Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Goferring]

I keep all contacts I make regardless of if I meet or not. I put them into Contacts on my dedicated "dating" iPhone (separate from my friends + family phone). I use codes in the name field to denote location (Manila, Cebu, etc), meeting status (Meet=Try to meet for first time, Rpt=Met and is worth a repeat, Pass=Never met and never want to, NoRpt=Met but not worth repeating), and what app / site I found her on. I also use the Notes section of the contact for any info I want to remember.

Valid points. However, do you ever use the old un-mets on follow up trips or do they pile up indefinitely?

I also keep the NeverAgains (highlighted) so that I don't make the same mistake when I return.

[Mango King]

I'm starting to wind down in preparation of leaving. Like everyone who goes online, I've got a mountain of numbers from this trip. Some I met, were great and their numbers will be secreted away, hopefully to be used again later. However, there are many who are cute and keen to meet but the reality is that I'll never have the time or stamina to meet everyone.

What are people doing with their surplus numbers at the end of a trip?

I keep all contacts I make regardless of if I meet or not. I put them into Contacts on my dedicated "dating" iPhone (separate from my friends + family phone). I use codes in the name field to denote location (Manila, Cebu, etc), meeting status (Meet=Try to meet for first time, Rpt=Met and is worth a repeat, Pass=Never met and never want to, NoRpt=Met but not worth repeating), and what app / site I found her on. I also use the Notes section of the contact for any info I want to remember.

Viber / WhatsApp and other apps auto-sync with the iPhone Contacts so I have a single source. FB Messenger sadly does not do this and is a separate source without the above abilities, but I get alot of traffic on Messenger so its worth the hassle.

[Mogwai]

What are people doing with their surplus numbers at the end of a trip?

The problem with keeping the surplus of contacts at the end of a trip is that they would come on top of the surplus from the end of my previous trip LOL. So it's no use to keep it, it's just way too much.

I only keep contact information of the girls that I shagged and are really worth repeating, which to be honest are not an awful lot because the majority of them belongs to the category 'average' or 'nice but nothing special'.
So I only keep the categories 'above average' and 'excellent'. Unfortunately not all of them are still around when I come back to the Phils or another part of SE Asia. I have lost contact with some really memoriable shags over the years, sigh. That's my sob story LOL.

[Sammon]

I'm starting to wind down in preparation of leaving. Like everyone who goes online, I've got a mountain of numbers from this trip. Some I met, were great and their numbers will be secreted away, hopefully to be used again later. However, there are many who are cute and keen to meet but the reality is that I'll never have the time or stamina to meet everyone.

What are people doing with their surplus numbers at the end of a trip?

What's the response to "six months ago you gave me your number, want to hook up?

Is there value in keeping unused numbers, given that new up to date numbers will be so easy to get in future visits?

Thoughts?

Of course, given my situation, I'm not going to maintain on going contact from home and it may be a while before I'm able to return but I thought it was a question worth asking.

Cheers, G.

In my case all the contacts of the people I did not meet are deleted. All these girls have short memories if they did not meet you and get your money. You can message them after three months but they would know or remember what was discussed and who you are. The ones you have met and had a good time with will hit you for money with a sob story. If you deny it is likely they will forget you also.

When my next plans are set I start all over again. Also will contact the previous girls I had a good time with. Many change numbers and not into Skype, viber or whatever. Some might have found sponsors, local BF, marriage who knows. My contacts are exclusively from dateinasia. Fortunately there are plenty of girls ready to hook up.

Sometimes I tend to help out girls for their studies within reason. Will they be available on my next trip? Some are and some are not. There are many of us foreigners looking to hook up online. Girls generally do not have any loyalty if they are meeting you for sex and money. The moment somebody else comes along promising whatever they will jump at it. Unless you are interested in serious relationship and marriage make a new list and hit up newer girls.

[Naked Gunz]

What's the response to "six months ago you gave me your number, want to hook up? Is there value in keeping unused numbers, given that new up to date numbers will be so easy to get in future visits?

I save the numbers of the women I have shagged. There has been contact established and cuts down on the hunting next time if it was a good experience. The only downfall to that is the inevitable begging for some money later. The ones I don't have time for are still in the phone, but are not likely to be as enthusiastic months down the road.

[Goferring]

I'm starting to wind down in preparation of leaving. Like everyone who goes online, I've got a mountain of numbers from this trip. Some I met, were great and their numbers will be secreted away, hopefully to be used again later. However, there are many who are cute and keen to meet but the reality is that I'll never have the time or stamina to meet everyone.

What are people doing with their surplus numbers at the end of a trip?

What's the response to "six months ago you gave me your number, want to hook up?

Is there value in keeping unused numbers, given that new up to date numbers will be so easy to get in future visits?

Thoughts?

Of course, given my situation, I'm not going to maintain on going contact from home and it may be a while before I'm able to return but I thought it was a question worth asking.

Cheers, G.

[Albert9989]

Fdating. Got 1 msg back, only Hello, sent over 30.

Tinder. No luck I guess because I'm in the usa and even with VPN it still thinks I'm here.

Tagget - 4 matches in meet me, no answer.

The others are paid or mobile only.

DIA, using VPN I was able to get all the way to start sending and doing searches, but it then I got disable, I don't know, I thik they tattoo my machine, time to get new laptop.

I got back into pinalove, getting results now.

Change of country.

[Member #1088]

Fdating. Got 1 msg back, only Hello, sent over 30.

Tinder. No luck I guess because I'm in the usa and even with VPN it still thinks I'm here.

Tagget - 4 matches in meet me, no answer.

The others are paid or mobile only.

DIA, using VPN I was able to get all the way to start sending and doing searches, but it then I got disable, I don't know, I thik they tattoo my machine, time to get new laptop.

I got back into pinalove, getting results now.

[Kabul Guy]

How much is "a little more"? 5 k overnight? Or is it more an expectation of nice dinners, decent hotels and gifts?

I actually don't mind springing for dinner etc if she's pleasant conversation and company. I tire of the girls where you can see the lights dim when 2 neurons have to fire simultaneously.

Enjoy, G.

For the ones that will quote a per night rate that is the low end of the range. They more want a longer term relationship but you can find p4 p arrangements as well.

If they say fun, open relationship or similar phrases then you are usually looking at a one night meet up.

[Goferring]

Time to change up countries then!

That may be forced upon me in about 10 days!! Until then make hey while the sun shines. 😁.

[Member #1088]

I agree, I hate stupid! But I only offer food if I"M hungry, and ready to eat, not her, but it usually loosens them up a little more. At the end of the day you got to remind yourself, it's just a shag, not a date.

Sometime a little dinner with a bit of vine, may make them more daring. Like pics, greek, full swallow, share me with other girl at the same time, etc.
One time, one of the girls, got so wasted that she really was sorry she couldnt perform, so she called her sister to assist, took her sister 2 hr to arrive while she vomit in the toilet. She was a 7, her sister was a full 9.75 ..... so i dont mind dinner,
then the following week, i got the two of them togehter, but make sure they didnt overdrink lol lol
u never know what will happen.

SA?

[Mr Enternational]

I tire of the girls where you can see the lights dim when 2 neurons have to fire simultaneously.

Time to change up countries then!

[Naked Gunz]

I actually don't mind springing for dinner etc if she's pleasant conversation and company. I tire of the girls where you can see the lights dim when 2 neurons have to fire simultaneously.Enjoy, G.

I agree, I hate stupid! But I only offer food if I"M hungry, and ready to eat, not her, but it usually loosens them up a little more. At the end of the day you got to remind yourself, it's just a shag, not a date.

[Goferring]

That age range is well represented on SA. They might want a little more but generally the quality of girl on SA is better than PL.

How much is "a little more"? 5 k overnight? Or is it more an expectation of nice dinners, decent hotels and gifts?

I actually don't mind springing for dinner etc if she's pleasant conversation and company. I tire of the girls where you can see the lights dim when 2 neurons have to fire simultaneously.

Enjoy, G.

[Kabul Guy]

Ah, my target range is 18-20.

The initial interaction is more challenging that with the older ones.

Let me do olders search.

That age range is well represented on SA. They might want a little more but generally the quality of girl on SA is better than PL.