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[Goferring]

If you are on dating sites looking for sex, romance or trouble, you will eventually come across the military romance scam.

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...dney&p=2269876#post2269876.

Yet another reason not to be chatting to girls weeks / months out from your holiday.

"Can you come over this afternoon?" Yes / no, problem solved.

[Engine Driver]

If you are on dating sites looking for sex, romance or trouble, you will eventually come across the military romance scam.

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...dney&p=2269876#post2269876.

[Kabul Guy]

Is there a posting in this site about do / donts and advice to retire to phillipines?

I presume you own an apartment?

There are better sites for that sort of discussion. It seams that as soon as a topic gets off the mongering topic very far or for very long, people soon start complaining about it. We see that on entertainment topics like restaurants and beaches, an involved retirement thread would eventually end up with more posts complaining about being off topic than useful information. On the forums that support retirement living topics you also get a much wider view of the Philippines from a non mongering perspective.

No I rent, a condo in an SM building, not the best by far and not the worst by far in terms of quality and value will cost somewhere between 4 and 6 million to buy (plus most of another if you want to but a parking spot.) Then there will be about 2 k a month in condo fees. (Internet, cable, and power separate for most rentals but at 25 K I got network plus cable, a 3 k valus).

I can rent the same apartment, fully furnished (crap stuff mostly but you can supplement the dishes and some of the stuff with your own.) for between 18 k and 25 k a month. To me not worth the in and out costs, the tying up of capital and the risk involved in owing things of great value here.

The best retirement advice I ever heard was do not make any commitments that you can not walk away from for at least the first year. I'd double that and will not buy a vehicle or a condo / long term lease for at least 2 years, unless you were willing to walk oyt the door, get in the vehicle, leave it at the airport and fly away.

[Goferring]

Is there a posting in this site about do / donts and advice to retire to phillipines?

I presume you own an apartment?

Search KGs posts he did a very good breakdown of costs and it triggered some interesting follow up discussions. It may have been referred to the Reports of Distinction thread but sometimes the links work, sometimes they don't.

[Member #1088]

When they ask about previous pina GF experience then you are facing the spetre of pina jealousy. They are not interested in savoring the moment but will grill you incessantly about how was she, why are you not together still, do you like her more than me, are you still on the dating sites etc.

Not sure why Skype would be a deal breaker for others, it isn't for me at all. I have a special Skype account set up just for them, separate from my regular one. I simply ask for viber or what's app number, if I don't then I'll move on the Skype or FB. If not then I pass because it is simply too much effort to load and manage all the other message apps out there. If they do not have one of the main 4 apps then good-bye.

What I usually say is along the lines of I am looking to meet girls and see what happens from there. I am not only looking for one night or a weekend of fun. I would happy accept a long term relationship as long as there was room in it for me to have the occasional stray piece or a 3 some once in a while. I always find that sex gets better up to a point each time with a girl, once that point is reached. "Sorry sweetheart, this is not working out for me or I have to go back home for a family emergency or something along those lines.

Remember I am in a different circumstance than many. I live in Philippine, I am retired and can spend the necessary time to cast a very wide net and throw out many good possibilities because I simply don't have the time or sperm for all the really great possibilities / certainties out there. I realize that I contact a lot of women for every one I meet, but that is by tactic, cast a wide net and be very selective on the keepers.

I have a regular call center girl, she comes over a couple times a week. I have another semi regular who comes over once a week or so and a girl who can always be counted upon to bring me a very nice girl or 2 or 3 for a 3 some or moresome. Sometimes fully interactive 3 somes but always both with hands, tits, pussy, or mouth on me at the same time. Never taking them one at a time while the others hide in the CR. Usually group showers before and after as well.

Is there a posting in this site about do / donts and advice to retire to phillipines?

I presume you own an apartment?

[Goferring]

When they ask about previous pina GF experience then you are facing the spetre of pina jealousy. They are not interested in savoring the moment but will grill you incessantly about how was she, why are you not together still, do you like her more than me, are you still on the dating sites etc

Does this mean I should be jealous of "my fiance is a dick because he watches me all the time and won't let me go out and party with my friends. . . "? 🤔 😁.

On a serious note, this is another reason that I'm upfront with the girls. There is nothing to get jealous about because nothing anyone else does is going to impact what happens in the next couple of hours nor any follow up meetings, should they happen.

It also gives them no reason to interrupt my civilian life with unsolicited messages and Facebook invites etc.

[Kabul Guy]

Nice report KB. I'm new to dating sites. Why are questions about your previous visits to Phils a deal breaker?

Also, do you get them on Viber or What's App video chat as part of the screening process? Some members have said if they only want to use Skype, that's a deal breaker. Why is that?

Are you up front with them regarding your intentions? Like just seeking fun or do they think they can get you as a LT BF?

When they ask about previous pina GF experience then you are facing the spetre of pina jealousy. They are not interested in savoring the moment but will grill you incessantly about how was she, why are you not together still, do you like her more than me, are you still on the dating sites etc.

Not sure why Skype would be a deal breaker for others, it isn't for me at all. I have a special Skype account set up just for them, separate from my regular one. I simply ask for viber or what's app number, if I don't then I'll move on the Skype or FB. If not then I pass because it is simply too much effort to load and manage all the other message apps out there. If they do not have one of the main 4 apps then good-bye.

What I usually say is along the lines of I am looking to meet girls and see what happens from there. I am not only looking for one night or a weekend of fun. I would happy accept a long term relationship as long as there was room in it for me to have the occasional stray piece or a 3 some once in a while. I always find that sex gets better up to a point each time with a girl, once that point is reached. "Sorry sweetheart, this is not working out for me or I have to go back home for a family emergency or something along those lines.

Remember I am in a different circumstance than many. I live in Philippine, I am retired and can spend the necessary time to cast a very wide net and throw out many good possibilities because I simply don't have the time or sperm for all the really great possibilities / certainties out there. I realize that I contact a lot of women for every one I meet, but that is by tactic, cast a wide net and be very selective on the keepers.

I have a regular call center girl, she comes over a couple times a week. I have another semi regular who comes over once a week or so and a girl who can always be counted upon to bring me a very nice girl or 2 or 3 for a 3 some or moresome. Sometimes fully interactive 3 somes but always both with hands, tits, pussy, or mouth on me at the same time. Never taking them one at a time while the others hide in the CR. Usually group showers before and after as well.

[Engine Driver]

Online Dating Sites Glossary.

Can we Skype? I've got a Nigerian war lord on a parallel account typing while I sit here and look hot.

Do you have a pina GF? Can I get a long con set here?

Fun: just looking for hook ups.

How long have you been in the PI? Do you know true prices? Are you an easy mark?

I'm not a prostitute: tell me you are giving me taxi money on the way out. Taxis are 1500 p here.

I'm a good girl / looking for a serious BF. Don't tell my friends I sucked your dick for cash.

Is your wife a pina? I'm coming around to fuck you senseless but I don't want some psycho b1 tch stabbing me because of it.

It's good that you are being honest: I don't give a shit about your wife, family, mysterious STD. I'm on the way.

My XXXX is sick, broken, being repaired: I need money.

My signal is too slow to video: my photos are fake and I'm a 38 yo bakla.

What hotel are you staying at? How much can I charge?

Enjoy, G.

Thanks G Man, much appreciated. With thorough screening like you, KG and CSP have described, I think you can get a good outcome in the larger cities.

[Goferring]

Are you up front with them regarding your intentions? Like just seeking fun or do they think they can get you as a LT BF?

I'm polite but honest with everyone so that 1/ there are no surprises 2/ I'm not giving the impression that I've got something to hide and can be shaken down or blackmailed 3/ I'm too stupid to remember which lie I told to which person. Numerous girls have told me that they have heard all the BS stories before, know when they are being lied to and don't care about what happens out side the room. I normally get only 1 or 2 girls a trip that will not see me on moral grounds.

Don't underestimate the number of girls that are just out for some fun too and don't need guys making up stories just to bed them.

[Goferring]

Also, do you get them on Viber or What's App video chat as part of the screening process

Get them onto a chat app ASAP 1/ so that you have a continuous way of contacting them when you or they are off the app 2/ so that you do not get buried and forgotten amongst the '000's of other messages 3/ to enable video chat. This is esp true for Tinder. If you can keep a Tinder girl chatting within the app for more than 4 comments, you're a stud.

If physical appearance is super important to you then confirm photos with video. Expect to loose 1 to 2/10 in hotness vs photos. It's always best to meet with a bail out option just in case (lobbies, JollieBees etc) rather than give her your room number.

My gaydar is much better on video and in face than from looking at photos. Having said that most LBs will tell you if there is a surprise coming.

Enjoy, G.

[Goferring]

I'm new to dating sites. Why are questions about your previous visits to Phils a deal breaker

Online Dating Sites Glossary.

Can we Skype? I've got a Nigerian war lord on a parallel account typing while I sit here and look hot.

Do you have a pina GF? Can I get a long con set here?

Fun: just looking for hook ups.

How long have you been in the PI? Do you know true prices? Are you an easy mark?

I'm not a prostitute: tell me you are giving me taxi money on the way out. Taxis are 1500 p here.

I'm a good girl / looking for a serious BF. Don't tell my friends I sucked your dick for cash.

Is your wife a pina? I'm coming around to fuck you senseless but I don't want some psycho b1 tch stabbing me because of it.

It's good that you are being honest: I don't give a shit about your wife, family, mysterious STD. I'm on the way.

My XXXX is sick, broken, being repaired: I need money.

My signal is too slow to video: my photos are fake and I'm a 38 yo bakla.

What hotel are you staying at? How much can I charge?

Enjoy, G.

[Engine Driver]

If they start asking how long I been in Phils have I ever had a pina GF before likewise.
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Nice report KB. I'm new to dating sites. Why are questions about your previous visits to Phils a deal breaker?

Also, do you get them on Viber or What's App video chat as part of the screening process? Some members have said if they only want to use Skype, that's a deal breaker. Why is that?

Are you up front with them regarding your intentions? Like just seeking fun or do they think they can get you as a LT BF?

[Kabul Guy]

That's it, I'm soooo done putting in ground work on the online hookup sites!

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Given all that, guess how many of those paid dividends when I arrived? None. Nada. Zip!!

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But all of them would have accepted a Western Union donation to help with Grannies hemorrhoids.

I personally have had pretty good luck on the dating sites. They are in fact my major hunting ground. I am usually active on two of Tinder, PL and SA. Will be on each a couple months and then give the site a rest and let some new sweeties join up.

I also initially cast a wide net but narrow it down pretty quickly. Only those who do not display even a hint of any of my red flags make it through the continuous screening. I'd say out of every 100 contacts I (or sometimes they) initiate, I may actually invite meet one or two. Out of every 10 girls I invite I see 9 o 10 of them.

My major red flags are any discussion of money, without reciprocal sex before meeting, any hint of any jealousy. If they say they have a problem, it usually means money so I terminate the conservation there. If they start asking how long I been in Phils have I ever had a pina GF before likewise.

With only a few exceptions of every meet up I have fucked them all. A couple have turned out not at all like the girl in the chat, fake pictures, pictures 10 years and 10 kgs ago. Loud obnoxious or just turned me off I have refused a few. Only missed on 2 that I wanted. Just over a 100 in the last year, some have lived in for a couple of months and some just visited once. Many return visits from those I deem worthy of a repeat visit. Have Some have taken a few dates and some have been naked in 5 minutes of meeting, That part you just have to adapt to the girl.

[D Cups]

That's it, I'm soooo done putting in ground work on the online hookup sites!

Hi G Man,

I can relate. Never been to Davao but similar experience and problems elsewhere in PI and Indo. My most recent trip was not my best because the stomach flu put a damper on my activities for a few days, almost a week. Something I ate in Jakarta no doubt. Nevertheless the girls are 10 X better than anything in sex prison USA. In comparison to Dominican Republic, however, the PI and Indonesia are not as good in my opinion. Super easy to connect on Cupid there, super sexy / busty fun girls under 30, comparable prices. The only drawback is Spanish but not knowing it is not necessarily a liability. Cheers.

[PedroMorales]

Go check out the prices. US $300+. And don't even think of bareback. Lots of cuties advertising so someone has $$ to burn.