3 hours per day now including push ups and sit ups morning and evening, I have dropped over 5 pounds. I once again can proudly look down at my feet in the shower and see my feet again, not a protruding gut. I wake up daily with morning wood again. I drink (4)+ 16 oz bottles of water a day and cut out all junk sugar (Snicker bars, Sour gummi bears, ice cream etc) as well as high sodium which painfully means giving up Chinese Food for now. I decided yesterday that things were going so well I would go test the system out on some Austin girls.

At noon I went to see a black lady (I like a black woman now and than) who lives a mile from me for a 15 min quickie and she let me go over was close to 25 minutes of pure pounding until the end. I spent the day at the gym, had a healthy dinner and around 9 PM went to see some good old Texas White Trash and once again the system worked just fine this time was a 30 min appointment but I couldn't finish as was taking too long and to save time to finish up I blew in her mouth (she swallowed too, all included).

Long story short, the Melatonin has reversed all sleep issues and no more fatigue especially during the day. The exercise program and diet and proper hydration along with no smoking seems to have improved things on the home front now I just need to see if can continue until the next trip and see how I perform. The problem with being a ' fly in' as opposed to being a local German / Turk or a lucky EU citizen who can visit for 2-3 days anytime we coming from the USA / Canada and The Far East have to cram sometimes 20+ sessions in to a 6-10 day time frame.

I also think time pressure and knowing the girls want to turn the rooms fast play in to the mental aspect that can lead to failure to perform and / or finish which may be one reason at home I do much better as it is the opposite, book 15/30 min and if they already know you free time always is included, the opposite of a ' 30 min room at Artemis should be no more than 8' attitude many have in the FKKs. ' Rush and greed' in the girls head be it real or imagined IMO can also play a role in the guy's performance.

That being said I decided to test out an hour session this past trip 2 X as opposed to my usual quickies, once with the Gypsy Queen and once with the Precious Princess / Mafia Boss also known as Leah up at Mainhatten. Both of those sessions were two of the best of the trip, as well as the Mainhatten AO session and the first few Dietz sessions.

We will see what next month brings, hopefully new results in the new year. I will make sure to take my bottle of Meletonin to Germany along with my American Express Card, ' Don't leave home without them'

[Sirioja]

Good point is can still find in Germany or even NL, some clubs where management really try their best to please You, even You are not a regular nor a local nor a friend. On this week end, I could watch my passion: ski Worldcup in Val Gardena. It on Friday and Saturday noon, in 2 different clubs where I m not a regular, one for entry only 40 €, with great breakfast, good foods and drinks. Really quiet place and on this visit, discovered a sexy, attractive woman type and I think I made her become passionate after her so wet pleasure, then hot for sex and really fresh behavior, even not new in business, but what I call a real woman. Good holidays to her, and maybe in January for our appointment.

On Thursday and Friday nights, also discovered on Thursday a sophisticated look woman type, with a asking for pleasure body, coming to kiss on Friday, guys and girls were looking at us when sitting together, repeating for pleasure on Friday evening, but have to work hard to give her, more than 30 mn DATYing her to make her very noisy with lot of liquid, cum, but after, a passionate woman doing everything to please You.

I don t want to pay for 30 mn fast sex rooms, waste of money for me because low quality for sex, I prefer to select woman types and do the job to make them will to behave as women for me. With these 2 discovery, 2 1 hour rooms and 1 for 1h30, because after so long DATY and BJ, she needed to go to toilets to feel better for hot sex, so I let her for my tip 5 mn to go and she came back with pizzas in less than 5 mn, then we ate pizzas in bed, and how do You think she behave after, so passionate, kissing all along. She even came to me at closing time, when she was coming back from room with a client. So smiling, always hugging and kissing. She has a BF in Hungary, but when she feels good, she says she prefers to take pleasure for sex, for sure I prefer to spend on these 2 kind of woman types with not the faintest upselling, just women for look and in bed. Much more enjoyable quality for me, than fast cheap fuckings.

Christmas party on 25 December at Sixsens. NL, if nothing better to do. I recovered fast for sex, I wish to be ready for ski for my Christmas present.

[Sirioja]

According to these sources, TRT really only improves sexual function in those with abnormally low T, or hypgonadism. And even those with hypogonadism only experienced a "mild positive effect". There are also risks associated with TRT (stroke, heart attack, sperm count may not bounce back)..

Make sport, be fit, don't smoke nor drink to have a full power heart, then, even over 50 you can fuck with very hard dick for few hours. As say girls: You fuck more than 20's guys. But I need beautiful woman types, to feel desire.

Porn is not good for sexuality, just because porn is not sex, just a fake show.

[Takedown]

According to these sources, TRT really only improves sexual function in those with abnormally low T, or hypgonadism. And even those with hypogonadism only experienced a "mild positive effect". There are also risks associated with TRT (stroke, heart attack, sperm count may not bounce back).
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Also googled "TRT" and "orgasm". Looks like bodybuilder forums, and guys complaining of impaired sexual function while TRT. Not sure what one can make of their outcomes. It seems to be anecdotal evidence that supports above two sources. However, I am making assumptions here i.e. bodybuilders are younger guys, so they probably have T levels in the normal range. Also they are obviously not supervised medically and probably using black market drugs.

Hah! Are we arguing the value of testosterone replacement therapy now? What game can you possibly playing at? Maybe there are some "I nofapped and I still can't pop" stories out there too.

Seems to me that you are still pushing this no fap bro science pretty hard.

Obviously one should manage TRT with a doctor as there are tons of possible adverse side effects, long term and short term.

Years ago I got on some juice for 10 weeks and admittingly abused it without checking my levels. I was fucking harder, more often, and erections were stronger. I was still chubby as fuck and not cardiovascularly fit but banging out four girls in a day for four solid hours was no problem at all.

[McAdonis]

I say if you're looking for supplementation, direct hormone replacement is the only sure fire way to boost testosterone to levels needed to improve sexual performance.

According to these sources, TRT really only improves sexual function in those with abnormally low T, or hypgonadism. And even those with hypogonadism only experienced a "mild positive effect". There are also risks associated with TRT (stroke, heart attack, sperm count may not bounce back).

Use of testosterone replacement therapy may increase your sexual function but only if you truly have abnormally low T and your sex drive is low as well. In a German study, the authors noted that men with hypogonadism who took supplemental testosterone experienced a mild positive effect on sexual functioning from taking the hormone. However, in men with normal T levels, supplementation does not appear to have much of an impact on sexual function.

For example, a review appearing in the Journal of the American Geriatrics Society article reported that based on their findings, testosterone supplementation cannot be recommended at this time for older men with normal or low-normal testosterone levels and no clinical manifestations of hypogonadism. One reason for this response may be that when the body is given testosterone, it transforms some of it to estrogen, and higher levels of this hormone may cause a reduction in sex drive, which is opposite of the desired result.

Although evidence indicates that testosterone therapy doesnt cause prostate cancer, there is some research showing it may speed up the growth of an existing prostate cancer or make it worse.

In addition to the challenges already noted, the side effect list includes development of acne, sleep apnea, heart failure, hair loss, liver problems, breast growth, increased risk of heart disease, worsening of urinary tract symptoms, and blood clots. Approximately 40 percent of men who take testosterone replacement develop polycythemia, a condition in which the blood cell count rises and thickens the blood. This in turn can raise your risk of stroke, blood clots, and heart attack.

Basically, at least for the time being, use of supplemental testosterone can be beneficial for men who have been diagnosed with clinical hypogonadism (low T levels and symptoms), but for other men its a huge mistake.

https://prostate.net/articles/testosterone-replacement-therapy-does-it-work

Dr. Welliver cautions men with an untreated heart problem, sleep apnea or a history of elevated red blood cell counts to not take TRT, as testosterone could worsen these conditions. Men with prostate or breast cancer should carefully use TRT for the same reason, he said. "Men planning on having children should avoid TRT, because it can decrease sperm count and fertility," said Dr. Welliver.

Do not take TRT for non-medical reasons, such as body building, preventing aging changes or performance enhancement. Men who have normal testosterone levels will not be helped by TRT. "Some men buy testosterone-boosting products at the gym or online, and that can be dangerous," he warned. "You don't know what's in those products as they are not regulated by any governing body."

https://www.urologyhealth.org/patient-magazine/magazine-archives/2017/summer-2017/testosterone-replacement-therapy-is-it-right-for-you

Also googled "TRT" and "orgasm". Looks like bodybuilder forums, and guys complaining of impaired sexual function while TRT. Not sure what one can make of their outcomes. It seems to be anecdotal evidence that supports above two sources. However, I am making assumptions here i.e. bodybuilders are younger guys, so they probably have T levels in the normal range. Also they are obviously not supervised medically and probably using black market drugs.

I dont know if this is everyones experience or just mine. Before TRT I used to masturbate daily, now its every three days or more. It feels like my testes produce such a low volume of ejaculate that theyre in conservation mode constantly. During sex it takes forever to cum, and when I do cum both balls retreat into my body so its like it requires the use of the secondary tank. And my orgasms are a hell of a lot less satisfying which I believe is due to having a low volume of ejaculate.

Sorry for being graphic, it just seems like a curse to feel more attractive and have a high sex drive, firmer erections, and interested sex partners, but not be able to enjoy it that much.

https://forums.t-nation.com/t/trt-causing-sex-issues/219519

[ExpatLover]

Hi pals,

I plan to go to Germany in one month, and I want to visit the FKK Mainhattan (I won't have a car to move outside Frankfurt). I would like to know if girls are clean in this kind of clubs, and if someone know some girls good at DT in this FKK.

No the girls are very dirty and if you are married or have a GF it will be better you go to the church.

[Cyscek]

Hi pals,

I plan to go to Germany in one month, and I want to visit the FKK Mainhattan (I won't have a car to move outside Frankfurt). I would like to know if girls are clean in this kind of clubs, and if someone know some girls good at DT in this FKK.

[Takedown]

It seemed what piqued KK's interest in the product was the testimonial of another monger reporting that the product made it easier to cum.

Can't disagree with that last post.

In summary, the recommendations from the boards to the OP:

I say if you're looking for supplementation, direct hormone replacement is the only sure fire way to boost testosterone to levels needed to improve sexual performance. OTC Test boosters do not increase testosterone levels enough to stimulate a noticeable improvement in sexual performance, if at all.

McA suggests a no fap, no porn lifestyle change.

Both recognize the importance of improving physical fitness and considering adverse effects of other medication.

One poster suggested Zinc supplementation.

[McAdonis]

But let's reign this back to the pertinent inquiry and relating it to the situation of the original poster.

It seemed what piqued KK's interest in the product was the testimonial of another monger reporting that the product made it easier to cum. I don't think we diverged too far from that topic as we discussed delayed ejaculation / anorgasmia.

Pertinent to our tangent is that KK himself has professed that he is not a chronic porn abuser or engages in much masturbation. He has also professed in the past that his issue was not finishing entirely but mostly finishing with a condom. Taking his word for it, I don't see a reason to propose a nofap, no porn solution as this doesn't seem to be applicable to his case.

According to the "bro science" on the noFap boards, they mention minimum of 90 days abstinence. But if one has been watching porn for decades or is into extreme porn, then they propose a much longer abstinence period. KK described his current masturbation habit as "not much at all". If KK had quantified his frequency (I. E. "I masturbated only 3 times in the past year and once had a streak of 200 consecutive days without masturbating") then I might have not, proposed a period of abstinence.

Masturbating and porn addiction is not the root cause of all impotence; and from the history, it seems to be of very little pertinence in this case. What is more likely here are factors associated with aging, medications, cardiovascular health, and others that fall under the lifestyle-psycho-somatic umbrella.

I don't think I've ever said that masturbating and porn addiction is the root cause of all sexual dysfunction. However, idiosyncratic masturbation was the primary cause for me. At age 21, I was able to masturbate three times in an 8 hour period at home no problem. But then I would fuck my GF 6-8 times a week without a condom and only manage to finish maybe twice and always in missionary position. Generally what happened was that I would fuck her for 20-30 minutes non-stop, then go soft before I could orgasm (no access to Viagra at that time). I cured myself at age 23 and steadily increased my ability to cum. At age 29, I was able to do CIM for the first time (only female hand and mouth). Doing three 30 minute rooms in five hour period and being able to finish inside a London condom in all three sessions was another milestone I had to work towards. And since I quit porn three years ago, I reached other first-time milestones, such as being able to cum while fucking in standing position and being able to do CIM (only her mouth, handsfree). These did not happen overnight. We are talking months and years here. Also, I suspect on all measures of physical health, I have steadily been on a downward trend since age 21 (lower testosterone, higher blood pressure, lower cardiovascular health, higher stress, higher depression, more trouble sleeping, higher bodyfat, etc).

I understand that my case was unique and my DE, at least initially, was several orders of magnitude more extreme than what is generally described here. But the common denominator amongst every fly-in sex-tourist I have spoken to regarding this subject is that they do not have access to cheap, legal, convenient, and frequent vagina while in their home country, so porn and masturbation becomes a necessary and disproportionate part of their routine, as was the case for me. One mutual monger acquaintance of ours, a fly-in monger from continental Europe in his mid-40's, told me that he masturbates 3-6 times a day. He is absolutely certain that even as a teenager, he was never able to masturbate six times a day. Most certainly, he is not physically as healthy as he was in his teenage years. Has his libido increased with age? Or is it that the convenience of streaming, on-demand, and limitless porn has made masturbation that much more tempting for him so that he just does it almost out of habit or boredom?

As I said, I agreed that KK should address his fatigue and insomnia issues first and foremost. But let's say a "reboot" (I. E. quitting porn and masturbation) only increases his number of pops per trip by one or two, I still think it is worth the effort. A reboot takes only discipline and willpower. Starting an exercise regimen or following a healthier diet are obviously worthwhile efforts as well, but those lifestyle changes place additional demands on time, maybe as much 60-75 minutes per day. If guys here were anything like me when I had my porn addiction, I constantly needed new content, and it had to be the right kind of content, otherwise I would not get turned on. So quitting porn has given me back 30-60 minutes per day, that I would have otherwise spent on a porn engine search interface, previewing videos, and closing popup windows.

Once again, I understand masturbation is not the root cause or sole cause of all cases of sexual dysfunction. Here is an excerpt from another peer-reviewed medical article by a NYC urologist explaining all the things he checks when encountering a case of DE (he uses DO as abbreviation for delayed orgasm):

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4816679/

Management should begin with a good medical/psychosexual history, social/religious history, medication list, and physical exam. Focusing on the major etiologic factors (as listed above) is a useful starting point. Medication history should focus on SSRI agents and other psychotropic agents, and define the onset of the use of the medication as it pertains to the timing of onset of DO. Asking about penile sensitivity is a useful question, especially in men at risk for penile sensation loss such as diabetics. Symptoms and signs of endocrinopathies such as testosterone deficiency, hypothyroidism and hyperprolactinemia should be sought. Masturbatory style is another useful line of inquiry as frequent masturbation or idiosyncratic masturbatory styles may lead to DO. Defining relationship status, satisfaction and the role external stressors may be playing in the DO genesis is also important.

Furthermore, identifying the onset of the DO is critical, whether lifelong or acquired. Next, understanding whether the condition is generalized or situational is also critical to understanding the pathophysiology. Asking patients to describe a typical sexual encounter is often a useful ploy to unearth potential contributing factors. Defining the consistency of the problem, that is: does it happen all the time or only some of the time? with sexual intercourse and sexual outercourse with a partner? and how this differs between partner-based relations and masturbation? For example, men who achieve orgasm with masturbation but have difficulty with partner-based relations often have one of two factors as causes loss of penile sensitivity (overcome by vigorous masturbation) or psychological issues (interpersonal conflict, fear, anxiety, or hostility). Inquiring about how long a man attempts relations before stopping may also provide valuable insight into the problem. Some older men, due to inadequate exercise reserve of upper body strength, cease sexual relations sooner than they did when they were younger and thus interpret this as DO. Finally, asking about strategies or medications that have been tried previously for this problem will aid in plotting a course of treatment.

[Takedown]

McA,

https://www.peakhealthadvocate.com/4...rmance-in-men/

Saw this elsewhere, anyone try it to boost sexual performance, increase libido. One guy reports makes it easier to cum.

Anyone actually ever try this out and have experiences to share?

I wonder if the zinc helped. That's what my doc recommended. Said zinc is why eating oysters is associated with great sex. Fenugreek may help. I know women having lactation issues are recommended to take it. Maybe it helps produce for both sexes. But again I'm curious the results without the zinc.

It all comes down to testosterone. Everyone over 30 should have it checked. No one ingredient short of anabolic steroids or Human Growth Hormone will greatly increase your Testosterone levels. Zinc, magnesium, arginine, carnitine, ginseng, fish oil, yada yada yada homeopathic remedy; none of it will help that much.

But let's reign this back to the pertinent inquiry and relating it to the situation of the original poster. KK was looking for feedback regarding libido enhancers, in this case, a product that essentially advertises itself as a testosterone booster. I suggested that direct androgen hormone replacement was really the only way to appreciably boost testosterone.

Pertinent to our tangent is that KK himself has professed that he is not a chronic porn abuser or engages in much masturbation. He has also professed in the past that his issue was not finishing entirely but mostly finishing with a condom. Taking his word for it, I don't see a reason to propose a nofap, no porn solution as this doesn't seem to be applicable to his case.

The point is one that I have contested with you many times in the past; that is, there are many facts involved in impotence and that each person has a unique profile. Masturbating and porn addiction is not the root cause of all impotence; and from the history, it seems to be of very little pertinence in this case. What is more likely here are factors associated with aging, medications, cardiovascular health, and others that fall under the lifestyle-psycho-somatic umbrella.